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Secret #2 / Day Two: Why Do You Want Them In Your Life? ........................................................17
Secret #11 / Day Eleven: Be Ready And Look for the Signs..............................................................69
Secret #12 / Day Twelve: Where Do You Meet the Person of Your Dreams? ..................................72
Secret #17 / Day Seventeen: Do You Get Cable With Those? Why Men Stare at Breasts!.............97
Secret #18 / Day Eighteen: Bionic Vision! Why Women Don’t Look At Men.................................103
Secret #19 / Day Nineteen: What Do Men and Women Really Want?............................................108
My parents John and Anita thank you for bringing me into this world and everything you taught me.
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My beautiful wife Shanta (formally known as Jenny) you are my inspiration and I am so proud of you.
You are my other half and I could not have done this without you. To my beautiful little angels
Kayleen & Mayleena for being my motivation and for reminding me daily on how to be a RockStar
and have fun in life!
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Ann McIndoo for helping me make this book a reality! For helping me get this book out of my head
and onto paper. You are the #1 Authors Coach!
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Guru Singh & Guruperkarma “The Guru To the Stars!” Thank you for being a great teacher, mentor,
and friend. Without you both, this book would not be the same. I cannot thank you enough. Love you
guys!
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Tony and Sage Robbins Thank you for everything you have done in my life and all the fun times this
past year. Tony I owe you so much and you will always be my gentle giant ;-).
Stan Yan for all the amazing cartoons for my books and dealing with my crazy ideas. You really made
them come to life! You are amazing!
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To my Platinum Family we have been on so many amazing adventures together and together have
grown by leaps and bounds. I love you all so much and I’m grateful for all our time together. You are
all an inspiration. Thank you…
Maggie Wei for first telling me about Ann and her author coaching while we were in Monaco.
Emile Allen for being one of my best friends and brother in life, also for giving me Ann’s Number
while we were waiting for our flight to Fiji for the first time.
Matt Brauning for being one of my best friends and lifting me up when I needed it. You are an
inspiration & my brother! Congrats on your new book “Total Freedom from addictions” Now
available on Amazon.com! How do you like the plug?
Frank Hague for being an amazing friend in my life. You are now promoted from RockStar in Reserve
to official RockStar! (jk). Also thanks for flying all the way from China to see me at my first RockStar
FunShop.
Mike Wang, wow! We had so many amazing times and thanks for sticking with me even when I wore
my fire truck onesie to the Playboy mansion. You are one of my best friends and brothers.
Lori Taylor & Fiancé Steve, Jesse Macpherson, Michelle Ester, Jackie, Christian, Michelle Madison,
Jeffrey Tonnesen, Jeff Roberti, Howard Peterson, Erwin & Diana Mendoza, Jerry & Khelly Agee,
Rod Khleif, Paul, Analia, Bob, Darren, Darrick Cook, Rob & Kim Cambell, Melanie, Dre,
Kathy Farmer, Fernando & Martha Fernandez, Suzuyo Fox, Gudrun Bergmann, Graeme Swatton,
Shirley & Mark Hadley, Kelly Haney, Steve Harrington, Felicity Lerouge, Larelle May, Cheryl Parker,
Jean Muller, Lynn Ventura, Graham Iles, Brandi Spracklin, Juan & Paula Sanchez, antoine catteau,
Heather Anton, Ben Tristem, Hiro, Kimber Tabak, Glenn & Dr Enid Taylor, Amber Dotts,
Gale Ricketts Kevin Lilburn, Gary, Tom Beal, John, Lance Trester, Edwin, Jan, Sara & Phillip,
Danielle Brown, Kerri O’Connor, Kathy Scudamore, Joy, Kim, Bjoern Bleiber, Mary Gloriefield ,
Sanya, Takako, Gordon, & all the past and current Platinum Partners. Sorry if I missed anyone.
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All the Namale Family & Staff in Fiji you guys are all amazing and thank you so much for all of the
amazing massages,
And to all of you that I had the opportunity to hang with in Fiji or on other trips and I now call
friends: Mike Melio you are an awesome friend, Mathew Preece you still gotta style my hair,
Laura Harring, Mark Burnett, Roma Downey, Andy & Afshan Lakha, Jack & Susie Porter, Peter,
Sam & Lynn Georges, Mike & Sukey Novogratz, Mariel Hemingway, Dr. Donnie & Jackie Epstein,
Robert Jerez, Mark & Leah Lamm, Marni Lewis, Debra Jackman, Amber Mac, Sage’s Parents & brother
Scott Humphrew, Josh Jenkins-Robbins for laughing at all my jokes and a great time in Fiji.
