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GENDER DIFFERENCES IN PARENTING STYLES AND EFFECTS ON THE PARENT CHILD RELATIONSHIP
HONORS THESIS Presented to the Honors Committee of Texas State University-San Marcos In Partial Fulfillment of the Requirements For Graduation in the University Honors Program
GenderDifferencesandParenting 1 Abstract Thepurposeofthisstudywastodetermineiftherewereanygenderdifferencesin parentingstylesandifso,measurehowtheyaffecttheparentchildrelationship. Participantsweregivenasurveyaskingbasicdemographicquestions,questionsabout whichparent/parentstheyhavelivedwiththemost,andquestionsthatrelatedtothe genderrolesofeachparent.ParticipantswerealsogiventheParentalBonding Inventorythatmeasuresmaternalcareandoverprotectivenessandpaternalcareand overprotectiveness.Thereweresignificantgenderdifferencesinthewaysthatparents interactedwiththeirchildren.Forexamplemostyoungpeoplehavebeenraisedby traditionalparentsandfeltclosesttotheirmothers.Mothersonaveragespentmore timewiththeirchildreningeneralthanfathers,spentmoretimetakingcareoftheir children,weremorelikelynottoworkfulltime,wereseenasmoreoverprotectiveand morecaring,spentthemostqualitytimewiththeirchildren,andstillspeaktotheir childrenmoreoftentoday.Anothergenderdifferencebetweenfathersandmotherswas thatfathersweremorelikelytobeoverprotectiveoftheirdaughtersthantheirsons. Theresultssupportedtraditionalgenderexpectations,withmothersspendingmore timewiththeirchildrenandchildrenfeelingclosertotheirmotherswhengrowingup.
GenderDifferencesandParenting 2 GenderDifferencesinParentingStylesandEffectsontheParentChildRelationship Genderrolesarebeliefsaboutthewaysinwhichindividual,familial,community andsocietalrolesaredefinedbygender(Slavkin&Stright,2000).Traditionalgender roles,whicharecommonintraditionalfamiliesinwhichthemaleisthebreadwinner andthefemaleisinchargeofchildcareandhousekeeping,definemasculinityasbeing independent,assertive,andaggressive(Eagly&Steffen,1984;Eagly,1987).Femininity isdefinedasbeingnurturing,sensitiveandemotional(Slavkin&Stright,2000;Bem, 1981). Itiscommonknowledgethatthereareoftentwoseparatespheresinthe household,especiallyinmanytraditionalmarriagesbetweenamanandawoman.The manssphereisusuallyoutsidethehomeintheworkplace.Thewomanssphereis insidethehometakingcareofhouseholdchoresandthechildren. Familieshavechangeddrasticallyfromthestereotypical1950sstayathome momandtheworkingdad.Gerson(2002)foundthatbothmenandwomenoften expressedstronglyegalitarianattitudestowardparenting.However,eventhoughmost mothersfromthe1980stotodayworkoutsidethehome,thereisstillwhatiscalledthe secondshiftofhouseworkandchildcarewhenthewomangetshomefromafulldayof work(Hochschild,2003).Mothers,onaverage,spendmoretimetakingcareofchildren thanfathers(Craig,2006).Itmayfollowthatchildrenwouldfeelmoreemotional closenesstotheirmothersthantheirfathersbecausetheyhavespentmoretimewith theirmothers. Folbreetal(2001)saidthattakingcareofchildrenisacomplicatedmixtureof workandloveinwhichtherelationshipitselfisveryimportant.Researchershave
likelythanfatherstospendnotonlymoretimeoverallwiththeirchildren,butalso moretimemultitasking,morephysicallabor,amorerigidtimetable,moretimealone withchildren,andmoreoverallresponsibilityfortheircare.Craig(2006)alsofound thatthesegenderdifferencesintheamountoftimespentwithchildrenaswellasthe circumstancesstatedabovearethesameevenwhenthemotherworksfulltime. Fatherswerefoundtobemorelikelytospendtimewiththeirchildrenbyplayingwith them,talkingwiththem,engagingineducationalandrecreationalactivitiesmorethan anyotherkindsofcaring(Craig,2006).Otherresearchhasconsistentlyfoundthat mothersstillspendtwotothreetimesasmuchtimewithchildrenasfathers(Baxter, 2002;Yeung,Sandberg,DavisKean,&Hofferth,2001). Thereasonforthegenderdifferenceinhowmuchtimemothersandfathers spendwiththeirchildrenisprobablynotduetothefactthatfathersdontwantto spendtimewiththeirchildren.Infact,Milkie,Mattingly,Nomaguchi,Bianchi,and Robinson(2004)foundthatmensaidthattheywantedtospendmoretimewiththeir children.
