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PREAMBLE
“Love” is a word that is most common and yet most complex. It is often most used
but least understood. “LOVE” does not have one or two sides to it but many sides.
We have all manner of fanciful concepts and romantic ideas about what LOVE
means – much of which borders on (sensual) passion, (sociable) affection,
(mutual) satisfaction, (intimate) gratification, (selfish) derivation and
(sacrificial) benefaction. However, Christ’s concept of LOVE could be
paraphrased as “benevolently giving your life and all sacrificially for someone
else’s betterment”. In Christ’s view, LOVE is not about getting but about giving,
not about enjoying someone but about suffering for someone to enjoy.
“God so loved ... that He gave His only begotten Son...” (John 3:16);
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“Greater love has no man than ... lay down his life...” (John 15:13);
“Do you love me? Tend my...” (John 21:16).
This is the love that could either be yielded to intentionally when one lets it
(Prov. 5:19a) or could over-take or overwhelm one unintentionally when it
enraptures one off-guard (Prov. 15:9b).
Those who have the Spirit of God and give heed to God’s Word must not
only resist and watch against this lasciviousness but also flee from the
possibility of fornication and all its appearances (1Cor. 16:18; 10:14).
Two Greek words describe the two stages or aspects of this type of ravishing
love.
(a) Eros:
This word does not appear in the Bible but matches some description of
amorous love in the Bible for instance:
−Sensual desire (Song 1:2; 4:9)
−Romantic fantasy (Prov. 5:19)
Eros describes the affectionate feeling of “falling in love” or infatuation
fantasy that involves admiration and attraction, with a desire to posses and
own the object of such love.
(b) Epithumia:
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– Sexual love or carnal passion or lust (Col. 3:5; Rom 7:8; 1Thes 4:5)
− Craving for conjugal or coital pleasure (Heb 13:4: Deut 2:4-5)
− Strong passionate desire for a good need or goal (Matt 13:17; Luk 22:15;
Php 1:23; 1Thes 2:17).
This is the love that can be taught and learned (Eph. 4:20-21; 5:25, Tit 2:8)
as well as shed abroad from God to be received (Rom 5:5). This is the love
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bond that unites people in a peaceful, joyful and caring relationship (Col.
3:14). This world describes this kind of love as peacefulness and kindness.
(a) Phileo:
- This is a biblical word for “LOVE”
- Fraternal/Friendly fondness (John 13:23; 21:17)
- Familial/Uniting affection
– Rom 12:10 – Philostorgos (Affectionate love)
− Heb 13:1 – Philadelphos (Brotherly love)
– John 5:20 – Father and Son (Filial love)
Phileo describes the love that desires and delights in sharing and being
attached in oneness, unity and peace. This love rejoices in giving and taking
in a congenial atmosphere, offering what it has and receiving what it lacks.
Phileo is the sharing fondness that delights to HAVE
and GIVE
(b) Agape:
-This is the love that is found only in God and received only from
God, by His Spirit (Rom 5:5).
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Agape describes a compelling sense of commitment to help and care: to
spend and be spent.
“And I will very gladly spend and be spent for you, though the more
abundantly I love you, the less I am loved.” (2 Corinthians 12:15)
Agape moved God with compassion to give His Son, Jesus Christ for our salvation
(John 3:16, 35; Rom 5:5, 8)
God is LOVE and God’s LOVE is in Christ, the Son (1John 4:8, 16).
When you receive Christ, divine Agape is given to you from God.