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To my dear family for always being there for me. Thank you…
Ali & Kristine Keyhgobadi. Ali you are my cousin and little brother you are an inspiration, Abe in
memory of, love you and miss you. Nancy, Tina, Aaron, Michael, David, John, Jamal, Shiva, my
uncles, aunts, grandparents, Magget, Kazem, Ahad, Hamid, Ebby you are missed, Willeen, Dee,
Shanta’s family Debbie, Mike, Chris, Steven, Bob & Elanor. Pets Nino, Sparky, Hopper, Tiger and
Tigger, Suzie you are all missed, current pets Asia and Simba.
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Margaret Irving “chili pepper” for all the amazing times and helping me with my ideas and RockStar
book. You are a special lady.
Bay Area Powerteam for inviting me to do the first RockStar FunShop. Mike Ma, Mei Ling, Jeremy
Gordon. You guys are awesome!
Jordan Adler you have always been there for us and you are my hero, my first RockStar mentor, and
brother in life. And congrats on your new book “Beach Money”.
Randy Gonzales for giving me the opportunity to host my first conference call and getting me to step
up. We came a long way from those CompUSA training rooms.
Jason Uhrin for being a great friend and getting me to step up my game and speak at my fist event
back in the day.
Jessica Gregory & Michael Humphrey you guys are have always been such good friends to us, and I
know you will do great things, love you both
Ashley Ralph from the La Casa Del Camino Hotel in Laguna Beach. Thank you for the great deal on
our room so I could get this book done with the beautiful roof top view of the ocean. Also thanks to
Santina, the other Ashley, and the entire staff.
Doug Bently, Melissa Zaphel, , Paul, Spencer, & Evan Burton, Meg Kelly Smith, John and Penny
Fonzi, Mike Oskapinski, Zack Robbinson, Dquan, Arturo Mancia jr., Ruben Cabrales, Kevin Toy,
Tyson Smith, Cindy Broome, Diana Estrada, Angelica Arrospide for being one of the first women I
interviewed for the first book, Nik D’Angelo for being an awesome dude, Mike Rosenbaum, Jomil, Scott
& Molly Aguilar, Sean, Adrianne & Lyndi Eimerl, Shawn Herrick, Brooke Bosewell, and Jeremy &
Adrian Rose, Alaina Garcia, Dawn Purtee & your two amazing boys, Steve & Erica Becker, Jasmine
Esguerra & your beautiful daughters, Joe Rubin, Henry Vega, Bobby Ameen, Jillian Vann, Alex Farr,
& Micah VanDover.
(Sorry if I missed anyone or misspelled your name, but I want to thank you all that have been my
friend past and current. Thank you and love you all.)
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To my many teachers, mentors, and friends in my life. You have all been an inspiration to me. Thank
you…
Guru Singh again and again, Tony Robbins, Mark Victor Hansen, Jeff Combs, Tom Hopkins, Wayne
Dyer, Deepak Chopra, Jim Rohn, Jerry Clark, Robert Kiyosaki, Dr Robert Young, Joseph Mclinden III,
Joe Williams, Jack Canfield, Allen and Barbara Peas, Donny Deutch, Yogi Bujin, Dali Lama, Buddha,
David Deida, Nelson Mandela, John C. Maxell, Dale Carnegie, Al Thomas, Donald Trump, Albert
Einstein. Past life & business coaches Debbie Devoe, Karen Vice, & Miranda Hart.
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The Copper Skillet family: Maria, Diana, Ashley, Judy, Jose Cruz, Tino, and all the rest.
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To the Oneness University and your mission to better our world, and the many friends I have been
blessed with in my life. Thank you…
Amma and Bhagavan, Ananda Giri, Raniji, Laura Harring, Srinivas, Raksith, all the Dasa’s, and all
the oneness beings for all the love and blessings.
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And to all my Ex’s. I want to thank you for all of the good and not so good times because I would not
be the same person today without them. I want to thank you all, and wish you all the best in the
future.
WHO IS DR DAN?
I guess you could say he’s like a cross between Tony Robbins,
Dr Phil (with less hair), Andrew Dice Clay (with less cursing) or
Chris Rock if you don’t know who the Clay is.
For over a decade Dr Dan has spent close to $1,000,000 in traveling the
world searching for the best of the best to learn from. He has had some
of the worlds greatest mentors such as Tony Robbins, Wayne Dyer,
Mark Victor Hansen, Donald Trump, Jim Rohn, Guru Singh, Jeff Combs,
Deepak Chopra, Robert Kiyosaki, Dale Carnegie, and many, many more.
Secret # 1/2
Day One:
If you are already in a relationship, you can still use this book to help you
take your relationship to the next level. That’s why it’s called, “How to Attract
the Person of Your Dreams and Keep Them.” So don’t worry, I got ya covered.
