Johnny Appleseeds of Desire

by Lawrence Lanoff

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Johnny Appleseeds of Desire

Hey, its Lawrence again, and in this section were going to talk about
planting Johnny Appleseeds of Desire. The idea here is to get her turned
on and get your fantasies met while shes thinking that its her idea. You
do this by planting Johnny Appleseeds. So were going to talk about this
in depth in this section.
There are all kinds of things that were going to use to plant these seeds,
but weve spoken about several of these techniques already. You know
about Lust Intensifiers, you know about basic language/how to talk to her
animal, how to suggest, direct. You have an idea of Pavlovs Pussy. You
understand the rewards system. So planting seeds of desire for fantasies
that you want to have really has to do with exposure to ideas.

Exposure To Ideas
Exposure to ideas is essential, and while exposing these ideas you can
practice anchoring an idea or a thought. This again, you can relate back to
the Pavlovs Pussy segment just to really understand the anchoring piece.
But the essential thing is because emotions are associative, if you can start
planting seeds and associate them with yourself, then being together and
dropping those little seeds or plants or triggers, will elicit an emotion.
Now heres the thing you need to know. This is really important because
what a lot of guys specifically dont know is that women often start affairs
because theyve been treated like Madonnas and theyve been treated like
buddies. And there is a point where she comes to this horrible realization
that she just doesnt want to have sex with you. And thats the place you
want to avoid: the friend zone/no zone/definitely no pussy zone. And I
meet men in this place all the time.
I also meet women in this place because they find themselves in this box
of comfort, and its not that their relationships are necessarily bad, its just
that the passion is gone, the seeds of excitement, the things that are
unusual and interesting and stimulating are not there.

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And thats what happens when we treat our partner like shes a Madonna.
This is very common when guys are getting into situations where they
have kids and begin thinking, Oh this is the mother of my child so I cant
you know, have anal sex with her.
In response, women will become bored and start to look around. Yes, they
may feel guilty about having an affair, but you know the bottom line is it
creates excitement and energy. So by your sharing fantasies and ideas
together, and by your planting seeds of desire for things that youre into
and consequently introduce her to, theres this very powerful bond and
connection and sharing that can happen. Of course, you bond with
oxytocin by sharing personal and private thoughts and moments; also
powerful, fantasies build trust and they bring people together. Thats
whats so amazing about planting these seeds of desire.
So when you have your beautiful woman and she really has unlimited
choice with men, having these seeds that stimulate her are very important.
And I happen to love making a woman feel things in her body. This to me
is super exciting. So what I like to do is engage her mind, by trying things
out; I find that I can stimulate this energy of excitement and joy and
enthusiasm. And this, of course, builds connection and depth.
And if you do these things right, you will be the best lover shes ever had
because most men are having sex like 15-year-old boys: still watching
porn or humping Playboy Magazine centerfolds. Theres not a lot of care
or understanding that go into their sexual fulfillment, but once you begin
to understand these techniques you will realize that you have sexual
leverage and growing confidence in your relationship; she will always
come back for more as a result. Shell feel herself blossom with you, and
in blossoming good things happen.
So, busting the buddy frame, the Madonna frame, is as simple as planting
these seeds. Now, one thing thats fun to do is to go online together, and
this is what I call the Porn Destroyer Technique. The Porn Destroyer
Technique is basically getting rid of the shame that we feel around porn.
What I love to do is go to a website you know you can find anything you
can imagine: YouPorn is a great one, xHampster. You can go on and on
and on and just search together and find things that look interesting.

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Now whats really cool is you could actually have some favorite porn
clips that you are in to that you can pull up and say, Oh, with interest in
your voice. You know, in a way, its kind of fun because you plant the
idea by just showing the idea. So if you really like, lets say anal sex or
you have a foot fetish or maybe you want to be dominated, you can bring
up porn that exists already and show that and share it and talk about it. The
bottom line is, no matter how she feels to begin with, once shes been
exposed to the idea, the seed has been planted.
So if, for example, youre with a partner who does not particularly like to
have her feet and toes worshipped, you know, show her a video, talk about
it, and if you find the right video where the girl whos having her feet
worshipped is into it then youve just planted the seed. Whatever the
specific flavor is that youre looking to experience with your partner, show
them an example of that and you have just planted the seed.
If she flat out rejects the idea or pushes back, obviously just drop it. But
what I've noticed is that I can plant these little seeds and shell eventually
come along for the ride because something that is at first disgusting or a
turn-off, can arouse enough negative energy that, once channeled, the
activity can turn into positive energy and become a turn-on.
This is part of what weve been talking about in this entire program. That
energy is energy. Sexual energy is energy whether its Im disgusted, Im
appalled, Im turned on, Im scared, Im in an erotic bliss state. The
bottom line is that you and your partner are feeling things in your bodies
and sex happens in the body. So if youre feeling things and if shes
feeling things you guys are doing great. You are creating emotional
intensity, and it allows you to share these inner, typically private worlds
with one another, worlds you wouldnt normally share. Thats what makes
this so frickin awesome.
I love this technique because what youre doing by planting seeds is
youre overcoming her moral codes and her shame and her guilt regarding
her body. By speaking about these things, by touching them, by planting
little ideas, by discussing sexual things with her, you begin to recreate or
decontextualize or even anchor sexual energy to you and to the idea of
widening your sexual activities.
This makes it really, really powerful and incredible because its like she
has something, you know theres something, like a little tingle inside of

