Everyone has given me the strangest looks and results when I notify them of my decision, of my future

goal, and it has made me so intrigued with the bias, beneficial and disadvantaged side of young marriage.
The decision to get married so young can be a diverse, overwhelming, and bias choice. However, it does
have its advantages which connect directly to why I want to be engaged before I graduate college and
soon married after to my boyfriend Zachary. I still have the ambition and the morals of my life that guide
me to this decision while also keeping me in tactic question of the choice. After doing a little more
research to back up and verify my decision, I found that its not a totally bias and detrimental choice.
Top 10 Advantages of Early Marriage
I found an article that revealed ten reasons to why young marriage is beneficial and can be a very good
choice to make.
1. Boost the energies for success
- This basically reflects how the young couple will work harder and better for their future and life together
due to their young age. Their energy level provides more time and speed for them to maintain a high
standard of dedicated labor to support their marriage and lives.
2. Enjoy many years of sex
- This topic brings a grin to all young people for as humans its natural to enjoy and want sex with the one
they love, and feel that spark. As a young couple with unlimited, private time together, a couple can focus
on each other and build their sexual fantasies and pleasures to keep that spark and chemistry boosted.
3. Pregnancy can be better conceived
- A younger woman has the energetic body cells that allow an easy, well conception, where age crisis and
health problems alter the possibilities for an older woman to conceive properly.
4. Develop mental capabilities
- One can develop the mental knowledge, intellect and insights within the careers, education, basic living
task such as household upkeep, and bring a new edge to their lives together.
5. Ready to become a parent at anytime
- When you marry young, you do not have to have the burden and worry of having a child so soon and
can take your time to focus on yourself as well as your partner. Build and strengthen the bond with each
other so you will be aware and prepared to function and succeed as parents together.
6. Religious practices and follow ups
- Religion can be the biggest debate and struggle when in any relationship for one can believe in a
specific religion that is totally different from the others, or one can believe while the other does not.
Marrying young gives you both the time to learn, create and strengthen to growth of religious values,
practices, beliefs and ambitions. Youre able to practice what you both wish to inhibit to your future
children and into your family values.
7. Greater chance to look younger longer

- Everyone wants to stay young and beautiful for as long as possible or carry it with them in their aging. If
you marry young one does not have to constantly worry if they look young and beautiful enough for their
partner as much as an older couple does. Its more likely that an older man gives off signals towards his
wife that her age has taken her beauty, causing marriage issues and insecurities within the bond.
Marrying young can sustain the youth and lock the burden of bias, insecure appearances.
8. More Cooperation of younger couples
- This can be a little bias for the younger you are the more stubborn, free minded, and independent your
personality is. A younger marriage shows the possibilities of planning, preparing, creating and fixing any
problems of misunderstanding and miscommunication together.
9. Higher chances to become a successful couple
- If one marries at a young age, they have a better chance at succeeding when marrying for they can
grow and strengthen with their partner. The couple is given the chance to understand their partner, learn
their personality, their habits, and the bond that they have and wish to build.
10. Enough time to learn practicality
- Every couple has to have a sense of practicality, as does any individual. This gives the couple the
opportunity to learn the basic living environments, necessities, tactics, and their career path. This is
similar to mental capabilities being developed, but the difference is using more than just mentality; the
use of physical, emotional and moralistic capabilities to succeed as a couple and as an individual.
These ten reasons can be seen as typical reflections that can and will throw a person off when
it comes to the idea and decision of young marriage; it just strengthens my belief that its not all negative
or ignorant. The author of this reference, shows how it can be proven that facts and faith can be
combined for it takes faith to rely on the facts. It may seem to you that any couple, no matter the age, is
capable of these with or without any faith and factual knowledge. Its true, they are capable but theyre
nowhere near as successful due to the theory of age limit-time for a life. Life is short, and when you are
older you tend to stick to your ways more and believe in logistic choices, where you rely on more facts
than faith. This next article shows how faith creates the facts.

Future Possibilities
A Case for Early Marriage: Why its A Good Idea to Get Married Young

To convince that this goal of mine is worth keeping well alone doing is not what Im here for, Im
basically now working to convince that young engagements and marriages are not ignorant, bias, and are
growing more and more beneficial and futuristic. To Justin Deeter, marriage needs to be more open,
accepting and acted upon for we are humans meant for companionship. I immediately loved his
reasoning for he was using his faith, his natural human emotions, and his own factual experiences to
reflect and reveal why marrying young is not a negative connotation.
1. Marriage is a gift
From my perspective, young marriage is a huge decision yet it is not a bad choice to want to be
completely whole and connected to one person for life.

This man was revealing how his own young engagement was criticized and looked down at based on the
age. The way many people talk about marriage, it seems like they were talking about a death
sentence. Marriage is not a death sentence or a death wish waiting to happen, but a gift of finding one
person you cant compare to anyone else and fully be satisfied with and happy with for life.
1. Marriage encourages people to grow up
Young marriages definitely encourage and bring in the perspective of growing up, being an adult,
and being who you want to be instead of a seeker for a keeper and guide in life. Many young adults still
struggle with what growing up means, but when you become responsible for a partnership and bond, you
realize that you have to mature and look at life differently. You definitely focus on bettering yourself for
you, but you also depend and share codependency with your partner.
1. Marriage protects from sexual immorality
This focuses on the bond and gifted action of sex and any sexual tempts that a couple faces, not
just alone but together. Sex is meant for bonding, connecting to another person intimately, its a trust
seeker and creator. Many young couples fight the temptations of sexual acts either together or
individually. The benefit and just the utter comfort of being married young, is having a partner and a friend
that understands what you face; you two are able to overcome and reinvent the values and morals of sex
in your lives.
1. Dont make early marriage taboo
Its the oldest, most debatable topic in life for generations past and to come whether marrying
young is taboo or not and if its plausible for it to be so. Personally, its not taboo for if one is confident in
that bond, connection and feelings, taking a chance reveals the beauty of growing and creating more to it.
I love how this man shows that his religious values play an effect in his young early marriage for that area
always judges marriage crudely. Marrying young should not be considered or looked at as taboo for
nothing in this world is definite, promised, or factually correct for the world and the people in it change and
grow daily.

Reflecting on this decision, as well as any decision that I choose, is rarely ever altered. This research
basically gave me an insight, more motivation and hope to be engaged and married to the man I love in
the near future and not 5 to 10 years from now, the approximate age choice of marriages that are
respectable in society. I however, believe any confident choice is respectable, and age should not matter
so much for if maturity, understanding, confidence, morality, love, and respect is given and shown, early
marriages and engagements are highly plausible and respectable. So how is one supposed to convince
that early marriage is respectable? You cant, its an option, an opinion that takes personal beliefs and
reflection rather than facts of right or wrong answers to persuade it as positive or negative. Im here to
reflect and analyze MY decision, not convince and give this decision to another. I wish to give another
perspective that will INFLUENCE, NOT CONVINCE a person that early engagements and marriages are
beneficial.

References and Links

www.top10for.com/advantagesofearlymarriages
www.justindeeter.com/archives/1345