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    Bedroom Life
    Bedroom Life
    Bedroom Life
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    Bedroom Life

    By Nitin Darda

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    Problems have become a part of everybody s day to day life. Everyone goes through different types of problems in their lives and ultimately suffers from stress, anxiety, fear. Physical intimacy and sex has therefore, become one of the best ways to relax and to seek release from one s own problems. But when sex itself becomes a problem then everyone from the individual to the family, society, our nation and even the world becomes disturbed.
    This book will explain the different types of problems in sexual relationships and natural techniques of sex. This book also helps people find solutions for these problems. Bedroom Life will not only help you find happiness, relaxation and joy in life but also help you on the path towards self-realisation and transformation.
    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherNotion Press
    Release dateApr 20, 2015
    ISBN9789352060283
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      Bedroom Life - Nitin Darda

      BEDROOM

      Life

      Nitin Darda

      Notion Press

      #5 Muthu Kalathy Street, Triplicane,

      Chennai - 600 005

      First Published by Notion Press 2015

      Copyright © Nitin Darda 2015

      All Rights Reserved.

      ISBN: 978-93-52060-28-3

      This book has been published in good faith that the work of the author is original. All efforts have been taken to make the material error-free. However, the author and the publisher disclaim the responsibility.

      No part of this book may be used, reproduced in any manner whatsoever without written permission from the author, except in the case of brief quotations embodied in critical articles and reviews.

      This book is dedicated to the person

      who wants to live a joyous, peaceful,

      stress-free and TRANSFORMED life.

      Acknowledgement

      I must thank my father MADANLAL and my mother NIRMALA for guiding and shaping my life. Many thanks to my spiritual guru OSHO who changed my life and showed me the path towards self-realisation. I would also like to thank my professional gurus DR.HAHNEMANN and DR.KENT who introduced us to a completely different mindset possessed by human beings. Thanks to my son TANMAY, my brothers, sisters, family members, friends, patients and everyone from whom I learnt different lessons of life. And finally my most profuse thanks to the person who helped me transform my life and who supports me in every condition and facet of living, my wife YOGITA.

      About the Author

      NITIN MADANLAL DARDA is a HOMOEOPATHIC DOCTOR, who lives and practices homeopathy in PUNE, INDIA. During his 18 years of practice and treatment of thousands of patients suffering from a range of chronic illnesses, the author came to the conclusion that the primary cause behind many ailments is sex. The author felt strongly on the need to spread awareness about sex and thus the book BEDROOM LIFE was born. The author aims to make every person peaceful, joyous, and healthy; and ultimately aims to transform society, our nation and boundaryless world satisfied and content.

      Contents

      Title

      Copyright

      Dedication

      Acknowledgement

      About the Author

      1. Bedroom Life

      2. Equality

      3. Understanding Need of Partner

      4. More Stress, More The Need of Sex

      5. Deep & Slower breathing for a longer sexual act

      6. Ekpatnivrata Or Ekpativrata (Living With One Partner Only)

      7. Food And Sex

      8. Sleep And Sex

      9. Premarital Affairs

      10. Religion & Sex

      11. Ego And Sex

      12. Disturb Bedroom Life or Disturb Married Life

      13. Sexual Conversation

      14. Extramarital Relationship

      15. Sex And Disease

      16. Divorce

      17. The Conservation of Energy

      18. Sex And Spirituality

      Bedroom Life

      Bedroom life is an important part of married life which will give mental stability, strength, pleasure, happiness, confidence and relaxation. The bedroom is not only the place where reproduction happens, but also the place where self-consciousness, self-realization, transformation can happen. Bedroom life can also give a person frustration, depression, a feeling of loneliness and sadness which can be lead to major chronic illness or divorce.

      Sexual life is the most important part of bedroom life. To make one’s own bedroom life a success story is the strong desire of every individual. A satisfied and happy sexual life is the most important part of successful bedroom life. There are also factors which will make bedroom life a success - adjustment to each other, love, care, understanding for each other. But many individuals are unable to make their bedroom life successful or married life happy because of imperfect, improper sexual activity. They are unable to satisfy partner, unable to understand the needs of the partner and adjust with each other.

      This feeling of unsatisfied, unfulfilled, incompleteness in sex life leads person to sadness, incompetence and a lack of desire for life, which can finally end in major chronic illnesses like Blood Pressure, Diabetes, Rheumatism, Spondylosis, abdominal complaints, sleeplessness, etc. and divorce. When the origin of chronic illnesses lies in sexual dissatisfaction, people carry these illnesses till their end. These diseases are chronic in nature, these symptoms and signs last till many years. These diseases are irreversible. The person trapped in the cycle of diseases is unable to come out of situation.

