50 Activities For Developing Emotional Intelligence

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50 Activities for Developing Emotional Intelligence

Adele B. Lynn
HRD Press, Inc. Amherst Massachusetts
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Table of Contents
Emotional Intelligence (EQ)What is it? ..................................................................... A Coachs/Trainers Guide to Helping Leaders Improve Emotional Intelligence........... How to Use This Guide and How Not to Use This Guide ............................................. A Guide to the 50 Emotional Intelligence Activities ...................................................... EQ #1 EQ #2 EQ #3 EQ #4 EQ #5 EQ #6 EQ #7 EQ #8 EQ #9 EQ #10 EQ #11 EQ #12 EQ #13 EQ #14 EQ #15 EQ #16 EQ #17 EQ #18 EQ #19 EQ #20 EQ #21 EQ #22 EQ #23 EQ #24 EQ #25 1 5 7 9
Suggested Training Formats ........................................................................................ 11 Champion or Chump .................................................................................. 13 Importance Meter ....................................................................................... 19 Adding Fuel to the Importance Meter ......................................................... 25 Rank Order Your Employees ..................................................................... 31 Ask for Feedback ....................................................................................... 37 Picture Yourself.......................................................................................... 43 Personality Contest .................................................................................... 49 Music of Our Workplace ............................................................................. 55 Coming Through ........................................................................................ 61 Open and Friendly vs. Friendship .............................................................. 67 Listening Habits.......................................................................................... 73 Genuine Listening ...................................................................................... 79 Tuning into Our Employees........................................................................ 83 I Was Appreciated...................................................................................... 89 A Grateful Heart ......................................................................................... 95 Gifts............................................................................................................ 101 Yes, but ................................................................................................. 107 Common Mistakes with Gratitude .............................................................. 111 A Note of Thanks ....................................................................................... 117 Dumped On................................................................................................ 123 Doing a Fair Share ..................................................................................... 129 The Bosss Fair Share................................................................................ 135 Action/Reaction .......................................................................................... 141 Take a Stand.............................................................................................. 147 I Value, We Value ...................................................................................... 153
Table of Contents (continued)

EQ #26 EQ #27 EQ #28 EQ #29 EQ #30 EQ #31 EQ #32 EQ #33 EQ #34 EQ #35 EQ #36 EQ #37 EQ #38 EQ #39 EQ #40 EQ #41 EQ #42 EQ #43 EQ #44 EQ #45 EQ #46 EQ #47 EQ #48 EQ #49 EQ #50 Contribution Spirit Killers ............................................................................ 159 You Expect Me to What? ........................................................................... 165 Great Vision ............................................................................................... 171 My Vision.................................................................................................... 177 Inspiring Words .......................................................................................... 183 Sharing Your Vision ................................................................................... 189 Who Invents? ............................................................................................. 195 Visions Apply to People Too ...................................................................... 201 Vision Spirit Killers ..................................................................................... 207 Advice from the Pros.................................................................................. 213 Working Toward the Vision ........................................................................ 217 Advice from Employees ............................................................................. 223 Todays Actions Toward the Vision ............................................................ 229 Fuel the Vision ........................................................................................... 235 Picture Yourself.......................................................................................... 241 Lessons from Low Points/High Points........................................................ 247 Its My Show............................................................................................... 253 Interior Power............................................................................................. 259 Control and Empowerment......................................................................... 265 Steps for Growth ........................................................................................ 271 Spirit Killers That Stunt Your Growth.......................................................... 277 Your Most Inspired Self.............................................................................. 283 Your Leadership Coat of Arms ................................................................... 289 More Reflections ........................................................................................ 295 The Power of Pictures................................................................................ 299
Additional Ideas............................................................................................................ 303 EQ Activities for Developing Communication Skills...................................................... 305 EQ Activities for Developing Team Building ................................................................. 307 EQ Activities for Developing Interpersonal Skills.......................................................... 309 EQ Activities for Developing Leaders/Managers/Supervisors Only .............................. 311 Recommended Resources........................................................................................... 313
Emotional Intelligence (EQ) What is it?
he workplace need no longer linger in darkness regarding the factors leading to great performance. More than 25 years of research in the neurological field and specific study about the factors that contribute to success in the workplace have resulted in breakthrough perceptions about intelligence. Quantifiable data on performance in a myriad of industries and organizations has resulted in a body of study called emotional intelligence. These years of study have named and identified the intangibles that predict success in the workplace. Emotional intelligence explains why despite equal intellectual capacity, training, or experience, some people excel while others of the same caliber lag behind. Repeatedly, we heard and told stories of people with intellectual brilliance often coupled with great experience and education that did not always produce the most capable leaders. Sometimes, even worse, these purveyors of knowledge and intellect created emotional disasters among their followers and plagued the halls of corporate America, dooming their followers to a work life of low creativity, minimal enthusiasm, low productivity, and even fear. And of course, the corporate answer was send them to a training class. Training classes almost always fell short because the training was not designed to get to the root of the matter and develop the core issue. Also, training was generically designed and was not targeted to the individuals own failure prescription. Brilliant research by Daniel Goleman, Robert Cooper, Ayman Sawaf, and Robert Kelley has quantified the characteristics of emotional intelligence and allowed for measurement in a field that was before void of such measurement and definition. It is no longer an accident that certain competencies are found repeatedly in high performers. Many of these competencies are found in high performers at all levels, from customer service representatives to CEOs. No longer is the discussion about non-quantifiable soft skills. Instead, we as trainers and coaches must find ways to build those talents that have been identified by these experts and labeled as emotional intelligence. So, what exactly do the gifts of emotional intelligence comprise? For the answer to that question, I guide you back to the experts. Anyone who will be using this guide for coaching or training in the area of emotional intelligence must be completely familiar with the following works:

