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[Joshua Wilson]
December 9, 1823
Your letter of Nov 18 has been duly received. On its contents we
have meditated with deep solicitude. . . . You seem confident that
your decision is not premature nor hasty. Here we feel compelled to
demur and beg you to weigh the matter again. You express a hope
that before great length of time we shall have an opportunity of
receiving Miss B much to our satisfaction. Dear George, it will not be
any satisfaction to us to see you place a lady in a more precarious
condition than you found her and this we are sure would be the case
if marriage with this young lady should take place shortly. We must
remind you of a pledge given in your former letter and insist upon its
obligation, that you marry no woman without the prospect of
supporting her in a suitable manner. Think of the circumstances in
which she has been educated, of the circle of society in which she
has been accustomed to move, of her delicate constitution and
refined sensibility and then imagine to yourself her disappointment
upon entering into a poor dependent family occupying an indifferent
tenement without the means of affording a comfortable lodging or
decently accommodating her friends. She has been accustomed to
see you in the agreeable aspect of the scholar and a gentleman and
she has seen your father also in flattering circumstances. . . . We do
not say things to discourage you but to show you the necessity of
prudence in your plans, diligence in your studies and such application
to business as will afford a reasonable prospect of success before
you become the head of a family.
Sally Wilson
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What is the picture of the ideal wife painted in these two letters?
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