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Merciful Father)
Summary of Discussion at St Paraskevis Fellowship
Presenter: Vasilios Manavas
object which can perish and decay. Thus his advice is to not become solely
focused or obsessed with material things, because in the final analysis we
cannot take them with us after death. For these things merely exist to
sustain our earthly survival, just like the example of food which St. Paul
uses. In effect material things like food does not give sound purpose or
meaning to our lives, it is just there to be consumed, nothing more or less.
Therefore St. Paul points out that there are two paths which could be
taken, the first is to remain solely focused on material things, which will
result in a person being controlled by material possessions, rather than
having control over material possessions. Hence his key assertion is that a
person needs to practice self-control and discipline, otherwise they will be
overtaken by becoming a slave to material possessions and addictions.
This he equates to the effects of sin and pathoi (negative passions), since
it affects a person in the same manner. For it temporarily satisfies a
persons initial urges or desires, but continuously needs to be serviced,
while the person begins to obsess in how they can secure their next fix
in spite of the cost to themselves or others around them, (IE. Financially,
health-wise etc.).
Thus, a person becomes enslaved by their pathos or sin, and cease
functioning as their natural self. Instead, their whole life revolves around
their pathos/sin. That in turn makes their pathos/sin a compulsion and
chore rather than something of enjoyment, since its derived satisfaction is
gradually eroded. Thus the person has to take further actions which are
more extreme in order to recapture something of that edge or
satisfaction which they once felt because their pathos is now a habit and a
compulsion. In effect you cease enjoying life to its fullest potential!
The example St. Paul draws upon to illustrate his point further, is that of
sexual immorality (that is any sexual encounter outside of marriage),
which he asserts is a dangerous precedent that violates a persons bodily
integrity, as well as their union with God. Drawing upon Scriptural and
philosophical thought, St. Paul highlights that the sexual union is not
purely a physical one, but constitutes an emotional and spiritual
expression, (present-day science is currently verifying the emotional
element). This experience becomes part of a persons memory and
subconscious and will always remain with them irrespective of any
possible forgetfulness, but form a barrier to future relationships, (possibly
making one indifferent, apathetic, unreceptive, jaded or demanding of
others who come into ones life). In effect one leaves something of
themselves behind, they lose something of their identity and well-being.2
2 An area of interest which science has been examining for quite some time, is the link
between the psychiatric well-being of people who have been exposed to multiple sexual
encounters, duly noting the effects on a persons relationships, citing a higher proportion
of depression and break-ups. Naturally the mass-media promoting promiscuous
behaviour has not assisted relational or sexual stability or satisfaction, let alone
psychological well-being. Affecting also those who are not as active, who become
excessively depressed due to media hype, since they believe they are suppose to be
Such an assertion was not only an affront to a mans own father, but to his
entire household and tribe, which included workers, slaves or dependents
as well as blood kin. In effect such a proclamation is to say to other
household members that they are dead, and that they are no longer a
personal concern or consideration, and that their future survival is entirely
their own responsibility. This in effect is what the prodigal son announces
by his demand, he does not await for his fathers passing, he does not
discuss the matter with others, and he automatically assumes that he has
entitlement, when in actual fact his father is the one who has the
authority to determine what is his.5
From a spiritual perspective this could easily be seen as the demands that
we place upon God and those around us, when we abuse our own free-will
to purse selfish goals without careful thought or consideration, particularly
to the outcomes of our actions. In the prodigals case, it is breaking the
households communion of unity and survival. Yet the prodigal secures
what he demanded and goes forth into a foreign land where he revels and
parties to excess, with no consideration for the future, or his own real wellbeing. Naturally one could assume that he would have been surrounded
by so-called friends who leeched off his squandered wealth.
For Orthodox Christians this not only refers to worldly realities of everyday
life, but is representative of the pursuits of sins and pathoi to satisfy
detrimental urges and desires, (as discussed in the epistle reading). The
image of going into a foreign land is symbolic of entering Hades, the
playground of the Devil, the excessive living of the prodigal as the feeding
of sins and pathoi. The possible so-called friends made along the way as
the demons who will encourage the prodigal to move towards his own
destruction.
Of course as the parable continues the inevitable happens, this foreign
land shows its true colours, whereby hard times come and famine grips
the land. The seeds of destruction which the prodigal has sown now bear
fruit. He is starving and alone since there is no one who is there to help
him, and he has made no provision for his future survival since he
squandered what he had taken as his inheritance. Yet the only solution to
his personal crisis is in effect to sell himself as a virtual slave who tends
pigs which had more to eat than he had.
