Tough Topics: 600 Questions That Will Take Your Students Beneath the Surface
By Jim Aitkins
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Jim Aitkins
Jim Aitkins, freelance author and humorist, speaks for camps, retreats, banquets and other events year-round. His ministry experience includes six years with Young Life and four years as a Junior High Youth Pastor. Jim currently lives in Puyallup, Washington.
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Tough Topics - Jim Aitkins
Are You Ready to Dive Below the Surface?
Should crucial life choices be based on feelings—which are changeable—or on a solid foundation of thoughts informed by teachings and principles that are unchangeable?
In an effort to take your students beyond mere opinion and emotion, each question in this book begins with either Which would be better?
or Which would be worse?
This kind of wording typically requires a solid determination instead of just an emotional estimation.
You’ll also notice the Taking It Deeper
boxes in the first section—you can use them to offer commentary that’ll get your students thinking more critically about specific topics. Feel free to read the commentary to your students word-forword, or if you wish, alter the text to suit your tastes and your students’ needs.
There are also nonsense
questions to inject a little levity into the discussions—or to just throw your students completely off the path! Either way, it should be fun.
The last time I checked, there was no peer pressure—among any age group—to either sleep in an itchy wool suit or a bed of fiberglass insulation. But asking students to express definitive judgments on harmless topics is a great way to get them to take risks and speak their minds. Taking stands on the things that really matter is a learned skill; it doesn’t come naturally. Starting small with subjects that are risk-free, inane, quirky, and silly can be a fun way to begin that all-important learning process.
Now take the plunge!
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Questions on Tough Topics about Life, Relationships, and God
1. Which would be better?
Working through a difficult problem on your own or having someone give you the answer
2. Which would be worse?
Performing mouth-to-mouth resuscitation on an alcoholic bum or having someone sneeze in your face
3. Which would be better?
Playing video games or shopping with birthday money
4. Which would be worse?
Looking for water in the desert or making a fire in the snowy Arctic Circle
5. Which would be better?
Being head custodian at the White House or president of the United States
6. Which would be worse?
Losing the Super Bowl or having a losing season
7. Which would be better?
Being gifted at remembering names or remembering information
8. Which would be better?
Being a preacher or a popular Las Vegas entertainer
Taking It Deeper
[A Thought to Consider]
Everyone wants to be popular, and most people desire to be wealthy, but very few people would choose a job that includes being unpopular at times and not being very wealthy, ever. How would you answer if the last question if it were rephrased:Which would be better—being rich and striving for popularity or being poor and pursuing God’s will in your life?
9. Which would be worse?
Being tongue-tied in front of a large audience or vomiting on yourself on an airplane
10. Which would be worse?
Never eating pizza again or never wearing stylish clothing again
11. Which would be better?
Owning the world’s largest collection of hubcaps or 8-track tapes
12. Which would be worse?
Getting stuck with the heifer leg of a coffee table on the elevator or being jarred loose from a strawberry jelly nuance
13. Which would be worse?
Having a heart attack or losing a limb
14. Which would be worse?
Rejecting someone or being rejected by someone
Taking It Deeper
[A Thought to Consider]
Jesus never condemned anyone who came to him for mercy and forgiveness, but he was ultimately rejected and killed by those he came to accept and forgive. If we want to follow Jesus’ example, we should be unwilling to reject anyone—but totally willing to be rejected for his sake. Because Jesus was rejected, the entire world has been forever blessed.
15. Which would be better?
Eating granola or oatmeal
16. Which would be better?
Being a highly paid singer or a professional athlete
17. Which would be better?
Asking questions or giving answers
18. Which would be worse?
Having no voice or suffering excruciating pain for the rest of your life
19. Which would be better?
Leaving a large inheritance or spending all your wealth before you die
20. Which would be worse?
Never being able to laugh or never being able to cry
21. Which would be better?
Going to a private Christian school or a public school
22. Which would be worse?
Losing your memory or losing your friends
23. Which would be better?
Being a good cook or good artist
24. Which would be worse?
Being ridiculed on national television or winning an award that should have gone to someone else
Taking It Deeper
[A Thought to Consider]
The world says, Make yourself look good at all costs.
So according to the world, if you live the Bible’s advice to seek the good of others and put the interests of others before your own (1 Corinthians 10:24; 13:5 and Philippians 2:4), you are being a fool. But guess what? The Bible says, We are fools for Christ
(1 Corinthians 4:10). In other words, if you’re a