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Could This One Trait Really Be the Thing That Separates the Men Who Get 90% of the Women from Everyone Else?
The Answer is YESAnd if YOU Want to Learn How to Instantly Attract the Women of Your Dreams, Then The Six Secrets Im About to Share With You Will Be The Most Important Thing Youll Ever Read

From: Jim Strieter, Art of Charm Academy Alumnus Cleveland, OH One year ago, I felt like two thirds of a man. I was incredibly successful in two of the three big areas of my life, while the third area was a dismal failure. I had a well-paying career as an electrical engineer, a well-toned physique, and my doctor told me I had ideal health. Meanwhile, behind the scenes, I was getting rejected by every girl I truly wanted to date. I knew how to maneuver a satellite into lunar orbit, yet I had no idea how to walk up to a beautiful woman and get a date. I know exactly what its like to pour out your heart to that girl you desire, and all she says is, Youre not my type. I have felt the frustration of wanting to introduce myself to a girl I like, but not knowing what to say; not knowing what to do, not knowing how to escalate from hello to something more. I didnt know the secret that some men possess that makes getting dates look easy. I do know what its like to be stuck in the friend zone with every girl you like. I know what its like to be stuck in the friend zone with that one girl you would love to settle down with. But one year ago, EVERYTHING CHANGED

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and its all because I discovered the ONE VARIABLE that separates the guys who effortlessly get 90% of the girls from the guys who fight over 10% of the girls. By mastering this one core virtue, I have taken my dating from sporadic, to multiple dates a week, to settling down with that one special girl who just might be the one. I have gone from settling for the girl I could get, to settling down with my loyal, beautiful, charming girlfriend. To be clear, I am NOT saying this to brag. I am saying this because I have walked in your shoes. I know what its like to get friend-zoned by the girl youve secretly had a crush on for the past two years. I know what its like to be humiliated because she told your friends all about it. I ALSO know that you can enjoy my new lifestyle too by adopting the right mindset and doing some simple exercises. And when I say simple exercises, Im talking about mini-missions that you can do in minutes per day. These simple exercises have made me so confident that I can talk to ANY woman, and its as natural as breathing. If shes single, she usually gets a little bit flirty with me, and setting up a date is easy. And for five months now, Ive been with my loyal, beautiful, charming girlfriend. Now, I feel like I own my life. I feel like 100% of a man when Im single, and I feel like a rock star when Im with my girlfriend. Now, imagine for a moment what its like to have that kind of admiration from your own girlfriend. You have the confidence to live the life you want to live in dating, and in every area of your life. See yourself in the picture. Hear the sounds, see the sights, and really feel the feelings of your own girlfriend admiring you like a rock star. Where are you? Who are you with? What are you doing? What do you see? What do you hear? How does that feel to you? What kind of woman are you dating? How does it feel to walk her into a room full of people, people looking at her? With your arm around her? How does it feel to spend quality one-on-one time with her? How does it feel to have this much mastery over dating? Over your entire life? Feels good, doesnt it? Well, keep reading, because you are about to learn the secret that will transform your dating life. If youre like most guys, you can learn to

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attract women into your life just like I did. It doesnt matter if youre rich or not, handsome or not, fit or not, because most guys suffer from the same problem. The one problem that most guys suffer from has NOTHING to do with how much money you make, how handsome you are, or how fit you are. The one problem that 90% of men suffer from has everything to do with that one core virtue I mentioned earlier. This one variable will either attract women to you just because youre present, or cause them to subconsciously reject you as soon as you walk in the room. The ability to attract women is something that deep down, every man has, but only an elite 10% have learned how to access. The true number might be even less than 10%. It might be 5%, or 1%. But regardless of how elite this group is, you can be a part of it if you practice the tips outlined below. Now, before we go any further, I would like to clarify whether this report can help you. If youre looking for some kind of instant hack to trick women into sleeping with you, you wont find it here. Close this window and go somewhere else. If, however, you are willing to get out of your comfort zone, challenge yourself, and stick with something until you have the life you want, keep reading. Also, I want to clarify what we mean by success in this report. To a lot of people in the dating industry, success means getting lots of phone numbers, or getting laid, or dating as many women as possible. To me, success is something very different. In this report, intimacy is a necessary part of success. And, success in this report also means:

You have an incredibly fun social life, with both sexes. You have so much fun that dates happen as a result. You transmute the passion of your dating life into every other area of your life, You serve the best interests of the women you date, You improve yourself as necessary to keep the love aflame with your woman, and You set an example of gentlemanly confidence for the next generation.

Success is really a lifestyle. Like life, success is a journey, not a destination. The confidence tips Im going to give you are really for people who want to get better with age (like good wine). Yes, I am going to give you some cool stuff you can use to improve right now, and the best results are the fruit of a long term commitment to the life you want. Cool! We just drove off the sleazy losers! If youre still reading, you are probably interested in succeeding with women the genuine way by working on yourself. You could probably tell me the advantages of long term, incremental

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training over short term hacks. You probably see how much more deeply and thoroughly you learn when you learn dozens of lessons, over the long term. Short term hacks lead to limited functionality in a skill. Long term lessons lead to you becoming a new person, a master of a particular area of your life. (There are some contexts in which short term hacks are appropriate. However, for dating, you are best off if you focus on the long term.) Because we want you to be a new person, lets clear the air of a few fatal fallacies a lot of guys have about dating. These fatal fallacies are:

1. Only Men Suffer from Bad Dating Lives, 2. The Dating Trap Most Men Are Caught In, and 3. The Three False Kinds of Confidence.

Who Is Suffering, Anyway?

I can hear you saying Men. Duh. Everybody knows men suffer from bad dating lives. Sadly, though, the suffering doesnt stop there. According to MSNBC in 2006, 72% of people are dissatisfied with online dating. As of 2009, Match.com users go on 6 million dates per year, yet the chance of a date leading to marriage is 0.073%. According to OkCupid, women rate 80% of male users as being less attractive than average. The male attractiveness statistic is especially alarming, because the dominant source of male attractiveness is something very different than appearance. Well talk about what that is in a minute. Based on these data, Im willing to conclude that both men AND WOMEN are suffering from bad dating lives. This is a problem, because for most people, this means living lonely, empty lives. You can have all the success in the world, but if you dont have someone to share it with, you will feel lonely inside. And LOTS of people feel lonely inside. Men and women feel lonely inside because most men do not know the secret to attracting, delighting, and keeping a high quality woman. So let go of any belief you may have that succeeding with women is selfish, sinful, or any of that rot. The women checking you out need a fulfilling relationship just as much as you do. These poor gals are starved of love, and they just need to see you demonstrate the right kind of manliness so they can FEAST on your love and BRAG about it.

