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    Kick out the Fairy in You and let the Woman out
    Kick out the Fairy in You and let the Woman out
    Kick out the Fairy in You and let the Woman out
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    Kick out the Fairy in You and let the Woman out

    By Simona Ruffini

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    WITH INTERACTIVE LINKS TO CONTENT, VIDEO, PODCAST AND ARTICLES!

    The first manual that won't change you into another person, but it will teach you how to be You.
    Welcome to you, who managed to get here If you, just like many others, have always felt wrong, inevitably but inexorably kept comparing yourself to other Women, are tired of the self-help manuals who want to turn you into someone you are not, well then this is the right place for you.
    Just so you know, you are not alone. And most of all, what happens to you is normal.
    The message I want to convey to you through these pages is that you are just fine. I am not saying you are perfect and that you don’t need to keep bettering yourself.
    I am saying that the first step to become what you are destined to be is to be exactly who you already are. So why this book, you may be asking?
    And why has this book been written by a criminologist, who takes on many cases of abuse towards women?
    What do spiritual evolution, self-love, the Light, and abuse on women have in common? I can explain with a simple example. You are looking for a job. You know how much you are worth, what it is that you are looking for, and you know exactly how much money you should be paid.
    At your job interview, they offer you a dissatisfactory job, way below your capabilities and aspirations, and not properly compensated at all. You stand up, thank them, and walk away.
    What does this example mean? Well, take this instance and place it into a personal relationship. What would happen if, instead of your boss, that man was a significant other or a boyfriend? Would you settle to spend the rest of your life with a man who does not satisfy you, who does not appreciate you, who does not support you, but actually only tries to manipulate you and make you feel bad?
    You are not happy with your weight but you are unable to lose it; You hate your job but think you can’t aspire to become anything better;
    You have a dream but you think you “will never be able to fulfill it”; You wish you could move but have no idea of where to start. When a Woman doesn’t love herself, she only lives a half-life. A body she doesn’t like and doesn’t reflect who she is; A job that doesn’t satisfy her; A place where she doesn’t live the way she’d like to; Friends and relationships that don’t gratify her; An image of herself in which she feels lost. Every time you put something else or somebody else before yourself, you are at risk of losing yourself. I don’t want you to be selfish, but to love yourself, which is different.
    This book stems from the “Project of Women of Light”, something I have dedicated many years of my life to and that I deeply love. With the Project of Women of Light,
    I have helped many Women “find themselves before they get lost”! The world needs you.

    Simona Ruffini is an Italian writer, author and criminologist, graduated in Psychology and specialized in Forensic Sciences. She is an internationally certified expert in the recognition of facial micro expressions. Among his successes is the reopening of the Pier Paolo Pasolini murder case. He created and manages several projects, including "Women of Light", dedicated to the spiritual and psychological evolution of women who no longer love each other or who are victims of violence. She created and conducted the radio show "On the Crime Scene", and was scientific consultant for the TV program "Blood of Your Blood". His works and books are visible on his website simonaruffini.it.
    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherSimona Ruffini
    Release dateJan 30, 2017
    ISBN9781539171898
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      Kick out the Fairy in You and let the Woman out - Simona Ruffini

      WELCOME TO YOU, WHO MANAGED TO GET HERE

      It is an immense joy for me to welcome you with this first free book from the 'Women of Light' series.

      The books are interactive. This means that you will often find free links to podcasts, videos and articles. But I'll explain this to you shortly.

      I want to say thank you very much for reading it right now.

      There is a kind of magic bridge that is connecting us right now, you who read and me who wrote.

      So thanks again for the trust you are giving me.

      This small manual has already been translated into several languages and continues to be distributed all over the world.

      There is no greater satisfaction for me to know that there are women scattered on every continent who maybe right now, like you, are reading these lines.

      I go straight to the point and ask you some questions.

      If you, just like many others, have always felt wrong, inevitably but inexorably kept comparing yourself to other Women, are tired of the self-help manuals who want to turn you into someone you are not, well then this is the right place for you.

      Just so you know, you are not alone.

      And most of all, what happens to you is normal.

      The message I want to convey to you through these pages is that you are just fine.

      I am not saying you are perfect and that you don’t need to keep bettering yourself.

      I am saying that the first step to become what you are destined to be is to be exactly who you already are.

      The first, and most important, lesson in female evolution is to accept who you are.

      I know it may seem difficult, or even impossible, but you can do it.

      I can tell you because I have gone through it myself.

      So why this book, you may be asking?

      And why has this book been written by a criminologist, who takes on many cases of abuse towards women?

      What do spiritual evolution, self-love, the Light, and abuse on women have in common?

      I can explain with a simple example.

      You are looking for a job.

      You know how much you are worth, what it is that you are looking for, and you know exactly how much money you should be paid.

      At your job interview, they offer you a dissatisfactory job, way below your capabilities and aspirations, and not properly compensated at all.

      You stand up, thank them, and walk away.

      That’s exactly what happens to a Woman who knows what she’s worth and isn’t afraid to show it.

      And most of all, she doesn’t settle for something lower than what she expects.

      It may also be that that job seems quite attractive to you.

      So you start giving it your all, only to find out that everything you were promised was nothing but a lie.

      Your salary is minimum, the work hours keep getting longer, your dissatisfaction keeps rising, and whenever you try to explain your feelings to your boss, you are met with disdain and indifference, all topped with a disgusting remark of, You are so unappreciative! After all I do for you!.

      At this point, your choice is imminent.

      You get up, without thanking anybody, and walk away (making sure to sue him).

      What does this example mean?

      Well, take this instance and place it into a personal relationship.

      What would happen if, instead of your boss, that man was a significant other or a boyfriend?

      Would you settle to spend the rest of your life with a man who does not satisfy you, who does not appreciate you, who does not support you, but actually only tries to manipulate you and make you feel bad?

      And what if the same man tried to be violent towards you, at first only with words, then psychologically and then physically?

      How many Women settle for less and stay in an abusive relationship?

      It’s not necessary to list any other example to show you what I mean when I talk about women with no self-love.

      You are not happy with your weight but you are unable to lose it;

      You hate your job but think you can’t aspire to become anything better;

      You have a dream but you think you will never be able to fulfill it;

      You wish you could move but have no idea of where to start.

      The list could go on and on forever, but I think you get the picture now.

      When a Woman doesn’t love herself, she only lives a half-life

      Her not-love mirrors into all of her choices.

      A body she doesn’t like and doesn’t reflect who she is;

      A job that doesn’t satisfy her;

      A place where she doesn’t live the way she’d like to;

      Friends and relationships that don’t gratify her;

      An image of herself in which she feels lost.

      Every

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