Cambridge University librarian's marriage labelled a 'sham' by Home Office officials who force his wife to remain in China

David Rushmer, 48, met Chinese national Wang Xiang online in June 2012 Xiang, 39, was in Britain on a dependant visa with her former husband Marriage fell apart six months after arriving and she applied for new visa During the waiting period she met Rushmer and they moved in together In April 2013 her application was refused but they then married in China Then Home Office blocked move for second time and she cannot return
By Mark Duell PUBLISHED: 05:28, 2 January 2014 | UPDATED: 05:28, 2 January 2014

A Cambridge University librarian has been left devastated after the Home Office labelled his marriage a sham and forced his wife to remain in China. David Rushmer, 48, met Wang Xiang online in June 2012. She was in Britain on a dependant visa with her ex-husband but that marriage fell apart six months after their arrival. The 39-year-old Chinese national applied for a new visa and was told it would take up to three months to process - but was still waiting more than a year later.

Forced to live apart: David Rushm er, 48, m et 39-year-old Chinese national Wang Xiang online in June 2012

During that time she met Mr Rushmer and five months later they decided to move in together. But in April last year they were left heartbroken when Miss Xiangs visa application was refused. Mr Rushmer decided to propose and they tied the knot two months later in China and prepared to move back to the UK as a married couple.

'Devastating': Mr Rushm er has launched a cam paign to overturn the Hom e Office's decision after going six m onths w ithout seeing his new w ife

But their dreams were shattered when the Home Office blocked Miss Xiangs move for a second time allegedly saying they did not believe they were in love. Mr Rushmer has launched a campaign to overturn their decision after going six months without seeing his new wife. He said: It's devastating. We are newlyweds and we are being treated like criminals. That is the bottom line. They are suggesting my wife has attached herself to me with the sole intention to gain a UK visa. 'The excessively harsh new UK spouse visa rules have recently torn thousands of families apart. The Home Office confirmed that we do meet these requirements, but we were stunned that after a four-month wait and an interview, my wife has had her visa refused. They are saying the love we have shared over the past year or so is not genuine. Therefore we are liars, criminals, and so are my parents and all our friends who testified that we are very genuine, and so all our plans for our future happiness are on hold again. Mr Rushmer claimed Miss Xiang attended an interview in Beijing - 1,000 miles away from her home in China - where she was questioned about the relationship. She also had to submit wedding photos, records of phone calls, bills and pictures of their engraved rings to Home Office officials. The couple launched a petition which attracted almost 1,000 signatures in ten days as part of their appeal but they have received no indication the decision will be overturned. The Home Office has not yet responded to a request for comment.

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Share what you think Newest Oldest Best rated Worst rated View newest 10 jack, London, United Kingdom, 1 hour ago The UK government does all it can to give you hard time if you wish to marry a none EU citizen it cost me over 7000 when I married my american accountant wife I and her were forced to leave this country to marry in the USA as we told she could not change uk visa to a dependant visa here so were foced to spend six months in the states waiting for a UK dependant visa.

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Click to rate Louise58, Kettering, 1 hour ago how long does he think it will last once she is over here - get real

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Click to rate Sylvia Zhan, London, United Kingdom, 1 hour ago It is very difficult for a foreigner to get a work permit in China unless you have an employer to hire u & support your visa. China never has shortage of librarians. Chinese embassy will give David a 6 month tourist visa with multiple entries that's the best Mr Rushmer can get. Hope this answer those think David should go to China. Moreover, I know this couple. David and Xiang both are audiences to our festival. They came to our event when Xiang gave talks about Chinese ind documentary films,literature and social issue. Xiang is a writer and columnist of a few Chinese news paper on film and literature. She wrote a 200 year anniversary long article about Charles Dickens and published in a famous Chinese news paper last year. She has alsopublished a few books. She is talent that UK should welcome. David and Xiang are soul mate and true love. My colleagues and I all remember this lovely couple who have so many things in common. Home office is very wrong on handling this case.

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Click to rate POP, HOME, Uganda, 1 hour ago He can go and live with her in China, problem solved.