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Were gonna talk about that right kind of manliness in a minute. First, though, we need to talk about the fallacy that is keeping more guys home and lonely than any other.

The Dating Trap Most Men Are Caught In

Like most guys, my biggest problem was in the approach. I went to a school of 30,000 people, 17,000 freaking girls, and out of 17,000 freaking girls, not a one of them wanted to be my girlfriend. Why? Because of the way I APPROACHED. I walked around with shoulders slumped, head low, and no smile. I looked like serial killer. Like most guys, I thought communication started when I started talking.

This lie is The Dating Trap Most Men Are Caught In:

Communication starts when I start talking.

Reality is, if you want to attract women, you must accept that communication starts when she SEES you in her PERIPHERAL vision, or FEELS your presence. Even if her back is turned when you enter the room, she can feel your presence. And, she is making decisions about whether you are mate material before she consciously knows youre there. When you are out of earshot, and your voice is part of the background conversation in the room, she subconsciously judges your voice tone as being mate material voice tone or not. Here is a quick exercise that most men will NEVER do. This exercise is SUPER SIMPLE. Do it right now: For a moment, consider the first tenth of a second a woman notices you. She may consciously notice you, or just subconsciously make decisions about you. Either way, think about what those decisions might be. What does she feel when you walk in the room? When she looks at you, what is the very first thing she sees?

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When she hears your voice, what does she hear? What is the very first decision she makes about you? Most men have never given this a moments thought. What do you want that decision to be if shes going to date you? Read on, because the answer is in Tip #3.

How NOT To Impress A Woman: The Three False Kinds Of Confidence

I spent years trying to impress women with where I worked, how good I am at my job, and how good a musician I am. Basically, I tried to impress women with how accomplished I am. The result? Nobody was impressed. My accomplishments did not spark attraction in the women I wanted to date. Something very different does that I experimented for a year with putting women down. All that did was cause them to stop talking to me. I negged one of the highest quality women that I know. I didnt actually mean anything mean. I was just trying to have a little fun. The result? She doesnt talk to me now. Ive apologized; Ive asked her to forgive me; I told her I was an ass for saying that. Doesnt matter. Permanent. Silent. Treatment. I tried buying girls things too. I actually walked into a jewelry store once, and I saw a stunning diamond necklace. It was two strings intertwined red gold and white gold, and studded with hundreds of brilliant little diamonds. I told the sales rep I wanted to buy that necklace for a special girl. How long have you been going out? she asked. We havent yet. I want to tell her how much she means to me. I said. Well, this is against every sales rule in the book, but honestly, if you buy that for her, it will probably freak her out. Really? I asked. Yeah. Really, she said. Thank you, I said, grateful that this kind saleswoman would save me a handsome sum of money.

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So I went home, and I spent the next two months knitting that girl a scarf. No joke. When I gave it to her, she was genuinely flattered. But did she date me? Nope. Did I ever see her wear that scarf? Nope. Does she talk to me now? Nope. Why not? To answer that, we need to answer the question I hinted at earlier: What is that one core virtue that makes the difference? The one core virtue that affects your success with women more than anything else is confidence. Now, everybody knows that confidence is the single most important key to success with women. Sean Connery said this, George Clooney lives this, as well as thousands of the worlds most prolific lovers. But, how do you be confident? Saying, Be Confident is like saying Be tall. How do you do that? Even more importantly, what KIND of confidence? And, confidence in what context? To answer these questions, you need to understand the four kinds of confidence. Of the four different kinds of confidence, three require dishonesty on your part, and therefore are false. Only one kind of confidence releases your authenticity. This is the only real kind of confidence. These four kinds of confidence have been explained to me by my friends at The Art of Charm. The trainers of The Art of Charm have been featured on The Huffington Post, the Today show, Sirius Satellite Radio, guardian.co.uk, Psychology Today, and Cosmopolitan. These guys have helped thousands of men transform their dating lives. These guys helped me when others couldnt. I am forever grateful to the difference theyve made in my life, and I want to share that difference with you. It all starts with understanding the different kinds of confidence, and why only one of them brings out your best self.

The four kinds of confidence are: 1. Foo-Foo 2. PUA 3. External

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4. Charismatic

Lets demystify these now.

Foo-Foo Confidence

Foo-Foo confidence is self-talk that you yourself dont believe. FooFoo confidence is the worst incarnation of positive thinking. To be fair, positive thinking has gotten results for some people. The problem with positive thinking is that it doesnt make you more mature than that little voice in your head. When you have true confidence, it doesnt matter what that little voice in your head says. Lets say youre truly confident at work. When youre at work, and you take on a new challenge, you might remind yourself that you can do your challenge if you just stick to it. Reminding yourself that you can do this challenge is helpful when its believable to you. Conversely, lets suppose youre not confident with women. Telling yourself Im attractive in the mirror usually doesnt help if you dont believe it. If you arent congruent with what youre telling yourself, its an act, and if its an act, its not confidence.

PUA Confidence

By this point, most guys (and girls) have heard of the pickup artist (PUA) community. Sadly, a lot of guys see this as a shortcut a way to trick girls into liking them and thousands of guys have wasted YEARS driving women away that they could be DATING. Pickup artists feign confidence in three ways:

1. They dress up in ridiculous outfits and act like someone theyre not, 2. They insult women (called negs), thinking that if they can lower her confidence, it will somehow increase theirs, and 3. They tell elaborate stories designed to show how cool they are.

Not only have most women heard of these tactics, the truth is, they have always seen right through them. One of the best ways to drive interested women away is to play PUA games.

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I know. I drove off some pretty voluptuous wife material this way. NOT recommended. If you want to turn off the women who are checking you out, use PUA confidence. Otherwise, keep reading.

External Confidence

Unlike the first two forms of flawed confidence, which most women can tell are a sham, this one is trickier to recognize. A lot of guys fall for this one because they miss a subtle distinction which Ill explain in a minute. Basically, its trying to get confidence through external means your looks, your car, how much money you make, your position within an organization, where you went to school, etc. And although this may seem like a good idea, it just doesnt work. External confidence is like sticking the wrong key into the lock. Sure, there are women willing to marry a rich guy for the luxury, but these women usually cheat with a man who has real confidence. So, unless you want your girl cheating on you, ditch the external confidence. Fortunately, there is ONE kind of confidence that can bring the ugliest guy in league with the HOTTEST women. For real. One of the ugliest guys Ive ever met is married to one of the hottest girls Ive ever met. This is the real deal. This one kind of confidence is Charismatic Confidence.

Charismatic Confidence

Charismatic confidence is the hallmark of historys greatest lovers. The type that movie bad boys like James Dean, Clark Gable and Robert Patterson have. The type that the great leaders throughout history, like Marcus Aurelius, Winston Churchill, and John F. Kennedy had. This is the confidence that truly drives women wild. Its no secret that women say confidence is the most attractive trait in a man. What they are talking about is CHARISMATIC CONFIDENCE. How does Charismatic Confidence drive women wild?

