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S>m. Ama. Eg. gmR>o

eara{H$`mVk d H$m_g_`mVk
(Physician & Sexologist)

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`m`m/{V`m Odi`m `VrZm AmMma, {dMma d {dhma
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hmoV ZmhrV.
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`m amoJmgmR>r {Xbr OmUmar H$mhr AmfYo gwm H$m_g_`m
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bS>oea`m H$mhr {d{e> AmfYmMo {dn[aV n[aUm_ hmoD$Z
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H$_r Ag`mg `mda AmfY`moOZm CnbY AmhoV naVw `m
AmfYmMo Xwn[aUm_ hmo`mMr e`Vm Ag`m_wio dH$s`
_mJXeZmImbrM CnMma H$aUo OarMo Amho. hm`mJmgmaIr

AmfYo gwm dV: _ZmZo KoUo Ymo`mMo Amho. H$moUVohr AmfY

Mmby H$aUo, ~XbUo, ~X H$aUo `m Jmo>r S>mQ>ar gmZoM
H$aUo B> Amho.
_mZ{gH$ Am{U emar[aH$ Ho${_H$b bmoMm_i
w o H$m_g_`m
`oVmV Ago Jo`m H$mhr dfmV`m gemoYZm_wiM
o g_Obo Amho.
Aemdoir JaOoZgw ma g_wnXoeZ Am{U AmfYmonMma ho Xmohr
H$aUo _hdmMo Agy eH$Vo. AJXr _wm^mB`m ^mfoV hUm`Mo
Pmbo Va- Aao g{H$Q>, ^oOoHo$ `m earaHo$ Ho${_H$b bmoMo go
gog mobo_ AmVo h `ma. Eogm hAm Zm Vmo S>aZoH$m Zhr.
`m? ~mobo Vmo Eogo Q>mB_ no AN>o S>mQ>a Ho$ nmg OmZoH$m,
gbmh boZoH$m, Xdm boZoH$m, {\$a EOm` H$aZoH$m Ama Amam_go
gmoZoH$m. Q>oeZ Zhr boZoH$m, Zhr Vmo Ama ^r ~S>m Ho${_H$b
bmoMm hmoEJm. g_Pm?
Dr. R. S. Sathe

Vwhr hm boI {_-_S>itZm dmMm`bm m, H$Xm{MV

`m`m H$m_mg `oBb. Poamg H$mnrO>H$mTy>Z dmQ>`mg
haH$V Zmhr. H$n`m Amn`m {V{H$`m B-_ob Zo H$idm
(rsathe@indiatimes.com)

A{YH$ _m{hVrgmR>r S>m. Ama. Eg. gmR>o `mMo

"H$m_g_`m : g_wnXoeZ d AmfYmonMma'

ho nwVH$ dmMm. gmo~V "H$m_gwI dmT>{dUmar AmgZ'o
g{M _m{hVr XoUmar nwpVH$m. (qH$_V -90/-).
H$m_em a{gH$mgmR>r S>m. gmR>o `mZr 1996 _Yo {bhrbo`m

"H$m_V-o_V'
m BJO
r JW m`m WmoS>m Vr CnbY (qH$_V -250/-)

{_i`mMo {R>H$mU:
gmR>o pb{ZH$, 584 Zmam`U no R >,
1 bm _Obm, H$`memio e o O mar, nw U o 30.
(doi g. 10 Vo 1, g. 6 Vo8.30, ~wYdma g`mH$mi d a{ddma ~X)

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