The Complete Book of Questions: 1001 Conversation Starters for Any Occasion
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Garry D. Poole
As Willow Creek Community Church's key evangelism leader for over sixteen years, Garry Poole is the innovator of seeker small groups and a strategist of creative outreach initiatives. Passionate about reaching people for Christ, Garry and his team have trained thousands of leaders to launch seeker small groups in their own settings. His award-winning book, Seeker Small Groups, provides a detailed blueprint for facilitating small group discussions that assist spiritual seekers with investigating Christianity. He also wrote The Complete Book of Questions, a collection of 1001 conversation starters and numerous group study guides including The Three Habits of Highly Contagious Christians; The Tough Questions Series, and Experiencing the Passion of Jesus (with Lee Strobel) to accompany Mel Gibson’s film, The Passion of the Christ. In 2005, it became the first discussion guide ever to receive the prestigious Charles “Kip” Jordon Christian Book of the Year award. Garry lives in suburban Chicago.
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The Complete Book of Questions - Garry D. Poole
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To Jim Poole and Rosanne Vale
who endured their older brother’s
relentless barrage of questions
and inspired a constant stream of new ones
CONTENTS
TITLE PAGE
COPYRIGHT PAGE
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
INTRODUCTION
THE POWER OF QUESTIONS
1001 QUESTIONS
GUIDELINES
APPLICATIONS
LISTEN WELL
LIGHT & EASY
PERSONAL PROFILE
PREFERENCES
BLAST FROM THE PAST
JUST IMAGINE
VIEWPOINTS
HARD-HITTING
FROM THE HEART
SPIRITUALLY SPEAKING
EXTREME SPIRITUAL MATTERS
ABOUT THE PUBLISHER
SHARE YOUR THOUGHTS
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
It is better to know some of
the questions than all of the
answers.
—James Thurber
It seems like there are those who have all the answers and others who have only questions. And unless you’re lucky, it’s a rare thing to stumble across people with a healthy dose of both questions and answers.
I’m very lucky.
My brother Jim Poole is simply a creative genius. He’s a witty wordsmith with an uncanny sense of what’s what. Thanks for your astute observations and handing over all your great ideas.
My colleague Laura Allen is a talented mastermind. She’s a walking thesaurus
with a heart of gold. Thanks for sharing your wealth of wisdom and keen insights.
Thanks, Jim and Laura, for inspiring me to take this book to the next level and your willingness to go above and beyond time after time.
My mother, Barbara Poole, and friend Judy Keene supplied lots of suggestions and polished the manuscript. Thanks for your contributions and edits—they were all good ones.
And a special thanks to all my friends and family members who over the years have kindled these 1001 questions—and illuminated their answers.
The answer, my friend, is
blowin’ in the wind.
—Bob Dylan
INTRODUCTION
Can I ask you
a question?
—Socrates
THE POWER OF QUESTIONS
Questions are great conversation starters. It seems everyone has a story to tell or an opinion to share. And to get it, you need only to ask. Good questions invite people to open up about themselves and divulge their thoughts and feelings on a wide variety of topics. They’re the secret behind getting acquainted with someone you have recently met or learning something completely new about someone you’ve known for years. If you learn to pose the right questions, you’ll gain a better understanding of who your friends are and what makes them tick.
Don’t you appreciate it when someone asks you sincere questions? It conveys an interest in your opinions and insights. It demonstrates a desire to know who you are and what you really think. And that means a lot. There is something powerful about questions that force you to think, look within yourself, examine your heart, and search for answers. And it’s in the process of responding to those questions that you often make discoveries about yourself—things you never even realized before.
Questions also function remarkably well in the context of discussion groups. They draw group participants into the dialogue—less outspoken individuals are coaxed out of their shells and more talkative types are reigned in to focus on the issue at hand. Asking great questions in a group setting is the quickest and easiest way to spark stimulating discussions.
1001 QUESTIONS
But even though most of us realize the importance of