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1. Charismatic Confidence gets a womans attention. If you want to MEET a girl, you first need to get her attention. Charismatic Confidence is the best way to hook her attention and reel her into you. Charismatic Confidence is the magnetic pull that draws women to you, without them even knowing why. 2. Charismatic Confidence makes her feel POWERFUL EMOTIONS. Women dont choose guys who are the most logical choice for themthey choose guys who make them FEEL GOOD. Being with a truly confident man makes a woman feel AMAZING. 3. Charismatic Confidence conveys ALL THE RIGHT THINGS about you. A man with Charismatic Confidence comes across as relaxed, funny, intelligent, and challenging which women LOVE!!!

The best part is You can learn this type of confidence. In fact, contrary to popular belief, the entire science of attraction CAN be taught. You can learn to turn your anxiety around approaching women into tornado-proof confidence. You can learn to use eye contact, body language, voice tone, and high-status humor to build massive attraction in a woman. You can escape The Friend Zone and FINALLY land that girl you really want. Just like learning something new at work, the process of becoming more confident and attractive is a set of defined skills that anyone can learn. To help you learn true confidence, my friends at The Art of Charm have codified the Four Archetypes of Confidence. The Four Archetypes of Confidence illustrate the four fundamental ways men seek confidence. Three archetypes are, deep down, insecure. Only one archetype has Charismatic Confidence.

The Four Archetypes are:

1. The Wimp 2. The Bully 3. The Douche 4. The Winner

Lets break these down:

The Wimp

Our first archetype, the Wimp, has very low self-confidence. Hes insecure, unsure of himself and uncomfortable in his own skin. He does, however, have a deep need to be accepted and loved by

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others. What makes him The Wimp is the way he goes about gaining this acceptance. This guy basically begs other people to like him. Hes the kiss-ass, the pushover, the guy that will do anything and everything to be accepted by the group. He shows his insecurity by being a little too eager to please. You might know a guy like this, and he is not attractive to women.

The Bully

Like The Wimp, The Bully has a lot of insecurities and a deep need to be accepted by others. However, the Bully has a completely different strategy for getting this acceptance he tries to force other people to respect him. He does this by belittling others. When he goes out on the weekends, hes probably going to look for the drunkest, most insecure girl and try to take her home. Thats how he validates his manhood. If that doesnt work, hes probably going to pick a fight with someone. You might know a guy like thishes the meathead, the school-yard bully, and the entire cast of Jersey Shore. At first, he might seem confident, but within minutes of meeting him, its clear that hes a fraud. The Bully is most likely to resort to PUA confidence.

The Douche

The Douche actually does have a sense of high self-worth, but the problem is that its conditional on external factors. The Douche may have loads of money, he might be a published author or a respected professor he might be a hot-shot Hollywood agent. As long as he doesnt view you as a threat, this guy can actually seem pretty cool. Because he creates the appearance of being confident, he actually does pretty well with the ladies at first. The problem with the Douche is that the more you get to know him, the more his true colors emerge. Because he defines himself by his achievements, he often goes out of his way to remind everyone about them. He buys a fancy sports car to show off his wealth, he casually mentions his alma mater in the conversation, and he name drops like a champ. His confidence comes off as arrogance, and eventually drives the high-quality women out of his life.

The Winner

This is the final archetype, and the one that all men should aspire to. The Winner has a high level of self-confidence that is generated internally. Hes the natural born leader. He knows that his life is together, he knows that he has a lot to offer. In short, he knows that

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hes the total package. And because of this, hes actually quite humble on the outside. He never brags. He still might have the fancy sports car, but he doesnt need to show it off. In fact, The Winner seldom, if ever, mentions his fancy sports car. He has it because he enjoys driving it, not because he needs other people see it. People can literally FEEL The Winner when he walks in the room. The Winner treats people with respect, and hes an amazing guy to be around. To imagine the winner, think Clint Eastwood, Steve McQueen, Sean Connery or George Clooney, or the characters they play. Earlier in this report we talked about the 10% of men that can get 90% of women. Well this guy is in the 1% that can get damn near ANY woman. Of these four archetypes only The Winner has true self-confidence. Hes not a pushover like the Wimp, but he doesnt create an arrogant faade like the Bully or the Douche. He has that je nais se quoi, he gives value to others, and people know hes confident. People know hes confident not by his words, but by his masculine presence. He never needs to tell anybody how cool he is. He just is. Thats why he has his choice of women. One great example of The Winner is Nikki Sixx. If you listen to his radio show, The Sixx Sense, you can hear how The Winner talks. Ive been listening to that show for two years, and Ive never heard Nikki brag. Ever. Hes a rock superstar, yet he tells stories that ANYBODY can relate to stories of not having enough money to eat, and needing to pawn his bass. Stories of frantically trying to learn a song 5 minutes before a show. Stories about cats and dogs and food. Nikki can joke about being not cool because he IS cool. Whatever you think of his music, his tattoo covered body and his crazy hair, this is a man of VERY high internal value. If you want to hear how high internal value men bond with others, listen to his show. So at this point you might be asking yourself how do I develop this type of unshakable, internal confidence?. Honestly, its not easy. Its not easy because true confidence is something you find in yourself. Just like buying a home gym doesnt make you fit, neither is there any shortcut to finding true confidence. Confidence is like a muscle. You have to exercise it. However, before you can exercise that muscle, you first have to find that muscle. To help you find your confidence muscle, my friends at The Art of Charm have created The Value Scale. The Value Scale showed me WHY some men are so magnetic to be around, and HOW I could do the very same thing. As you read this,

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youll probably think of some magnetic guy that women love to be around. If youve ever wanted to be just as attractive to women as that guy, the Value Scale will tell you how to do it.

The Art of Charm Value Scale

We all know some guys rate girls on a point system. (We know its crude, but thats a story for another time.) But after years of research, thousands of clients and interactions with tens of thousands of women, the guys at The Art of Charm have figured out exactly how women rate men. The result is the Art of Charm Value Scale. The best part about the Value Scale is that you can put yourself in league with the most valuable girls. Not just the hottest girls, but the hottest, smartest, most fun, most mature girls. You can do this, because a womans attraction to a man is based entirely or almost entirely on confidence. So these levels Im going to explain are really just ratings of a guys confidence. The Value Scale tells you how to BE any archetype you want. If you want to be The Wimp, just live Level 6 on the Value Scale! If you want to be the PUA, live level 7! Want to be The Douche? Easy! Live level 8! And if you want to succeed with women, and be The Winner, live level 9. The Value Scale is BY FAR the most effective gift Ive ever received from anybody in the dating industry. This one outshines them all. Every single one. I listened to it in podcast form (which you can get on the Pickup Podcast website for free), and went out that same night and lived The Winner. So keep reading Remember, these levels are based on 1) behavior and 2) what that behavior communicates. Since you can change your behavior at any time, and therefore change what you communicate, you are never locked into any one level. And you dont have to move up one level at a time. If you were a 6 one second ago, you can be a 9 right now. Levels 6, 7, and 8 all do the same thing: Seek value. The only differences between levels are in how they seek value. Level 9 does one thing: Give value.

