By My Mother's Hand
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Holocaust survivor HENRY MELNICK was born in Lodz, Poland. Shortly after the Nazis occupied Poland in 1939, he was sent to do slave labour in the Nowy Sacz and Tarnow Ghettos and at Szebnie camp. He was then transferred to Auschwitz-Birkenau, Buna, Dora-Mittelbau and Bergen-Belsen death camps. When his parents were murdered in the Belzec death camp, he became the sole survivor of his entire family.
After liberation, Henry volunteered for the Israeli Army and fought for Israel's independence. He came to Canada in 1965 with his wife Hela and their two children.
His story is one of strength and courage.
His survival is nothing short of a miracle.
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- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5This book was written honestly. It does not give an overview of what happened to the Jews, it gives a personal account that does not try to be anything other than the truth. I applaud Henry Melnick's in sharing his unimaginable experiences. It is a story that must be retold countless times to show tolerance, and man's ability to lose all humility.
To say I enjoyed the book is not true, I felt the words from the page, and was glad I had read it.
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By My Mother's Hand - Michael Melnick
By My Mother’s Hand
As Told by Survivor Henry Melnick
© 2011 Henry Melnick. All rights reserved.
Smashwords Edition
Story chronicled by Limore Zisckind
Afterword by Faith Dantowitz
Edited by Michael Melnick and Faith Dantowitz
Cover design by Hee Yol Lee
This book is available in print at www.bymymothershand.com
Smashwords Edition, License Notes
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This book is dedicated to and in memory of my late wife Hela (Chaya) Melnick, and all of my relatives that did not survive the war. I am the sole survivor of my entire family.
Table of Contents
Acknowledgments
Prologue
My First Memories
Growing Up Jewish in the Community of Lodz
The Germans Invade Poland
Arrival in Nowy Sacz
The Ghetto in Nowy Sacz
The Nowy Sacz Ghetto Liquidation
The Tarnow Ghetto
At Szebnie Camp
The Szenbie Camp Liquidation
The Road to Auschwitz
Life in Auschwitz II - Birkenau
Auschwitz III - Buna-Monowitz
The Death March to Gleiwitz II
Life in Dora-Mittelbau
Bergen-Belsen and the End of the War
Liberation!
Recovery at Celle
Hela's Story
Hela and Henry in Hanover
Life Together After the War
A New Life in Israel
Present Day in Toronto - In My Own Words
Afterward
Appendix
Acknowledgements
I leave my story as a legacy to my children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren to pass down for generations to come. Read, learn, grow and appreciate your lives. My story is but one of six million.
I was inspired to come forward with my testimony by remembering what my mother said to me: Somebody must survive to tell our story.
In writing this book, my intention is not to teach hate but to teach tolerance. Intolerance left unchecked leads to stories like mine. Thank you to my wife Elaine for encouraging me to share my story and for lending her love and support.
I would like to thank my grandson Michael for his effort and dedication in his roles as editor and designer.
Also thank you to Faith Dantowitz, Elaine Melnick’s daughter, for final editing.
Lastly, I want to thank my granddaughter Limore for encouraging me to write this book and spending so much time with me to chronicle and publish my words.
Prologue
Being one of Henry’s seven grandchildren, I was fortunate to work on this book to pass on to the next generation. I would like to share some of my thoughts while chronicling my grandfather Henry Melnick’s personal testimony.
Several years ago, while listening to my grandfather talk at a speaking engagement, a frightening thought entered my mind. What will happen when he is no longer here to share his experience? I ached to remember every detail, every word and every nuance as he spoke. How could I remember his entire history? That was when I decided to record his chronicles.
So began regularly scheduled visits to my grandfather’s home. I often visited during the evenings, arriving hungry after work. Bubbie Elaine would make us dinner. Over 24 months and many bowls of soup, I listened.
While chronicling Henry’s experiences, I tried to stay true to his voice. I did not embellish nor add my own feelings. I asked many questions in order to try and evoke emotion, but sometimes I felt like I could not push any further. At times I could tell it was just too painful for him.
On numerous occasions I have heard Henry speak. His fact-based style of recounting his tragic story amplifies the depth, breadth and magnitude of his loss and his experience. Only once during my interview process did I see the glimmer of tears in his eyes – when I asked about his family life before the war. Henry was used to openly talking about his experiences in the ghettos and death camps, but he rarely, if ever, spoke about family life. When asked about growing up before the war, I saw my grandfather shaking from sadness. I wished I could have asked him more about his mother, father and siblings.
He provided me with many materials to help me record his story; endless pictures, letters, books and hand-written notes. He did not want to forget anything. Henry also gave me binders and envelopes full of thank-you notes from students and educators that expressed gratitude to him after hearing his words.
I am honoured to have had the privilege of recording his story. Every word has been etched into my soul. Only through spending this precious time with him have I come to fully understand the degree of his strength, courage, resilience and kindness. Instead of lashing out at the world for the injustices he endured, my grandfather continuously preaches tolerance. It is a lesson this world is far behind in learning.
Limore (Twena) Zisckind
By My Mother’s Hand
As Told by Survivor Henry Melnick
My First Memories
I have no memory of my mother’s face. We look like a picture-perfect family in my only remaining family photo – my father, sister, brother and I – taken one Saturday morning in a park in Lodz, Poland. My mother missed this one perfect moment, and because of that, I no longer remember what she looks like, not even her face. So many missed moments and missed opportunities enabled my survival and forced so many others to perish.
This is the only surviving photograph of my family from before the war. It was given to me shortly after I arrived in Israel following the war. Friends of my parents from Lodz, who moved from Poland before the war had this among their family photos.
tmp_d4f0e4eecc19eaa8323559b8b4723a34_pgqIjH_html_2bd86fb0.jpgBack row left to right: Yosef (my brother), Elijah (my father)
Front row left to right: Genia (my sister), Henry (me)
I was born on June 25th, 1922 in Lodz, Poland to Chaya and Elijah Chmielnicki. My sister Genia was two years younger than I. She died when she was nine years old from a disease that no one talked about or really understood. I recall her falling ill one summer after returning from summer camp. A few weeks later she died. She may have had leukemia or kidney disease.
My brother Yosef was two years older than I. He acted like my boss and we loved each other very much. We would give our lives for each other and could not imagine being apart. I’ll never forget how after playing checkers, the loser would always throw down all the pieces to the floor out of frustration.
My brother and sister were both quite studious. My sister would constantly write letters on pages. Back then, times and parents were stricter and children did not know everything that happened within the family like financial problems or political matters. Interrupting parents was never allowed and we were always careful to show respect when they spoke. I believe we were kept innocent through these rules. Today, it seems to me that children tell their parents what to do.
My father Elijah was born in a shtetl [1] near Lodz. I remember him as a thin, handsome man. He was also always preoccupied and worried about providing for our family. We grew up during the depression but somehow we never went hungry. Sometimes we even refused my mother’s food.
Lodz was the