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Click to rate glynnpt, Basingstoke, United Kingdom, 2 hours ago UK government making life difficult for two people who could be very beneficial to the country, especially if the wife would

be able to teach Mandarin in schools. (Investing in her at her age would be cost effective) We are short of experienced teachers in that language. It is a language the government is trying to develop as China will be an important trading partner, while at the same time doing nothing to stop immigration by those who will contribute very little to the economy. Doesn't seem very sensible to me

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Click to rate Aletheia, Gloucester, United Kingdom, 2 hours ago I'm with the Home Office on this one.

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Click to rate vicky, West London, United Kingdom, 2 hours ago I am an Immigration lawyer of 10 years and would love to take up some of these unsuccessful cases!! I would have a field day in court with the Home Office, who obviously cannot recognize genuine cases from fake ones.

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Click to rate curious, leeds, United Kingdom, 2 hours ago Why SHOULD he go and live in China, or any other country?! In this case the interpretation of the situation is wrong, and the decision should be reversed. Why anyone would want to come and live in the UK amongst so many small minded bigots is beyond me, though.

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Click to rate curious, leeds, United Kingdom, 2 hours ago What a depressingly typical small-minded set of stunted little Englander responses to this story.

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Click to rate Michael, cleethorpes, United Kingdom, 2 hours ago Why doesn't the husband move to China

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Click to rate stevo, fareham, 3 hours ago Mr Duddrey No!!

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3 Click to rate Sylvia Zhan, London, United Kingdom, 3 hours ago My colleagues and I know David and Xiang. We shown a documentary film made by her in our festival and invited Xiang to give talks at our event in Freeworld Centre, King's College London and Goldsmith College. She is a wonderful writer, film critics and made two films. David came to our events with her. My colleagues and I can see the love between them. Xiang told us her happiness of meeting David. They have so many things in common that both love books, reading and writing. They are soul mates and true love. I was shocked and sad when I rang David asking if Xiang and him would like to come to our event, but was only to find Xiang was forced to leave UK. The way Home Office treats this lovely couple and the case is totally wrong.

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Click to rate Feduptaxpayer, London, 3 hours ago Charming! I felt sorry for you to begin with but your last comment radically changed my mind. So please you will not be returning!

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Click to rate Mehere, Fife, United Kingdom, 3 hours ago She should apply for a Romanian passport.

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Click to rate evolving program, Taipei, Taiwan, 3 hours ago To all the people saying "why not go and live in China?', do you know how stupid and unfair that sounds. 1. I imagine his Chinese wife speaks English and he doesn't speak Chinese. How easy do you think it would be for him to find work in China? Eh? 2. Imagine China also became as strict and discriminatory about family migration as the UK currently is, in its pandering to intellectually challenged voters. Why should one country have to accept them because the other country won't? 3. Finally, did you know that the UK allows EU citizens with non-EU spouses into the UK with no income requirement of 18600, no life in the UK test, no citizenship test? Rather, it punishes its own citizens - UK citizens - by barring their non-EU spouses, while allowing in any other EU citizen with their non-EU spouses. I'm just glad I live abroad now. Let the UK be full of romaniams who have no ties to the UK, while forcing educated UK citizens with non-EU spouses to get out and use their skills elsewhere.

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Click to rate Bazzer69, Walton on Sea, United Kingdom, 3 hours ago If he loves her, really really loves her - he should get on the next plane to China to be with her. I am sure with his academic background the powers to be in China would fix him up with a nice little job.

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Lachlord, London, 3 hours ago The home office are not always the most honest or efficient of organisations, and it may interest readers to know that very recently, a major clearance was done of some very corrupt individuals. Because of these individuals, some of my very hard working friends had to resubmit applications at considerable cost, having already done so previously, and which were not properly considered.

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Click to rate Tyler Durden, Bonham-Carter, Saint Helena, 3 hours ago Should've gone to Bangkok.

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Click to rate Kate, Manchester, United Kingdom, 3 hours ago I am Australian, I could not get a spouse visa despite my husband being someone who works 50+ hours a week, despite me having worked in the UK previously, despite having paid taxes here, despite us never claiming a penny of benefits, despite his daughter living in the UK, we were forced to move to Europe. Spent thousands of euros there to do so and paid into their tax system rather than Britain's. We moved back under EU law, this was the only way for us to stay together as a family. Did I mention we saved thousands of pounds in visa fees? This isn't about immigrants being a drain on the public purse, it is plain discrimination against British citizens! We would have moved to Australia in a heart beat if it were not for his daughter as it's not fair for her to be without a dad. I feel for David and his wife, I hope someone sees sense soon and they get the outcome they deserve. How dare the UKBA say that they are not genuine! I would be absolutely livid.