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As a 9, raising other peoples value implies that you are the source of value. As the source of value, you have so much value that you can freely give to all who want it. You may notice in your past a mixture of levels. Dont waste time figuring out which one level you were. 6-8 are undesirable; 9 is desirable. So whatever you were, just shoot for 9 right now.

Level 6

Level 6 people have what we call a Supplicative Dynamic. To supplicate is a religious term that means to pray to a god. A man supplicating to a woman is basically saying, You are so beautiful Im going to worship you. The Level 6 catchphrase is, Please like me. Level 6 people have a very low internal value. Some common level 6 behaviors are:

1. Pecking Leaning toward a person to hear them better 2. Unwarranted apologizing Assuming that in some way, hes offended someone, even when he hasnt done anything wrong. 3. Shrinking up Afraid to be in anyones way. 4. Qualifying Giving reasons why others should like him. 5. Treating people as objects of worship.

Fortunately, 6s are easy to deal with. Just find something to appreciate about them, and theyre happy. 6s often use specific things (accomplishments or possessions) to supplicate for approval, so just saying I like your Mickey Mouse pocket protector [or whatever]. Thats cool, is often enough to delight a 6. Then, change the subject of the conversation to something you can bond on.

Level 7

Level 7 people have what we call a Combative Dynamic. The Level 7 catchphrase is, Youre below me. Level 7 people seek value externally by trying to push others into 6. Level 7 is like the scared puppy that has to bark at anything that moves. Common Level 7 behaviors are:

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1. Challenging others to a competition, sometimes in the form of a fight. 2. Being territorial. e.g. This is MY table! Who let you in? 3. Being controlling. e.g. I thought I told you to lick your ice cream cone from the south! Why are you licking it from the east? One powerful way to deal with a 7 is to give him value in a place he didnt know he had any. For example, when he says, Youre a weasel -faced mollycoddle! misinterpret it as a joke and say in a lighthearted tone of voice, Yeah, you got me! You know, you read people really well. Im glad youre on my side. Briefly give him value in an area he probably didnt know he had any, and divert the conversation to something you can bond on.

Level 8

Level 8 people have the Competitive Dynamic. The Level 8 catchphrase is, Im better than you. A level 8 person is always trying to one up you. Level 8 has some value, usually external, and knows he can win a value contest. Common Level 8 behaviors are:

1. Wearing flashy clothing. 2. Buying drinks for everybody. Bottles with sparklers are a favorite of 8s. 3. Bragging about material possessions, connections, or accomplishments. 4. e.g. As VP of sales, I made the Mickey Mouse pocket protector the bestselling pocket protector in the world.

The best way to deal with an 8 is to give him value in the area hes seeking value. When he says, I bet I can do more pushups than you, just say in a lighthearted tone of voice, Yeah, I bet you can too. Thats a cool bling bling youre wearing. Whered you get it? People can switch between levels instantaneously. Its common for guys to switch between 7 and 8 several times in a night, for example. That doesnt mean he IS a 7 or an 8. It just means he was acting like one at that moment. No one is locked into any one level. Since you can switch between levels, nothing prevents you from switching into 9 and staying there.

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Level 9

Level 9 people have the Cooperative Dynamic. The Level 9 catchphrase is, Im awesome, and so are you! A 9 asserts his own desires, and cooperates with others along the way. Level 9 is the only level that has HIGH INTERNAL VALUE. A 9 values himself so highly that he can lift everybody else up like the space shuttle lifts everybody into orbit. 9s are very accepting of people. 9s keep cool; 9s dont get shaken; 9s play along. Common Level 9 behaviors are:

1. Misinterpreting others behaviors in a lighthearted, positive way, 2. Giving people value, especially in areas they didnt know they had value, 3. Appreciating little things in the moment. This can be anything from complimenting a girl on her earrings, to thanking the waiter for bringing lemons with the water.

The best way to deal with a 9 is to be one! The best part about being a 9 is how easy and fun it makes your social life. As a 9, you dont do a lot of work just to get a phone number. As a 9, you have a lot of FUN and phone numbers flow as a byproduct.

Commonalities and Differences Between Levels

You may have noticed that 9 has a lot in common with 6. The difference between a 9 and a 6 is that a 6s attitude is, Please like me. Im going to kiss your ass to try to get you to like me, whereas a 9s attitude is, Im awesome, and so are you. 9 and 7 both assert what they want. The difference is that a 7 gets scared if anybody encroaches on his turf, or his girl, or his table. A 9, on the other hand, is comfortable with everybody jumping into his pool. A 9 is like the mirror image of an 8. Imagine an 8 looking into a pond, and seeing his 9 self below the surface. The difference between the 8 and the 9 is that the 8 gives EXTERNAL value, while the 9 gives INTERNAL value. The 8 gives THINGS of value, while the 9 makes everybody FEEL valued. The 8 knows hes valuable because of his

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things. The 9 knows hes valuable because he decided hes valuable no matter what. The 9 finds the good, the fun, the funny, in everybody, and shares it with the whole group. The 9 gets everybody appreciating everybody elses value. Some people in 6-8 are going to stick to their low value behavior. As a 9, you are okay with that. You show your value by how you RESPOND to other peoples behavior, and you are okay with other people doing what they want to do. Remember, people can switch between levels instantaneously, including you. If you ever catch yourself 6ing, 7ing, or 8ing, just give yourself whatever value you were seeking by doing so, and switch right back into 9.

At Last! The Foundation!

At this point, Ive explained what confidence really is, and now its time to tell you how to get it. And let me say, youre pretty cool for reading this far. Most people have quit reading by now, so youre one of the serious ones who is seeing this through to the end. So, here they are:

My Top Six Tips for Charismatic Confidence

Charismatic Confidence Tip #6: Ask Yourself, What Would A 9 Do?

As you think, so shall you become. Bruce Lee

One of the best ways to find confidence in yourself is to behave like a 9. Whatever you do, do it as a 9. Whatever you say, say it as a 9. When a 6 begs you for value, give that value as a 9. When a 7 tests your mettle, show youre cool as a 9. When an 8 tries to one up you, compliment him as a 9. When a woman you like hints at spending time with you alone, set up the date as a 9! Now, in this step, you might have to fake it till you make it. Thats okay. The difference between fake it till you make it and just plain faking it (PUA confidence) is that, in fake it till you make it, you are finding your 9 self, so you are seeking to be authentic. In fake it till

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you make it, youre actually wiping away the soot that covers up your 9 self, so that everybody can see the real you.

