Roman Orgy v Greek
Symposium
If you're given the choice between going to an orgy or
a symposium, be careful you don't make the wrong
choice. The sedate-sounding ‘symposium of the
Ancient Greeks frequently descended into
debauchery, and even riot. Greek writers devoted
much time to warning about the dangers of
symposia, and offering advice to hosts on how to
prevent things getting out of hand.
Roman orgies, on the other hand, were comparatively
sedate affairs. In imperial Rome, all rich people were
expected to hold frequent, extravagant parties - the
more extravagant, the greater your status. Hundreds
of strangers, of all classes, would be invited at
random; but as ever, attractive, fashionably-dressed
people would be the most welcome guests. Food and
drink would be generously supplied, as would
entertainment from dancers, musicians, and
prostitutes of both sexes. But Roman orgies were
certainly not comparable with modern wife-
swapping parties. There was sex - but not of the sort
you'd find if you typed ‘orgy scene’ into a search
engine. There was no ‘orgy sex’ at orgies. In all the
surviving literature, art, and graffiti concerning
orgies, there are only one or two references to what
we think of as orgy sex - and even there, it's clear that
such activities are not recommended or even
approved of. The participants are depicted as old and
ugly.