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Click to rate Ann On, Englandterre, 3 hours ago The story doesn't elaborate on the circumstances with the last husband. It may be that which is stopping them from being taken seriously.

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Click to rate Cinnamon, London, United Kingdom, 3 hours ago While the British people settle any country they want... time for them to get the same treatment.

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Click to rate Exemplar, Somewhere over the rainbow, United Kingdom, 3 hours ago Strange how they only decided to get married AFTER her visa was turned down.

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Click to rate Sink or Swim, Failing Utopia, United Kingdom, 3 hours ago I'm not very surprised by this - her previous behaviour clearly shows that a UK passport is more important to her than "love", since she advertised herself online and was already here with another "husband"! This might be the "real thing" for him, but looking through jaded eyes springs to mind!

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Click to rate buzzingworld, Dubai, United Arab Emirates, 4 hours ago The problem for this couple, amongst many others in "genuine" relationships, is that there are countless fake marriages or partnerships out there and this fact spoils it for anyone else in a real relationship. The sad thing is that the fakes get away with it and genuine couples have difficulties proving they are not fake. This is a systemic problem that needs to be addressed, intelligently, but that's probably asking too much.

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Click to rate AlexD, Edinburgh, United Kingdom, 4 hours ago The rules are more interesting: any EU national can come and live in Britain and get a free visa for his wife, no matter where she is from. UK nationals cannot do that, unless we move to another EU country and live there. If we bring a wife to the UK who was born outside the EU, we have to pay around 100 a year for a visa, and the visa process can take months as well as being highly intrusive. This can go on forever if the wife does not learn English better than the average 15 year old Britain, even after the couple have a family born and raised in the UK. Unfortunately many countries, including China, Russia and Nigeria make it impossible for Brits to get passports, so one has an indefinite number of annual visas even if one goes and lives there. A real mess, but one where non-Brits from the EU get a much better deal than Brits.

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Click to rate equalityforall, Angeles City, Philippines, 4 hours ago I sat old chap, did you hear the one about the foreign woman who only got married so she could get a visa to live in the UK? Well....

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Click to rate morningdelights, London, 4 hours ago he should move to China then

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Click to rate leftuk, Guangdong, China, 5 hours ago My wife also Chinese is not allowed into the UK despite from her previous marriage to a Brit she had residency which was revoked after her divorce after 7 years marriage. We live in China now. Some posters here miss the point when asking why doesn't he go to China - he's British and should have a right to marry who he wants and live in his own

country after all a Romanian/Bulgarian can marry an African in the UK giving the African a right to lifetime benefits in the UK but God help a Brit who marries a foreigner. If he transferred his assets to China the UK will confiscate them until he proves why he should have them as the UK considers China a security risk

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Click to rate Honky, glasgow, United Kingdom, 5 hours ago Why can none of these "heart-rending " people live in their partners country ie. CHINA/SOMALIA /NIGERIA etc, etc ,etc ???.

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Click to rate apw2, Birmingham, United Kingdom, 5 hours ago My wife is chinese and we had no problem getting a visa for her. We had an english wedding and attended the visa office together, while we didn't do anything different from normal, i think it was obvious that we were a couple to them. A few seats down from us, was a mid 50s man with a 22 year old Thai bride, didn't touch, kiss, hold hands or talk much. Kinda obvious it was a sham marriage. If he is still here and she isn't, then i don't think it's a real marriage, otherwise he would have moved over to China, they are always eager to hire english workers.

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Click to rate horseman, Manchester, United Kingdom, 5 hours ago One rule for one and one for another.

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Click to rate MikeeP, Scarborough, United Kingdom, 5 hours ago But they let in millions of EU people, she should go to romania get a passport there, they were giving passports to all. Totally insane situation.

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Click to rate nonconformist, east coast, Australia, 5 hours ago In Australia Asian women are much more heavily vetted and routinely refused on the basis of the amount of men being scammed, its a fact of life that these wo.en have everything to gain nothing to lose by hooking up with some lonely old Randy geezer in need of a housekeeper, a trophy wife and a beneficiary ( they may not know about the last bit) it is also common that these women have secret husband and families at home waiting til the 'coast is clear' to bring them out

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Click to rate gardener, Notts UK, 5 hours ago

Who did she marry in order to gain access the first time round? I'd hardly call six months in the UK a long marriage, so I can understand scepticism here. Why doesn't he go and live in China and get a job there?