Charismatic Confidence Tip #5: Collect Micro-Victories

Continuous effort not strength or intelligence is the key to unlocking our potential. Winston Churchill

Im going to let you in on two keys to confidence: 1) Success breeds confidence and 2) Confidence breeds success. What do I mean by that? The more success you have with women, the more confident you will be. The more confident you are with women, the more successful you will be. Hold on, this sounds like a Catch-22, right? Not exactly This WOULD be a catch-22 except that you can use a little trick I got from my Art of Charm friends. That little trick is to collect micro-victories. The basic idea is to start with whatever you can do, and expand that only as fast as you can maintain confidence. You go on mini-missions that stretch your confidence little by little. For instance, here are the first four mini-missions.

Day 1: Go out and smile at 10 women. Most will probably smile back. Day 2: Go out and ask 10 women for the time. Most will tell you. Day 3: Go out and ask 10 women for the time, and then ask how their day is going. Most will gladly share a little bit about their day, and keep walking. Day 4: Ask 10 women for the time, ask how their day is going, and once you have a good conversation going, flirt a little. Youd be surprised how many flirt back.

You get the picture. Keep going like this and your confidence will shoot through the roof. Eventually, you challenge yourself with things like get 10 phone numbers in a day or go on three dates in a day. You can get there, as long as you break victory down into small enough pieces.

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So start racking up those micro-victories and youll soon be fearless around women!

Charismatic Confidence Tip #4: Immerse Yourself in Positive Reinforcement

You are the average of the five people you associate with most, so do not underestimate the effects of your pessimistic, unambitious, or disorganized friends. If someone isnt making you stronger, theyre making you weaker. - Tim Ferriss

If you want to be successful, whom you hang out with matters. A lot. Research into behavioral psychology shows that your thoughts, emotions and beliefs are deeply influenced by your peer group. Psychologists call this social contagion, the phenomenon that basically describes how your friends shape your outlook on life, your values and your behaviors. You see, the influence of your peer group is very powerful. It actually acts like an invisible hand that either drags you down, or lifts you up to the life you want. So, when it comes to your friends, you need to ask yourself a simple question:

Are my friends helping me or hurting me?

When you go to a bar, are your buddies huddled in a corner, or are they proactive about meeting everyone in the room? Do your friends have Charismatic Confidence, or do they demonstrate low self-worth? Chances are, your answer to these questions will reflect your own level of success and confidence with women. Whats the solution? Start hanging out with guys that are already successful with women. Build your own social network of charismatic men who can help you improve your own level of confidence and success with women. Hang out with men who will program you, consciously and unconsciously, to succeed with women.

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This doesnt mean that you need to ditch your current friends. Although, if you try hanging around some of them less, you may actually notice an improvement in your quality of life. I did cut a small number of people out of my life after I decided I would do whatever it takes to succeed with women. I felt like a weight was lifted off my chest. Some people are toxic and it may be in your best interest to avoid them. Only you can decide what is best for you in this situation. Regardless of whether a particular friend is a keeper or a loser, when you meet girls, you want to be with guys whose values and traits you want to emulate. Its also critical that you learn to recognize which guys are confident with women, and which ones arent. I was at a bar with a group of friends recently, when I met another dude flirting with the same two girls I was flirting with. If he and I were 7s or 8s, we would have competed for those girls. Instead, he and I teamed up right then and there. Automatically. Instant wingman. Hans and I exchanged names, and without saying a word about it, we supported each other to get the girls we wanted. Hans was bonding with the brunette, and I was clicking with the redhead. Hans and I lifted each other up and helped each other win with our respective ladies. This is just ONE of the powerful things you can do once you find true confidence. You not only have access to your own confidence, but you leverage the confidence of all the other confident people in the group. You get the social cred of the highest value people in the group, because you contribute to that highest value. This is how your success with women grows EXPONENTIALLY.

Charismatic Confidence Tip #3: BE PREPARED

Know your enemy and know yourself and in 100 battles you will never be in peril. Sun Tzu, The Art of War

Okay, women are NOT the enemy, so lets translate this one. The dating version is, Know the girl you want and know yourself, and in 100 dates you will always be confident.

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If you want to be confident with women, you need to understand how they think, and you also need to thoroughly understand what signals you are sending. What does that mean? Well, you need to know what they find attractive, exactly how they fall in love, what they mean when they talk about chemistry and how to get it, and how they view sex and the process of seduction. And thats just the beginning You also need to know:

1. What your body language says about you and how to come off as the most confident man in the world, 2. What your particular style of humor says to a woman. Get this right and she will literally melt. Get it wrong and shell reject you before you can say Friend Zone. 3. Where The Creepy Zone is, and how to AVOID it, 4. How to send the SEXUAL SIGNALS that drive her WILD.

The fastest way to start is to master body language. While there are no hacks, mastering body language is the quickest path to being a supremely confident and attractive man. Master your body language and youll be able to attract women from across the room. Do this right, and women will approach you. Learn to read her body language and youll instantly know if she likes you, so you can approach her without fear of rejection. Youll also know when to physically escalate, when to move in for the kiss, and when to invite her to go out with you.

But What About BEAUTIFUL Women?

I can hear the rumbles. Lots of guys are worried about what to say when the woman is especially beautiful. Fortunately, the same applies with beautiful women as with ANY woman. The primary source of attraction is the proper use of body language. So, once you master body language, you can talk about VIDEO GAMES and still drive a woman wild. In fact, master your body language and itll be like that scene in The Matrix when Neo says what are you trying to tell me, that I can dodge bullets? And Morpheus responds with No, Neo. Im trying to tell you that when youre ready, you wont have to.

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Charismatic Confidence Tip #2: MAKE IT FUN

Frankly, my dear, I dont give a damn. Clark Gable, Gone With The Wind

The American Film Institute voted the above line of the number one movie quote of all time and most women will tell you that its also the SEXIEST movie quote of all time. Why is that? Why do women love the bad boy? Why are James Dean and that vampire guy in the Twilight movies so damn attractive to women? To put it simply he doesnt give a damn. Hes EXCITING, hes playful, and he doesnt need anything from her. Fortunately, you dont have to be the bad boy, Clark Gable, or the vampire guy from Twilight to be playful, non-needy, and carefree. You can be a suave gentleman and be equally playful, non-needy, and carefree. After all, if youre really on top of the world, then you have nothing to fear, and therefore nothing to stress aboutso the whole world becomes your playground! So the question now is, how do you cultivate this attitude? Well, one simple trick is to make the whole process of meeting women into a game! When youre playing a video game and your character dies, you hit the reset button. You dont pout, you dont stress out and you most certainly dont get anxious. If you really want a fun game to get you in the I dont give a damn attitude, try the no game. The premise is simple go out and try to get as many people to tell you no as possible. For example, when you see a woman walking down the street on a sunny day, ask her to buy you a house. Youd be surprised how many girls want to play (verbally) after you ask such a playful question. Not only will this game quickly desensitize you to what other people think, but it has another surprising benefityoull see how difficult it can be to get a person to say no to you! In fact, I once had a girl give me the keys to her boyfriends Porsche when I was playing the no game. Once you make the world your sandbox, youll be surprised how many people jump in.

