10/27/2012

I DEDICATE THIS ARTICLE TO MY BELOVED FRIEND AZAR FOR HIS BIRTHDAY

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Love is also like god, everyone talks about it & feel about its existence but none understand it. Its my 3rd book which deals with love and humanity. There was a question in my mind, why there were a so many crowds at beach on evening??Are they lovers????? Is that means that everyone starts to love others so deeply???I would be very happy if that really happens, but sadly I dont find anyone as like true lovers. Hello friends those who thinks their love as a symbol of purity dont need to get anger on me. Let me put my points on this; after read everything if dont agree with me, you can surely having rights to scold on. I was 20 years old boy; but in these 20 years, I did not find anyone as like Mahaveer or Buddha. I have seen only selfish giants. Openly I also like ordinary man. Let us having looked at it, what generally we think as love; Love: In this world, this is the only topic which is never getting bore. From teen to adult, everyone wants to talks about it. Out of 100 movies, 95 movies are based on love .but I openly say that what we generally thinks as love is not actually love. We are giving name to our sexual desire, selfishness, and neediness as love. At my teenage, I have been fascinated by romantic love films such as titanic, dilwalae dulkaniya le jayngeetc But when I start to grow up, soonly I understand the difference between our misconception about love & actual love. In fact love is an illusion. Theres no such thing as love, its just our need .one can say that there are lovers who die for each other .is not it pure love?? Of course surely its not. When they are

taking such idiotic decision, why do they forget about their parents who live for them???? Within a month or a year, how did she/he overcome your thought and as well as your parents affection that much? So what did it imply that??? Are they doing not love their parents?? How could one love some unknown more than that of their parents who lives and scarifies their entire life for the sake of happiness of us??? So they die only for satisfying their own inner desire. What did it implies that?? Is love the self-satisfaction of ones own desire??? They merely think about themselves, not even thinks a little bit about their parents .so they must be so selfish .am I right?? How could a selfish love someone without expecting anything???? If he expect something means what did it would be???? Is lust hide within every love? Or simply love is the form of lust? I can simply say that all the love between a boy and girl is the tool for the pair selection process .if it true, unlike the old quotes, theres no purity in love .In fact its an action of self satisfaction of ones own desire .Its hard to believe that, but having a look at the below example .It would make you to understand this concept clearly. LOVE BETWEEN HEN AND EGG: A hen sits on the egg until eggs are getting hatched on. But however hen did not know anything about the effect of hatching.

But its inner desire made it to sit on the egg. Due to the body temperature of hen, eggs are getting hatched. But hen did not know anything about such a physical laws. LOVE BETWEEN MOTHER AND CHILD: I believe that nature rules all the living being through the pleasure based principle .A mother take after her child from the childhood itself is because of her inner desire. We can see it in all mammals. After a child gets born, it cant directly eat food such as rise & cookies .whatever it could eat was milk only. So in order to breast feed to that hungry child, nature itself provide pleasure to the mother while feeding milk. So even chimpanzees can feed their offspring in order to get pleasure. But we are human (Homo sapiens), a well developed intellectual species; desires are stronger than that of our brain based actions. Though it appear as female feed milk to satisfy her childs thirst. Theres a selfishness hide within our subconscious mind. So its clear that we are giving name for our self satisfaction action as love. Really no one can love a child as like her mother. If a child is in endangered condition, a mother is even ready to give her soul to save her child. But what I am saying is, she do such things in order to carry out her own inner desire (she thinks that her child life is more precious than that of her life).So its also kind of selfishness. LOVE BETWEEN A BOY AND GIRL:

Why a boy and girl should have to love some unknown (who is not in any relation to her/him)? Are we really having that much plenty of heart to love some unknown? If you say yes, everyone will laugh at you. Let us having deep insight on this topic why do we fall in love with opposite sex? One may say that their actions, face reactions, character& external appearance made them to fall in love with their pair. Ok. She/he is having good smile, good and jovial character, but the question is why should you need to love them for their such characters?

The only answer to that question is, we are getting attracted by their character and voice, face reaction, and felt that if she/he is in our life, we would be so happy. So in order to make our own life so happy through them, we are just using them... if it so, where is the purity lies in love? One may ask that some people give their entire life for saving lovable ones life. So dont you call it as true love?

But the fact is, those who dare to lose their life for someones shake of happiness have been severely affected by some kind of psychological disorder. They dont know the value of life. Simply they love to do strange things. Its also like thirst to do somethings which cant be done by others.

Just like a man, those who dont care about their life for setting Guinness world record. HUMANITY: Every woman should read this: Nowadays cinema, mobiles, internet ruined our culture and as well as our behavior. Most of the Indian films are based on love, lust, revenge. So what did we get from those movies?? One can simply says that whats going to change by simply watching those films. But watching of such scenes could affect our subconscious mind so easily. So without knowing ourselves, we are feeding food to the demon (that lives within us). The impact of such films reflects on our everyday life .we can read that in news paper that a minor girl fall in love with elder one and she has planned to evade with him from her parents .

Before 1990s a girls are not even dare to look at another man eye. Now everything has changed. Minor girls even dare to evade within such a low age in the name of love. Who gives her dare to do such things?? Of course it must be cinema. Theres a case in Indian court for increasing womens share percentage from 33% to some extent. Basically female gender are equivalent to male genders, if it so why do we refuse to give 100% to them?? So, is this a male dominant country?? I have seen that all the advertisements are associating with a famous female actress. In fact they put female to advertise males shopping items such dhotis & shaving cream. So this society still thinks that female as like an exhibition or as drugs. From soap advertisement to jewel advertisement theres half nudity. Even most of the girls themselves think that they want to be Miss Madras, Miss India .But they not even try to increase their intellectual level except few.

