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Water
by Abdikadir M. Ibrahim
made up of combination of three mol-
ecules, one oxygen atom and two hydro-
gen atoms (H2O). However, the surface
of the earth is about 75% water, only 1%
is drinkable water, 97% is salt seawater
abdikadir @ daralhijrah.com and 2% is frozen water in ice caps.
page 5A
Benefits and Facts
Definition & introduction
Water is the cornerstone of life; it is
an essential base of our daily life. All
Final Love
by Fartun Ahmed 'Qodow’
The Art of Giving
fahmed @ daralhijrah.com & Today’s Result
page 6A-7A now are taking serious measures in
being involved with the community
by Mohamed Samatar themselves because of the recent
msamatar @ daralhijrah.com rumors of some Mosques were
page 3A master mind the recruitment. With
the lack of education and any evi-
dence, most Somali parents are lis-
tening to the only source, the media.
Fadliga iyo Mucjisada Life Making 101 Poem: Mother Change! Faa’iidooyinka Axaadiista
4A Qur’aanka 4A 5A 8A 8A Nabiga (scw)
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clean water. What this means is that majority of people do have accessibility to
clean water. If you are reading this issue, it is more than likely that you are on
good hand of being to drink clean water at this moment or, better yet, buy a sealed
bottle of water, equivalent in price with a bus faire ticket. The Prophet (pbuh) said
©2009 | All rights reserved that“No one can refuse surplus water without sinning against Allah and against man.”
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Fadliga iyo Mucjisada Qur’aanka
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Dar Al-Hijrah’s Programs cont’d
Fadliga Quraanku aad iyo aad ayuu u Wayn Yahay:
Asaxaabiga Cuqba layiraahdo wuxuu yiri: Rasu- organs could not do their work. Water allows and 4. Kreger, Chris. “Importance of water” Exploring the
ulka SCW wuxuu igu yiri: “Cuqbow miyaadan ogeyn makes easy for our body to transfer the food, oxygen, Environment.” 2 Feb. 2002.
11 aayadood habeenkii xalay ahaa in la igu soo dajiyey, carbon dioxide, and all the other chemical reactions 5. Wheeling Jesuit University/NASA Classroom of
11kaas aayadoodna wax la mid ah aan waligeed horay loo that take place internal and external of our body. the future. 17 Mar. 2008
arkin waa Qul acuudu bira bil falaq iyo Qul acuudu bira Overall, 70% of our body is water. For example, if a 6. Qura’an, the Muslim Holy book. (21:30) (23: 12)
binaas.” Sidoo kale Cuqba wuxuu yiri: anigoo Nebiga person’s weight is 200bl and step on scale about 120 (25:48-49, 54) (35:27) (86:5-6).
SCW la socdo, oo meel maka u dhaw mareena, saa waxaa of that weight is water. On the other hand, when it
imaatay dabeyl xun, oo mugdi iyo modow daran wadata, comes to lose weight, water is very significant be- ...............................................................................
markaas Rasuulka SCW wuxuu guda galay inuu Alle magan cause it does not contain calories, cholesterols, and its
galaayo, oo akhrinaayo Qul acuudu bira bil falaq iyo Qul sodium is pretty low. Thus, a person can lose weight Poem: MA
acuudu bira binaas. Markuu Nebiga labadaa suuradood easily just by urinating and sweating.
Alle ka magan galay, wuxuu yiri: “Yaa Cuqma, labadaan by Luulay Abdirahin Osman
ku magan gal, waayo Ilaah mid magan gala wax labadaan Islam losman @ daralhijrah.com
la mid ah oo ku magan galo maba jireen” As Qur’an talked about everything that has some
............................................................................... value for human life, it clearly stated in number of Ma why stand behind me,
times the importance of water; thus life originally Hiding under my hijaab?
Water: continued from page 1A made from water according to the Qur’an. “Have not Why are you troubling me,
those who disbelieve known that the heavens and the earth Making me cry every time?