The message is quite blunt; the wages of sin is death, torment, affliction
and misery. The lack of spiritual vigilance has left the prodigal to the
machinations of the Devils whims which have now enslaved him, the
initial pleasures and benefits that were bestowed have been consumed
and the price has to be paid. Again echoing St. Pauls exhortation towards
self-control over all things, so that one may be the master of themselves,
and not addicts serving their addictions which have taken over their lives.
5 This point echoes the thought put forward by the days epistle reading,
whereby St Paul cites that many things may be lawful to do, but it may not be
ethical or beneficial.
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The prodigal now has become the slave and the afflicted one who is
willing to stoop to even lower depths, and is hoping that the pigs will show
mercy by sharing their food with him!
The symbolism of the pig is rather telling as the Blessed Theophylact of
Ohrid asserts. He points out that a pig is not capable of looking upwards to
the skies, but its vision can only see things that are directly in front of it or
below it. Yet it normally looks downwards at the ground, and is an animal
whose natural habitat, and habitat of choice, is to live in muck and mud,
while it greedily eats its food which by nature it does not share. What
shocks it out of its environmental understanding, is when a farmer places
it upside down on its back to be sent off to market, thus silencing a pig
because it has become enchanted by the wonders of the sky which it has
never seen in its entire life!
What the blessed Elder seeks to infer from this, is that the prodigal had his
eyes focused solely on worldly things and a false reality, thus he did not
realise the mess in which he was living in (his own living pigsty). It is only
when the harshness of his environmental reality, famine and slavery, is
what wakes him up. This forces him to look upwards from the ground at
which he stared at, that is the worldly material things, which neither show
mercy nor give comfort, and so he has to reassess what is most important
to him.
In like fashion, we often get tangled up in such concerns within our own
lives too, for we often forget what are the things most important to us like
family, friends, health, inner peace, mental stability and so forth. These
are things on which we can never put a price on, and yet are essential to
our own well-being. However we are naturally too preoccupied with the
muck of things around us to realise these truths which should be selfevident, but our own distractions prevent us from giving them heed.
So where does that bring the prodigal? Repentance! Through critical selfexamination he understands his mistake and understands firstly that his
father is a just and righteous man who always ensured his welfare, and
was willing to sacrifice his own interest for his benefit, such as giving him
the inheritance due to him. Secondly he also understands his own error,
and that something needs to be done to correct his own failing.
This second point is particularly important because it goes to the heart of
what repentance6 means, which is to not despair, but recognise a failing
and do something about it, to literally change mindset by removing ones
previous views and replace them with a new and corrected set of values.
To dwell on guilt and despair is counterproductive and prevents
repentance to take its natural course, which is part of a persons healing
6 The word repentance is Latin in origin and possesses the same meaning as the
Greek word metanoia, which in its most basic and literal meaning is to take ones
head off and replace it with a new one.
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well-being of his brother, nor ask where he has been, nor what suffering
he has undergone, nor inquire as to what prompted his return, which is
the most important question of all. Thus there is no concern for his
brothers welfare, but grumbles about his brothers return and even denies
that the prodigal is his brother, but calls him Your son when speaking to
his father. Hence the righteous brother fails to recognise the gift of
genuine repentance and furthermore he does not even encourage this
gift.
The other key failing of this righteous brother is that he does not
recognise the reason for why he remained steadfast by his fathers side,
or why this choice in not breaking the household communion was correct.
Therefore he does not understand his true intentions or reasons, maybe
those Church Fathers speculation might be correct? In any case our
speculations will remain as such since the parable indicates that this
brother was not clear himself about his true intentions, one can only infer
from the text.
Nevertheless he does not realise that everything he has, actually belongs
to the father, who is head of the household where everything is shared in
the unity of one communion, and is not his own personal effects. Yet the
father assures him that his reward is greater because he was not
subjected to the tyranny of suffering and slavery, nor that he had not
broken communion with the household, and that whatever belongs to the
father is shared with him and can be made use of, all he has to do is ask!
Interestingly this brother who grumbles later on about not even receiving
a goat to feast on with his friends, had never asked his father to fulfill
such a request? So how can a person fulfil a request when it has not even
been made?