Why do we need to care about our body which we are going to leave it in a fire after death? Instead of putting makeup to your body, put your soul into the fire where you could burn your ego, selfishness, lust. Then you

will become a woman of valuable.

Florence nightingale, Mother Teresa, kalpana chawla, Saradha Devi, Marie curie, Helen Keller. While reading history, I can able to remember their names only .while looking at the scientific inventions and discoveries timeline; we can count the number of female scientist. Does not it shame for female genders? Instead of putting make up to your face & showing yourselves as an exhibition to everyone, why should not you change the entire world by your creative thoughts? Instead of taking actress (modern prostitutes) as your role model, why should not you take kalpana chawla as your role model??

Its the curse to this society we actually thinks that there was a woman behind every successful man. But if a woman always stands behind a man, then when did she become a successful woman? Break our traditional thoughts, instead of wasting our time by talking about cinema (that yesterday you have watched), jewels (that

yesterday your friend wore), focus on scientific theories and struggle for increasing the life grade of poor or understand at least your family status and acts accordingly. Though we are having infinite potential to do, we are simply crying for getting failed in exams, interview. It does not make you as mentally weak. Dont you break the myth that says that girls are weaker gender than boys? Be the power of sakthi and change the entire world. Every man should read this: I usually find that most of the men are running behind the job just like a bull. They dont having any objective in their life. Most of us living our life for entirely money. In order to get money, they even ready to do a job which they dont like at all. A man should be respected for his character but not for his money. Usually money which has been introduced in our life, in order to live our life so happily by exchanging our hard work through money to get the product (which we deserve). Note that we are belongs to nature, but we dont have any rights to say that nature is particularly for ourselves. Moneys main objective is to bring happiness inside our home by exchanging our hard work. But nowadays everything gets changed. Instead of living for happiness, he starts to live for money. Today I can see that most of an engineers/ doctors/ lawyers are started their carrier in those fields in the motive for getting respect from society and also earn higher salary. If earning of money is their main objective, then how could they read in the motive of learning of mechanism and theories?

In fact I have chosen mechanical engineering field in the name of compulsion. But I am having interest to study B.SC (physics). At the time I have find no way to select my carrier, so what?? After the completion of this degree, I am going to start my carrier in b.sc physics. I dont want to be a mechanical engineer. If the work is lovable one to you, then will you ever take rest? If you constantly work without rest in a particular field, then you would become mastered in that field .am I right? This is the secret key to success. My one request to the reader, if you dont like one field, please doesnt choose it for the sake of higher salary. Those who are choosing any field without any interest must not be good in that field. This is the curse in our society .those who are having enough money can able to study from oxford to IIT. But it should be banned. Education should not be based on money otherwise it would not be called as education. A doctor who chooses his field for putting M.B.B.S behind his name must not know the value of life. An incident in my own life: I was having one younger sister. Her name is vani shree. But she is no more now by this kind of ill responsible doctors. At the time, we are not even having money to take her to private hospital. She was suffered by some kind of breathing problem and as well as hole in the heart. I was a little boy at that time. So I dont know anything about this.

One day she did not breathe anymore, she not even cries for food. My mother also unaware about her problem. So she took her to the government hospital. Even after reaching the hospital, doctors dont take it seriously .they make us to wait in a waiting hall for some while. At the instant of checking her, she has already died. Whom do I blame?? Whether that ill responsible doctor or my family? I have been affected lot by that incident. I want to say to every male that was Be the power of Siva and change the entire world through your powerful thoughts. Religion: All the religion says that love is god. Buddha said that love everyone as like mother loves her child. Hindu religion said that love is Siva. So what all the religion says that love should be the main objective of human. But we forget about that what those lords say about, but fight for those gods. It does not seem to you as madness. I am asking a question to all. If he really exist, if he really omnipotent, then why dont you worship him in more than one form. Example: Christian is addicted to see god in the form of Jesus. But they wont accept god in the form Siva. The same happened from religion to religion.

Its similar to that peoples usually cling with scientist rather than clinging with their theories. FUTURE LIFE: Our culture has been degraded so rapidly. I am getting afraid about the future life. If you met with an accident, then you would face the cheapest side of the society. None would help you but everyone is ready to watch how you are dying. In the name of love, sexual tortures, rapes would happen frequently. We cant give an assurance about this society to the girl who is going out for job. Everyone will become like a dog. If you are rich enough, then theres no guaranty for your sons life. A 5 year old girl would evade with 7 year old boy. A father would have sex with his own daughter. Those who are having enough money can do any wrong .Indian government itself announce that those who are paying enough money can easily get relieved from any cases. Future generation would be addicted with selfishness. Your neighbor would not even know your name. Porn movies will be released openly on all the theatre. Just like hand shake, kiss would be the way to introduce ourselves. There are no more inventions and creations; everyone would be changed as like as money earning machines. All the parents used to live their second half life in an orphan home. We would enjoy that if anyone has been beaten by a gang (as we do now while watching vadivelu comedy). We would start to give Nobel Prize to the cinema actors rather than giving it to a scientist, philosophers.

 A book titled as how to live our life so happily will be sold on by 100000000000000 readers. Future younger generation would spend all their time in face book and in mobile chat. Those who not even know about anatomy, physiology would be called as doctors. Those who not even know a simple mechanism and fundamental laws would be called as mechanical engineer. Those who not even having eligibility to be a human, would be called as human. Note this guys .its all in our hand, whether all the above things would going to happen or not. Theres no good or bad. Everything is just within our mind. What I am saying is if you are ready to accept the above changes then you can live your life as like your wishes. If you dont, then live your life as a role model of others. Soonly it would be updated . But before that I need the viewers review about this book to proceed further. Thanks. By your M.DINESH KUMAR. Mail id:dkjack20@ymail.com Facebook:jacksparrow7077