Sacred book, the whole life is made from water. were joined together as one united piece, then we parted If you fly away in the sky,
Dehydration kills us faster than the famine and them? And We have made from water every living thing. How will I catch you?
hunger. It is recommended that average person should Will they not then believe?” (21:30). If you hide in the earth,
drink about couple glasses of water everyday, some We conclude from the verse life starts with water, How will I find you?
say eight ounce of water. In order for one to maintain means without water, there would be no life on earth Where have you gone to
healthy and function well mentally he or she should in the first place. Now, National Aeronautics and without telling me?
drink enough water so that his or her brain would Space Administration, (NASA) is exploring other God created me,
work properly. Human joints need more water to do planets to see whether it had been water in the past, so Then you adopted me
their work right; as an example, water makes the joints that human beings may live there one day. Scientists but why have you left me all alone?
to obtain lubrication, so that they can remain in mois- understand now if place like mars had water; it had Why hide from me?
ture and avoid frictions. been a life sometimes in the past, recognizing that life Ma is the joy of the whole world,
We inhale oxygen and exhale carbon dioxide, so our depends and originated on water, which Allah (God) I hold you in my eyes not knowing when I wake
lungs would remain moistures; otherwise, it gets stiff stated numerous times in the Qur’an over centuries up.
and cannot take O2 and CO2 in and out. Our Kidneys ago.
take out waste products from our body; for example, In terms of creation Adam was the first human, and How will I live without you, mother?
uric acid and lactic acid, so in order for these waste he was created from clay mixed with water. Allah the Where will I look for you?
products to be taken away from the body, they have to Almighty said, “And indeed We created man (Adam) out It’s so lonely without a mother.
dissolve in with water. Our back is supported by spinal of an extract of clay (water and earth)” (23: 12). It means Who has ever been able to replace a mother?
cord, and liquid-water is stored in it. Thus, if there is that our life started with water so we partially water if Can anyone tell me what a mother means?
no water in its system, it could not make movements, not whole. Eve was the second human, Allah created A mother is but a mother.
which allows us to move and do the work. her from Adam’s last rib. Eve and Adam married, and If you call me once MA,
Beyond that, is the pregnant woman; she needs more Allah gave them many children to populate the earth. My soul will find solace.
water than any other person, from day one when she Allah said, “And it is He Who has created man from water, I know deep in my heart,
starts having morning sickness up to when she gives and has appointed for him kindred by blood, and kindred by Allah has called you home,
birth. Even though she needs water all the time as any marriage. And your Lord is Ever All-Powerful to do what but all I ask for is....
other person, she requires more water during her gesta- He wills” (25:54). As any other living creatures, our return my happiness and peace that you took with
tion period. In addition, some part of her fetus’s cell’s life’s beginning point was water. The offspring were you.
growth depends on how much water and nutrients, she created the combination of male and female sexual
has consumed. Hence, water allows her to transfer the discharge (semen). In here Allah said, “So let man see Why do you play such Hide and Seek with me?
nutrient from her body to her fetus. Water helps the from what he is created! He is created from a water gush- Just once show me your face;
mother to excrete the waste products easily and avoid ing forth, proceeding from between the backbone and ribs” All I ask for is your beautiful face.
constipation, which usually is common during gesta- (86:5-6-7). Humans are coming from the semen from Where is my darling mother?
tion period. Amniotic fluid (the cover of the baby) is their fathers’ backbone and semen from their mothers’ Come to me,
mostly water. Suppose the mother drinks more quality clavicle (the collarbone), this was our first develop- Waited for so long.
water, the chance of having a health baby is higher mental stage. Thus, the lives of all living creatures rely The day has raised
than when she does not drink enough quality of water. on water to some extent. The evening is about to pass by
Plus the baby would receive enough milk from her On the other hand, Qur’an stated in details the sig- Where can I found you?
after parturition. nificant of water to our daily lives. We purify ourselves The light has lighted in the house
Furthermore, in many cases a lot of food that people with water, swim, drink, shower, and cook from it. It Every child has united with their mother
eat depends on water. When there is plenty of rain, rains to all living things not only for humans, so they Why am I alone forever?
the land becomes prosper so all living creatures in- would have prospers and good life. Animals eat from All I have for you is....
