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BULLYING
Anyone can be bullied its a lot more common than people think and can happen at school, at home, on the sporting field, at work or online. If you are being bullied, its important to remember that you are not to blame, and that there are steps you can take to stop it. Bullying is a serious matter and no one should have to put up with being bullied.
WHAT IS BULLYING?
There are many ways that someone can be bullied. Bullying can be: Verbal: including name calling or put downs, threats, teasing and sexual harassment even if it is done in an indirect or suggestive way. This can also take place online or through mobile phone text messages. Physical: including being punched, tripped, kicked or having your belongings stolen or damaged. It might also include sexual abuse. Social: including being left out or ignored, or having rumours spread about you. This type of bullying is very common. Psychological: this is often less obvious or direct than other forms of bullying. You might be given dirty looks, be stalked or made to feel intimidated. Cyberbullying: this is a form of bullying which takes place online, for example via email, chat rooms, discussion groups, online social networking, instant messaging or web pages. This can also take place via mobile phone text messages. For more information, see Youthbeyondblue Fact Sheet 23 Cyberbullying.
is of great concern. It can lower a persons self-esteem and lead to feelings of sadness, depression, anger and confusion. If you are being bullied, remind yourself that its not your fault and that there is something you can do to stop it. The best place to start is to talk to people you trust friends, family and teachers about what is happening to you and to discuss with them some ways of dealing with the problem.
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GETTING HELP
Try to remember that no matter how hard you try, the person who is bullying you might not be willing to change his or her behaviour. This is when talking to someone else can be really helpful. This may seem scary at first, however, telling someone can lighten your load and help you to work out how to address the problem and how you can stop being bullied. Talking to someone is particularly important if you feel unsafe or frightened. Asking for help or talking to someone about it does not mean you are weak or have given in. In fact, it can take a lot of strength and courage. Although you may not want to, its important to tell someone in charge about what is happening. Your teachers and school counsellors want to know about bullying so they can take action and try to stop bullying across the school its their job to help. There are many people who can support you, including friends, older brothers and sisters, teachers, family members, counsellors or parents. The person you decide to talk to should be someone you know well and trust. He/she will be able to give you support and may be able to suggest ways to deal with the situation that you hadnt considered. Its important to address the feelings that come from being bullied. If you are seeing a counsellor and feel you might get too nervous to speak, write down what youd like to say on paper or in an email before your appointment. If it helps, you might feel more comfortable taking a friend with you.
National Centre Against Bullying www.ncab.org.au Information and research for schools about bullying National LGBT Health Alliance www.lgbthealth.org.au Information and support for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and other sexuality, sex and gender diverse people (LGBT) The websites below can help you to find health services in your area. They list services that are either free of charge or low cost: Kids Help Line www.kidshelp.com.au Lifeline Service Finder www.lifeline.org.au/service_finder If you or a friend want to communicate with someone via email or online, Kids Help Line offers confidential, non-judgemental, emotional support 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.
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Sometimes its easier to talk to someone you dont know and thats where services like Kids Help Line (1800 55 1800) and Lifeline (13 11 14) are useful.