GenderDifferencesandParenting 4 Onecommonviewofmothersisthattheyareoftenoverinvolvedintheir childrenslives,whilefathershaveamuchlessinvolvedapproach,beingmostly playmatesfortheirchildren(Craig,2006).Also,perhapsitismoreacceptablefor womentoshowaffectionthanmen,soitmightbemoredifficultformentoshow affectiontowardstheirsons. Womenareoftenperceivedasmorenurturinginoursociety,andmanypeople thinkthatwomenarebetterattakingcareofchildrenthanmenare(Craig,2006).Men andwomenareoftenbelievedtohavecertaintraitsthatmakemenmoresuccessfulin theworkplace,andwomenarebetterattakingcareofchildren.Pohl,Bender,and Lachmann(2005)foundthatwomentendtoshowmoreempathythanmen,andmen tendtobemoreassertivethanwomen.Peoplemayassumethatthatfindingappliesto allmenandwomenandthattherecannotbeassertivewomenandempatheticmen. Therefore,societyoftentendstoassumethatallwomenshouldtakecareofchildren andallmenshouldfocusonworkandleavethechildrearingtothemother.Itisalso assumedthatmothersshouldhaveacloserrelationshiptotheirchildrenthanthe fathersbecausemothersaresupposedtobemorefocusedontheirchildren. FormyresearchIexpectthatmanyofthepeopleinthissurveywerenotreared bytheirfathers,thattheydidnotspendmuchtimewiththeirfathersandthattheywill havespentmoretimewiththeirmotherswhentheygrowingupthantheirfathers.I expectthisresultbecausemanypeoplethinkthattakingcareofchildrenismostlythe responsibilityofthemother,notthefather.Singlemothersaremuchmorecommon thansinglefathers,andyouaremorelikelytohearofastayathomemomratherthana stayathomedad.Inaddition,whentwoparentsofachilddivorceeachother,Ithink
207females)whoparticipatedforextracreditinasophomoreleveldevelopmental psychologyclass.Theparticipantsrangedinagefromyoungerthan18toolderthan25. Oneparticipantwasunder18,89were18or19,122were20or21,67werebetween 22and25,and23wereolderthan25.Asubset,the180participants(54menand126 women)whoindicatedthattheylivedwithboththeirmotherandfatherequallywhen theyweregrowingup,werethemaingroupthatwasthefocusofthisstudy.The materialandmethodswereapprovedbyTexasStateUniversitysInstitutionalReview Board. Materials Thematerialsusedinthisstudywerefourstandardsurveyquestionsasking abouttheparticipantssex,age,ethnicity,socioeconomicstatus,andonequestion askingabouttheparticipantsparentsrelationshipstatus.Therewere13questions askingaboutwhotheparticipantspentthemosttimewith,feltclosesttoowhile growingupandcurrently,havethemostincommonwith,enjoyedspendingtimewith themost,ect.
