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effective volunteer leader takes action to eliminate those political actions in order to help ensure the future prosperity of the organization. Politics, in a volunteer setting, are divisive. Varying opinions are always welcome, as they should be, but politics and political agendas have no place.
thing they have to say and you may have other ideas, but the more you listen to what they have to say, the more likely it is they will also listen to you in kind. Its sad to think that people have negative volunteer experiences because, in the end, we are all just trying to help. The most important thing about volunteering to remember is that it is just that, a volunteer commitment. If the role doesnt suit, the leadership style doesnt work, your ideas arent getting heard, or you just dont like whats happening, then WALK AWAY. No one can force you to stay, and you should never feel guilty about leaving. Dont use your precious spare time to do something you dont enjoy. There is always another opportunity waiting for you.
"If people are going to enjoy volunteering, and volunteer leaders are going to enjoy leading, then the politics must be removed."
I can certainly relate. Most, if not all, of the volunteering commitments I have ever taken on have eventually left a bitter taste in my mouth. Sure, I did have a ton of fun at every single one of them, but in the end, the frustration ultimately soured the experience so much that I left unhappy; swallowing that bitter pill, giving up and walking away. And it never
Which brings me to my next point: LISTEN. No matter what position you find yourself in while you are volunteering, you must listen. Leaders, you have to listen to the ideas around the table, no matter how ludicrous you may believe it to be. You dont know everything, you cant know everything, and youre not good at everything. Fresh ideas breathe new air into any organization. Listen to what is said, have a discussion and figure out how viable the idea is. Perhaps that new approach is just what your organization desperately needs to move forward. If youre a member at large, or a volunteer there to provide help and support, you need to listen to your leaders. Chances are theyve seen your role done before, and can provide insight into what you should and shouldnt do. You wont necessarily like every-
"Dont use your precious spare time to do something you dont enjoy. There is always another opportunity waiting for you."
Lastly, I want to end this editorial with an apology. Writing this has made me realize just how crappy I have been to some of the people that Ive volunteered with, or for, in the past. Many of you were there for the right reasons, and didnt deserve to be wronged by someone who was supposed to have your best intentions at heart. It bothers me to no end to know that there are people I have driven away because I failed to be an effective leader or an effective volunteer. To those of you out there you know who you are - I am truly sorry. Hopefully people can learn from my mistakes.
health, ecological protection, language building, and, most importantly, service. Teens and young adults, from all over Canada both learned and demonstrated the importance of community involvement. In the end, we cannot soley look at this cutback as a budgetary concern. Certainly fiscal responsibility is important, but the old adage that a dollar is a dollar simply isn't true. What's the cost of losing Katimavik? I would argue, in a social sense, that it's a very high cost indeed. In a country where every penny supposedly counts, and 15 million sounds like a whole lot to most of us, we've also, as a nation, been lowering corporate income tax rates by approximately .5 per cent each year, dropping from 28 per cent in 1995 to 15 per cent in 2012, losing us 12 billion annually from our 200 biggest corporations. Clearly, there are a lot of very needy social services that could use that money--not just Katimavik, but the point to be made is that if we continue to value commerce over social structure, we're going to lose sight of what's really important. Service and community aren't just buzzwords; they're what make life for citizens like you and me worth living.
The Federal government, by saying Katimavik and the many other social services representing these pillars, don't have value, are really saying that we, the ordinary citizens, the small communities, don't matter. Of course, it is up to us to tell them they're wrong. Through protests, signing petitions, and lobbying our local representatives, it is possible to send the message that community is not only important, but it's powerful, too.
"The Federal government, by saying Katimavik and the many other social services representing these pillars, don't have value, are really saying that we, the ordinary citizens, the small communities, don't matter."
"What's the real cost?" repeats Brant MPP Dave Levac during a humbly sized, but still deeply impassioned march this summer in Brantford's Core. Thousands took part in similar satellite protests across Canada. It's a question that echoed throughout that same afternoon, with letters read from former participants, personal anecdotes told by council
Katimavik meant to them. One described a time when this year's team had their van break down, and having no other means of transportation, left their home two hours early, so they could make it on foot to a scheduled event. However, these personal accounts, some say, aren't enough to justify the approximate 15 million dollar annual budget the program needs. But is this a straw man argument? With the former promise of funding until 2013 being axed, years of downsizing, and program shifts already taking their toll, the proposed approach of restructuring and renegotiating parts of Katimavik is seemingly off the table. The youth oriented government program, thought to be of such importance by Pierre Trudeau that it began on a national platform, aimed to further the cause of
"This year's recruits did a lot of tangible work: placements in retirement homes, fundraisers for local events, and, all in all, the type of grassroots dedication on which this city runs."
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In my last column I explored the need for all people, but especially 20 and 30 somethings, to connect with boards, committees, and service clubs. I understand many people have never been on a board of any kind, have never joined a service club or a committee, and I received some wonderful e-mail and Facebook messages from younger members of our community looking to begin that service journey. Some have already called organizations to volunteer. That sort of response is exciting, and part of the entire reason we created this publication. We hope if you were inspired to serve because of something you read in this publication, you consider writing about it. Get more people involved in the community, and aware of the opportunities that exist. For those who have yet to serve or are on the brink of making that sort of commitment, I've compiled some helpful hints from my own board/committee/service club experience to keep in mind, so that you can get the most of your participation. Keep reading, and if you have some ideas to add to the list, send them to us at contact@brantadvocate.com
People will be happy you are there. Most boards don't have an extensive orientation and there will be things to catch up on. Remember, you will have to vote on issues before the board, so make sure you ask questions about anything you don't feel comfortable voting on. Most boards hold a measure of liability, so make informed choices and ask those who have experience to share it with you.
process people but needs more of those folks with hands-on experience? Or, maybe you have lots of project minded people but no one who digs process. Head hunt and find what you are looking for. What is the worst case scenario? Someone says no but are honoured you thought of them. 8. Bring up your concerns and your ideas. As a board member you have a responsibility to do this. Bring up ideas, shake things up, and don't be afraid of conversation either. Just remember, a board is a group who must come to decisions as a group. Don't be so attached to YOUR idea that you aren't flexible enough to accept that even your idea can be improved. Likewise, if someone has a great and well-meaning idea, but you have concerns with it, bring them up! Do it in a respectful way, but do it. No point in biting your lip and letting things boil over later. Get out in front of it. Fight about it if you are passionate, but remember to fight fair.