If you are planning on taking this 21 day journey together with your
partner; that’s awesome! Congrats! If not, that is fine too. Don’t try to push
your partner into doing it. No one likes to be told what to do. So, just do it
yourself and they will get the sprinkles off you. They will receive the benefit
because you will change and that will automatically change others around
you. You might have heard that old expression, “Change yourself and the
You may have also heard some of the following before: “Every long
journey starts with the first step.” “If you build it; they will come.” “The best way
to learn to swim is to jump in.” My personal favorite is, “Leap first and the net
Universe, the Divine, God, Buddha, or whatever it is for you. It’s about taking
action, not just sitting there and saying, “Someday I will do it”, or “When I have
I suggest you only read one secret a day. Sure, you could read this entire
book in one day, but what is more important is that you apply it and make it
part of you. I want you to live it. Empowering yourself is not about reading this
book as fast as you can and then moving on to the next book, then the next
and so on. Life is not a race on how many books you can read in a lifetime,
how many seminars you can attend, how many degrees you can achieve, or
how many awards you can fit on your wall. Knowledge alone is not power;
Take Action
a journal will make it easy to keep all of your fun tasks in one place so you won’t
lose it. It doesn’t have to be fancy or expensive. You can pick up some nice
ones at any local bookstore, or a cheaper one at your local office supply store
or even a grocery store. I use about 7 journals at a time. I have one for each
of my various projects and ideas, one for books I will write, one for businesses I
will start, one for invention ideas and one for miscellaneous ideas and notes.
Note: If you are bought the e-book version of this book then you can use
So, do I have your commitment to do this for the next 21 days? There
designed this book to take only 10-15 minutes each day. Read each Daily
Secret. The fun tasks should only take another 5-10 minutes. It’s easy! I love
easy!
stupified! So, no excuses! Just do it! If, for some reason, you develop a rare 24-
hour tropical flu, then just pick up where you left off the next day. Don’t wait
until the next week to start again. No need to wait until Monday to get a fresh
start. Just do it! Be that RockStar you were born to be in life! Also I wrote this
book to read like we were having a conversation, because Dr. Dan on paper
and Dr. Dan in person are two different worlds. So, I wanted to keep the Dr.
Dan Flavor and make sure you got your Daily dose of Dr. Dan. Enjoy!
Warning! If you don’t do this; you will be cursed to live an average life!
Jk, sorta.
and to complete each daily exercise for the next 21 days and most of all,
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Sign here Date
You are a RockStar in life! And, remember to make the world your stage!
Your friend,
Dr. Dan
Secret #1
Day One:
This is very important. You have probably heard that you need goals, or
a clear vision of what you want, in order to achieve it. Perhaps you have
learned that first you must see it, then you can achieve it. A great way to do
this is creating a dream or vision board. I like to call them a Reality Board.
Simply get a large piece of poster board and attach photos or clippings of the
things you want to buy, achieve, or experience in your life. Cut them out, glue
them to your board and then hang it where you will see every day. I have put
mine in the bedroom, office, and living room. I have one everywhere! I even
Finding the person of your dreams is the same thing. We must know what
we want before we will get it. We must be clear. Not just knowing it, but writing
When my wife, Shanta, wants to get her hair cut or should I say styled, she
doesn’t go to local barber and say cut it up. She goes online and looks at
hairstyles for a couple of hours and prints up what’s hot, what some of the
celebs got, then she brings that picture to her stylist and says, “This is what I
want”. Then he hooks it up! She had a clear vision of what she wanted, put it
If you don’t have a clear vision and commit it to paper, then how can
you expect to get it? If you are just hoping and wishing; I guess it could
happen, but then again you could win the lottery and buy a unicorn. But why
take that gamble? Besides, unicorns are bad around kids and take up the
Here is another example: let’s say you wanted to start your own business
and you went out looking for investors to help you get started. You set up a
meeting and they ask, “What is the business?” You say, “I don’t know yet, but it
will make a lot of money and I’m really excited about it; so you should give me
money.” Ha ha; yeah right! Would you invest in that? If you would, then I have
a business I want to start but I don’t know what it is yet; and you should send
Dr Dan
555 Secret Account
Cayman Island
Start this by first cutting out the things you want to attract into your life
and then go pick up a poster board and glue stick at your local Target or Wal-
Mart. The point is to get excited and to start now. Not later, not tomorrow, but
now. Have fun with this, like you are at a spiritual diner and the waitress just
came up to you and asked to take your order. You can have anything you
Note: Start this now; and you can always add to it over the next few days.
person and lifestyle of your dreams. Print or cut out everything from exotic or
classic cars, houses, vacations, to the wedding of your dreams. Print out happy
(Go to the RockStar site for links of pictures you could use)
www.MakeTheWorldYourStage.com
3. Either use a glue stick or tape to put them on the poster board.
4. Put the Reality Board up in a place where you will see it daily. Its best to
make more than one Reality Board and put it in 1-3 places where you will see it
daily.
