Embracing a New Vision of Aging
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Contemporary culture is permeated with the caustic message that nothing is more important than youth, and that the natural aging process is to be dreaded, denied, postponed, avoided at all costs. The media crams our minds full of dreadful data of aging as a dire collection of disease, devastation, and loss. Cultural perspectives foster a fear of aging which dramatically affects our experience of growing older.
Despite those gloom and doom prognostications, a positive and life-affirming perception of aging is taking root in America and around the globe. A much-needed shift is emerging; a cultural shift that views growing older not as a relentless march to the grave, but as a fresh opportunity for using our increased life span to explore new levels of awareness and personal power.
The truth is that we weren't created to blossom early and then spend the rest of our life withering away. The time has come to challenge the myth of decline and to celebrate our new gift of longevity which is truly wondrous.
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Embracing a New Vision of Aging - Sheryl Towers
Embracing a New Vision of Aging
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Sheryl Towers
WordCrafts Press
Copyright © 2018 Sheryl Towers
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Contents
Dedication
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about the author
Dedication
For my son, Justin.
Acknowledgment
I AM DEEPLY GRATEFUL to Mary Beth Gumbart whose superb talent, support, and generosity guided me on every page.
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Questioning Societal Attitudes
A POSITIVE AND LIFE-affirming perception of aging is taking root in our culture, and a much-needed shift is emerging. A cultural shift that is embracing aging with creativity and gratitude, and moving towards exploring the possibilities of our increased life span, is slowly gathering momentum. We are breaking through to new levels of awareness and personal power as we challenge old fears and outdated ways of perceiving aging. In many ways, we are claiming the power to make up our own rules and to say good-bye to the conventional stereotypes and limitations.
Though this social tipping point reflects how far our views of aging have come, they have not come far enough. We need to make further advances in embracing this unprecedented opportunity to socially construct the aging process so that it is an enriching model for all.
In spite of our progress, our culture continues to transmit the negative message that aging is to be dreaded and denied. Our minds continue to be crammed by the media with the dreadful data of age-related scenarios proclaiming that aging is a collection of diseases and losses. These cultural perspectives foster a fear of aging in our society which has become a pronounced syndrome that dramatically affects our experience of growing older.
The fear of aging isn’t a recent phenomenon as the idea of the fountain of youth and methods of rejuvenation can be traced through the centuries. What is different today, though, is how these anxieties are reinforced by mass media and how early anxieties about aging begin. Given that we are living longer and that the potential length of our life span is still in question, unless we experience an even greater shift in our consciousness, this means that we are going to be worried for a long time.
In the last hundred years, the average life expectancy has dramatically increased, but for many the later years have not been a time of happiness and well-being. Having been culturally indoctrinated to fear a long decline, many dread their potential for a longer life rather than embracing this new longevity. This paradigm of aging is false and limiting. The time has come to challenge the myth of decline and to celebrate our new gift of longevity which is truly wondrous. The time has come to explore the steady emergence of the new possibilities and capacities which aging offers and to discover what use we are to make of our extended life span.
The truth is that we weren’t created to blossom early and then spend the rest of our life withering away. The more we learn about aging, the more we know that a sweeping downward trajectory is grossly inadequate. The path of our aging is not written in stone or even in our ancestry. We have the potential to grow older free of disease and disability and to function well both cognitively and physically.
The reality is that there is tremendous variability in how we age that primarily stems from lifestyle choices and attitude. Even if certain health conditions run in our family, there is much we can do to break those patterns. For most of us, a healthy lifestyle trumps inherited risk. In fact, the majority of the ingredients that predict longevity and good health are within our control.
For example, recent research shows that some areas of the brain involved with memory and learning continue to produce new nerve cells every day. So while we do lose brain cells on a daily basis, we also are constantly replacing them. We can build new brain cells by keeping our brain active with new activities and learning.
Research also shows that most disease-related gene mutations are influenced by lifestyle including emotions, stress levels, diet, and quality of sleep. In addition, the new science of epigenetics tells us that we may have much more control over the cellular biology of our aging than we otherwise thought. Questions remain at the most basic level about what triggers aging in our bodies, why it occurs and what the biological processes are that underlie these changes.
We are also learning that we have a chronological age and a biological age. While our chronological age reflects the age on our birth certificate, our biological age basically reflects how well our body is functioning. Our biological age doesn’t always match our chronological age and is determined by, among other things, our expectations and beliefs, our perception of the aging process, and our energy level. We can be much younger or older than the age stated on our birth certificate.
However, despite reams of research countering the