Most boards hold a measure of liability, so make informed choices and ask those who have experience to share it with you.
4. Avoid making alphabet soup. Warning, a board or committee meeting can sometimes be filled with sentences like this: "We talked with the GBHB and the CCQN about the 147 that we had in 2010 and it is looking like to secure funding we'll have to fill out two separate CQR forms and touch base with the people at NHQ to get approval ahead of LICO season." If you had as much trouble following that as I did, then you are not alone. Sometimes long standing boards can begin to sound like a verbalized alphabet soup when they get on a role. It may feel like you are being annoying asking those who speak this way to explain what the acronyms mean, but it is important. Further, when you know what the acronyms stand for, remember not to use them when newer people than you join up. 5. Get a stopwatch.
one job when we are a teenager that we stay at until retirement? Sometimes it just isn't the right fit and most likely that is no ones fault. The dynamics just sometimes don't work out, the schedule doesn't fit, because of changes in your work or family routine, or maybe the mission of the organization wasn't what you thought it would be. No matter. Keep trying. If you are committed to your community, you'll eventually find something that is the right fit. There are lots of opportunities out there - don't quit when you might just need to try something else. 12. Do a few things well, not many things poorly. I've had to learn this the hard way. Like many, I have a hard time saying no. There was a time when I was on a dozen boards, committees and/or service clubs nationally and locally at once. This, in addition to full time work, teaching opportunities, starting a business, and personal commitments. It was too much and instead of bringing some skills, expertise, and a unique point of view to an organization, I was struggling to keep up, stressing out, and was not able to fulfill my commitments to my own desired standard. It also had an unwanted effect on my personal life - I wasn't seeing my loved ones, wasn't sleeping very much, and gaining weight at an unhealthy rate. My doctor rightly mentioned to me that I needed to get a handle on this and make some adjustments for my health. I kept getting requests to join boards and it killed me to say no, but my partner Rebekah and I talked about the issue. I'll always want to serve and I love doing it - as I suspect you will too if you start - but I've decided that two simultaneous board memberships at any given time is the right balance, so I feel like I'm giving back, but not over committing. I made sure to fulfill the terms of my
9. Be creative. Seek out creative solutions to complex problems. Perhaps insist that your new group shake things up with a warm up activity once in a while. Know a guest speaker you might want to have liven things up? Invite them for a brief chat at the beginning of a meeting (with board approval of course). Don't be afraid to be aspirational - by that I mean have semiregular brainstorming sessions or visioning sessions. Update your mission, vision, values, and look when needed. Why stagnate? 10. Grab a beverage after. Remember that part earlier about side-conversations? Save them for the cafe, the bar, or your favourite Hortons, after the meeting. This is where you make friends, learn more about the people youre volunteering with, have some of your most creative ideas, and unwind. You may not always be able to do something social after, but make an attempt when you can. I've met many folks on boards and service clubs that have become valued personal friends because we spent an hour together shooting the breeze after meetings. When youre not feeling motivated, these opportunities keep you going and participating. If you do this, invariably you will be glad you did. 11. If it isn't the right fit, keep trying. You've put some time in and it just isn't working out. That's ok! It happens. How many of us meet a life partner on our first date ever? How many of us find appointments, close out any projects that I needed to, tried to find replacements, gave proper notice, and waited until an annual general meetings occurred before stepping down, to help with continuity. While I still sit on many committees for work related purposes during work hours, I am currently only volunteering on two boards. Those are the Brantford Arts Block and Rosewood House. It's been great, and I feel like I am able to give a great deal of time, expertise, and experience to these organizations but still balance my other commitments. When my terms are up and I need to move on, I will. Life is long, and there will be many opportunities to try new things. I'm grateful for all the other board and service club experiences I've had though. I've met amazing and interesting people, caring people, and smart people, and learned a great deal along the way. This is all to say, simply, that I hope you try, and I hope your own experience is as enjoyable, educational, and affirming as mine has been.
1. Don't be intimidated. Boards can be intimidating - especially if you are young and new to this kind of volunteering. There will be things you don't understand at first. There will be people who have been there for years. There will be people from all walks of life; some experts in their field, some with many letters behind their names, and a lot of accomplishments behind them. You have something to contribute. You have a point of view and a perspective that perhaps hasn't been heard on the board you have decided to join. You also have a fresh perspective exactly because you are new. Don't underestimate this. Fresh eyes are needed everywhere. 2. Jump in with both feet. This is really the best way to start your commitment. You will learn as you go, and it will help your selfesteem. Take on a project, or offer to do something that has been needed to be done for a while, but has yet to be finished. You are new. Expectations won't be so high yet, and chances are you will motivate other longer serving members to rededicate themselves. Jumping in is contagious and it will help you feel productive early. 3. You might get confused so ask questions, lots of them.