5. Look at it daily and see it and feel it. Really bring it into yourself, like it is a
sneak peek at what your life will be like, because if you do this, it will!
Don’t forget to celebrate after you do this! Pat yourself on the back and
say, “Awesome job! You are a RockStar!” stand up and give yourself a big high
five!
Secret #2
Day Two:
Why do you want the person of your dreams in your life? Why now? You
must know why and make it a good reason. Let’s look at it like this. If you had
two people tell you that they were both going to make $100,000 this year, and
neither of them had ever made over $20k in a year; and you asked them why
they wanted to make this money. One says it would be cool and they can buy
some cool stuff, like an exotic car or some designer clothes. This is not a very
compelling reason, right? Then you ask the next person why they want to make
$100,000. They tell you they MUST make this money for an operation to save
The world is full of people that want to do many things in their life. The
key word is want. Then there are those that make it a must; and make it
happen because they have a huge why! I know this because I have been
both of those people in my own life. After I got married; I had all these wants in
my life. I wanted a house, an exotic car, a Rolex watch, and a custom Harley.
Because they were wants; I didn’t get them. It wasn’t until I had two little girls
and was in a network marketing company that went bankrupt, that I made it a
huge MUST! We had no savings and I immediately started looking for a way to
make it happen. I got into a new business and within just 2 months; I created
over $30,000. That year I made over $150,000 because I had a huge why! Then
I bought the cars, the custom Harley, the Rolex, and diamond watches. It was
my huge why that made it a reality. And that huge “why”, was that I had to
feed and take care of my family and of course buy some cool stuff along the
way. Make your “why” HUGE! Make it a MUST! Be very clear about what it is.
Take the next couple of minutes and write your answers down: The goal
here is to start writing and keep the pen moving for at least 2-3 minutes per
question. Write it down and don’t worry about grammar or spelling or if it looks
perfect. Just write and keep writing for the next couple of minutes. Be specific
and go into as much detail as possible. Don’t write, it would be good or nice.
Define it like you had to explain it to a good friend; don’t worry about your
grammar or how it sounds. This is not a spelling bee; go wild. Make your writing
like skinny-dipping, there are no rules! Have fun with it and let all your
imperfections all hang out! Write about what it means to you. There are no
1. Why do you want the person of your dreams in your life? Remember to
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You are doing awesome! Keep up the amazing job you are doing!
Secret #3
Day Three:
Would you date a male or female version of yourself? Would you date
you? When I ask this question at my Funshops, people usually laugh because a
lot of you have dated yourself and it was not fun. So let’s start this off by taking
a look in a mirror, preferably a full-length mirror. If you don’t have one, look for
the biggest mirror you’ve got. Do this now. Bring this book with you. Now that
Do you like what you see? If the answer is yes; then that is great! If the
answer is no; then that’s what we’ll work on. Right now we are taking a
personal inventory of ourselves. Have you let yourself get out of shape? Are
you overweight? Have you been exercising? Have you let yourself go? Are
you still wearing the same clothes you had when you were in junior high
school? When you go shopping for clothes do you grab whatever is on sale?
Do you have hairs protruding from places they shouldn’t be? Have you even
looked lately? Do you drink too much? Are you a smoker? Have you been an
angry person lately? Do you always have a lot of drama in your life? Do you
This is about looking within you, taking a personal inventory and creating
the best you. It’s not about wearing designer clothes or exercising all day, 7
days a week so you can look like The Rock or Gaby from Desperate
Housewives. It is about being what you have always wanted to be. You
deserve to be who you want to be. It’s not about looking good so others will
envy you. Taking care of yourself is how you will attract the person of your
dreams. You start the journey by becoming the dream person you want in your
Begin being that person that you want to attract into your life. Join a
gym, quit smoking, pluck those hairs, and take care of yourself. We will go
Become the person you want to attract and take care of yourself.
1. Make a list of things you will improve in yourself and in your life now.
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2. Circle the top 5 things on your list that are most important for you to change
in your life.
3. Now put a star next to the top 3 of those 5 you chose. Take action on
those 3 right now. Make a phone call, send off an email, research online, join
the gym, make an appointment with a trainer, call Macy’s or Nordstrom’s and
your list. The important thing is for you to take action right now.
Again, remember to celebrate once you have done this. You are a RockStar
in your life!
go to www.MakeTheWorldYourStage.com NOW!