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DOI 10.1007/s10643-011-0488-3
Introduction
Autism is a pervasive developmental disorder. It affects
essential human behaviors such as the ability to communicate ideas and feelings, imagination, and the establishment
L.-L. Tsao (&) C. Schmiege
Family & Consumer Sciences, University of Idaho,
83844-3183 Moscow, ID, USA
e-mail: ltsao@uidaho.edu
C. Schmiege
e-mail: cynthias@uidaho.edu
R. Davenport
Department of Psychology, University of Idaho,
83944-3183 Moscow, ID, USA
e-mail: dave7122@vandals.uidaho.edu
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Sibling Relationships
One special characteristic of sibling relationships is that
they share biological and affective ties with parents.
Brothers and sisters can be a source of companionship,
help, and emotional support. In their interactions with each
other, siblings may acquire many social and cognitive skills
that are central to healthy social development (Furman and
Buhrmester 1985). Travis and Sigman (1998) suggested
that siblings may be especially important for children with
autism because they provide opportunities to socially
interact with other children under maximally supportive
conditions (Rivers and Stoneman 2008). Research suggests
that children with ASDs need exposure to typically
developing children to gain experience and learn about
proper social interaction and relationships (Knott
et al.1995; Tsao and Odom 2006). Typically developing
siblings have great potential to influence children with
ASDs, particularly in early development, and in the
acquisition of social competencies.
Related to the discussion of sibling relationships is the
discussion of what it is like to grow up as a sibling of a
child with an ASD. McHale et al. (1986) interviewed 30
siblings of children with autism, 30 siblings of children
with cognitive disabilities, and 30 siblings of typically
developing children between the ages of 6 and 15. The
children were asked questions about their sibling relationships, their attitudes, and their perceptions of their siblings.
For both the group with siblings of children with autism
and the group with siblings of children with cognitive
disabilities, negative sibling relationships were associated
with worries about the future of the child with a disability,
perceptions of parental favoritism toward the child with a
disability, and feelings of rejection toward the child with a
disability.
Mascha and Boucher (2006) interviewed 14 siblings of
children with autism between the ages of 11 and 18 and
identified negative reactions, such as feelings of embarrassment related to the focal childs behavior problems
(i.e., aggression or uncontrolled anger). Gold (1993) found
siblings of boys with autism scored higher on the depression measure of the Childrens Depression Inventory than
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explanations about what autism is can help siblings understand and manage their perceptions about why their sibling
with an ASD receives extra attention and support (Harris and
Glasberg 2003; Gallagher et al. 2006). Parents should do
their best to understand what their typically developing
children are saying concerning their sibling with an ASD.
Furthermore, siblings will feel more supported when parents
provide them with clear feedback that what they say has been
received and taken into account by their parents. Acknowledgment of siblings feelings will help them feel respected.
When determining how to best support siblings, it may
be beneficial to consider not only good communication in
general and education about autism, but also to consider
the demands placed upon siblings as a result of having a
brother or sister with an ASD. Do typically developing
siblings of a brother or sister with an ASD take on more
household and care responsibilities than siblings in families
without disabilities? Interestingly, Gold (1993) found that
siblings of children with autism report doing less domestic
work than siblings of typically developing children. Perhaps this is due to parental fears and guilt about potentially
burdening siblings by over-relying on them for help with
childcare and a desire to not over-burden siblings with
extra housework responsibilities.
Parental expectation about sibling responsibilities is one
aspect of the parentchild relationship, which illustrates
that the relationship between each child and parent can
influence the siblingsibling relationship. Such aspects of
the parent child-relationship should be taken into account,
and parental awareness of each individual childs needs in
a family constellation can reduce sibling rivalry and bring
the family members closer together (Cancro 2008). Bryant
and Crockenberg (1980) found that parents who are
responsive to their childrens behavior are likely to foster
prosocial behaviors between their children (Furman and
Buhrmester 1985).
Support Group
Having a child with an ASD in the family not only has the
potential to influence sibling relationships and the emotional well-being of siblings, it can also affect the emotional well-being of the parents. Research has found that
parents of children with ASDs have higher rates of
depression and stress compared to parents who have children with other disabilities and parents with typically
developing children (e.g., Hastings 2003b; Hasting et al.,
2005; Ross and Cuskelly 2006). Parents need a good support network. Having access to a support network and
receiving specific support related to their child yielded
great benefits for parents of children with autism (Guralnick
et al. 2008). Parent support groups should involve meeting
other parents of children with similar conditions. Such
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Discussion
The majority of brothers and sisters of children with autism
function well (Ferraioli and Harris 2010). Research has
shown that relationships between siblings when one child
has a disability are not identical to the relationships that
exist between typically developing siblings (Stoneman
2001). However, having a brother or sister with a disability
does not cause maladaptation or pathology in children
(Stoneman 2005; Rodrigue et al. 1993). Instead, siblings of
children with disabilities engage in a rich and complex set
of roles, such as that of teacher, caregiver, modeler, and
confidant, which may promote developmental benefits
(Stoneman and Brody 1982). Many siblings of children
with disabilities successfully achieve mutually acceptable
interactional role relationships, artfully crafted to fit their
life contexts (Stoneman 2001, 2005). Certainly, this is in
keeping with family theories that suggest that families
define situations. The use of available resources and the
important aspects of a good intervention, as identified in
this review, can assist families to not only cope with a
stressor event but also adapt and thrive with their unique
challenge.
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Conclusion
Each family member plays an important role in his or her
own family system. Siblings are uniquely situated to help
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