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her thats already beginning. And if you, for example, want to have a
threesome, find some lesbian threesomes, some lesbian porn, find things
where theres a lot of turn-on but not a lot of shame or blame or
awkwardness. You want scenarios where you can see that those
participating are really enjoying and engaged in the idea.
Now heres the fun part. If you plant the seed, then poke the idea every
once in a while, youll see and feel progress. I like to poke the idea during
foreplay or during sex or even after sex, post orgasmic. I might just
nurture that little seed, just tweak it a little bit. Think of it as putting water
on the seed.
So lets kind of break this down.
Step 1: Find what you want, what youre into.
Step 2: Plant the seed. Talk about it a little bit. Throw it out there
into fertile ground.
Step 3: Look at some porn together. Have her show you things that
turn her on as well. Start a conversation and think of porn as a wall
of paint chips at the hardware store. Figure out what color to paint
your house by looking at chips and settling on some samples.
Bring them home and test them, talk about them, try them on.
Porn is like a bouquet of colorful paint chips; try on different flavors and
have discussions about them. Its important to demythologize and
unscary porn for her. There are so many cultural mythologies about porn
out there, when really its just such a great tool for communication and for
coming to the realization that whatever youre into, somebodies already
doing it.
So have conversation, have communication. Be present with her regarding
how shes feeling about porn because if you show her something and
theres a little bit of disgust, no big deal. Youve planted the seed.
Its funny how disgust can turn around into something shes actually
curious about and into. Understand that planting seeds is a process. You
water seeds by pinging them every once in a while. Then in a sexual
situation make sure you bring up the topic again. Circle around it, very
gently. Youre just sprinkling water, not opening up a fire hose on it.

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Youre just tweaking the idea. You may have to plan on a longer planting
cycle to get her comfortable with the idea of whatever it is you want to try;
it could be weeks or even months.
Now with all of these techniques, remember to come back to your body. If
you show her a porn scene that you love and suddenly she stops breathing,
you want to remind her to breathe. You want to comfort her, you want to
let her know that she is secure in the universe with you. That she is safe,
that the world is safe with you in it, and that you guys are safe together.
That everything is cool no matter what youre into, no matter what youre
looking at, no matter what youre discussing, that you really want to give
her the sense, and this should be true, that you want to be with her. That
you want to share these things with her specifically because you guys have
chemistry, because you want to know her more, you want to go deeper,
you want to get to know your lover.
And you also need to understand that by having these discussions, youre
breaking her out of the Madonna/Buddy frame, which is the ultimate goal
because that limited framework sucks for everybody.
So what I want you to do is plant seeds. Remember: anything that you
want is possible. My experience shows that women are sexual badasses
and they are open to anything if you present it correctly and you give the
seeds time to bear fruit. If you start pushing an agenda, right in that
moment, or your technique is shitty, then theyre going to push back. But
if you gently plant seeds, it will even come to the point where she feels the
blooming garden was her idea all along. And then the idea itself stimulates
emotion for her, and emotion is a beautiful thing. It can create
overwhelming, irresistible passion in the relationship. And then you can
feel like you can be your true selves together, which is what she wants.
And so this is what I want you to play with, and know that it creates more
safety, more peace, more connection, more depth. Let her know, at every
turn, that this increases your desire and enhances her beauty and your
appreciation and adoration of her. Tell her that you want to see her go
deeper. That you want to see her surrender and give in to sexual
experiences, to really unleash her sexual energy and unleash her power
and live full throttle at her full potential. Thanks for listening. See you in
the next segment.