What All Great Men Have in Common

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We live in more of a pussy generation now Clint Eastwood In any situation, the best thing you can do is the right thing; the next best thing you can do is the wrong thing; the worst thing you can do is nothing. Theodore Roosevelt

What do all great men have in common? Whats the common thread between Marcus Aurelius, Winston Churchill and 50 Cent? If you could only pick one trait that makes great men great, what would it be? The answer is simple. There is one supreme trait that separates lifes winners from its losers And after going through my own personal transformation, I now know that THIS is why some men HAVE massive amounts of success while others WISH they did. Its ACTION! Sounds simple right? But its not always so simple. In fact, its the #1 reason guys FAIL. Ill be honest theres a major problem with men today. Most men are looking for the quick fixthe easy way out. Most men are afraid to put in the work it takes to be successful. They dont exercise the DILIGENCE to take consistent ACTION. Now, lets be honest with ourselves, do shortcuts really work in life? Do Mens Health cover models get there by following fad diets? Do millionaires make their money off get rich quick schemes? Absolutely not and thats the secret that all great men know. If you want something worthwhile, you have to earn it. Remember the home gym example from earlier? My home gym is a pair of running shoes and a pull up bar. I take consistent action with those two things and I am in better shape than 90% of men ever will be. Action trumps fancy every time. The same is true in dating. Like I said earlier, YOU can learn to be a confident and attractive man. YOU can learn to turn your anxiety around approaching women into unstoppable confidence. YOU can learn to use eye contact, body language and high-status humor to build massive attraction in a woman. YOU can learn to get out of the friend zone and FINALLY land that girl YOU really want. And, like with anything else of value, there are no shortcuts on the road to your dream. Now, you already know that pickup lines and routines dont work, you know that there arent any psychological tricks that will allow you to

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read a womans mind, and you know that using Axe Body Spray isnt going to make thousands of women flock after you. So, not just any action will work. The action you take must be effective action. What many guys dont realize (and this is important to understand if you want to save thousands of dollars) is that the majority of books and DVDs giving dating advice are worthless. Why is this? Well, most at-home dating programs fail because they use PASSIVE learning. The student simply reads an eBook or watches a few DVDs and thats it. No drills, no coaching, NO ACTION. You must adopt ACTIVE LEARNING if you want to succeed with women. Like I said earlier, the thing that differentiates the WINNERS from the LOSERS is ACTION. You need ACTIVE learning to make your lessons instinctive. You need your body to learn what your head already knows. You need to get out, and meet women and have fun! In short

If You Want to Have the Charismatic Confidence of a Great Man, You Must Take ACTION!!!
Charismatic Confidence Tip #1: Take Action!

Sounds Great Jim, but How Do I LIVE Like This?

This is where I get all salesy and try to enroll you in the Art of Charm Academy. If you decide not to join, thats cool with me. Im actually modeling something I want you to do with women. Tell her what you want, confident that what you want is a worthy thing. And, be okay with whatever choice she makes. What I want is for you to succeed with women. My personal conviction is that The Art of Charm Academy is the single best tool to make that happen. Therefore, I would be 6-ing if I did anything other than ask you to enroll.

Remember that if you enroll, your investment is protected by our Iron Clad 100% money back guarantee. If you decide you want a refund for the month youre in, you ask for it, and you get it. You dont need to give a reason. The most you risk by trying this

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is the 5 minutes it takes you to ask for a refund. Is it worth it? You decide. Okay, so now you know you need to take action. Cool. And its really important that you adopt a whatever it takes attitude in succeeding with women. Adopt that attitude right now. Cool. So, what actions specifically do you need to take? You need to follow the six tips I outlined above, and Im about to show you how The Art of Charm Academy can help you do each one FASTER and MORE EFFECTIVELY.

1. Everywhere you go, and in everything you do, ask yourself, What would a 9 do? and do that. If you notice yourself 6ing, 7ing, or 8ing, just give yourself whatever validation you need, and go right back to 9ing. 2. Collect micro-victories. You can do a lot of this on your own, for free. I gave you the first four mini-missions from the Academy. You can go rack up 100+ micro-victories just using those four. For free. For the full sequence, dozens of missions, the path to all the dates you could want, enroll in The Art of Charm Academy. 3. Immerse Yourself in Positive Reinforcement. This is where you may need to invest in yourself. When it comes to succeeding with women, like-minded men can be damn near impossible to find. So, if youre going to find one, you need to go where there are lots of them. The best place to find lots of like-minded, high value men is the Art of Charm Academy. You may even find a local wingman too. 4. Be Prepared. Theoretically, you could find all of the information you need to succeed for free on the Internet. The problem is, most guys wont actually do it. 5. Make it fun. When is the last time you got rewarded for approaching a woman? When is the last time you got points just for asking? Well, in the Art of Charm Academy, you literally do! The Art of Charm Academy is the only place I know that gives you positive feedback just for taking action. 6. Of course, take action. The difference between The Art of Charm Academy and every other dating product out there is that every aspect of The Art of Charm Academy supports action. The Art of Charm doesnt sell information. The Art of Charm GIVES you all their information for free. Why? Because anybody can talk. Why would you pay somebody to talk? What The Art of Charm Academy does, that no other at-home program does, is actively facilitate your action.

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In fact, The Art of Charm Academy so effectively supports your action that some people are calling it the worlds first at-home boot camp. My mission is to better the male sex for the benefit of both sexes. Remember, women are suffering too. Most women will NEVER have a lover who even comes close to fulfilling their wild fantasies. Most women settle for relationships that are unsatisfying, or even abusive. Women need strong, confident, caring men, and quite frankly, there arent enough to go around. My way of doing something about it is helping guys become the confident, suave gentleman who can lead a lady through an unforgettable experience. To do anything else would just be ungentlemanly. I have been helped by some amazing coaches to find my own success with women, and now its my turn to help others. I am out to help as many men be the best versions of themselves as possible. Only by flooding the world with millions of high value gentlemen can we make fulfilling relationships abundant for both sexes. Historically, most guys who need help with dating have gone to a boot camp, such as The Art of Charm Boot Camp. There are some cool benefits to going to a boot camp:

1. You spend a ton of time with instructors. When you hit the field, an instructor can show you what youre doing wrong right then and there. You can fix it with the instructor watching, and you know youre good to go. 2. Your learning is very intense. Because of the energy pumping through your body, you internalize your lessons very quickly. 3. You form camaraderie with your classmates.