Working with Emotional Intelligence, by Daniel Goleman Executive EQ, Emotional Intelligence in Leadership and Organizations, by Robert K. Cooper and Ayman Sawaf How to Be a Star at Work, by Robert E. Kelley
And for understanding the impact of emotional intelligence on workers and consistent language in this guide, I also refer you to my own work:
In Search of HonorLessons from Workers on How to Build Trust, by Adele B. Lynn 1
Although the language, models, and depth of this subject differ among the experts, the general thesis supported in these works is consistent. So, first and foremost, read the experts. The information contained within these pages concentrates on developing some, not all, aspects of emotional intelligence. (It is impossible for any 50 activities to ever effectively address the whole of this subject.) The exercises contained within these pages are aimed mostly at developing the following set of talents: 1. Self-Awareness and Control: This talent comprises two separate skills. The self-awareness component demands intimate and accurate knowledge of ones self and ones emotions. It also demands understanding and predicting ones emotional reactions to situations. One who is emotionally competent at selfawareness is also fully aware of ones values and core beliefs and knows the impact and effect of compromising these core components. The self-control component requires full mastery of being in control of emotions. Both positive and negative emotions are channeled in the most productive manner when one controls the emotion versus the emotion controlling the person. The person with mastery and control of emotions can both anticipate and plan emotional reactions to maximize effectiveness. 2. Empathy: Empathy requires the ability to understand how others perceive situations. This perception includes knowing how others feel about a particular set of events or circumstances. Empathy requires knowing the perspective of others and being able to see things from the value and belief system of the other person. It is the ability to fully immerse oneself in anothers viewpoint, yet be able to remain wholly apart. The understanding associated with empathy is both cognitive and emotional. It takes into consideration the reasons and logic behind anothers feelings or point of view, while also allowing the empathic party to feel the spirit of a person or thing. 3. Social Expertness: Social expertness is the ability to build genuine relationships and bonds with others that are based on an assumption of human equality. Social expertness allows people to genuinely express feelings, even conflict, in a way that builds rather than destroys relationships. Social expertness also enables a person to choose appropriate actions based on his or her feelings of empathy. The talent of social expertness allows caring, support, and concern to show for fellow humans in all of lifes situations. Social expertness also demands that one reads social situations for readiness, appropriateness, and spoken and unspoken norms. Resolving conflict without compromising core beliefs or values is an important component of social expertness. High social expertness also allows for strong networks on both a professional and personal level that can readily be enlisted when needed for aid. 4. Personal Influence: Personal influence is the ability to inspire others through example, words, and deeds. It is the ability to lead others by way of social expertness. Personal influence is the ability to read situations and exert influence and leadership in the desired direction. Personal influence is also the ability to confront the issues that are important or debilitating to relationships, goals, missions, or visions. Personal influence is also exhibiting motivation for ones visions, missions, core values, and beliefs.
5. Mastery of Vision: Mastery of vision requires that the individual has the ability to set direction and vision guided by a strong personal philosophy. The ability to communicate and articulate with passion regarding direction and vision are also essential to mastery of vision. This talent serves as the inner compass that guides and influences ones actions. This inner compass also provides resilience and strength to overcome obstacles. It is the inner motivator and the guardian angel of our purpose. It is because of mastery of vision that we know who we are and what we are compelled to do with our lives. When our actions and words are consistent with this personal philosophy, it is our sense of authenticity. When inconsistent, it is our sense of stress and discomfort.
A Coachs/Trainers Guide to Helping Leaders Improve Emotional Intelligence

