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ORIGINATION
The origination of the dowry system in India is not distinctly known. Nevertheless, it is believed that, during the Vedic period, the family of the bride would accept gifts and money from the groom's family. This was taken as an alternative to bloodshed that would normally occur during the capture of the bride as was prevalent at that time. A later modification of this system paved way for the ceremony in front of a "godly" fire ("Yajna" in Sanskrit). It was this system that led to the present day dowry system in India.
Prem Kumar Vislawath (prem.133@gmail.com) , IIT Guwahati, India. families. "No dowry, no marriage," became a widespread fear. The price tag for the groom was now bigger and bolder. For this man and his family, a woman became the ticket to shortcut riches through the system of dowry. There were a number of things people desired to have in their own houses but could nt afford; they began using the opportunity of a son's marriage to get them. Dowry as a phenomenon went beyond the ritual of marriage. Pregnancy, childbirth and all kinds of religious and family functions were occasions when such demands were made. It also went to different castes, crossed the boundaries of provinces and education and religion. Nowadays, even Muslims and Christians, such as the Syrian Christians of Kerala and the Roman Catholics of Mangalore have started demanding dowry. Official statistics show a steady rise in dowry crimes. More than 5000 women are killed every year in India over dowry. Bihar and Uttar Pradesh still record the maximum number of dowry crimes, but Bangalore, India's fastest growing city also shows an alarming rise - four women reportedly die every day because of dowry harassment and domestic violence. The cases of dowry torture are the highest accounting for 32.4% of crimes against women in the country.
Prem Kumar Vislawath (prem.133@gmail.com) , IIT Guwahati, India. Taunting, demoralizing and putting down the woman with the intention of causing mental torture, Confining the woman at home and not allowing her normal social intercourse, Abusing children in their mother's presence with the intention of causing her mental torture, Denying the paternity of the children with the intention of inflicting mental pain upon the mother, and Threatening divorce unless dowry is given.
STATISTICS
As per data compiled by the National Crime Records Bureau (NCRB), in the year 2004 the number of dowry deaths reported were 7,026, in 2005 the figure was 6,787 and in the year 2006 the figure was 7,618. Cases registered under the Dowry Prohibition Act were 3,592 in 2004, in 2005 it was 3,204 and in 2006 the figure increased to 4,504. According to NCRB, in 2005, more than 19 women were killed for dowry every day, 50 were raped and 480 women were subjected to abduction and molestation. According to another study conducted in 2002, 45% Indian women are slapped, kicked or beaten by their husbands. India also had the highest rate of violence during pregnancy. In that study, of the women who reported violence, 50% had been kicked. About 74.8% of them had attempted to commit suicide.
FEW CASES.......
A six month pregnant women was poisoned by her husband over dowry in Vasant Kunj, New Delhi. She was declared brought dead to the hospital. A previous case was also filed against the same man for harassing his wife who was later resolved by them. This happened in a posh colony in Delhi which tells us that concept of dowry is prevalent in urban households. Nisha Sharma of Noida got a huge media spotlight when she refused to marry because of dowry demand getting bigger & filed a police complaint. The groom & his father were also arrested. This case was first of its kind to be covered extensively by media.
TODAYS SCENARIO
A more sophisticated public image of an extended gifting session has replaced the old system. This situation is a very modern one and in place in very educated households. Now there is demand for receptions in marriage palaces, designer wear for the grooms family, multi-cuisine dinners. This is just the tip of the iceberg. There are demands for household gifts. The brides family has to bear huge expenses for maintaining a high profile wedding. But this in turn exerts pressure on the other classes to ape them with serious social consequences. The women have become a kind of commodity. Dowry rituals have now spread even to communities where they were unknown. It has gone to different castes, crossed the boundaries of provinces and education and religion. Today Muslims & Christians have also started demanding dowry. Another interesting outcome is that a survey (Conducted by TOI on its readers) revealed that 69% people think that Anti-Dowry laws in India are biased against men. There have been many instances of men complaining about losing property to their wives on false dowry cases against them. Ironically many people believe that men are interested in extracting more & more money from their wives, but most of the ones who are brought to the court are the ones who are innocent.
PROBLEMS
We have seen that the government has been successful in passing strict anti-dowry laws. But according to the surveys & reports they have been unsuccessful in curbing this menace. Crimes are on a steep rise when it comes to dowry related cases. Reported cases are still very low, as the families think reporting such a problem would damage their social status. Leave alone crimes people of other religious groups have also started asking for dowry. On the other hand there have been cases in which women have misused these acts made to protect their rights. This shows that anti-dowry laws need refinement in respect of bias towards women.
Prem Kumar Vislawath (prem.133@gmail.com) , IIT Guwahati, India. There is no enforcement, the police takes action only when someone report. Government laws alone cannot fight this practice. We need a better solution to eradicate dowry.
SOLUTION.. Strategies to work out of the dowry trap are inherently political in nature and cannot be isolated from the contexts of womens lives, their entitlements or from ideological struggles over gender relations. It calls for concerted action from the State, NGOs, and especially from the womens movement, active support of a womans family as well as responsibility on the part of men to understand the wrongness in such practices. We can take help of religious leaders to spread awareness as they have a lot of influence on their followers. Another Solution could be to reduce economic divide between people. This will ensure that dowry doesnt occur at a large scale. CONCLUSION All in all, the situation is alarmingly grave and immediate action is the need of the hour.