Respect the time of those who are volunteering. If you find that meetings drag on with side conversations, ask or volunteer to be a time keeper. I've done this myself several times on some of the boards I have volunteered on and while it may be an adjustment at first for everyone involved, people do appreciate it. By the third meeting it becomes second nature and by the eighth meeting, it tends to get ignored a bit but stick with it. There is something wonderful about a meeting that ends on time...or even the wonderful and rare Narnia that is Ahead-of-Time-ville. 6. Bring a friend. Bring a friend with similar interests. Just like working out, you are more likely to do this if you commit to doing it with a friend. As a bonus, you'll find that you'll get to spend more time together. I've been really lucky to have had many opportunities in my adult life to have great friends from as far back as high school decide to join boards I've been on. It's a great way to double up community service and quality time with old friends when you have limited time, plus it feels good to volunteer. 7. Seek out others. You've joined the board but you find its missing something or someone. Seek out people in the community that might have the right skill set to fill the hole you see. Maybe your board is filled with
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by Belinda Joseph
Those who are having trouble, are for the most part, three dimensional thinkers. This means that they see pictures in their head when they hear a story, listen to a speech, or are given simple instructions. Put this on paper and they are lost. This is because the words dont work. For every word that has a picture attached such as train or track they have a mental picture of these objects. What do you see when you here the; Nothing right? But for those who are linear thinkers, the word works. For the picture thinkers its like a block stopping the train of thought, blocking the pictures. Leonardo Di Vinci, Albert Einstein, Walt Disney, Thomas Edison, Andrew Jackson, Cher, Robin Williams, Jim Carey, the list goes on, all of these people were or are three dimensional thinkers. They see the picture in their minds and go from there. My husband and I are now writing our fourth book Every Kid Can Read! It is our hope that we may be able to get this into the schools and into teachers and parents hands, so that they can help their child or children learn in a way that will allow everyone to have the same start, to be on the same page, to have better self-esteem, better self-worth, and better confidence. Lets help our children, lets give them the lives they deserve. Help them to be everything they are meant to be. Anyone who wishes to get more information about how to help their loved one is welcome to contact me through the Advocate. By the way, I have two college diplomas and am proud to say that I am a three dimensional thinker also known as Dyslexic!
utterly inspiring. Were all wired differently. Sometimes Im surprised and confused at the kinds of things I am passionate about, compared to the things that dont spark my interest. I could talk about community development all day, but dont even try to ask me about my favourite band because pop culture has never even slightly amused me. In this community, there are people who are passionate about the arts, homelessness, politics, animals, classrooms, architecture, journalism, sports, religion, international aid, marketing and more. I could never do everything, and Im not built to try either, but when it comes to the things I am passionate about, I have learned to DO. University for me was a platform for the expansion of everything that I am. Not only did I learn how to see, understand, and participate, I learned how to do by taking hold of the opportunities around me. How did I get into all of those situations? By saying yes, by choosing to do. In these five years, I may have earned a Bachelors degree, but I will further my education in doing for the rest of my life.
A voice for the stories of Brant; that has always been what the Advocate has striven to find within our community. All cultures, all ages, all walk of life, we have worked to open a discussion about those viewpoints rarely presented as part of our community dialogue. It is that constant effort to find new stories that has led us to an exciting new partnership with The Sputnik, the Wilfrid Laurier University student publication at Laurier Brantford. In each edition of the Advocate, we will feature a page of articles from The Sputniks team. The articles will discuss the issues that are top of mind at Laurier. Those stories will present reflections of life at Laurier Brantford, but also provide a glimpse into how students and professors at the university see the greater community around them.
On behalf of everyone at the Advocate, I want to welcome the team from The Sputnik to our publication. We look forward to learning more about this important part of our community through a new voice; the student voice. ~ Andrew Macklin, Editor in Chief
up watching. Of course its hard to compare the student situation because Waterloo simply has more students than Brantford does. That same friend pointed out something else to me that I had never really thought about before. She mentioned how weve become so accustom to having to wake up early and take a bus for an hour to attend our own homecoming where at most other schools, students simply leave their houses and walk to campus, no long trips required. Though I am glad that they do bring us there, otherwise this divide between the campuses would feel even more extreme. But regardless of the efforts, this divide is still present. Sure, our school has been around since 1911, but the Brantford campus is still new. Its been thirteen years since our campus doors opened and its grown at an amazing rate. So maybe thats a part of my campus inferiority complex, Im comparing apples and oranges. Is it really fair to compare campuses that have an 88year difference? Waterloo has had an obvious head start. Who knows what Brantford will look like ten, twenty or even fifty years down the line?
own living quarters. Without any clear evidence, Carter has been unable to discipline suspect offenders of online misconduct. Eaton, who will be filling her new officer position in a couple of months, is interested in finding out the severity of the cheating problem within Laurier Brantford. Sometimes [academic misconduct] happens and it doesnt get to the [on record] stage, so it would be great to develop statistics on whether its increasing. Professors may or may not report it, for whatever reason (too much extra work, too much trouble), so Id like to collect data on the incidence rate that its occurring. How many more times is it happening in a more casual way, says Eaton. The CCL report supports Eatons belief that there are cases of misconduct going unreported. Surveys done by American and Canadian universities found that 41 per cent of faculty had admitted to ignoring incidents of suspected academic misconduct. The survey shows there is not only an increase in the rate of cheating, but that some professors are also turning a blind eye to the problem. These problems, compounded with impenetrable cheating of online quizzes and purchased-essays and there is a real epidemic within post-secondary institutions. Eaton stresses the importance of remaining vigilant for the sake of Laurier Brantfords reputation: It cheapens students degrees we all kind of suffer; its bad for all of us if one person does it. If we allow a culture of cheating, no one is well-served by it. Carter also sees it from an ethical viewpoint: I guess this gets to the larger issue of what do students want to get out of this experience if you are looking to simply get a paper at the end of four years, then I guess it doesnt upset you, whatever means you use to get to that end. If however you want to learn something while youre here and digest what we have to offer, and make these skills your own, then obviously the onus is on the student.