GenderDifferencesandParenting 6 Thelast50questionsweretheParentalBondingInventory(PBI;Parker,Tupling andBrown,1979)whichisa50questionselfreportsurveyusingafourpointLikert scale,rangingfromverylike(1)toveryunlike(4),designedtoassessthe individualsperceptionofcareandoverprotectionfromeachparentduringthefirst16 yearsoftheindividualslife.Onesetof25questionswascompletedforthemotherand thenanothersetforthefather.Careinvolvesmeasuringparentalaffection,warmthand empathy.Alowscoreinthiscategorymeansthattheindividualsawhis/hermother and/orfatherascaring;ahighscoremeansthemotherand/orfatherwasperceivedas cold,indifferentandrejecting.Overprotectionmeasuressuchparentalbehaviorsas intrusivenessandinfantilization.Ifthemotherand/orfatherreceivedalowscorein thiscategory,theywereseenasbeingoverprotectiveand/orcontrolling.Highscores forthemotherand/orfathermeanthattheparentorparentspromotedindependence intheirchild.Twelvequestionsassessedcare,whichgivesamaximumscoreof48. Thirteenquestionsmeasuredoverprotection,whichgivesamaximumscoreof52.The PBIhasgoodpsychometricpropertiesandisinsensitivetotheeffectsofthe respondentsmood(Parker,1989).Parker(1989)alsoreportedsupportforthePBIs validityasameasureofbothactualandperceivedparentingbasedonstudiesusing familycorroborativewitnesses,twinstudies,andstudiesusingindependentraters (Parker,1989).AllquestionsinthesurveyarefoundintheAppendix. DesignandProcedure Beforethesurveywasgivenout,theparticipantswereinformedaboutwhatthe
surveywasaboutandabouthowlongitwouldtakethemtocompleteit.Therewere consentformsthatwereavailablefortheparticipantstosign.Theparticipantswere
genderofthechildandgenderoftheparentforthesubsetofparticipantswholived withtheirmotherandfatherequallywhilegrowingup.Outofthe302participants,180 livedwithbothparentsforthesameamountoftimewhengrowingup.Thisgroupof 180participantsmadeupthesubsetthatwetested.Thestudentsleftoutofthetest were101studentswhospentmoretimelivingwiththeirmother,17studentswho spentmoretimelivingwiththeirfather,and4studentswholivedwithneitherparent. Regardingclosenesstoparentswhilegrowingup,81indicatedtheyfeltclosettotheir mother,32closesttotheirfather,and63feltequallyclosetobothparts,X2(2)=20.94, p<.001.Similarly,forwhichparentspentthemosttimetakingcareofyouwhenyou weregrowingup,120participantsindicatedtheirmother,7indicatedtheirfather,and 52saidbothequally,X2(2)=108.48,p<.001.
GenderDifferencesandParenting 8 Seetableonnextpage: Table1:Frequenciesofparentalrelationshipitemsforparticipantswhogrewupliving withbothparentsequally Item Feltclosesttoo growingup Caretakingtime 120 growingup Punishedmost *p<.05 **p<.01 ***p<.001 ParentalBondingInventory Forparticipantswhoindicatedthattheylivedequallywiththeirmothers 52 61 61 .93 7 52 108.48*** Mother 81 Father 32 BothEqually 63 ChiSquare 20.94***
GenderDifferencesandParenting 9 Regardingdifferencesinparentalcaring/overprotectiondependingon participantsgender,onlyoneofthefourcomparisonsweresignificant.Womenwere morelikelythanmentoindicatethattheirfatherswereoverprotective,t(168)=2.62,p <.01. Dataregardingparentalcloseness,caretaking,andpunishmentareportrayedin Table1(Seeabove)andFigures1,2,and3(Seeappendix). Discussion Thisstudyfocusedonthe180participantswholivedwithbothparentsequally; 101participants,almostasmanyparticipants,livedmostlyoronlywiththeirmother. Only17participants,amuchsmallernumber,livedmostlyoronlywiththeirfather,and fourparticipantslivedwithsomeoneotherthanabiologicalparentorparents.Ifwe hadnotisolatedandanalyzedtheparticipantswholivedwithbothparentsequally, therelikelywouldhavebeenevengreaterparentaldifferences,especiallyregarding