YOUR THINKING STYLE

Ten Forehead Shapes and Lines

Forehead: Round
Psychological Meaning:

Psychological Meaning:

People person, has many long term

friendships, good in relationships

Career driven, works long hours at

the office, focused

On theJob:

On theJob:

"Let me plan the company picnic."

"I'd love to take this new client out
for dinner and then show them the
town." "We should check on
(client) Jane today and see how she
is doing."

"Sorry, sweetie, I can't talk on the

phone right now. I'm preparing the
draft for . . . I'll phone you at mid
night on my break."
On a Date:

"I don't have time for a personal

life. Can't see you."

On a Date:

"Let's double date tonight." "I want

to have dinner with the whole
family - yes, all my 10 brothers."

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Forehead: Widow's Peak

Forehead: Uneven Hairline

Psychological Meaning:

Likes relaxed life style, dresses

casually often in blue jeans and
sweats, creative, doesn't like to be
told what to do

Childhood may have been chaotic

(many siblings) or non-nurturing

On theJob:

On theJob:

"Give me the specs (facts), and I'll

put all the art work together for you
by tomorrow morning."

"I have trouble with my boss when

she reminds me of my dominant,
critical mother."

On a Date:

On a Date:

"Let's explore together what we

want to do for our future." "Let's go
to the theater tonight."

"Help me feel secure and let me

know I'm special to you."

Psychological Meaning:

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Forehead: 1 Vertical Line
(above the nose)

Forehead: 2 Vertical Lines

(above the nose)

Psychological Meaning:

Goes in a different direction than

family of origin (geographically,
financially, emotionally and/or
spiritually)

Psychological Meaning:

Good concentration, focus, worry

or compulsive witl1 details

On the Job:

On thejob:

"I pioneered this invention 1 0 years

before anyone else. I like to work
independently."

"I've been doing this Project for five

hours and forgot to eat today."

On a Date:

"Did I turn off the stove before we

left on vacation? Let me check it (for
the fourth time.)"

On a Date:

"Can you be independent also? (or

at least admire me for being so)?"

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Forehead: Wisp Corners

(tin wisps ot hair in the outer
corners of the corners/forehead)

Forehead: ) Vertical Lines

(across wide area above ees)

Psychological Meaning:

Their mother had a significant im

pact in his life (positive or negative)

Psychological Meaning:

Wealth and good fortune, financial

success, logical thinker

On theJob:

"I love my female boss. I learn so

much from her. She's my mentor."

On theJob:

"Where should I put my new invest

ments?"

or

"My boss is critical and demanding,

and I have a hard time setting good
boundaries with her. This happened
with my Mom and I just freeze
around my boss."

On a Date:

"Show me that you have confi

dence, and I'll be attracted to you."
"I'll pay for that."

On the Date:

"If you wan to marry me, you'd bet

ter love my mom. She comes over
often, and we talk on the phone all
the time."

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Forehead: Low (short)

(related to distance trom ees)

Forehead: High

(related to distance tram ees)

Psychological Meaning:

Impulsive, street smart, trusts his

"gut" instincts with people

Psychological Meaning:

Clear thinker, planner, strategist,

and thinks in big terms

On theJob:

"Ijust metjerry and I liked him, so

I loaned him my car keys to drive to
Mexico. He took the company car
and sold it in Mexico. Sorry." "As a
psychologist I don't always listen to
the words my client is saying. I feel
it in my gut if he is lying."

On theJob:

"The 15 drafts of the Medicare

funding are in committee." "I'm
concerned with global warming."
"What do you think?"
On a Date:

On a Date:

"I need a partner I can talk to

about my ideas and plans."

"Let's go gambling." "I like it when

you drive fast."

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