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Click to rate JS, Somerset, United Kingdom, 5 hours ago It's because he is white and British, we have no rights here any more. My employed, graduate son cannot bring his Mexican wife into this country.

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Click to rate imeyo, St Albans, United Kingdom, 5 hours ago People should stop making assuming comments like Go and live in and China or wherever as it's easier said than done. Have we considered family ties - or is it now a sin to marry a foreigner. That be

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Have they considered that UK authorities confiscate and put into holding accounts any money you try to transfer to China - because you then become a possible enemy of the UK for marrying a Chinese women and then going to live there. This is what happened to me so don't think it is easy going to China as your own country then treats you as a traitor. 2 4 Click to rate Paul, London UK, United Kingdom, 5 hours ago My wife is Guyanese. We met in the UK in 1974, married after three years and didn't worry about the passport nonsense for 16 years. Then matters 'Hong Kong' forced a change in the law and we had to apply for British Nationality. Whilst we had no problems getting that [by this time three children] the Home Office took their time processing the application, hanging on to our passports and other important papers for over two years. I agree that the authorities need to curb sham marriages but they don't half have a funny way of doing it. Good Luck to Mr Rushmer; I think his wife is a stunner.

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Click to rate Alan, Wales, 5 hours ago Unfortunately, they will be lumped in with the many which are totally sham. Blame those people, not our laws which have resulted.

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Click to rate FSUK, Surrey, United Kingdom, 6 hours ago I believe he is in love, the border agency are experts in these matters and will have all the facts. He is always free to go and live in China..

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Click to rate david sinclair, glasgow, United Kingdom, 6 hours ago Such a pity that the government cannot extend this policy to a further 2 million or so others dotted around the country.

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Click to rate George, Hong Kong, China, 6 hours ago My wife is Chinese, as are both my daughters-in-law and I can spek from personal experince when I say that the UK's treatment of married couples in the situation decribed in the article is indeed appalling.

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Click to rate juharrogate, harrogate, 6 hours ago Met on line - marriage fell apart after 6 months -went home. Sounds JUST like a "Marriage of convenience" to me. 10/10 to the Border Agency - for heaven's sake don't now go weak at the knees because some bleeding hearts have got hold of a sob story.

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Click to rate Toubab, Ipswich, 6 hours ago There is one rule for Europeans and one rule for British, and the British lose out. With travel it is likely that men and women will find foreign partners but the UK Border Agency still do not accept that. Another reason why being British counts for nothing.

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Click to rate Alfred, EUSSR, United Kingdom, 6 hours ago I can understand why she married him... but WHY would he marry her? Bizarre!

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Click to rate where1sjustice, london, United Kingdom, 6 hours ago When I applied for my passport 19 years ago after marrying my English husband, an Indian woman, by her strong accent, told me to go back to China. My English was far better than hers and I struggled to understand her, but there she was urging me to go back to China and refusing me the passport. My husband filed a complaint with her manager immediately and passport arrived within a week. There are some crazy immigrants working at the Border agency have very little skills and yet they are employed to deal with complicated issues due to positive discrimination for them. They would issue passports to their own people with a drop of a hat while refusing legitimate applications from other foreign nationalities. To this day, we still wonder how the Indian woman has got the job or the British passport in the first place.

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Click to rate Sarah, London, 6 hours ago My husband paid a fortune for his visa etc to come and live in the UK with me. Had the marriage not lasted and he met someone else over here, why should he have expected to stay in the UK? Same for applies for me if it was the other way around. The rules are there for a reason. Too m.any people in the past have cheated the system. If you don't like it, live in the country of your spouse or don't marry a foreign national.

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Click to rate vanityfair, London UK, United Kingdom, 6 hours ago Unfortunately, brides from countries such as Thailand, China and the like have a lot of women desperate to settle in the West and who will latch on to the 1st Western male usually past his best and desperate. Some marriages work but some break down once the women has achieved her objective of a British passport or permanent residency. In this case, I can see why the Home Office is suspicious as the lady in question seems to move on rather quickly from one man to the other in a very short space of time - red flags up for sure. If the man is truly in love, I'm sure a few months in China would help convince the authorities that this is a genuine relationship.