he coachs/trainers role is critical in helping leaders develop emotional intelligence. Emotional intelligence does not improve overnight. Developing ones emotional intelligence is truly a lifetime journey. However, with the help of a coach or trainer, a sixmonth to one-year time period will provide a good beginning for the leader. Therefore, any organization that commits to building its leaders emotional intelligence must also commit to a long-term effort. It is the coach or trainer who can provide the consistent effort over this initial six-month to one-year time period for such growth to begin to occur. A long-term coach or trainer will also get to know the leaders strengths, weaknesses, and areas of emotional intelligence that need the most work. In addition, growth will be well seeded if the leader is given ample feedback, reinforcement, and reminders to practice new behaviors on the job. This is the coachs or trainers most golden role. Step 1: Step 2: Model emotional intelligence in all of your interactions with your participants. Assist the leader in honest assessment. Assessment sources and methods can vary greatly. The coach/trainer must be able to ferret out the wheat from the chaff. Also, the coach/trainer must be familiar with the leaders situation to provide truth and honesty. The coach/trainer must also realize when the leaders self-awareness skills are not high enough to provide reliable data. Help leaders reflect on their current philosophies/belief systems and behaviors. Help them identify which belief systems and behaviors are helping them and which may be interfering with their effectiveness. Help the leader set realistic objectives about changing destructive belief systems and behaviors. Also, show the leader how to change. Expose the leader to other ways of thinking. This could be through peers, books, mentors, or other masters. Challenge the leader to create new belief systems and philosophies that will serve both the leader and his followers in a better way. Help the leader convert his or her belief system or philosophies to productive behaviors. Encourage repetitive use of these new behaviors on the job. Provide and find others to provide positive reinforcement for the leaders who are attempting to improve.
Step 3:
Step 4: Step 5: Step 6: Step 7: Step 8:
Step 9: Step 10:
Measure the results through assessment or other methods. Be sure to share the results with the leader. Mirror the behavioral results of changed belief systems and behaviors that improve followers reactions. Celebrate and applaud the leaders efforts.
How to Use This Guide and How Not to Use This Guide
Assessment is an important phase of development for leaders. However, all forms of assessment are not created equal. As a trainer or coach, you must determine accuracy of assessment information. In addition, these methods require continuous assessment and feedback between you and the participants. Hand-pick selected exercises in this guide depending on the person or group you are working with. In other words, select the exercises based on fit and appropriateness. The exercises in this guide are designed to be used as coaching tools. The coaching tools can be used in the classroom or in private coaching sessions. The tools are designed to help leaders reflect on their leadership methods, practices, and philosophies, and then to use these reflections to guide their leadership behaviors. As the trainer or coach, you should use this guide with care and judgment. All leaders are not at the same level in their readiness to reflect and develop themselves. Therefore, weve coded the exercises with a High, Medium, and Low risk/difficulty factor. Also, youll need to use care and judgment when considering offering these exercises in group settings or in private. Some organizational cultures do not promote an open atmosphere, and therefore, the exercises may have more benefit if used privately with the learner. We have, for your convenience, grouped some exercises or activities that work well together and suggest some sample training modules for you to consider. Remember, however, that in group settings, all participants will not be at the same level. Therefore, it will be important for you to take this into consideration when planning the session. Do not use this guide as a substitute for all leadership development. Leaders still will need basic skills in decision making, problem-solving techniques, and methods related to strategic thinking, etc. However, the activities contained within these pages are essential for leaders to flourish beyond these basic skills. Do supplement these activities with other training activities that will contribute to the learning. This is not, nor can it be, the only avenue to developing emotional intelligence.
Recognize that your role as the coach or trainer in emotional intelligence is to act as a mirror for the learner. Sometimes, self-assessment in a leader with low selfawareness can be flawed; therefore, your role is expanded. You must hand to your learner the observations and insights from within and outside of the classroom that facilitate his or her learning. Comments from employees, peers, and others must be part of the feedback that you give to assist the learner. As a coach or trainer in emotional intelligence, take care not to force people to participate if they arent ready. Debriefing exercises are instrumental if progress is to be made in emotional intelligence. The questions at the end of each activity are designed to get participants to reflect on the learning. Please add questions that you believe will enhance the learning. Always ask the participant how the learning will result in changing his or her approach on the job. Remember basic information such as Myers Briggs type and learning style information. Some people are introverted and will find reflection easy. Others are extroverted and will prefer to process the information by talking it through. As the coach or trainer, adjust your methods accordingly. Any exercise designed for private reflection on the following pages can easily be adapted. Exercises and activities aimed at increasing emotional intelligence demand that the learner internalize the information and then broaden or change his or her leadership philosophies. (Philosophies will result in changed behavior.) This cannot occur overnight. It is the trainers or coachs job to continuously keep this type of learning in front of the leaderto continuously challenge or affirm his or her philosophies that drive the leadership behavior. Dont expect Attila the Hun to transform into Gandhi. However, do expect progress. The key to progress in emotional intelligence is to continuously challenge the leader to rethink his or her philosophies that drive his or her leadership and then to support new behaviors related to this new thinking. Reinforcement of the new emotionally intelligent behavior is critical to acquiring the skill. The coach/trainer should reinforce these skills as often as possible. Ideally, the coach should also enlist the help of others within the organization, especially a superior of the participant, to reinforce the behavior.
A Guide to the 50 Emotional Intelligence Activities Emotional Intelligence Activity