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A Dark Life
The child has lived here for an awful long time. I know how old he is; five years going on six soon. He has his whole life ahead of him, and many acquaintances, and friends who love being around him. A very bright child he is, full of life and a sparkle for it. With soft English features, the innocence of an angel surrounds the child, as he marvels at the bees and butterflies fluttering in a field of buttercups. He marvels at sunsets, and wonders where the sun goes at night, as he watches it disappear beneath the fields in the distance. Does the sun enter the earth, and sleep the night, just as he does in his room?
by Herb Harker
One day, he will find himself forever in that darkened room. The victim of a pedophile, and horrid physical and mental abuse from his caregivers, who were the captains of the ship he sailed along the milky way of life; never knowing that his ship would crash amongst the rocks. His caregivers were alcoholics and only cared for their next escape in the seas of change, as they sailed a crooked ship with their charges. When the child was only five, he was set up by his brother with a pedophile. They met in a trail along a river bank, filled with the green growth of small trees, striving for the light of the sun; just as the child was. The evil deed was done quickly to the child, and the child being innocent and alone, did not comprehend what had been done to him at all. With evil intent the pedophile and the brother approached the caregivers with a horrid plan, as they blamed the child for the deed, with laughter. The caregivers beat the child with vicious blows, and horrid stones, and words of hate. The little child was left alone to suffer for a deed so wrong. The guilty pair spread the news that the child was queer, and soon his friends were never allowed to play with him again. In a world gone mad, he strode the road alone and soon became convinced the deed was his to bear. No sun, no bees, and no butterflies became his friend again.
Soon he became lost inside his world, as the child hid inside himself, crying for justice from the hands of man.The trials of life soon hid the child behind the quest for daily bread. All along it cried inside with anger and scorn. His mind was stamped with worthless ego. He wore a veneer of strength and courage for all the world to see. Yes I am tough and mean, and don't you dare come near me with your lies and authority, or I will curse and cut you to the bone. What kind of seed had man been born? the child cried out with hateful scorn. Deep inside, lost alone. Brothers deed, Cain is true,slicing Able through and through.
and grin, said to him, it never did. Twas you who did it, twas not me. As I stand what can I say, of things that happen anyway, so long ago, and yes indeed I remember well such evil deeds. Be off with you and leave alone, the pedophile who has a home, still living in Princeton fair; a retired teacher, leave him their. What can I do? Where can I go? Sisters and my kin don't know, of the evil deed so long ago, that was done to the child inside. Crying for a justice dead, should I bring it to a head? Walking with the pain inside, branded as gay with a lie. I searched for evil deed outside. Analysis is hard indeed, when youre wounded and cannot see. I searched for answers, plain as day, as I walked along the path for days. Brother wont you sing for me, answers from a hidden tree? Seek and you shall find the truth, if the truth is anywhere. The truth did bear, brother was a victim too; hiding in a poison brew, living such a lie indeed. Knowing violence came upon me, and seeking shelter from the cold, he hid inside, lost alone. The sun, it shines upon my brow. Woke at last it shows me how, where to go and what to do, seeking counsel for poison brew, that was poured upon the soul. Seek I shall, with head held high. Courage child, don't let it slide. Character and all is well. In the spirit kingdom you shall dwell.
"One day, he will find himself forever in that darkened room. The victim of a pedophile, and horrid physical and mental abuse from his caregivers, who were the captains of the ship he sailed along the milky way of life; never knowing that his ship would crash amongst the rocks."
"What can I do? Where can I go? Sisters and my kin don't know, of the evil deed so long ago, that was done to the child inside."
While reading news of pedophiles, and hockey players far and wide, it soon became quite clear to the child, that the deeds of evil were not his. All the hate and scorn he spread, were deeds of evil men instead. Approaching with a fear and dread, he asked the brother while still undead, if what he did was good indeed, for stabbing the child inside my head. The brother, with a smirk
son, I saw much more differently. She was the bright, hardworking student. She was the person driven by intellectual curiosity, self-confidence and compassion for those less fortunate. In many respects, she has always served as my social conscience, forcing me to rethink opinions that I may have had a harder edge than I should have. It is not that my son does not also have those qualities, in fact I find him very hard working, intelligent, and kind towards people. I think it is interesting that I perceive them so differently.
"The wedding day, it seems to me, is the culmination of all those efforts, as your child takes on the mantle to share those values with their new partner and eventually instil them in their own children."
First, in neither wedding did I feel excluded, but the role of the father is much different than that of the mother, particularly the mother of the bride. In part, this relates to the maternal bond between mother and child. But, it also relates to the process of the wedding which requires attention to detail and advice that most men either shy away from, or do not have the experience to provide. For example, the selection of a wedding dress requires practical considerations in relation to material, style, and fitting. How much help would I have been in this
"Perhaps, however, the most intense thought I focused on is what a wonderful woman my daughter has become."
Finally, as a parent you wonder how successful you were in fostering family values, work ethic, a sense of compassion and fairness, and a desire to experience the diversity that life offers. You hope that you have done that well. The wedding day, it seems to me, is the culmination of all those efforts as your child takes on the mantle to share those values with their new partner and eventually instill them in their own children. Although I may have felt it previously, the recent wedding days really brought home what an onerous responsibility it is. What is important to remember above all else, is that the wedding day is about the bride and groom. Our son and daughter have married wonderful partners. The wedding is a celebration shared between families, old friends, and new. Despite the wandering thoughts of a bemused and yet happy father, it is a celebration of vows between two people who love one another. And really, it is the beginning of a new phase in how you support your children through life.
