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    Plays Well with Others: The Surprising Science Behind Why Everything You Know About Relationships is (Mostly) Wrong
    Plays Well with Others: The Surprising Science Behind Why Everything You Know About Relationships is (Mostly) Wrong
    Plays Well with Others: The Surprising Science Behind Why Everything You Know About Relationships is (Mostly) Wrong
    Audiobook6 hours

    Plays Well with Others: The Surprising Science Behind Why Everything You Know About Relationships is (Mostly) Wrong

    Written by Eric Barker

    Narrated by Roger Wayne

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    About this audiobook

    From the author of the Wall Street Journal bestseller Barking Up the Wrong Tree comes a cure-all for our increasing emotional distance and loneliness—a smart, surprising, and thoroughly entertaining guide to help build better friendships, reignite love, and get closer to others, whether you’re an extrovert or introvert, socially adept or socially anxious.

    Can you judge a book by its cover? 

    Is a friend in need truly a friend indeed? 

    Does love conquer all? 

    Is no man an island? 

    In Plays Well With Others, Eric Barker dives into these questions, drawing on science to reveal the truth beyond the conventional wisdom about human relationships. Combining his compelling storytelling and humor, Barker explains what hostage negotiation techniques and marital arguments have in common, how an expert con-man lied his way into a twenty-year professional soccer career, and why those holding views diametrically opposed to our own actually have the potential to become our closest, most trusted friends.

    Leveraging the best evidence available—free of platitudes or magical thinking—Barker analyzes multiple sides of an issue before rendering his verdict. What he’s uncovered is surprising, counterintuitive, and timely—and will change the way you interact in the world and with those around you just when you need it most.

    Supplemental enhancement PDF accompanies the audiobook.

    Editor's Note

    Relationship myth buster…

    “Plays Well with Others” uses science to bust the four biggest relationship myths — “don’t judge a book by its cover,” “love conquers all,” “a friend in need is a friend indeed,” and “no man is an island.” Through case studies and exhaustive research, Barker exposes the truths about humans’ perception skills being far worse than we think, and shares key strategies for overcoming this fault to improve the quality of our relationships.

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherHarperAudio
    Release dateMay 10, 2022
    ISBN9780063050969
    Plays Well with Others: The Surprising Science Behind Why Everything You Know About Relationships is (Mostly) Wrong
    Author

    Eric Barker

    Eric Barker is the creator of the blog Barking Up the Wrong Tree, which presents science-based answers and expert insight on how to be awesome at life. His work has been mentioned in the New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, The Atlantic Monthly, TIME magazine, The Week, and Business Insider. He is a former Hollywood screenwriter, having worked on projects for Walt Disney Pictures, Twentieth Century Fox, and Revolution Studios. He is a graduate of the University of Pennsylvania and holds an MBA from Boston College and a Master of Fine Arts from UCLA.

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    • 5/5
      Took me a bit to get in to this book, but once I did I really loved it. It is a good look at what it takes to make up a happy life.
    • 5/5
      Fantastic and heart warming! People really need this book in this disconnected world today. Thank you so much Eric Barker
    • 5/5
      Great read, the middle was a but dry but the ending was worth it. Overall a great listen.
    • 5/5
      Great narration and hilarious. I needed this book. Very inspiring
    • 5/5
      Relatable, with all the socialization, humans need to belong. So much to learn
    • 5/5
      Wonderful storytelling. This is a reminder that humans have changed over the centuries and we can continue to change for the better. I am already using his stories in conversations around my dinner table.