cluding humans would have something to eat. On the the rain; thus, humans would consume more meat and Four words that will make you smile forever
other hand, if there is a drought, there would be no plenty of milk from the animals. Allah said, “And it is “I LOVE YOU MA”
crops, which almost the partial of the world’s popula- He Who sends the winds as heralds of glad tidings, going
tion depends on it. The drought causes starvation and before His Mercy (rain); and We send down pure water from
hunger; it could cause the lack of milk and meat from the sky” (25:48).When all the grasses, fruits, and trees
the animals who most people’s daily lives depend on become dry, which has no shadow, or any other things
them. Animals’ lives are also based on water as people to use, it is the rain that makes them alive and re-grow OPINIONS
do, thus without rain, they would not maintain a life them back again so that they reproduce once again.
and in turn, people would not receive neither meat nor Here another verse Allah said, “That We may give life
milk from the animals. thereby to a dead land, and We give to drink thereof many
With water, we purify ourselves; we wash in water, of the cattle and men that We had created” (25:49). It ex- What roles do the Somali youth, parents, reli-
swim, and cook from it. Because of water, we remove plains when rain rains; it could bring back the grass and gious scholars, community leaders, and profession-
the toxin and poison from what we eat. Besides, almost vegetables, which was ruined by the droughts. Again als respectively have to do in order for the Somali
everything we drink or eat is related water to some in the Qur’an Allah said, “See you not that Allah sends Community in Minnesota to come together and join
extent; for instant, according to researchers, the milk down water (rain) from the sky, and We produce there- hands and bring this community out of this disas-
we drink is about 83% water, the watermelon 84%; with fruits of varies colours” (35:27). Rain produces the ter we are in socially? Explain each each category’s
Diet Coke contains 98% water, and many other juices crops, leaves from the trees, and green grass from the role in bringing the community together and what
that we drink. land, which are our biggest sources on earth. Qur’an effect they might have on the view of others.
Moreover, all the reactions that happen in our body has furnished centuries and centuries ago the essence .........................................................................
occur in water. Hydrologists denoted that the diges- of water to living beings and especially to human life.
tive system requires water. For example, our main Unfortunately, certain people are either ignoring it Dar Al-Hijrah Times encourages its readers to voice out
body component of blood plasma is 92% water, the or do not want to appreciate the bounty of Allah, in their opinions on issues related and mentioned in the
human fetus, which is the growing physical vehicle is which He gave them. Then as result, people are draw- publication(s). Letters submitted to DTimes can be either
90% water. The blood, which conveys our fluid and ing pictures on the water’s surface, which will never TYPED (preferably) or HANDWRITTEN, making your hand
nutrient to our body, is 90%, water. Brain, which is be visible to our sights. It means, when one is looking writing legible, within the range of 500 words, signed,
the center and controller of our whole body, is 85% for an answer, which he or she did not understand its and included all the necessary documents with the
water. Similarly, a kidney which makes the process question in the first place letter. Letters can be sent to the following address:
and refreshment of fluid in our body system is 82%, Dar Al-Hijrah Times, 504 Cedar Avenue, Minneapolis, MN
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and 75% of it is water. Liver that metabolizes and re- Reference:
moves the toxin from our body and about 69% of it is 1. Batmanghelidj, F, M.D. “Why do we need to drink Typed opinions can be sent to
water; the structural supporters of our body system are water?” Harmonik Ireland and the dtimes@daralhijrah.com
bones that contain 22% water. 2. Living Water Workshop. 17 Mar. 2008.
As above examples illustrates without water these 3. Victoria Whitehead. 17 Mar. 2008.