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Diary of a PSW
Its cold in this facility today. Not even a sweater makes it comfortable in here. Sometimes I feel like Im going crazy. Sometimes I need a moment to process what Ive heard or seen, because even thought I sometimes think Ive seen it all, I am floored by the things I encounter, still. The first client I see is all snuggled up in his bed; Frank, Ill call him. Hes wet the bed again, probably more than once, because its actually pooled up on the mattress. He greets me with a grunt, because he doesnt want to get up from his wet bed. Im thinking to myself, how can one not be cold and irritated, being soaked to the bone? Obviously they havent done rounds and checked on the heavy wetters, and obviously hes been in it since he went to sleep at 5:30, the night before. Frank doesnt need just a.m. care for 15 minutes, he needs a full bath. I do the best I can and wash him very well, as I know he wont get a bath for another four days. He thanks me after, and I know he feels better in clean product, and clean clothes. He has run out, so I literally have to borrow from someone else, so he isnt in wet clothes all day. The facility is very tight on their products, even though its supposed to be normal to have a full product. I think to myself how sad it is, were expected to be less than we would in our own home. Frank has such blue eyes; theres a sweet sparkle still left. I wonder to myself, how? Id be empty inside.
Eight more clients to go. I spent much more than the 15 minutes allotted on Frank, but the need was there. He needed a sponge bath, and he got it on my watch. This is considered a light client load in homecare, but for long term care, they would probably have 20 to get to themselves; bowel routine, a.m. care, and bed making, then breakfast to get ready. Glad I was able to get my 9 clients done in three hours, as I needed to eat my pre-lunch. I know there is no time for eating lunch at noon. My blood sugars are good, and I need to keep them that way to remain healthy, so I can help others. My next client is in 15 minutes. They are two children born with their eyelids fused shut. I am there to provide companionship and childcare. The boy Timmy is eight, and Crystal is ten. They eat their cereal very fast, and amazingly know where everything is on the table. Soon, they literally run outside and into the yard. I was unsure what to expect as the Agency told me little to nothing about them; like its a big private thing, or maybe they dont have good history taking skills, because theres not much on the DX. At times Ive been to other clients, and no care plan is done. To be effective youd figure theyd inform the worker of medical issues in regards to mobility especially. Well its onto my other job at another facility. I cook and do meds and clean up after twelve residents. Our cleaning lady is concerned because one resident is very late for her meal.
We attempt to open the door to her room, but we have no key. Im thinking to myself, oh man, shes a good sleeper. Getting the door open, was to no avail, so we had to do the next best thing; call 911. The officers were so kind. They could see our concern was genuine and that it wasnt a routine call. The one officer has to climb through the window. He saw her first. She passed away in her sleep. Obviously no one had checked on her since bedtime, the night before. But this is a retirement home, not Government run long term care. Its like living at home, with perks like meds, meals, and laundry. The officer is very kind to us and empathetic, and asks if we want some time to say our goodbyes. They do all the arranging for the Coroner, so I can attend to our other residents that are curious. We need to carry on like nothing is amiss, which is very difficult, as we the senior staff are falling apart and need to grieve. Its the worst day I think Ive had on the job in 13 years. Worse yet, the daughter calls and is concerned about getting stuck with the cat, and demands to know where her items are. We have to inform her there is a Power of Attorney and she wasnt it. I dont need this right now, Im thinking. Shouldnt the family maybe have been more involved in their Moms life? Id be sorrowful if my parents passed, whereas this woman didnt have an ounce of regret or sorrow. It was all about what belongings were of value to her. My
next client is with my other job; a palliative lady who needs p.m. care. Her husband is home today. We are there so he can have a break, and get some things done around the house and outside. He thinks she has two weeks left; hes told me flat out. I point out the skin is pitted and that shes cold; her breathing is labored and noisy. To me it was the death rattle, and the pitting is a sign the end is near. Hes in denial. I spend the afternoon holding her hand, giving her a light wash, and making him tea. Little was said, but we agree she looks very peaceful and not in pain, so she doesnt need the nurse to come giver her morphine; however, its a phone call away. My shift is over and I leave 15 minutes late, because it feels like hes afraid to be alone. Im thinking to myself, wheres the family, and the children? I think he knew she wasnt going to last two more weeks. Later that night, the Agency calls and says her file had been closed, because shes passed away. We deal with so much grief, anxiety, mental health, and other syndromes in this line of work. You realize, people dont care about the procedure we use to wash hair, or bathe them; its about validation and assurance, quality, and dignity. This is why we are PSWs, to make a difference every day in someones life, in a big or small way.