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Click to rate AdgeCutler, Loughborough, United Kingdom, 6 hours ago I suggest you go and move to China, let's see how much you love her!

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Click to rate Sandy75, Cardiff, United Kingdom, 6 hours ago We certainly don't look after our own do we? This new ruling for Brits wanting to return to UK with their wives is a disgrace especially when others are being allowed in willy nilly. If you are a UK citizen you have NO RIGHTS. Abolish this stupid rule for British citizens now. Could it be classed as discrimination I wonder?

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Click to rate pb, blandford, United Kingdom, 7 hours ago Not enough work in the home office so now they want to be a marriage guidance councillors . What a joke they are

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Click to rate dumbanddumber, auckland, New Zealand, 7 hours ago Its obvious that this is genuine Wake up authorities and do the right thing.

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Click to rate markshi, St Albans, United Kingdom, 7 hours ago Looks like they will have to live in China where they got married then.

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Click to rate Discerner, London, United Kingdom, 7 hours ago David it is simple, move to China. Love has no boundaries! By the way, take me with you!

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Click to rate keithsowden, morecambe, United Kingdom, 7 hours ago Immigration authorities can make decisions which seem bizarre. Thirty years ago, my wife was barred from the UK, and her passport stamped to that effect, because she truthfully stated that we intended to get married. The senior officer stated that he needed to keep out economic migrants. At the time, England was in financial straits and Switzerland ( my wife's native land ) was the richest in the world. She was shipped back to the Continent between two burly police officers, and I was barred from taking the same ship back.

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Happy Whammer, London, United Kingdom, 7 hours ago Sneak her in on the back of a lorry from Calais. She'll be welcomed with open arms and be given a UK passport straight away.

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Click to rate TMc589, Wellington, New Zealand, 7 hours ago My family had to jump through hoops to live here in New Zealand, and rightly so. It's too easy to live in Britain and too easy to circumvent the rules.

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Loud and proud, Pilbara WA, 4 hours ago I had to jump through lots of hoops and cost a fortune, to get to live in Australia and rightly so. 0

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thenervoussurgeon, Pattaya, Thailand, 7 hours ago i KNOW a thai woman over here who has been married to a British guy for over 1 year ,he earns well over the 18k a year required ,but a year later she is still waiting for a visa ,while hords of Rumanian scroungers and illegals live off the state in Britain.

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2 of 3 repliesSee all replies Epp, London, United Kingdom, 1 hour ago

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You are either very much misinformed or just ignorant and a victim of the Romanian and Bulgarian propaganda on DM, Sun and other medias. No Bulgarians or Romanians are scroungers as they don't have access to public funds unless they have contributed to HM revenue, also they cannot be illegal as they are part of the free EU movement. I am really tired of average Joe in this country reading SUN newspaper and DM and forming poor opinion of what's going on in UK and around the world. Have a nice day now 8 9 Click to rate Epp, London, United Kingdom, 1 hour ago ... and I am appalled by how many people green arrowed you. 287 brain dead !!! 7 1 Click to rate Quidnunc, England, 7 hours ago Is there something stopping him from relocating to China to be with his wife? Have they looked in to relocating to a 3rd country. She is not trapped in China. She is just barred from entering the UK. Neither is bring branded a criminal - they just do not qualify for her to come to the UK at this time. If he loved her that much and wanted to make a go of the marriage then he would move to China to be with her, or take a job with the FCO or some other NGO overseas in a country where they could be living together. Give the immigration staff good reason to believe that this is a committed relationship. At present - not having seen his wife in 6 months does seem rather suspicious - If I loved someone enough to marry them so quickly, and they were barred from entering the UK, I sure wouldn't wait 6months, I'd be upping sticks to relocate so I could be with them. Otherwise what's the point in committing to a marriage?