Thus we see this brother splitting hairs over nothing. Will not the father
look more favourably upon the dutiful son? Whereas the prodigal was
willing to sacrifice his own self interest for forgiveness and to be received
again by willingly subjecting himself to become a hired servant and to not
make any demands. Hence if the father rejoices over this willing return
and wake-up call that the prodigal has had, it is by virtue of the prodigals
realisation of the importance of selfless love and mercy which he knows
his father has lavished upon him, his brother and all the household to
ensure everyones welfare. The point is missed by the righteous brother
even though he had been putting it into practice. (Again he does not know
the reason for why he stayed!)
This naturally represents the paths of spiritual life which people can either
fall into, those who go astray, and those who remain steadfast. Both ways
present their own dangers, for those who go astray the results are quite
clear to see, but those who remain could easily fall into indifference, pride
or apathy to their neighbours plight despite going through the motions of
spiritual life, all because they lose sight of its purpose.
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This is what occurs when Christ relates the story of the Tax-collector and
the Pharisee (Lk. 18:10-14), which again represent these two approaches.
The Pharisee may have done things all in accordance to the Mosaic Law,
but his actions and his intentions were insincere and merely gestures and
not expressions of faith. Whereas the tax-collector who was considered as
a parasite of his society, came with faith and remorse to seek forgiveness
for his evil actions, and through prayer sought to begin the process of
correcting those evil deeds. Instead of helping the man, the Pharisee
writes him off completely and condemns him, rather than assist him, or
enquire about his circumstances. Hence the parable of the Prodigal
reflects this relationship between the two brothers and their approaches
to spiritual life.
The Father
Finally, the key character who remains rather discrete in the parable and
yet is the foundation on which it is built on. What can be said for a longsuffering father who puts up with the excesses of two sons, one who is
wayward and the other who is contentious? Yet he remains the paragon
example of wisdom, mercy and selfless love, because he knows not to
force his wayward self-willed and stubborn son to remain, but must let him
be free to enter into a journey of self-discovery in spite of the perilous
dangers. On the other hand, he has the other son who automatically
assumes that what the father possesses is his, and with his brother out of
the picture will solely go to him. Hence the father must remain as an
example to both his sons so that they can learn what is true love, fairness,
compassion and righteousness. Furthermore he is not one who is
constrained by human conventions or perceptions of what is right or just,
but goes beyond them.
Take for example of how the father breaks with Middle Eastern custom by
willingly run towards his prodigal son and embracing him. Culturally
speaking the act of running for a mature man, especially towards a
wayward son is even today perceived as something undignified. The
cultural context is that for such a son seeking reconciliation he must
approach his father and fall to his knees, while the father maintains a
certain silent detachment and coolness to his sons request. Culturally
speaking, the father will forgive his son, but through his detached and
military-like manner wishes to impress upon his sons thoughts that one
must recognise their own failings and must avoid at all costs repeating
them, hence he must not do it again. Whereas in the parable we see the
fathers merciful condescension towards his son by his running and
embrace, while not subjecting the prodigal to this formalised convention
of forgiveness.
As for the other son he reiterates the point that the prodigal did not
understand initially, which was that all things belong to him, and is their
benefactor, provider and protector, and that they are dependent on him,
but he shares openly with them and does not begrudge them anything. All
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they need to do is to ask in sincerity and to try and mimic his example.
Thus he is the source of all good things and is the True Teacher of how one
should live, because by following his example all that is his will be theirs
also, thus their reward is great.
In absolute terms who is ultimately this father?
Christ in this parable uses the father figure to denote the wisdom of a true
believer, but He ultimately is making reference to God and His longsuffering, patient and pedagogical love for all of humanity, by calling us to
return back to the divine household from which we came. While those who
dwell within the household to not begrudge those who return, but to assist
the Father in His task and to remain vigilant and not resentful. This often
represents the faithful within the Church who throughout the ages have
endured immense hardships on account of non-believers who persecuted
them, or those who left the Church.
Yet it is also the message to those within the Church who may follow the
examples of either the prodigal son or the supposed righteous son. The
Fathers example is the foundation and principle by which they should live
their lives and for perceiving or discerning things around them. The
conclusion is simple, vigilance and love in adhering to the ways of the
Lord, whose standard sets the benchmark by which we live and how
society should be, because to be just a good person is not enough, the call
is for something greater, to aspire to be blameless divine-like beings
despite falling short of that aim.
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