tive is to eventually start running. Thats smart planning. Dont ruin this by starting out running. If youve never run before, you cannot expect to suddenly turn into Ben Johnson and run like an Olympian. Its dangerous and you will be prone to giving up prematurely. Once youve started to run, take it slowly. Run one block, then walk a block. Then run two blocks ,and walk two blocks. When YOU are ready, you can make that transition from walking to running and your body will be conditioned in a safer mode for success. Remember, there is no rule that says you have to transition from walking to running. A good brisk 5km walk is just as beneficial as a run. Do what YOUR body says it can do. Shape Up Tip #5 You have to make your fitness FUN. If you dont enjoy it, exercise will end up being too much like a chore and ultimately the novelty will wane and you will stop. You MUST find something YOU like. Try many activities to find the one that lights you up. Working out with a buddy is always a great motivator and enhances the social aspect. Shape Up Tip #6 Exercise is a great stress reliever, and one of the main benefits of exercise is that it relaxes your mind while allowing your brain to actually take a break. Fitness is intended to enhance stress relief while not thinking for an hour or so. Try to refrain from complicated routines that make it necessary to consult a road map to get through your workout. Less is more. Shape Up Tip #7 To be blunt, if you arent willing to make a serious commitment, do not start until you are. You absolutely must make a commitment to a lifestyle change. In order to be successful, you have to maintain that success. If you are viewing exercise as just a momentary
fix, then its only going to be done on a temporary basis. However, one of the key factors in the motivational process is to be vigilant that you do not deprive yourself of activities or routines that you normally love to do. You dont have to be a rocket scientist to understand that you will begin to resent exercise if it gets in the way of your pastimes. Dont stop doing things that you thoroughly enjoy doing. Fitness should not be a replacement for fond activities in your life, but rather an additional enhancement. Shape Up Tip #8 Keep an ongoing track record of your exercise program and write it down in a fitness journal or on your computer. Dont just rely on your memory. One inexpensive way is to purchase a pedometer to see how far you have travelled, and how many calories you have worked off. Keeping a daily fitness journal is much like maintaining a diet plan. If you start out walking for 20 minutes and doing 30 sit-ups, in just a few months when youre walking for 60 minutes and doing 200 sit-ups, you will want it as tangible proof that you are improving. This is another great motivator. Make sure to congratulate and reward yourself for achieving your goals. These are very simple and basic tips for staying motivated and on track with your fitness routine. Please never forget to look in the mirror for more tangible evidence to see the changes that are happening to your body. They may be subtle, but as time goes on, they will become more obvious such as: clearer skin, healthier complexion, softer hair, whiter teeth, happier disposition, gained confidence, improved stamina, increased sex drive, cognitive awareness, restful sleeping, livelier eyes, looking younger, and an overall improvement in mental and physical health. Remember the ultimate motivator is YOU! Now put down that fork and get moving!
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acts of kindness, history teaches us that we sometimes need saving from ourselves--from our recklessness or our greed. God sent into the world a unique person--neither a philosopher nor a general, important though they are, but a Saviour, with the power to forgive. On October 6th, I was the youngest person on the stage by about 20 years, which was an incredible honor. My brother, who joined my family and friends in the Sanderson Centre crowd, joked that I've always wanted to be much older than I am, so my dream had finally come true. "You're with your people Dave," he joked. But, to be honest, I did love that part! I loved it because I was sitting with war veterans, philanthropists, and international-impact missionary heroes. These were respectable men and women of distinction who have guided millions in non-profit funding, carved out minor sports pathways, and are fatherly cultural prophets. More than any other thing, my preeminent thought about this medal is that it is "as unto the Lord". Remember in Forrest Gump, when Forrest gave Jenny his medal and said that he only got it because he was doing what Jenny told him to do when he left for Vietnam? That's what this feels like to me. I'm extraordinarily flattered by it all, but I'm just doing what I fundamentally believe a Christian is supposed to be doing. I haven't always been like this; I was a jaded, selfish, verbal bully who didn't want any part of our society--really, really. The difference has been due to nothing less than a spiritual rebirth through Christ--really, really. I wouldn't BS you about something this important for the sake of propagating someone else's agenda. When I made that decision, I knew that life had to be about others, and anything less than that would be selling the mandate of the Christian short. I'll have no part in such a self-centered and ultimately empty charade. The Biblical Matthew was a tax collector for the Roman Empire who gave up greed to follow a distinctly abnormal man who challenged what life was about. He quoted Christ as saying these powerful words, which still hold so much weight in modern life If you cling to your life, you will lose it; but if you give up your life for me, you will find it. Matthew 10:39 There is so much life to live and to share.
The second pressing issue in motor vehicle insurance today is The Minor Injury Guideline. The Minor Injury Guideline is designed to cap a claimant's entitlement to benefits to a maximum of $3,500.00 where their injuries fall within the definition of Minor Injury as set out in the Statutory Accident Benefit schedule. Pursuant to the Accident Benefit schedule "minor injury" means one or more of a sprain, strain, whiplash associated disorder, contusion, abrasion, laceration or subluxation and includes any clinically associated sequelae to such an injury. There is a further provision which states "Despite the $3,500 limit in subsection (1) it shall not apply to an insured person if his or her health practitioner determines and provides compelling evidence that the insured person has a preexisting medical condition that will prevent the insured person from achieving maximal recovery from the minor injury if the insured person is subject to the $3,500 limit or is limited to the good and services authorized under the Minor Injury Guideline. The determination of the applicability of the Minor Injury Guideline is made by treatment providers and or insurance adjusters. Practically this is extremely prejudicial to the injured claimant as due to fee schedule changes that accompanied the implementation of the Minor Injury Guideline there are financial incentives for treatment providers to complete an OCF 23 which will place someone in the Minor Injury Guideline. Further treatment providers may not have access or the qualifications to undertaking the detailed medical review of the claimant's pre-existing health issues to determine if the insured person has a medical condition that will prevent him from achieving maximal recovery if he is subject to the $3,500.00 limit. The obvious question is "What happens if the claimant does not agree that he or she should be in the Minor Injury category?" The onus than shifts to the claimant to provide the insurer with compelling medical evidence at his own expense to justify his removal from the Minor Injury Guideline. The insurer may also arrange a date for an Insurer's Examination and if that examiner agrees the insured person will be removed from the Minor Injury Guideline. (*Note the cost of this examination comes from the medical benefits available to the insured which if the insured's injuries are not catastrophic and not within the Minor Injury Guideline are capped at $50,000.00). If the insurer will not remove the claimant from the Minor Injury Guideline the claimant's best course of action is to issue a claim against the insurer, however this option is time consuming and expensive. There are serious implications to persons injured in motor vehicle collisions if their injuries are categorized as falling within the Minor Injury Guideline which are summarized as follows: 1) The $3,500.00 allotment is quickly used up and will only fund a very limited amount of treatment. 2) Being in the Minor Injury may make it more difficult to find a lawyer who is willing to provide representation. 3) As there is no fast way out of the Minor Injury Guideline recovery may be delayed by an inability to access treatment in a timely fashion. In order to maximize the chances of the insurer voluntarily removing the claimant from the Minor Injury Guideline it is imperative that the claimant work closely with their family doctor who can provide documentation to confirm injuries that may make the Minor Injury Guideline inapplicable and/or confirm that pre-existing health issues which make it unlikely that the claimant can reach maximal medical recovery from the injuries sustained in the collision if treatment expenses are capped at $3,500.00. At this juncture it is significant that the implications of the Minor Injury Guideline remain untested by the courts. Without case law to define the parameters of the Minor Injury Guideline there are no safeguards in place to protect claimants from the Minor Injury Guideline being arbitrarily applied by insurers who are under an obligation to exercise good faith when they are adjusting claims who may face bad faith claims if a court determines their refusal to remove someone from the Minor Injury Guideline based upon compelling medical evidence was unreasonable. This could also ground a claim for punitive damages. *** Picture: Laceration to leg suffered by a 85 year old woman who was a pedestrian using a walker when she was struck by a car in the parking lot of the building where she resides. This injury was characterized as falling within the Minor Injury Guideline which capped her treatment costs at $3,500.00. This case was resolved after we issued a Statement of claim against her insurer. Any reader questions or comments are welcome and can be submitted to legallisa@morellkelly.com or feel free to pop into our Brantford office at 515 Park Road North to make an inquiry.