Bootcamps also have their limitations:

1. Unless you live in the same city as the boot camp, its not your city. This leaves some guys wondering whether they will have the same results in their own town. 2. Boot camps are expensive, usually $2500 and up. 3. Boot camps require you to take a lot of time off work, usually a week. 4. For most people, boot camps require a lot of travel time and money.

The Art of Charm Academy is designed to overcome the limitations of the in-person boot camp, while giving you the same benefits. Heres

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how:

1. You can email an instructor when youre stuck on something. If necessary, an instructor can call you on the phone. 2. You are part of an exclusive social network designed to give you boot camp camaraderie with your Academy mates. 3. You practice in your own city, so as you build success, you know it works in YOUR city. 4. The price is only $67 a month. The price is high enough that we can keep the quality of training high, and low enough that anybody can do it. 5. You dont need to take one minute off work. You practice whatever days and times work for you. 6. Compared to flying across the country for a boot camp, virtually no travel is required. The only travel you do is going places to meet girls, which you should be doing anyway.

I invite you to enroll in the Art of Charm Academy. These guys have helped thousands of men revolutionize themselves, and they can help you. Jordan, AJ and I have teamed up to make The Art of Charm Academy available to you, in your home, for only $67 per month.

The first month on the Academy was simple and had a great impact on me. I was noticing improvement on every approach I made, because (thanks to what Ive learned on the Academy) I always knew where I went wrong or where I could improve the next time around. Ive found it much easier to be comfortable in my own skin, and now every day Im taking small actions to develop myself to become better and better.
- Daniel Perez, San Bernadino, CA

In six amazing months you will reprogram your body to automatically turn a woman on. Each day, you will turn your head knowledge into stronger and stronger confidence as you turn women on more and more deeply. You will program your voice, behavior, and posture, to throw her dating drive into high gear. Even after the first module I noticed results that have left me feeling happier and more confident. In addition, Ive been getting hit on at work, getting compliments on my hair and clothes at college, and my

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female friends are introducing me to a lot of their girl friends as well. Honestly, the whole world seems to be responding to me more positively.
- Justin Ferrin, Chico, CA

So, Who Is This For, REALLY?

The history of the world is but the biography of great men. - Thomas Carlyle

Your success with women is more than just success with women. Your success with women affects the world at three different levels. Imagine three concentric circles. A little circle, inside a medium circle, inside a big circle. The smallest circle is your dating life your ability to attract and keep the woman of your dreams. Thats a pretty awesome circle one that most men will never fill. The medium circle is you being in control of your entire life. The little circle, success with women, is key to filling the medium circle, being in control of your entire life. The sexual energy that you must master to fuel a romance empowers you to grab your life by the horns and steer it whichever way you want. Romantic intimacy is the most powerful source of energy a man can access. Only by learning to guide your sex energy with a woman can you unlock the greatest source of inspiration that you could ever possess. So, the inner circle is your success with women, and the medium circle is you being in control of your life. Whats the outer circle? The outer circle is your effect on the world around you. The people you inspire. The professionals you mentor. The friends you make laugh. The woman you love. The children you have. Failing with women hurts more people than just you. And succeeding with women benefits many more people than just you. Remember, real men are getting scarcer by the decade. In an age of overly humble men, absent fathers, and frivolous lawsuits, the tradition of true manliness has been all but squelched. A small number of men have preserved the tradition of manliness, and an even smaller number of men have turned it into a model that anyone

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can learn. My dad is a chronic-6. I grew up watching a 6, and guess what? I learned how to be a really good 6! But a 6 doesnt have what he wants in life. Not in career, not in friendships, and definitely not in dating. I wasted years trying to figure out what a 9 is on my own. I wont have that for my son. My son is going to have an example of kind, considerate, confident manliness. Your son deserves the same. Invest in yourself. Make yourself the kind of man who can change the world. Intimacy between the sexes cannot flourish by men sitting around watching DVDs. It can only happen one person at a time one man at a time making himself the solution. One man at a time taking action now. The only way to solve this problem is to BE the solution. Invest in yourself. Change yourself, change the world. Enroll in the Art of Charm Academy

One quick story: This past weekend, each of us had the opportunity to go home with a girl three evenings in a row simply by bar walking at our favorite bars. They literally asked to put their numbers in our phone! By being self-amused and outgoing, we frequently end up sitting at the table of the hottest girls in the bar before we even know whats happened. Two tables of women literally used the phrase, Sit down! and ordered my friend and me to sit with them! Through what Ive learned on the Academy my friend and I produced so much social value that nearly every hot girl we met was asking us how we knew everyone so well! Ive been able to apply the skills Ive learned on the Academy immediately, and weve been meeting more women than we ever have before. I think what is most gratifying is receiving compliments that are directly in line with attributes Ive been trying to cultivate in myself. They center around me being more confident and having the drive to go after what I want. Further, learning (from you guys) how to lead effectively has drastically improved all aspects of my life. Ive finally stopped being a passenger and started being a driver in my own life.
- Nathan P, Florida

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No Nonsense, No Excuses 30-Day Money Back Guarantee: Measurable Results Or We Foot The Bill
We know you know the same program isnt for everybody. We think we should have to PROVE our program is as good as we say it is. Thats why we protect every penny of your investment with our iron-clad, money back guarantee. If, after 30 days, you havent enjoyed at least 10 women playfully bantering with you, we would be embarrassed to keep your money. I am dead serious. Either you get results that delight you, or you dont pay. Period. If youre borderline, try the Academy out, and then you know for sure whether this is for you. You can ask for a refund any time during the next 30 days, and receive a prompt, pleasant refund. No bull, no questions, no excuses. We can make this guarantee because we are confident the Academy will work for you. You probably already know whether you want to do this. Youre probably happy for the guys who have already gotten amazing results from this program. And at the same time, you might be wondering, Will this work for me? I made it clear pretty early on that this is not for everybody. Really, the only way to know whether this works for you is to try it. Thats why we protect every penny of your investment. Every penny, iron-clad, no questions asked. We want you to put our program to the test. Do the first ten mini-missions and see whether each one builds your confidence a little bit. Watch the first four modules. Learn how to enter a room. Learn how to chase a woman. Learn how to create attraction. Do it in the real world. And then you will know for yourself whether this works for you. Notice the women checking you out. Hear her banter with you. Watch her bat her eyes when you give her a compliment. Enjoy the confidence this infuses into every other area of your life.