6A Vol. 2 No. 3 | March 2009 - Rabi Al-Awwal 1430
has provided for us the love we share amid our- and marriage. Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) said,
selves. We must love Allah that’s the foundation “A woman is normally sought as a wife for her wealth,
for everything else, for every other love. “To Allah beauty, nobility, or religiousness (adherence to Islam),
belongs the kingdom of the heavens and Earth. He gives but choose a religious woman and you will prosper”
life and causes to die. You have no protector or helper be- (Muslim). And he said, “A woman is married for four
sides Allah” (9:116) From the mercy of Allah we things, i.e., her wealth, her family status, her beauty and her
witness that Allah does not burden a soul beyond religion. You should marry the religious woman (otherwise)
what it can take this ease is a manifestation of His you will be a loser”(Bukhari). And he also said, “The
mercy, forgiveness, and compassion which all are whole world is a provision, and the best object of benefit of
fundamentals of love. “Allah does not impose on any the world is the pious woman” (Muslim).
self any more than it can bear. For it is what it has earned; Seeking a righteous mate is not just recom-
against it is what it has brought upon itself…”(2: 286) mended for men but also for women as the
Once love for Allah has been established Allah Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) stated “When someone
will instill in our hearts love for one another. Once with whose religion and character you are satisfied asks
Allah has loved one of his servants they need not to marry your daughter, comply with his request. If you do
worry for if Allah loves his servant every creation not do so, there will be corruption and great evil on earth”
on the face of the earth will love that servant. (Tirmidhi). Once commitment and righteousness
Kids
Love is a desire that has been created in all human have been ordered Islam encourages the seeing
beings it is also an essential factor throughout our of one another, this can be proven with the nar-
Corn
daily lives. Love especially before marriage is ration from Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) “Go and
imperative for the strongest of love is the love be- look at her (the woman you are considering marrying)
“wher
er
e ever tween a husband and a wife. because this will help your time together to be strength-
y kid ened” (Ahmad). While many traditional mar-
enjoys Marriage in Islam riages still consent without seeing each other’s
equal Homosexuality, dating, and romance have spouses Islam strives to upbringing a marriage
attent
ion” become increasingly popular for the past 50 in which both couples are filled with happiness
years. Now more then ever advocates are fight- that will last throughout hardships and obstacles.
ing for rights to marry the same sex or even have The Islamic process of marriage gives the seeker
equal opportunity when it comes to prostitution, a vivid opportunity to choose it’s spouse granted
with world wide norms like these Islam not only that Islam hopes to create an environment in
Asalaamu ‘Alykum
fellow brothers and sisters! Lights Camera ….. Do
my
encourages marriage but makes it a necessity to which the marriage will be preserved and last as
simply survive in society. Allah has said in the long as their lives. Once all the above conditions
Quran, “Marry the spouseless among you...if they are have been met and the two parties consent to the
not forget to smile and, Action. Hi Kids since our first poor, God will enrich them of His bounty”( 24:32) The marriage the process of the actual wedding cer-
article came out last month, JSSU has been on a tight first word Allah has stated in this verse is mar- emony begins. The wedding process begins with
schedule with many things to do for you but we have riage, this is to imply the importance of marriage the consent: Aisha (R) asked Prophet Muham-
a big announcement for all the kids out there and yes for the reason that in Islam marriage serves as a mad (pbuh) if women must be asked for their
we will be publishing our article this month like we means to emotional and sexual gratification as permission of marriage. Prophet Muhammad
promised so don’t worry, talk about close ones. We well as a means of tension reduction. Islamic mar- (pbuh) replied, “Yes.” She said, ‘The virgin is asked
have to take care of some business and we did and on riage is a religious duty that must be performed for her permission but she gets shy.” Prophet Muham-
March 28, 2009 JSSU is going to the moon, just kid- by those who have the means and ability to ful- mad (pbuh) said, “Her silence is her permission”
ding, but we are going public at the next youth event. fill this obligation. Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) (Bukhari and Muslim).