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2 of 6 repliesSee all replies iandurham, durham, 3 hours ago couldnt agree more! first think i thought when reading this was "why not move there?" 6 13

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10 10 Click to rate Sisi Chris, Exeter, United Kingdom, 7 hours ago my girlfriend is a Chinese national and i'm sure i will have a very similar problem in the future, if so i will become the home offices hell,

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2 of 3 repliesSee all replies disgusted, tunbridge wells, 3 hours ago

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Play by the rules and don't expect an immediate decision. If your application has all the requirements then there is no reason for a refusal. The case in the DM article does give rise for the Home Office to question how genuine the marriage is based on the brides history.Perfectly understandable. The groom is pursuing the case as entitled 0 5 Click to rate Aletheia, Gloucester, United Kingdom, 2 hours ago There is an alternative - go and live in China. 6 4 Click to rate

Lord Barrett, Huntingdon, United Kingdom, 7 hours ago Good, he can toddle off to china

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2 of 4 repliesSee all replies Tommen, Sheffield, 4 hours ago Thats some pretty powerful jingoism right there mate, even for a DM reader. 2 4

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Click to rate English speaker, England, 3 hours ago Good to see the lack of compassion usually associated with DM readers is still alive and kicking..... 5 9 Click to rate H Adams, Alicante, 7 hours ago I now loathe and detest the UKand particularly the UK Border Agency, run by a bunch of morons and cretins! I too tried to get a visa for my Thai wife, a qualified nurse with a good income and savings and property, but was constantly refused

fro no apparent reason. I spent thousands of pounds on lawyers trying to overturn the decision, to no avail. She obtained Spanish residency where we lived for over she two years, but still could not get a UK visa! We now live in Thailand, and although my daughter and grandchildren live in the UK where I was born, I NEVER want to set foot in the UK again! I hope the country is totally swamped with Romanians and Bulgarians!

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2 of 11 repliesSee all replies sharon963, newcastle, United Kingdom, 2 hours ago

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Well now your settled somewhere else what you complaining for? If you love your partner whats the problem your together,.im sure we wont miss you here in uk 4 6 Click to rate Epp, London, United Kingdom, 1 hour ago Hard working Bulgarians and Romanians:) You can stay in Thailand 3 4 Click to rate saf7670, peterborough, United Kingdom, 8 hours ago This is nothing new, even for a partner to visit on tourist visa, I have been with my Philippine partner for 5 years travelling 3 - 4 times a year to the Philippines since meeting, And spending. Half my life there. Yet border agency say we do not have a relationship. (Photos together over 5 years are believed faked!). Wanted partner to visit UK to meet my family and seriously ill mother was refused, Border agency say they dont believe we have genuine relationship and my partner just wishes to remain and work in the UK. I am a disabled war pensioner and as a result of this decision am forced to make this regular long and painful journey to be with my partner.

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Says it all. Partner just wants to live and work in UK. I would be suspicious. A disabled war pensioner with younger fit wife. As soon as she's got her visa things will change 3 10 Click to rate Simon, Barcelona, 3 hours ago I don't mean to be harsh but we often read about people being duped just to obtain a visa. It happens to both men and women and normally involves older people and younger brides / husbands. So it begs the question, how old is your partner? She just wants to remain and work in the UK? I bet that she does. 1 10 Click to rate Angie, bury st edmunds, United Kingdom, 8 hours ago why not go & live in China ? problem solved.

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2 of 3 repliesSee all replies English speaker, England, 3 hours ago

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Someone else who just doesn't get it I see.... I feel sorry for people like you, who have no compassion and no sense.... 7 11 Click to rate Epp, London, United Kingdom, 1 hour ago @Education Helps: I agree with your first part of your comment but how can you know if the Bulgarians and Romanians that come in this country have no quallification or a good education?? Is that just assumtion, generalisation??? This is the same as for me to assume that your wife married you for your money and the british passport. 1 3 Click to rate JGM01, Newcastle, United Kingdom, 8 hours ago Aye, the UK Border Force (Farce) really know how to foul things up. Rules are rules they say, like my wife of 12 years still has to do the compulsory 2 years spouse visa because we have not lived in the UK during the period of marriage, dolts. Now if the chap in the story just moves to another EU country his wife, no matter what her nationality, will have automatic residency rights there. Might as well just do it and then commute afterwards.

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cynic52, canterbury, United Kingdom, 2 hours ago

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The Border Agency only applies the rules as laid down in Parliament. It is MPs who make the law. Blame them and not the hard pressed Border Agency staff who are blamed if they do and are blamed if they don't. 0 8 Click to rate The views expressed in the contents above are those of our users and do not necessarily reflect the views of MailOnline.

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