whichparenttheparticipantfeltclosesttoandspentthemosttimewithsincechildren aremostlikelytolivewiththeirbiologicalmother,regardlessofwhetherornotthey alsolivewiththeirbiologicalfather.Thisillustratesthegenderexpectationthatitisthe womansresponsibilitytotakecareofherchildren. Manyofthefindingsofthissurveygoalongwithstereotypicalbeliefsabout parenting,forexample,thefindingthatfathersaresignificantlymoreoverprotectiveof theirdaughtersthanoftheirsons.Thisprobablyhastodowiththebeliefthatwomen needprotectionfrommenandthatmenaremoreindependentandcanmaketheirown decisions.Also,thefindinginthisstudythatmothersaremoreoverprotectiveand caringthanfathersprobablyhastodowiththefactthatmothersspendmoretimewith
GenderDifferencesandParenting 10 theirchildrenthanfathers.Stereotypically,afathersroleisoftenseenasaprovider role,andamothersroleisseenasthecaretakersrole(Gerson,2002).Alsothefinding thatmothersareperceivedonaverageasspendingmoretimetakingcareoftheir childrenthanfathersevenwhenworkingfulltimesupportswhatweknowaboutthe secondshiftandmenandwomensperceivedresponsibilityinandoutofthehome (Hochschild,2003). ThesecondshiftasdefinedbyHochschild(2003)iswhenawomancomeshome afterafulldayofworkandhasasecondshiftofhousework,cookingandtakingcareof thechildren,whileherhusbanddoesnotdomuchoranyofthiswork.Thesecondshift accountsforanextramonthofhouseworkandchildcareayearforwomen(Hochschild 2003).Forparticipantsinmysubsamplewholivedwithbothparentsequallygrowing up,themajorityhadmothers(93of179)andfathers(169of180)whoworkedfull time.Manychildrenwhohavetwoparentsthatworkfulltimeareputintodaycareor leftwithafamilymemberorbabysitter.Ifonlyoneparentworkedfulltimeitwas probablythefather,givingthemothertheentiredaywiththechildren.Whenthe employedparentscomehomefromwork,thesecondshiftbeginsforthemotherwho spendsmuchofthistimecooking,cleaningandtakingcareofthechildren.Often,since menusuallymakemoremoneythanwomen,womensincomeisseenassupplemental andifachildissick,theresponsibilityusuallylieswiththemothertostayhomefrom worktotakecareofthechild(Yaremko&Lawson,2007). Thecorrelationsthatwerefoundinthisstudywerealsoveryinteresting.The morecaringamotherorfatherwas,thelesslikelytheyweretobeviewedbytheiradult childrenasoverprotectiveandviceversa.Itseemsthatbeingoverprotectivemaybe
GenderDifferencesandParenting 11 theoppositeofbeingcaringformanyparticipantsandtheirparents.Another interestingfindingwasthatifthemotherorfatherwasperceivedascaring,theother parentwasalsoverylikelytoberegardedasbeingcaring.Alsoifoneparentwas consideredoverprotective,theotherparentwasalsomorelikelytobeseenas overprotective.Perhapsitislesslikelyforoneparenttobecaringandtheother overprotective.Mostparentsappeartohavesimilarstyles,atleastintheeyesoftheir collegestudentchildren,asfarascaringandoverprotectiongo.Also,averyinteresting genderdifferencethatwasfoundinthissurveyisthatfemalestudentsweremorelikely thanmalestudentstoindicatethattheyhadoverprotectivefathers. Thisstudyhassomelimitations.Firstofall,thestudyshouldbereplicated.Even thoughthisstudyusedafairlylargesamplesize(302undergraduatestudents),there weretwiceasmanywomenthanmen(95males,207females.)Thisstudycouldhave beenimprovediftherewereasmanymenandwomen,sothattherecouldhavebeena morerepresentativesampleofmales.Also,thenumberofparticipantswasmadeeven smallerbecauseweonlyanalyzedtheparticipantswholivedwiththeirmotherand fatherequallywhengrowingup.Thisleft180participantsoutoftheoriginal302.These resultsmaynotbereplicatedinthelargerpopulationandmayhavebeendifferentifthe surveyhadbeengiventoadifferentagegrouportwoparticipantslivinginadifferent areaofthecountry. Also,perhapsasocialdesirabilitybiasaffectedthedata;itispossiblethatsome participantsdidnotwanttosaythattheyfeltclosertooneparentthantheother. Faultymemorycouldalsohavebeenafactorsincethestudywasdoneretrospectively; perhapsparticipantscouldnotaccuratelyrememberthingsabouttheirparentswhen
