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DO NOT GO GENTLE
poems for funerals
This wide-ranging selection combines popular choices of traditional poems read at funerals with powerful poems by contemporary writers more tuned to our present age of doubt and disbelief.
There are poems here for churchgoers and believers, including classic verses of grief and consolation by John Donne, Christina Rossetti, Emily Brontë and Emily Dickinson, the anonymous Do not stand at my grave and weep, and the poems read at Princess Diana’s funeral. But there are also poems for people of all faiths and religions, for agnostics and atheists, and most importantly for those who aren’t sure what they believe, whose grief over loss is the more intense for not knowing what happens to the soul after death.
Grief isn’t denied but experienced and made more bearable by being put into memorable words. Searing poems of lament are followed by moving elegies celebrating the lives of those we will always love. Whether and how the spirit survives is then explored in an extraordinary gathering of poems by writers as different and diverse as the Persian mystic Rumi, Zen Buddhist composers of Japanese haiku, and American poets Mary Oliver and Jane Kenyon.
Buttressed against their assertions of faith in an afterlife are modern sceptics, from Auden and Larkin to William Carlos Williams and C.K. Williams, whose wrestling with the meaning of death helps us make sense of no sense, mirroring our own anxieties and difficulties. But however various and contradictory these poems, their message chimes with Larkin’s famous words, proving ‘Our almost-instinct almost true:/ What will survive of us is love.’
Unlike other poetry anthologies of loss, mourning and remembrance, Do Not Go Gentle offers a selection of poems specifically for reading at funerals and memorial services. It can also be used for reading aloud to friends and family, or for reading while numbed and bewildered – all times when the right poem can help us share and bear the burden of immediate grief.
Cover photograph by Simon Fraser
DO NOT GO GENTLE
poems for funerals
edited by
NEIL ASTLEY
To everything there is a season, and a time to every purpose under heaven.
A time to be born and a time to die; a time to plant and a time to pluck up that which is planted;
A time to kill and a time to heal; a time to break down and a time to build up.
A time to weep and a time to laugh; a time to mourn and a time to dance.
A time to get and a time to lose; a time to keep and a time to cast away.
A time to rend and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak.
A time to love and a time to hate; a time of war, and a time of peace.
For that which befalleth the sons of men befalleth beasts; even one thing befalleth them: as the one dieth, so dieth the other; yea, they have all the breath; so that man hath no preeminence above a beast: for all is vanity.
KING JAMES BIBLE: ECCLESIASTES
What is born will die,
What has been gathered will be dispersed,
What has been accumulated will be exhausted,
What has been built up will collapse
And what has been high will be brought low.
TRADITIONAL BUDDHIST SCRIPTURE
CONTENTS
Title Page
Epigraph
1
Stop All the Clocks
POEMS OF GRIEF
W.H. Auden Funeral Blues
C.K. Williams Wept
Norman MacCaig Memorial
R.S. Thomas Comparisons
Christina Rossetti Remember
Linda Pastan The Five Stages of Grief
Rudyard Kipling The Widower
Janet Frame The Suicides
George Herbert Life
Robert Herrick Epitaph Upon A Child That Died
Edwin Muir The Child Dying
Ben Jonson On My First Sonne
Hugh O’Donnell Light
D.J. Enright On the Death of a Child
Anonymous The Unquiet Grave
Emily Brontë Remembrance
James Russell Lowell After the Burial
Adrian Mitchell Especially When It Snows
2
Lives Enriched
POEMS OF CELEBRATION
Edgar A. Guest Because He Lived
Robert Burns Epitaph on a Friend
Brendan Kennelly The Good
Stephen Dobyns When a Friend
William Shakespeare Cleopatra’s Lament for Antony
William Shakespeare Dirge for Fidele
David Constantine ‘We say the dead depart’
Anonymous ‘Not, how did he die, but how did he live?’
Alfred, Lord Tennyson
FROM
In Memoriam A.H.H.
Langston Hughes As Befits a Man
Joyce Grenfell
FROM
Joyce: By Herself and Her Friends
William Carlos Williams Tract
Raymond Carver Gravy
Bashō Haiku
3
I Am Not There
BODY & SPIRIT
Anonymous ‘Do not stand at my grave and weep’
Christina Rossetti Song
Mary Lee Hall Turn Again to Life
Henry van Dyke For Katrina’s Sun Dial
Bhartrhari ‘Thinking I enjoyed the pleasures of life’
D.H. Lawrence Demiurge
Gail Holst-Warhaft In the End Is the Body
Pablo Neruda Sonnet LXXXIX
Issa Haiku
Abu al-Ala al-Ma‘arri The Soul Driven from the Body
Devara Dasimayya ‘I’m the one who has the body’
Ruth Pitter The Paradox
Rumi ‘Everything you see’
4
The Dying of the Light
PAIN & RESOLUTION
Dylan Thomas Do Not Go Gentle into That Good Night
W.E. Henley Invictus
David Wright Et in Arcadia
Czeslaw Milosz On Parting with My Wife, Janina
Pamela Gillilan
FROM
When You Died
Philip Larkin Aubade
C.K. Williams
FROM
Le Petit Salvié
Anne Stevenson The Minister
Virginia Hamilton Adair A Last Marriage
5
The Other Side
COMFORT & HAUNTING
Jane Kenyon Notes from the Other Side
Thom Gunn The Reassurance
Patricia Pogson Breath
C.K. Williams Oh
Ken Smith Years go by
Brendan Kennelly I See You Dancing, Father
Patrick Kavanagh In Memory of My Mother
Billy Collins The Dead
Vladimír Holan Resurrection
Charles Causley Eden Rock
Jeanne Willis Inside Our Dreams
Meera Song
Shiki Haiku
6
Nothing Dies
RELEASE & LETTING GO
Emily Dickinson After Great Pain