Lisa Morell Kelly Morell Kelly Personal Injury Law 515 Park Road North Brantford, Ontario N3R 7K8 (519) 720-0110
without any post-secondary education, and a lower percentage of people with university degrees, compared to the provincial average. Our community needs to bring education levels up if we are going to be successful in the creative economy and have the workers companies seek. Education levels are also a major social determinant of health. People with lower education and literacy rates are more likely to live in low-income households, and more likely to need social assistance. Education, training, and lifelong learning also pay off in many ways. People with higher levels of education improve their chances of finding and keeping jobs. People with higher levels of education generally earn more over their lifetimes, live longer, and have better health as they age, including delaying the onset of dementia and other age-related illnesses. Each person can make a difference. The actions of one person can help inspire others and can spur a great change in the community. Working together, Brantford can be ready for tomorrows economy.
"Raising education levels is one of the most important factors in improving the economic outlook for our community."
Brantford must do the same, and the drive to change must come from individuals. Across Brantford and the surrounding area, there are many who recognize the need for change and the need for education. In February 2012, the Education Works Alliance celebrated a group of Education Champions, outstanding role models who are devoted to education and lifelong learning. They are the people who make continuing education a part of their lives, or who achieve success because of their passion for learning. They are an inspiration to others. Despite the diverse challenges they face, the champions persevere and succeed because of their own drives, and because of the programs and support available to them in the community. Who are the education champions? Bill Isherwood was one of the many people who lost his job in 2008. At 53-years-old, Bill was devastated, but he used Second Career funding to go to Mohawk College, where he obtained his CAD/CAM (Computer Aided Design/Computer Aided Manufacturing) Automated Machining and Design Certificate, pursuing a subject he had enjoyed back in highschool, but had never pursued. Now, Bill remains devoted to lifelong learning, realizing that if he is prepared to
"Bill remains devoted to lifelong learning, realizing that if he is prepared to learn and adapt, he will be better able to deal with the challenges life may throw at him."
Raising education levels is one of the most important factors in improving the economic outlook for our community. Brantford and the surrounding area can be proud it has more people with college degrees, apprenticeships, and trade certificate than the provincial average. In all other areas, however, Brantford lags behind, with a higher percentage of people who have not completed secondary school, people
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the real service that our warriors provided, and in appreciation of that alliance, we will build a productive future together as allies in peace. Obtaining a clear perspective never comes through one lens, rather through multiple academic arguments. The conference, the 1812 Whirlwind: The Impact of the War on the Six Nations, explores various academic perspectives on the role and impact of the Haudenosaunee warriors on both sides of the Niagara River. It is important to understand Haudenosaunee warriors were fighting against their brothers and families in the Lewiston and Buffalo areas. Our goal is not political, but rather educational, we want people to hear and learn about these academic perspectives to be able to work towards a peaceful future. Diversifying the audience for this conference allows for new research to occur. We are encouraging historians, librarians, researchers, teachers, and youth and anyone who wishes to broaden their perspective on the history to attend the conference. Once people begin to understand how peaceful Haudenosanee peoples are, it will be easier to work towards a peaceful future together, not necessarily in reconciliation in terms of atonement, but rather working in harmony, to coexist peacefully in order to move forward. The War Clubs and Wampum Belts: Hodinohshoni Experiences in the War of 1812 exhibit is open until December 24th at the Woodland Cultural Centre. Quotes were cited from the War Clubs and Wampum Belts exhibit catalogue written by the curator Rick Hill. The 1812 Whirlwind Conference: The Impact of the War on the Six Nations is November 16-18 at the Six Nations Polytechnic, please note it is a ticketed event. For further information, please contact Danielle VanEvery at the Woodland Cultural Centre, (519-759-2650).