1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10. 11. 12. 13. 14. 15. 16. 17. 18. 19. 20. 21. 22. 23. 24. 25. Champion or Chump Importance Meter Adding Fuel to Importance Meter Rank Order Your Employees Ask for Feedback Picture Yourself Personality Contest Music of Our Workplace Coming Through Open and Friendly vs. Friendship Listening Habits Genuine Listening Tuning into Our Employees I Was Appreciated A Grateful Heart Gifts Yes, but Common Mistakes with Gratitude A Note of Thanks Dumped On Doing a Fair Share The Bosss Fair Share Action/Reaction Take a Stand I Value, We Value EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE COMPETENCIES Self-Awareness/ Control
Risk/Difficulty
Page Number
Social Expertness
Personal Influence
Empathy
13 19 25 31 37 43 49 55 61 67 73 79 83 89 95 101 107 111 117 123 129 135 141 147 153
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Mastery of Vision

Self-Awareness/ Control
Risk/Difficulty
Page Number
Social Expertness
Personal Influence
Empathy
26. 27. 28. 29. 30. 31. 32. 33. 34. 35. 36. 37. 38. 39. 40. 41. 42. 43. 44. 45. 46. 47. 48. 49. 50.
Contribution Spirit Killers You Expect Me to What? Great Vision My Vision Inspiring Words Sharing Your Vision Who Invents? Visions Apply to People Too Vision Spirit Killers Advice From the Pros Working Toward the Vision Advice from Employees Todays Actions Toward the Vision Fuel the Vision Picture Yourself Lessons from Low Points/High Points Its My Show Interior Power Control and Empowerment Steps for Growth Spirit Killers That Stunt Your Growth Your Most Inspired Self Your Leadership Coat of Arms More Reflections The Power of Pictures
159 165 171 177 183 189 195 201 207 213 217 223 229 235 241 247 253 259 265 271 277 283 289 295 299
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Mastery of Vision
Emotional Intelligence Activity
EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE COMPETENCIES

Suggested Training Formats
uggested formats are simply designed to give you some idea of how to combine the exercises depending on your learning objectives. I would strongly suggest that you vary the formats depending on the makeup of the group. Also, supplement the formats with videos and other learning aids that support your objectives.
Format ALeaders Introduction to EQ day

Icebreaker Activity/Introductions ........................................... 25 min. EQ #1: Champion or Chump.............................................. 25 min. EQ #15: A Grateful Heart..................................................... 35 min. EQ #16: Gifts ....................................................................... 20 min. Break ............................................................................... 15 min. EQ #50: The Power of Pictures............................................ 50 + 10 min./person Wrap Up Summary ............................................................... 15 min.
Format BEQ Essentials for Leaders1 day