GenderDifferencesandParenting 12 theyweregrowingup.Anotherfactorthatmighthaveaffectedthesurveyisthatthe participantstookthesurveyaftertakingatest,sotheymightnothavethoughtvery carefullyaboutthequestionsandmightnothaveansweredthemasaccuratelyasthey wouldhaveiftheyhadnotjusttakenatestthathadexhaustedthemmentally. Inconclusion,mostyoungpeopleinthissubsamplehavehadtraditionalparents andfeltclosesttotheirmothers.Mothersonaveragespentmoretimewiththeir childreningeneralthanfathers,spentmoretimetakingcareoftheirchildren,were seenasmoreoverprotectiveandmorecaring,andspentthemostqualitytimewith theirchildren.Eventhough,intheParentalBondingInventory,motherswereseenas moreoverprotective,femalestudentsweremorelikelytosaythattheyhadover protectivefathersthanmalestudentswere.AlthoughIdidfinddatasupporting traditionalgenderrolescontinuinginfluenceonparenting,someindicationwasalso foundthatparticipantsfeelclosetobothparentsasadults.Oftheparticipants,76(of 176)indicatedthattheyfeltequallyclosetobothparentstoday,and69(of171) participantsequallytalkedtoorsawbothparents.Also,overhalfoftheparticipants indicatedthattheyenjoyedspendingtimewithbothparentsequally. Inthefuture,itwouldbebeneficialtodomoresurveysaboutfemalesbeing morelikelythanmalestoindicatethattheyhadoverprotectivefathers.Therehasnot beenmuchresearchdoneinthisarea.Also,itwouldbebeneficialiftherewasmore researchdoneonstayathomedads,becausetheyareanimportantandgrowing population.Fromthesefamilies,itwouldbeinterestingtolearnabouttherelationships betweenthefatherandchildren,andifitisverydifferentfromfathersthatwork outsidethehome.
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GenderDifferencesandParenting 17 Appendix Pleasefillinyourscantronwiththeappropriateletterforeachitem. 1.Yoursex a.Male b.Female 2.Age a.Youngerthan18 b.18or19 c.20or21 d.2225 e.Olderthan25 3.Ethnicity a.Caucasian/White b.AfricanAmerican c.Hispanic/LatinAmerican d.Asian e.Other 4.Howwouldyoudescribeyoursocioeconomicstatus? a.Upperclass b.Uppermiddleclass c.Middleclass d.Lowermiddleclass e.Lowerclass 5.Parentsrelationshipstatus a.Biologicalparentsmarried b.Biologicalparentsdivorcedfromeachother c.Biologicalparentswerenevermarried d.Motherisawidow e.Fatherisawidower ParentingQuestions 6.Whichbiologicaloradoptiveparentdidyoulivewiththemostwhenyouwere growingup? a.Biologicalmotherandfatherequally b.Biologicalmother c.Biologicalfather d.Neitherbiologicalparent
GenderDifferencesandParenting 18 7.Whichbiologicaloradoptiveparentdidyouspendthemosttimewithwhenyou weregrowingup? a.Mother b.Father c.Bothparentsequally d.Didnotlivewitheitherparent 8.Whichbiologicaloradoptiveparentwouldyousayyoufeelclosesttoowhenyou weregrowingup? a.Mother b.Father c.Bothparentsequally d.Didnotfeelatallclosetoeitherparent 9.Whichbiologicaloradoptiveparentspentthemosttimetakingcareofyouwhenyou weregrowingup?(Cooking,cleaning,takingyoutoschool,ect.) a.Mother b.Father c.Bothparentsequally d.Neither 10.Mostofthetime,didyourmotherworkwhileyouweregrowingup? a.No b.Yes,fulltime c.Yes,parttime d.Doesnotapply(livedwithfatherorotherfamilymember) 11.Mostofthetime,didyourfatherworkwhileyouweregrowingup? a.No b.Yes,Fulltime c.Yes,Parttime d.Doesnotapply(livedwithmotherorotherfamilymember) 12.Whichparentpunishedyouthemostasachild? a.Mother b.Father c.Bothparentsequally d.Neither/doesnotapply 13.Whichparentspentthemosttimeplayingwithyouasachild? a.Mother b.Father c.Bothparentsequally d.Neither
