I Miss the Mail
by Anthony Thaxton
Am the only one who does not like
email?
Imean, I love the speed and the ease of
if, the immediacy, Bul like so many things
that come so easily, we just lose something
in the mix, Some things are worth the lime
it takes to do them. It makes them matter,
Tjust miss people using "snail mail.”
Until | was in the fifth grade, we lived on
the coast in Lakeshore, Mi
Appi. Two
really fond memories include waiting on
the Book Mobile to come to Kent and Sue's
parking lot, and going to get the mail at the
liny Post Office there, Both things were like
a little treasure hunt;
you never knew
what you'd find.
[don't know if
the Book-Mobile
sill runs, but
Ido know
thal lille:
Post Office
across (he
street was
washed away
with Katrina,
And a whole
lot of memories
washed away with il
After fifth grade, we moved back to
Caesar, Mississippi near Carriere. ‘There,
we received our mail via the rural route.
(lalking of the ease of modern communica-
tions, “e-mail” is even easier to say than
rural’). can remember fighting with my
brother and sister to see who would reach
the tattered mailbox first. Likely, it would
just be bills, but occasionally there was
something more.
Occasionally there might be a postcard
or something from an aunt. ‘There might be
a birthday card with a "little something”
inside. Or there might be the jackpot: a
long, thought-out,honest-to-goodness letter. Something to
hold on to. Something to keep.
When | left for the Math and Science
school, [remember the first letter my
mother sent. The last line said, "I missed
you as soon as I walked through the
hous:
cried when | read those words in
Columbus. And | still have that letter.
also cherish the words I have from
grandparents who are now all gone. Their
letters, written by their own hand, help
connect me to the past; they keep it alive.
The letters are tangible memories.
When I was engaged, I sent illustrated
love letters to Amy, and she has collected
them into two full albums. We share them
with friends we meet, and they always
declare something along, the lines of, "Amy,
what a treasure!" And not one of them has
ever said, “Don'l you wish he would've seat
you e-mails instead?!”
Okay. F-mail is easy. You don’t have to
use capital letters. Or grammar. Or even
punclualion. T's fast. You ean send il lo
150 people with one click. You can type it.
You can forward stupid jokes instantly or
reply just the same. You don't have to think
wie.
Honestly, you don't even have to think
much abou! ital all. And with e-mail,
there's nothing even to throw away.
But there's ubso nuthin to keep.
Isure do miss the mail. ie)