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If you enjoy all these benefits yourself, then just keep doing what youre doing. If not, send an email to info [at] theartofcharm.com and well immediately refund your order. Regardless of what you do, keep learning! The biggest mistake you could ever make is to think you know everything. As long as you learn eagerly, you can succeed at anything you set your sights on.

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Sometimes, you stagnate a little bit. The Academy will boost you up. Its a really nice boost. For guys who are considering it, give it a shot. Worst case scenario is you try it out and its not for you. What do you have to lose? A little inconvenience of trying to get a refund, but this could totally change your life. I think its definitely worth a try.
- Patrick C, St. Louis, MO

The one tool that, far and away, was most useful for diagnosing tools, is the Interaction Map. It was very easy to self-diagnose with the Interaction Map.
- Nathan P, Florida

One thing I appreciate about The Art of Charm Academy is the time. I dont have to take off a day or week or anything. Its very cost effective. I enjoyed the point system for the different achievements; that was awesome! I didnt think I would like that at all, but I LOVED it! There is so much information in The Art of Charm Academy that you get out of it what you put into it. It is worth every penny that I paid. It is AMAZING! It is life changing.
- Allen G, Colorado

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The Academy helped a lot with my family and friends too because the social dynamics are very similar. I can draw a lot of parallels between women and how they react, and a family member. The Academy helped me read people better. The most helpful feature for me is the video training modules. Like a lot of people, I retain things better than I visually see. Its way easier for me to actually apply it.
- Mark C, Cleveland, OH

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I like how there are all different skill levels in the Academy. You can give advice to people who are just starting, and you can get advice from people who are really, really good. Ive dated women that I wouldnt even have known where to find them before. I get a lot of women approaching me, who I find attractive and interesting. I live in a different world now!
- James S, Ohio

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I took the girls over to the dance floor and started dancing with both of them twirling both of them at the same time. My confidence skyrocketed. All thanks to The Art of Charm Academy. Just do it man. If youre on the fence, you just have to do it. It might seem like a lot, and it might seem like a lot of work, but its broken down so simply that its fun. Its really fun to go out, approach random people, and get them to smile. Get them to laugh. Not only will it help you in your romantic life, it will help you in your business life too.
- Scott M, Missouri

Kiss of Death: How Your Mind Keeps You Procrastinating And What to Do About It
You just spent the last hour or so studying great men, and what separates the men who have what they want from those who dont. Now, lets talk briefly about the ones who dont. Here are the Top Ten Reasons why most men never have what they want in life: 1. Indecision 2. Indecision 3. Indecision 4. Excuses 5. Excuses

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6. Excuses 7. Indecision 8. Excuses 9. Excuses, and 10. Indecision This is how most men live their lives. Excuses. Indecision. Funny. Those are the very same things that CREEP a woman out (indecision), or keep you from talking to her in the first place (excuses)! Indecision is pretty straightforward. Indecision is the refusal to decide what you want. Stop it. Decide what you want, and go for it. When you see a girl you want to talk to, just do it. It may take some courage, but imagine what life will be like once youve done it. Imagine talking to that girl and its going really well. Shes flirting with you, youre playfully flirting back. And all of this is really easy. Thats what your life will be like if you take action. If Im showing you the life you want, just do it. An excuse is any rationalization for not doing what you want. If in your heart, you really want to talk to a girl, and you rationalize not talking to her, thats an excuse. (Apply this one with maturity, okay? If your grandma has a fork sticking out of her head, skip the girl. Get grandma to the hospital!) In a social setting, where theres nothing wrong with talking to anybody you please, rationalize TALKING to her, rationalize MEETING her, rationalize SEEING HER. Rationalize just doing it and just do it!

How Much Time Does The Art of Charm Academy Take?

The Art of Charm Academy adds less than 1 hour per week to the dating you should be doing anyway. I consider the minimum worthwhile commitment to be 4 hours per week. 30 minutes to watch a module, 3 hours to practice in the real world, driving time, plus time to log your micro-victories. If you can do that, you have time for The Art of Charm Academy. 4 hours per week is the amount of time I spent, and in weeks 12-16, I went on five dates with two cute girls. Five dates in four weeks is no joke. Youre getting prolific when you can do that. Besides, The Art of Charm Academy is fun. If youre tight on time, one option you have is to re-direct some of your fun time to The Art of Charm Academy. If you arent willing to schedule time for fun every week, forget about dating. No girl worth dating wants to be with a guy who doesnt make time for fun.

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Just do it!

But I Cant Afford It!!! WHINE!!!

Hey man, Ive been there. Right after college, I had an entry level job, I was paying for grad school out of my pocket, and I was living paycheck to paycheck. Then, I got laid off. I took a job that paid half of what I was making before, and I was even tighter. And I STILL found a way to pay for my dating coaching. By the way, my early dating coaching was $100 PER HOUR. So $67 per month is a pretty awesome deal. Its really a matter of, How badly do you want the lifestyle of your dreams? No matter what your dream is, whether thats an exceptional career, changing the world, an amazing romance, or all three, you will have to exercise tenacity to make that happen. Ive spent years scraping by financially, and I was so determined to succeed with women, and I was so serious in my whatever it takes attitude, that I still found a way to make it happen. Its not a question of money, but a question of will. Its not a question of, Do I have have $67 burning a hole in my pocket? but of Am I going to make this happen? Another way to look at it is, can you afford to date girls you dont like? Can you afford to waste years, and tens of thousands of dollars, dating girls you dont like? Thats what most guys do. And its not fair to women. You only live once. She only lives once. Its not fair to a girl to take up her time if the pleasure of dating isnt mutual. Its not fair to you either. The most respectful thing you can do for women, and yourself, is to limit your dating to the women you mutually enjoy dating. It will save you YEARS, plus THOUSANDS of dollars. My personal conviction is that the best way to do this is to use The Art of Charm Academy.

I Cant Stress This Enough!

I cant stress enough how important it is to take action now. It doesnt matter to us whether you buy. Lots of guys are signing up, so from a financial standpoint, we are fine with whatever you want to do. Were like a cookout and pool party. If you want to come eat some good

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food, and jump in our pool, you are more than welcome! And if not, thats cool too. What really matters is whether you have what you want. Are you the kind of man who has what he wants? You probably have some measure of success in your life. It could be academic, professional, or social. To achieve that success, you probably didnt wait around for the perfect time to do what you did. You decided what you want, and you made it happen. Thats why I encourage you to take action now if you know you want to do this. The time will never be perfect. Conditions will never be ideal. If you want it, I encourage you to make it happen. If you are going to succeed with women, you must form a habit of taking action now. When you see a girl you want to meet, take action now. When you recognize that she wants a kiss (which you will learn in the Academy), take action now. When shes about to walk away, and you know she wants another date with you, take action now. My purpose for being so adamant is to help you just do it.

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