Icebreaker Activity/Introductions ........................................... 20 min. EQ #1: EQ #4: Break EQ #3: Lunch EQ #15: A Grateful Heart..................................................... 35 min. EQ #16: Gifts ....................................................................... 20 min. EQ #9: Break Coming Through .................................................... 75 min. ............................................................................... 15 min. Champion or Chump.............................................. 25 min. Rank Order Your Employees ................................. 40 min. ............................................................................... 15 min. Adding Fuel to the Importance Meter..................... 45 min.
EQ #50: The Power of Pictures............................................ 50 + 10 min./person Wrap Up Summary ............................................................... 15 min.
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Format CAdvanced EQ for Leaders2 days

Day 1
Icebreaker Activity/Introductions ........................................... 20 min. EQ #1: EQ #2: EQ #3: Lunch EQ #15: A grateful Heart...................................................... 35 min. EQ #16: Gifts ....................................................................... 20 min. EQ #9: Break EQ #7: Coming Through .................................................... 75 min. ............................................................................... 15 min. Personality Contest................................................ 50 min. Champion or Chump.............................................. 25 min. Importance Meter................................................... 55 min. Adding Fuel to the Importance Meter..................... 45 min.
Wrap Up Summary ............................................................... 15 min.
Day 2
EQ #28: Great Vision ........................................................... 45 min. EQ #8: Break Music of Our Workplace......................................... 60 min. ............................................................................... 15 min.
EQ #29: My Vision*.............................................................. 30 min. EQ #30: Inspiring Words* .................................................... 40 min. Lunch EQ #31: Sharing Your Vision*.............................................. 40 min. EQ #24: Take a Stand ......................................................... 35 min. Break ............................................................................... 15 min. EQ #48: Your Leadership Coat of Arms............................... 40 + 5 min./person Wrap Up Summary ............................................................... 15 min.
*Focus participants on only one aspect of visiontheir vision for the type of team and culture that they would like to create within their work units.
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Advice from Employees

EQ Target
Self-Awareness and Control Empathy Social Expertness Personal Influence Mastery of Vision
EQ #37
Objectives

To help participants gain personal awareness of some of the vision killers that employees perceive in the workplace To help participants assess their personal strengths and weaknesses related to the vision To help participants determine actions that they would like to change related to the vision
Estimated Time
30 minutes
Materials
Emotional Intelligence Exercise 37
Uses

Training workshops on leadership Private coaching sessions with all levels of leaders
Risk/Difficulty
High
Coaching Tips for Coach/Trainer

Employees have named ten behaviors that they believe kill a sense of vision in a work group. These actions are behaviors that the leader can influence. The emotionally intelligent leader knows that his or her behaviors influence perceptions. These perceptions are critical to motivating employees toward the vision. However, most leaders dont think about vision in terms of behavior, so they 223
Coaching Tips for Coach/Trainer (continued)

might be unaware that certain behaviors can affect peoples commitment toward the vision. The top ten vision killers identified by employees include the following: 1. Treating people badly, such as not showing people they care, forgetting to say thank you, not respecting people, not making people feel valued 2. Not setting good examples, living by the adage, Do as I say, not as I do 3. Focusing on too many things at once 4. Pushing too hard on the task and forgetting the people 5. Not giving clear direction 6. Giving inconsistent direction 7. Not taking responsibility for failure 8. Focusing on the detail and forgetting to tell the whys or the big picture 9. Showing little or no personal commitment to the vision 10. Allowing people who arent performing the job to remain In the eyes of employees, these 10 items ranked tops in reasons why people felt less committed and less connected to the leaders vision.
Trainers/Coachs Notes
Approximate Time
1.
Overview Explain to the individual or group that the leaders behavior has much to do with how committed employees are toward the vision. Explain that the emotionally intelligent leader knows that certain behaviors impact employee commitment. List the top ten reasons that people feel less committed to a vision. Explain that often we believe that the employee needs to get with it, but that our behavior may be signaling something else.
5 minutes
2.
Purpose The purpose of this exercise is to help you assess your own behavior to determine if something in your behavior might be sending mixed signals about your vision to your employees. Employees who were surveyed listed the top ten reasons why they feel less committed or aligned to a vision. These reasons reflect behaviors that are within the leaders power to change. In this exercise, we ask you to level with yourself to determine if something you may be doing may be working counter to your goals.
1 minute
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Advice from Employees
Trainers/Coachs Notes (continued)