      As the person does not know the exact cause or wish to understand the exact cause of their disease, they are unable to share it with their physician or partner. Actually they know the exact cause, but they do not accept it as such, but in their subconscious mind they continuous think about it so they are not ready to find solutions. Sometimes, ego problems arises - how do I share my personal feelings? How do I accept my inability? The partners will live unhappy, sad, irritable lives which in many cases may lead to divorce or extramarital affairs and their social, married, family life gets disturbed.

      Partners can change situations. Partners can enjoy a happy bedroom life, partners can live successful married life when they make their sexual life satisfied, happy. Knowing, understanding and accepting sexual problems is the first key to leading a successful life. Share problems with the partner, do not be egotistic. Take your partner into confidence, involve the partner in every problem in life. Share problems, wholeheartedly it will release pressure, heaviness, and stress, which will help the person relax and give relief in symptoms of illness.

      Homeopathic medicines are very good for sexual problems. Every mental symptom, every physical symptom studied in this stream of medicine, had a remedy which will help the person relax, de-stress and correct physical abnormalities of the body. It will put the person’s life back on track.

      When sex occurs with adjustment, understanding the needs of the partner, with patience, consciousness, keeping in mind the satisfaction of both partners, it will automatically teach the partners perfect, proper technique for sexual activity.

      When both partners are deeply satisfied, day by day, their satisfaction deepens, their desire for frequent sex decreases, their fantasies about sex automatically decreases, and the feeling of desires gets slowly completed and fulfilled. Automatically, the craving for sex lessens. The partners then live a complete, fulfilled life. They come slowly closer to each other to make two bodies with one life.

      In the next few chapters, I will try to help the person to understand different paths of permanent union.

      Equality

      Sex is the biological need of a human being. Satisfaction of both partners in sexual life is a basic requirement. Each partner tries their best to get maximum satisfaction but many individuals are unable to get deep satisfaction in their active sexual lives. Being to unable to understand the needs of the partner, they suffer from dissatisfaction and unhappiness their entire lives. Many partners are unable to understand, recognize, exact own and partners satisfaction. Their life goes on without understanding each other.

      Equality plays an important role in life. Equal importance in sharing emotions, equal chance in expressing love, equal importance in sharing desires, fantasies, pleasure, etc. are the most important factors in bedroom life. Generally, it is seen that in a relationship, one partner act as an active partner and the other is passive, and to make the relationship successful, this is a basic requirement. But when each partner gets to play an active role in sharing their desire, it will give more happiness and long lasting satisfaction and pleasure. Both partners’ happiness improved. Both partners’ strength and mental stability increases. Their confidence level in society, the workplace increases, which ultimately improves their performance. This helps promotion, up-gradation and their thoughts improve. Which in turn, makes their family life, social life and personal life better. When the person is confident, strengthened and happy, then diseases are kept at bay. When from this happiness a baby is born, it will be the happiest baby in the world.

      Equality should be on the physical, mental, emotional and sexual level. Both genders should feel equal when living in society. There should be no ‘inferior’ or ‘superior’ in a relationship. When both genders live equally keeping in mind natural functions and responsibilities in society, then the whole nation, the whole world will live life lovingly, happily, joyously and successfully. There is no place for anger, jealousy, enmity and competition.

      In most cases the male plays a dominating role in sexual life and family life. Many males think that it is their duty to satisfy their partner. They like to be the active partner. This thought itself creates ego in the male partner. Generally it is seen that male satisfaction depends on the partner’s satisfaction. Person feels satisfied when he reads satisfaction in partner’s actions and body language. Generally a partner can express their satisfaction on sexual matters through conversation, but they are unable to express their feelings due to shyness, ego, etc. So they read or understand the satisfaction of the partner through their own observations. This ‘reading’ gets improved through experience, and the understanding gets improved by practice. This requires patience, a relaxed mind and love for your partner. If we misunderstand our partner, the bedroom life becomes disturbed. When partners do not understand the desires and fantasies of the other and sex occurs one-sidedly, satisfying one’s own desires and fantasies, then it will disturb the relationship. This will ultimately make both partners dissatisfied and unhappy, and more stressed.

      Many partners feel that more stronger, powerful the act, the more satisfied the sex. This is their own observation. But many times, it does not give them complete satisfaction. In this situation, the couple

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