This will be a tremendous start for JSSU because will also said, “Marriage is my tradition who so ever keeps Once the basis of consent has been met the male
be introducing JSSU to everyone who attends Sala- away there from is not from amongst me.” It is a social must conclude the wedding contract by having a
hudiin Islamic School and many others. We will talk necessity because through marriage, families are wali represent the bride. Wali is a male relative
about our group and what we will be doing at educa- established and the family is the fundamental unit of the bride in most cases the father of the bride,
tional lecturers, workshops, fieldtrips and etc. If you of our society. Furthermore, marriage is merely but if he is not available then grandfather, brother,
like what you hear and want to join this group please a justifiable or halal way to indulge in intimacy uncle, ect… would be sufficient enough to stand
contact us at JSSU@daralhijrah.com and yes between a man and a woman. Marriage in Islam in the place of her father. The Prophet (pbuh) said
now we have our very own email. stands to disrupt many sort of sins particularly sin “No marriage contract is valid without a wali(guardian)”
Thank you and PEACE OUT May God Bless that correlates with sexual desires Prophet Mu- (Tirmidhi and Abu Dawood). He further stated “A
You.“Just because you are young does not mean you hammad (pbuh), said, “O young men! Any of you who woman may not act for another in concluding a marriage
cannot make a difference.” ~ JSSU are able to marry should do so. It lowers the eyes and pro- contract, and a woman may not conclude her own mar-
tects the private parts. Any of you who are unable to do so riage contract” (Ibn Majah and Daraqutni). Once
should fast. Fasting is a protection for you.” The im- these conditions have been met and finalized two
mensity of the importance of marriage in Islam is trusted witness must appear. Prophet Muhammad
that it is an obedience to the commands of Allah (pbuh) avowed “There is no marriage except with a
and following the guidance of the beloved proph- wallee and trustworthy witnesses” ( Bayhaqee). This il-
et Muhammad (pbuh) Allah Almighty reveled in lustrates the importance witnesses hold in a wed-
His description of the Messengers: “We sent Mes- ding ceremony. All in all when the above basic
sengers before you and gave them wives and children too” aspects have been met the final facet is then put
(13:38). into place that which shall be the Mahr or wed-
Marriage gives one repose and delight espe- ding dowry that is paid or given to the bride by
Final Love: continued from page 1A cially to the soul since sitting with, looking at, the groom. Allah says (what means): “And give to
and playing with one’s spouse allows the heart to the women their dowry with a good heart, but if they out of
mankind can share with each other it is incom- relax and strengthens it for worship. Without this their own good pleasure remit any part of it to you, take it
patible with hate and non-distinctive with like. the soul would grow tired and turn away from the and enjoy it without fear of any harm” ( 4:4). In western
Love is the finish line to marriage for it cannot be truth. The Almighty says: “Among His signs is that He societies it is believed that the dowry is given to
experienced fully and completely until the vows created for you spouses from yourselves so that you might the bride as a means to purchase the wife but in
have been tied. Islam stresses the importance of find repose with them. And He has placed between you Islam the dowry is given only as an honor and
love especially between the believers to the point affection and mercy. In that there are certainly signs for to show respect. The dowry is to show that the
where our beloved Prophet Mohammed (pbuh) people who reflect” (30: 22). Just within the regula- groom or husband to be is serious in his affection
has linked it with faith and entering paradise. “You tions we live under we stress on the implicitly of to both his wife and up coming life. The Mahr
will not enter paradise until you have faith, you will not have marriage and why we should conduct it, but in an (dowry) can come in many forms contrary to the
faith until you love one another...” Once a community essence marriage creates a human being to be and fact are many opinions which have stated certain
or a whole nation nurtures love and mercy upon feel complete in the heart, not only that marriage amounts the dowry must be. Although the fact of
each other they will develop feelings of affection solely defines to safe guard ones faith amidst the the matter is the Mahr (dowry) is obligatory and
that will correlate to the upbringing of peace and fact that marriage is said to be half of a believers must be paid but as to how much or what of the
justice throughout each individual’s home. faith. In a nut shell marriage in Islam is a highly Prophet (pbuh) has affirmed “Look for one even if it
Love is thee utmost blessing Allah has given us important factor in regards to maintaining a stable was an iron ring” (Bukhari and Muslim). According
after our faith. Throughout our lives we seek love society. It can be said without contradictions that to Ibn Qayyim the best and strongest opinion is
from those who truly have our affection whether in the current era the citizens of the world live in that the Mahr (dowry) can be of anything valu-
they are our parents or the boy next door. Granted marriage should not be classified as an encour- able. Whether it is something of material or of
that in Islam the true meaning and affection of agement but a necessity. intellect as long as it serves a quantity of value
love can only be felt in an environment were true it can be considered and acceptable. The Prophet
friendship and love exist for the correct reason. The Process of Marriage in Islam (pbuh) once said to one of the companions “Go,
Allah has created us in such a matter that we Commitment is the second most important for I have put her under your charge with what you have of
enjoy being loved and loving others. We humans factor when one is considering marriage. Com- the Qur’an” (Bukhari & Muslim). Islam provides
tend to love those who show us kindness, mercy, mitment is the means to an act in course of action for a balanced life in which both the husband and
happiness, and many others to follow. Yet we that is demanded of one, as by position, custom, wife can control many aspects of each others lives
rarely realize the kindness, mercy, and happiness law, or religion. When one is seeking marriage it as long as they look upon Islam for the ultimate
Allah has endowed upon us. The most vital love should be their outmost desire to affiliate with a answer, simply because Islam is not just a reli-
we ought to bestow is love for Allah for Allah soul mate that is truly committed to both the love gion but a way of life.