3. Directions A. Give participant(s) Exercise 37. B. Instruct each participant to complete the worksheet by reflecting on each of the items and placing a checkmark on the continuum to indicate how often or seldom the leader engages in this behavior. C. Ask the participants to reflect on their three lowest scores. 4. Debrief the Exercise Use the following questions to debrief the exercise:

15 minutes 10 minutes
What impact can the leaders behavior have on the employees willingness to commit? What impact do the items listed have on your behavior when you are a follower? Would some of your employees be impacted negatively by your behaviors? What can you do to change the situation?
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Based on our research, weve listed the top ten vision killers. For each vision killer, place a checkmark on the continuum below to indicate how often or seldom you engage in this activity. Leaders kill a vision by:
Very Seldom Very Often
1. Treating people badly, such as not showing people they care, forgetting to say thank you, not respecting people, not making people feel valued
2. Not setting good examples, living by the adage Do as I say, not as I do

3. Focusing on too many things at once

4. Pushing too hard on the task and forgetting the people

5. Not giving clear direction

6. Giving inconsistent direction

7. Not taking responsibility for failure

8. Focusing on the detail and forgetting to tell the whys or the big picture
9. Showing little or no personal commitment to the vision

10. Allowing people who arent performing the job to remain
Reproduced from 50 Activities for Developing Emotional Intelligence by Adele B. Lynn, HRD Press, Amherst, MA: 2000. 800-822-2801
Todays Actions Toward the Vision

EQ Target
Self-Awareness and Control Empathy Social Expertness Personal Influence Mastery of Vision
EQ #38
Objectives

To help participants determine if they are taking daily actions toward the vision To help participants assess which actions seem to be working to engage people toward the vision
Estimated Time
35 minutes
Materials
Uses

Training workshops on leadership Private coaching sessions with all levels of leaders
Risk/Difficulty
Medium
Coaching Tips for Coach/Trainer

Its easy for leaders to think that once they state the vision, their job is finished. Now, they may believe it is up to the employees to carry on in the direction of the vision. Not so. Every day, every leader must re-communicate, realign, or otherwise remind people about the direction. A constant, encouraging clamoring by the leader restating the vision in a variety of different words helps people to connect to the vision. 229
Coaching Tips for Coach/Trainer (continued)

Restating the vision is especially necessary when people are not 100 percent aligned or when the leader is expanding or changing the vision. Of course, the best results will occur when the leader is demonstrating all other components of emotional intelligence such as building bonds and encouraging high trust. Fundamentally, the leaders job is to inspire people toward a goal. Unless that goal is firmly communicated and planted in the team, the leader will not achieve success.
Trainers/Coachs Notes
Approximate Time
1.
Overview Explain to the individual or group that many leaders think that visioning is something that can be crossed off the things-to-do list. Instead, visioning is something that the leader has to do in small and different ways every day. Most leaders get lost in what they consider to be work and forget that instilling the vision is probably one of the most important aspects of the leaders work.
1 minute
2.
Purpose The purpose of this exercise is to help you assess the amount of work you do toward your vision each day. If all members of your team are perfectly aligned with the vision, then you probably have little work to do here. However, most of us have team members who need to be reminded, encouraged, and prodded toward the vision. Also, change is a constant factor in most of our environments and change brings a need to reiterate the vision. Reinforcing the vision also strengthens everyones belief that the leader is committed to the vision.
1 minute
3.
Directions A. Give participant(s) Exercise 38. B. Instruct each participant to complete the worksheet over a twoweek period. C. Ask the participants to list things they have done over the last two-week period that supports their vision. It could be talking with employees in a meeting, talking one-to-one with employees, reinforcing actions, or otherwise supporting the vision. Ask participants to be specific and to tell specific actions that they have taken with employees to advance their vision.
5 minutes* *Denotes classroom time
230
Todays Actions Toward the Vision
Trainers/Coachs Notes (continued)

D. Analyze the logs at the end of the two-week period to determine if there are time gaps when we ignore the vision. Also, ask participants to put a star next to the items that they think had the largest impact on reinforcing or communicating their vision. 4. Debrief the Exercise Use the following questions to debrief the exercise:

30 minutes
What actions proved strongest to moving the vision forward? How do you know that these actions impacted the vision? Where do you need to pay more attention to the vision?
231

Keep the following log for a two-week period. Note at least one visible action you have taken each day that communicates your passion for the vision. Day Sunday Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday Saturday Sunday Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday Saturday Analyze your log and determine if you have any gaps. Put a star next to those items that had the most impact.
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