DAVID WYGANTS

TOP 15 EXPLOSIVE TEXTS

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DAVID WYGANTS TOP 15 EXPLOSIVE TEXTS

You know, in order to grab a woman's attention via text, you need to be quick. Because texting is just a quick way to jump into somebody's life. The biggest thing to realize is theres a mindset behind texting thatll make everything easier. Always keep it fun, and irtatious. And simple! Too many guys want to have entire conversations via text, but if you really want to make an impression, save the long conversations for the phone. You don't know what they're doing at that moment, you don't know who they're with, and you don't even know if the have their phone on them. Too many guys worry about these things, that dont matter, so dont worry about it! Start by keeping your texts short and fun. Remember that mindset and youll be ne. And the texts need to be intriguing! This is where I can help, so here are 15 of my favorites:

Text #1 - What are you doing right now?

I love that. What are you doing right now? What's great about that is that it enables you to get them curious. Why is he asking what I'm doing right now? And more often than not, they're going to share what theyre doing right now, and they're going to ask you why. Its important to always be keeping them what in this curious state. I know it seems like a simple text, which it is, but its a great way to get them to hang out with you. If she says nothing, you can respond with whatever it is that youre doing and invite her to join you. She has no excuses, if nothing was her response, so youve got her. If shes busy doing something, you can respond with thats too bad, I was out and about and thought maybe we could hang for a bit... Either way it lets her know that youre thinking about her and youre interested in hanging out.

Text #2 - Got a minute?

Here's another famous text of mine. Love that, got a minute? What you're doing is showing them that you respect their time. If they say yes then you can ask them whatever question you want to ask them after that. If they say no, you can write back cool, no problem, I'll text you later on. I've just got something I need to ask you. That's it, simple. Remember it's about creating intrigue all the time.

Text #3 - So I was thinking...

This is a great text to gauge her interest. The quicker she gets back toy you the more intrigued she is by you, which is a great sign. So keep the intrigue going, remind her of

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something that youve shared with her, or tell her about how much fun you both are going to have at whatever activity youll be doing with her next. This is a great way to ask her to join you for something. For example if she responds with No, so what are you thinking?... You can reply Im thinking about how much fun you and I are going to have tomorrow night at the show I have tickets for... Women love guys who take charge, and this is a great way to show her that youre one of those types of guys.

Text #4 - I have an idea...

Another great text is. If someone texts you this, aren't you going to wonder what that idea is? The key to texting is to get them to text you back, and start a text conversation. Not to write a book, just text you back. When they text you back, tell them about something going on in your life, or something interesting you saw in the paper, whatever. Keep your texts simple, and theyll be texting you back.

Text #5 - I have a confession...

This is one of my all time favorites that you can use at any point in dating. It can be after the rst date or after youve had sex with her. If its after a rst date, follow it up with something funny that relates back to the rst date. Remember its all about creating those moments and then having her relive those moments. If your sending this after sex, follow it up with something hot that happened the night before. Thisll get her thinking about you again, and keep that sexual tension and momentum going.

Text #6 - Last night was...

This is great after you had a really awesome night with her. She will be dying to know what you thought of the night and will get back to you asap. Let her know you had a great time, and bring up something funny that happened in the night. Its good to have her associate moments that make her laugh and feel good with you, so take advantage.

Text #7 - I've got great news I need to share with you

Great news, who doesn't want to hear great news? Who doesn't want to hear something positive? We're always looking in this world for positive things, positive people. So if you notice all these texts are something positive, very intriguing things. The great news could be you scored the concert tickets she wanted to see, or you got a reservation at

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the dinner spot shes always wanted to check out. Its something to make her excited about you.

Text #8 - Youre so right...

Another great text is to bring them back to the moment when you rst met. So you can write something like, let's say you met them at a farmer's market. Okay, and they recommended the blueberries. So what I would do is text them back, right away and say, you were so right... Okay, once again just a few words, you're so right. They're going to want to know, what they were right about. And you tell them what they were right about, those blueberries were amazing, whatever it might be. But you see, it's grabbing their attention, that's what texting is, grabbing their attention, so they text you back.

Text #9 - I have a question...

Heres another one that you can pull right in the beginning, they're going to wonder what the question is. So they're going to be curious and they're going to want to text you back. Make sure you have a good question, ideally about something that relates to something you both have shared, like where you met or how you met. If you cant think of anything, text 9 is a great starting place...

Text #10 - Random question - what was your favorite toy as a kid?
When youre rst starting to text a girl youre in the getting to know each other stage. And as I always say, if you have a chance to make a woman think of specic happy moments, do it. This question is fun and irtatious, and it also brings them back to a great memories she had as a kid, which shell now associate with you.

Text #11 - You wouldn't believe what just happened...

They're going to want to know what just happened. Really I wouldn't believe it, what is it? What happened? Understand that in the beginning, when you're texting people, and you're rst starting to get to know one another, you don't know this person. So what you're trying to do is create irtatious banter that goes back and forth.

Text #12 - You wouldn't believe what I just saw...

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Ok, so this is just like the last text, but again its about creating curiousity. But heres the main point you should get from these types of text. Make sure something you saw relates to something you both shared together. Maybe you saw the crazy coffee guy you met on your rst date, or maybe you drove by the place where you rst met, whatever. It can always be changed to You wouldnt believe who I just saw or something similar. Just make sure you try and relate it back to moments that only you and her shared, so it feels like youre sharing something special just for her, and shows that you pay attention and value her.

Text #13 - I know youre...

Shell reply You know what?, and then you would say Thinking of me :-)) This one is used once you know you have a connection, have fooled around a little bit, and are more comfortable with each other. This is a great way to escalate into sexting...

Text #14 - I have a surprise...

Of course shes respond with What, what, and the best reply from you is Youll have to wait until I see you later... Its good way to ramp up the energy and tension in the hours before you see her. And if you dont have plans to see her yet, its a great way to make plans.

Text #15 - Are you home :-)

This is a great late night text. So when she says yes, you can say just wanted to make sure you were home, safe and sound, all tucked in bed :) This makes her think of you as the sweet caring guy, but even better the last thought before she goes to bed will be of you... Guys, texting is about being playful. They should just be an opening to a conversation no different than when you're irting with somebody out and about. Its about having fun, and keeping it simple. Two or three texts back and forth is all it takes to keep them thinking about you, and then you can do it again later on in the day. It's about sharing just a little piece of you, about what's going on so she can feel like a part of it, and that's it. Remember the key is to intrigue them enough so they'll pick up the telephone and carry the conversation further. Its the next step youre shooting for. Thats the goal, dont forget it.