GenderDifferencesandParenting 19 14.Whichparentdoyouthinkthatyouspentthemostqualitytimewithasachild? a.Mother b.Father c.Bothparentsequally d.Neither 15.Whichparentdoyoufeelclosesttootoday? a.Mother b.Father c.Bothparentsequally d.Neither 16.Whichparentdoyoutalktoorseethemosttoday? a.Mother b.Father c.Bothparentsequally d.Neither 17.Whodoyouhavemoreincommonwith? a.Mother b.Father c.Ihavethesameamountofthingsincommonwithbothparents d.Neither 18.Whodoyouenjoyspendingthemosttimewith? a.Mother b.Father c.Bothparentsequally d.Neither ParentalBondingInventory Thisquestionnairelistsvariousattitudesandbehaviorsofparents.Asyouremember yourMother/Fatherinyourfirst16years,wouldyoupleaseindicatethemost appropriateresponsecategory.(Ifyoudidnotgrowupwithyourmotherorfather, pleaseleavethatsectionblank.) Pleaseanswerthesefirst25questionsaboutyourmother. Responsecategories: a.VeryLike b.ModeratelyLike c.ModeratelyUnlike d.Veryunlike
GenderDifferencesandParenting 20 19.Spoketomewithawarmandfriendlyvoice. 20.DidnothelpmeasmuchasIneeded. 21.LetmedothosethingsIlikeddoing. 22.Seemedemotionallycoldtome. 23.Appearedtounderstandmyproblems&worries 24.Wasaffectionatetome. 25.Likedmetomakemyowndecisions 26.Didnotwantmetogrowup. 27.TriedtocontroleverythingIdid 28.Invadedmyprivacy 29.Enjoyedtalkingthingsoverwithme 30.Frequentlysmiledatme. 31.Tendedtobabyme. 32.DidnotseemtounderstandwhatIneededorwanted 33.Letmedecidethingsformyself 34.MademefeelIwasntwanted 35.CouldmakemefeelbetterwhenIwasupset 36.Didnottalkwithmeverymuch. 37.Triedtomakemedependentonher/him 38.FeltIcouldnotlookaftermyselfunlessshe/hewasaround 39.GavemeasmuchfreedomasIwanted 40.LetmegooutasoftenasIwanted. 41.Wasoverprotectiveofme 42.Didnotpraiseme 43.LetmedressinanywayIpleased Pleaseanswerthesesecond25questionsaboutyourfather. Responsecategories: a.VeryLike b.ModeratelyLike c.ModeratelyUnlike d.Veryunlike 44.Spoketomewithawarmandfriendlyvoice. 45.DidnothelpmeasmuchasIneeded. 46.LetmedothosethingsIlikeddoing. 47.Seemedemotionallycoldtome. 48.Appearedtounderstandmyproblems&worries 49.Wasaffectionatetome. 50.Likedmetomakemyowndecisions 51.Didnotwantmetogrowup.
GenderDifferencesandParenting 21 52.TriedtocontroleverythingIdid 53.Invadedmyprivacy 54.Enjoyedtalkingthingsoverwithme 55.Frequentlysmiledatme. 56.Tendedtobabyme. 57.DidnotseemtounderstandwhatIneededorwanted 58.Letmedecidethingsformyself 59.MademefeelIwasntwanted 60.CouldmakemefeelbetterwhenIwasupset 61.Didnottalkwithmeverymuch. 62.Triedtomakemedependentonher/him 63.FeltIcouldnotlookaftermyselfunlessshe/hewasaround 64.GavemeasmuchfreedomasIwanted 65.LetmegooutasoftenasIwanted. 66.Wasoverprotectiveofme 67.Didnotpraiseme 68.LetmedressinanywayIpleased Thankyouforparticipatinginoursurvey.
GenderDifferencesandParenting 23 FigureCaptions Figure1:Whichparentwastheparticipantclosesttoowhilegrowingup?1.00,themost commonchoiceisthemother(F=81).2.00,theleastcommonchoiceisthefather (F=32).3.00isbothparentsequally(F=63). Figure2:Whichparentdoestheparticipantfeelclosesttootoday?1.00,themother (F=73),2.00,thefather(F=27),3.00,bothparentsequally,(F=76). Figure3:Whichparentspentthemosttimetakingcareoftheparticipantwhenthey weregrowingup?1.00,themother(F=120).2.00,thefather(F=7).3.00,bothparents equally(F=52). Figure4:Didtheparticipantsmotherworkwhiletheparticipantwasgrowingup?1.00, No(F=51).2.00,Yes,fulltime(F=93).3.00,Yes,parttime(F=35). Figure5:Didtheparticipantsfatherworkwhiletheparticipantwasgrowingup?1.00, No(F=6).2.00,Yes,fulltime(F=169).3.00,Yes,parttime(F=5).
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