7A Vol. 2 No. 3 | March 2009 - Rabi Al-Awwal 1430
Change! Ninkaani walaalki wuxuu ka reebi jiray xumaanta What is today’s assistance?
by Maryan Yusuf mar kasta oo uu ku arko, waana xil weyn oo uu As the unemployment number raises so does the
myusuf @ daralhijrah.com gutay, jawaabta ninka la wacdiyay baxshayna marna dependency for more public assistance. Rent close
gar ma ahayn, waxaase ninka Alle ku ciqaabay waa to as $700 for a one bedroom apartment, all other
in uu ka hadlay arrin uusan cilmi u lahayn oo maam- expenses totaled up to a little over $400, more people
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hange. Change.
Change. Change. Change.
ulka Alle ah. Nabigeenna (scw) ayaa maalintii Uxud
yiri: (sidee u liibaanayaan qowm daqray Nabigoodii
isaga oo Alle ugu yeeraya?), markaas ayaa Alle soo
now are realizing that the assistance they receive
from the government is double what they have to
pay for a 600 square feet apartment and necessities.
This word has been so dajiyay: (maamulka waxba kuma lihid, haddii uu Imagine trying to live with $437 a month in cash and
overplayed that we have rabo wuu ka toobad aqbalin ama wuu cadaabin illeyn $285 in food stamps, which is what a family of two,
lost sight in what change waa daalimiinee) would receive. Welfare recipients are up 1% from
is. It is good that you have In laga cabsado khaatimo xumo maxaa yeelay last year to 37,000. That’s about 100,000, Minneso-
prayed more consistently, ninkii caabidka ahaa wuxuu galay naar, halka kii tans citizens including children, who receive public
but the mere fact that you caasiga ahaa janno la geeyay. Taas waxay keenaysaa assistance and the numbers have not stop yet.
have does not insinuate change. A change in habit in aan nina camalkiisu la weynaan ee Alle khaatimo
maybe (a good one at that), But true change lies in the wacan la weydiisto sidii Rasuulkeennuba (scw) yeeli Going Back to the Basics:
reason why you pray consistently. That is why high- jiray. In the growing financial crisis today the stakes
lighting the reasons behind actions you take could not Xadiiskani wuxuu daliil u yahay Ahlu-sunnaha are raising and families are doing anything they can
be of anymore importance. You must without a doubt aaminsan in Alle qofkii uu doono u dhaafo dambiya- to make ends meet. On the 2nd of June last year is
covet Taqwa (bewaring of Allah) for if your not aware da shirkiga ka soo haray iyaga oo aan toobad keenin, when I realized that something odd about the weekly
of Allah’s watchful eyes then you, most certainly, are sida uu ninkaan caasiga ahba ugu dhaafay isagoo groceries the number of items of food we usually
not “changing” for the right reasons. You must also dambigii ku sii madax adag. brought sunk by half. At times I didn’t notice the
master the simple fact that Allah alone wields the Waxaa habboon qofka muslimka ah in aysan amount of food we wasted but know with prices
power to change others, you do not. Influence? Maybe caradu sawaabka dhaafin ee uu kitaabka Ilaahay ku of food at record highs everything is noticeable.
