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This information was prepared to help patients “I went out dancing and had a great time with
and their families cope with chronic illness. It my friends. I came home and went to bed. The
contains quotes from adult Clinical Center next morning I literally could not get out of bed.
patients who face a variety of medical prob- I was taken immediately to the hospital. No
lems. Some of their reactions may echo your one knew what I had. I was losing weight, and
own feelings; others may not. Regardless of my temperature was going up. The doctors
the differences, however, these comments may performed exploratory surgery to find out what
assist you, and those who care about you, to was wrong.
respond to your concerns.
“Months later, we discovered that I had this
All the patients contributing to this work over- chronic illness. I was extremely ill and my
came great challenges, which, at times, prognosis at that time didn't look very good. It
seemed insurmountable. Together with their was devastating. I just didn't know what was
families and caregivers, these patients learned happening to my body. I was so sick and I did-
to go on with their lives. n't care about anything but surviving. It
attacked my body so quickly. I kept thinking I'd
You can, too.
wake up tomorrow and this would all be gone.”
Part 1: Reactions to illness
“I was devastated. I went into shock. I grieved.
Reactions to learning of one's chronic illness
I thought about all the things I couldn't do.
are varied, but they are always powerful.
Perhaps I was frightened even more because I
Emotions may range from shock to relief, and
was familiar with the disease. Most people,
everything in between. Even when symptoms
when they are told they have this disease,
have been present for a long time, the diagno-
have no idea of the progression. But my father
sis can be upsetting.
had had it, and I knew what a crippling disease
Feeling a spectrum of emotions it really was. I knew what to expect and it really
While shock may be the first reaction to learn- rocked me. I thought, 'If I can't be of use any-
ing your diagnosis, denial is also common, as more, what's the point of living?’ ”
are anger and grief over the loss of health.
Denial
Some people become unconcerned about what
Refusing to accept the diagnosis right away
goes on around them. Still others may sleep,
may give you a chance to regroup. You may
cry, or withdraw to themselves. These reac-
need the time to gather enough strength to
tions are normal.
confront what you are facing.
“I just didn't want to accept the fact that I was-
n't going to get back to the way I was. I have a