Need Money? Look Further Than Your RRSP Everyone from time to time is carrying excess debt that theyd like to get rid of. A credit card here, car payment there and the interest payments can add up. As Advisors we constantly receive calls from clients who would like to free up some of their debt by using their RRSP savings to pay it off. Our job is always to educate our clients and ensure they make informed decisions. Before using your RRSPs to pay off debt you need to consider the following things: 1) Do my funds or account carry any fees? Your investments may carry a Low Load or DSC (Deferred Sale Charge). In many cases, your Advisor gets paid by the investment firm you purchase your funds from. If you have Low Load or DSC funds then the fees are a way for the fund company to recoup some of those commissions paid. 2) How much tax will I have to pay up front and at the end of the year? Each fund company is mandated to retain tax depending on the amount of your withdrawal. The rules are as follows; i. $0-$5000 = 10% withholding tax ii.$5001-$15,000 = 20% withholding tax iii.$15,001 and up = 30% withholding tax Each dollar you withdraw will increase your income accordingly. If you take enough, you may jump up an income bracket forcing your income tax rate to be higher. 3) How will this withdrawal affect my Future Value? The pot of money you are withdrawing from was designed to fund your retirement. So you must consider how this will affect your retirement p picture. Example: Jane is 30 and needs $5000. Jane plans to retire at age 65. If she assumes a relatively conservative interest rate of 6%, that $5000 will compound into $38,430 by age 65. At 8% it will be close to $74,000. Our recommendations are simple. Review the facts with your Advisor. Consider the pros and cons of funding debt with RRSPs. But most importantly, dont ignore the numbers. In Janes case above, a little withdrawal now could significantly hamper her retirement plans later. Alford & Associates is a family owned and operated financial practice in Brantford, ON. For over 25 years we have helped our clients secure their retirement goals. First and foremost we help you secure your greatest asset Your Family
But I will choose to hope, to live, and to remember thankfulness in the midst of the mess. This month marks my husbands and my one year anniversary. It also holds the one year birthday of my husband starting his own photography business, a lifelong dream of his. And, later this month I am flying to Texas to stand up beside one of my dearest friends as she says I do, to the man of her dreams. These moments matter; I will not let them pass me by. So, as my days quickly fill with the mundane, like running errands, doing laundry, and grocery shopping, I am committed to doing the cheesy things like stopping to smell the proverbial daisies. In the midst of bills, decisions, hard moments, I will stop to seek out the sunsets. I will invest in my community, and look for ways to honor my friends. I will stop and hold my husbands hand for a few moments longer. I will linger in the grey of early morning, and breathe in deep. I will be here now.
compassionate leadership. At KidLead our goal is to identify and develop these young leaders by providing a sound strategy for developing their skills, attitudes, character and competency. KidLead represents a new approach to developing leaders. Through active learning and Apprentice style challenges young leaders learn to lead through hands on experiences that explore 16 of the most sought after qualities of a leader. Trained coaches provide Socratic questions to guide young leaders in critical thinking, problem solving and conflict resolution before, during and after the challenges helping them to personally develop as a leader. KidLead is actively looking for organizations, schools, and community groups to partner with to bring this program to as many communities as possible.
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Programs such as the Daily Snack Program, the Boys and Girls Club of Brantford, the Best Start Early Years and Parenting Centre, the Strong Start Early Literacy Program and many extra supports provided through GEDSB Compensatory Schools Designation, which helps make Major Ballachey a supportive environment for students. In spite of these programs some stu-
sales, and private donations have also come into the program. The goal is to raise 36 thousand, which will allow the school to buy two class sets of iPads. So far they have reached the 10 thousand dollar mark. The iPads will be used in the kindergarten and primary classes to help the students improve their reading, writing, and math skills, but will also be available to improve the education of all students at Major Ballachey for the rest of the day. This program will give about 120 students (over half the school) daily access to the most up to date and effective methods of improving literacy skills that the school is aware of. They are focusing on the kindergarten and primary classes to maximize the long-term benefits of the program. Students who develop better literacy skills at a young age carry those skills, and the confidence gained into higher grades. They stay in school longer, are more likely to graduate high school, and become productive members of society. The school is calling on local businesses, service groups, and community members to make this dream a reality for Major Ballachey. Tax receipts will be issued for all donations.
dents fail to develop effective early literacy skills. This causes cumulative learning problems both in later grades and in adulthood. Since May, the school has managed to secure a donation from the Teachers Credit Union in Brantford, the Rotary Club, and now has a City of Brantford grant. The school has also fundraised for the project through chocolate bar
For more information or to make a donation to the Major Ballachey iPad Project visit www.majorballachey.com You can also follow @friendsofmajorb on Twitter and the school invites you to like their Facebook Page Friends of Major Ballachey.
all the way from Vancouver to Tuktoyaktuk. Hit them with your set of wheels for a bi-coastal experience. Dont forget your brain bucket.
If blazing the trails with a self-propelled device seems like a snore-fest, why not take a snow mobile for a spin? Feel free to rev your engine on any one of the four trails by the Grand; just watch out for cross country skiers. FLOATING. Floating is the generic term I use to suggest the array of boating practices the River can accommodate. You might rent a kayak, a white water raft, or a ten man voyageur canoe. Park your car in Paris, rent a boat, float down the river with or without a guide, and end up in Brantford. Bring a cooler and some portable speakers and you have yourself a joyous afternoon. PICNICKING ON ITS BANKS. Picnicking on one of the Grand Rivers grassy knolls is a treat for the senses, not only because of the many scenic vistas, but also the many intriguing heritage plaques in the area. It is one of the few rivers in Canada with the designation "Heritage River," after all. In any given spot you may decide to park to eat sandwiches, chances are, Paleo-Indian peoples were hunting mastodon and bison some 11,000 years ago. Pour out some lemonade for them on your next picnic.
GEOCHACHING AROUND IT. Geocaching is a high tech treasure hunt that uses the real world as a playing field. The idea is that you have to find cleverly hidden geocaches stashed all over the world by its participants. There are lots down by the Grand. All you need to do is get the coordinates where they're hidden (listed on geocaching.com). Geocaching etiquette requires that you put the cache back where you found it after signing the logbook and replacing the trinkets in the cache with new ones.
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