change never comes. Know that you are changing dabranaado. Colaadda muslimku u qabo gaalada iyo So that’s when our family started” take the right
only yourself, for yourself and by yourself. Remem- faasiqiinta waa inaysan gaarsiin in uu isagu diinta kh- amount” procedure which means pour as much as
ber Allah says in the Quran, “Allah knows the secrets ilaafo. Ilaahay wuxuu yiri: (yaysan idanku xambaarin you need and if you don’t you will be seeing a cut
of heaven and earth, and He knows what you reveal (caro aad u qabtaan qolo) inaad xadgudubtaan inay in your monthly allowance. This crisis has taught us
and what you conceal. (II. 33).” No one who walks masjid alxaraamka idiin diideen awgeed), wuxuu how to save money without making huge adjustments
the earth may know what lies in your heart, but you kale oo yiri Alle: (yaysan idanku xambaarin qolo to our financial structure, well for us it did. Oprah’s
better be sure you are changing for you because Allah caradeed in aydnaan caddaalad samayn ee caddaalad “What Can You Live Without?” Experiment On
repeats in the Quran again, “Whether you show what fala, isagaa Alle ka cabsiga u dhow’e). the 2nd of March episode has changed two families
is in your mind or conceal it, Allah is well aware of Yuhuuddu Markii haweentu caado hesho wax from excessive spending to the very basics with Suze
that and will call you to, account therefore. (II. 284).” lama cuni jirin, lamana joogi jirin guryaha, markaas Orman’s three-step money pledge:
You should be afraid, not only because Allah knows ayaa asxaabtu weydiiyeen Rasuulka (scw) arrintaas, • Do not spend any money for a day.
what your thinking (By all means feel free to be fright- markaas ayaa Alle soo dajiyay: ( waxay ku wey- • Do not use your credit card for a week.
ened), but because you know that Allah single-hand- diinayaan dumarka caadada qaba …), markaas ayaa • Do not eat out in restaurants for a month.
edly has sole ownership, and complete control over Nabigu (scw) yiri (wax kasta ku sameeya (dumarka Easy but very hard to keep it constant for a couple
you (Taqwa again). Also remember that if you wish dhiigga qaba) u tagis mooyee). months and who knows what kind of an impact it
to change the condition of a people, you must change Markii arrinkaasi gaaray Yuhuu- will have on you and your bank account. From the
the condition of the persons. “Verily never will Allah dii ayay dheheen: Ninkaani struggling middle class all over the media, and the
change the condition of a people until they change it wax kale ma doonayo in uu web, one cannot imagine what toll it has on the lower
themselves (with their own souls) [13.11]” Change is arrimahayagoo dhan nagu class of this economy. But the damage gets harder
self evident. When wills to change, he will change. khilaafo mooyee. Markaas ayay and harder if not done something about it now, when
It is contagious, a flu if you must. Dominating from yimaadeen Usayd ibnu Xudayr you are more flexible and able find resources how
host to host. The will of many is hard to ignore. As iyo Cabbaad ibnu bishr, wax- will you ever dig yourself out. History will be made
notable as a changing current. Undeniable like an omi- ayna dheheen: Rasuul Alloow when the American people rise up together and help
nous cloud. It hangs in the air like stillness before a Yuhuudi saa iyo saa ayay tiri out their communities and families
hurricane. Irresistibly compelling. Undeniably endur- ee soo uma tagno (dumarka
ing. But heed closely now my words, for the world to caadada qaba)?. Markaas ayuu is badalay wajigii ...............................................................................
change you must change at first. For If not one who Rasuulku(scw) ilaa aan is niri: Rasuulku (scw) wuu u
wills to change exists…neither does change. Stay carooday …).
strong Waxaa saaran daaciga iyo mujaahidka in ay xusu-
usnaadaan in aysan gar ahayn in ay khilaafaan waxa
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