Dancing in the Wild Spaces of Love: A Theopoetics of Gift and Call, Risk and Promise
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Olthuis makes the bold claim that while trauma, pain, and suffering are significant parts of our human lives, nevertheless Love is with us to the very end. Creation is a gift that comes with a call to make something of it ourselves, a risky task we must take on with the promise that Love will win. We are all dancing in the wild spaces of Love: ex amore, cum amore, ad amorem.
James H. Olthuis
James H. Olthuis is professor (emeritus) of philosophical theology at the Institute for Christian Studies in Toronto. He has worked as a psychotherapist since 1982 and is the author of The Beautiful Risk: A New Psychology of Loving and Being Loved (2006).
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Dancing in the Wild Spaces of Love - James H. Olthuis
Pro/epilogue: Where there is love, there is God . . .
Wild Spaces
In the wild, there is love
In the between, there is promise
In the interval, there is hope
In the rupture, there is forgiveness
In the end, there is grace
This book is about Love, not only as an intense feeling of deep affection, which it is, but Love as the primordial cosmic force of All there is. It is about Love as the energy generating, driving, sustaining, redeeming the universe. All of creation lives, moves, and has its being in Love. God’s gifting creation into existence is at the same time a calling for creation to participate in its becoming. The universe—existence in all its forms and with all of its creatures—is invited to join in, work with, incarnate, and pass on love. How and what happens depends on creation’s response. Humankind plays a pivotal role in co-partnering with God and the family of earth’s creatures in making love real,
in making the world a place of connection, cooperation, mutuality, growth, health, care, blessing, justice, peace, and joy. Making love real
in the world is to give God a visible face in the world. God is love,
proclaims the Apostle John, and anyone who dwells in love is dwelling in God and God in them.
Indeed, God dwells in us if we love one another,
and God’s love is brought to perfection within us.
¹
Wow! God at home in us, with us!
Enacting love is doing the truth, being true to self, others, creation, and God. It calls for the faithful, everyday, non-identical repetition of love in new and novel ways. There is a double movement in loving: an active giving-over coupled with an expectant waiting, a risk inspired by the promise of hope. God waits, creation and all its inhabitants on tip toes awaits. As agents of and for love, we matter.
However, as human history to the present bears eloquent and bloody witness, when we miss the mark of love, and, in fear, are taken in by the forces of evil, we devise machinations of hate rather than liturgies of love. Instead of the mutual give-and-receive of the flow of Love, we fall prey to the Big Lie: it is dominate or be dominated, power-over or power-under. Instead of creation as a blessing, a warm, invigorating, inviting habitation, creation becomes a cold, alien, and comfortless expanse. The wild spaces of and for love are turned into fields of battle. Difference is taken to be opposition.
The tragic result, still so very real, is the war of all against all
: us versus them, the haves versus the have-nots, race against race, faith against faith, the battle of the sexes, nation against nation, on and on. In the process, instead of the Truth of Love’s inclusivity claiming and connecting us in our difference, we
(the dominators) claim possession of the Truth, declaring ourselves morally justified in dividing, excluding, or marginalizing all who disagree or resist. In the first part of the twentieth century, Louis-Ferdinand Céline vividly put words to the resulting widespread cultural anguish: Not much music left inside us for life to dance to . . . . The truth is death. You have to choose: death or lies.
²
In this book, I beg to differ. We do face a choice. Not between death or lies, but between love or lies. The truth is love. Life is not a lie, life is love. Life is dancing in the wild spaces of love. Graced, rhythmic, improvised, playful, faltering, mournful, celebrative dancing brings meaning and hope—even in the midst of anguish, horror, and death.
In recent years, although the call to control the other and dominate the battle-space is still often politically loud and shrill, there has been a growing chorus of postmodern voices, mortified by the killing fields and the exile of compassion, emphatically calling out for justice for the other and different. There is increasing recognition that ideological claims to possess the truth only lead to persecution of those who resist and, in fact, multiply violence and injustice. With all of this has come a renewed philosophic emphasis on the supreme importance of love. Emmanuel Levinas led the way with his plea that philosophy become once again the wisdom of love at the service of love.
³ In modernity, philosophy (philo-sophia, love-of-wisdom) focused on concepts with Reason as the judge of truth. Truth ceased to be a claim made on us, and became a claim we made on behalf of our reasoned assertions. Knowledge equaled Power. Wisdom languished in the shadow of Reason and less and less was said about Love. For, as Augustine famously noted in regard to time, we may know what love is until someone asks us to explain it. Then we are soon at a loss for words. Love is an excess, beyond the powers of definition.
However, with all the new, welcome attention and focus on love as the revolutionary Event or Act that gives room to the other, fosters community, mandates protest, and brings about justice for all, not just us, one thing remains in the main unchanged. Unchanged, largely unchallenged, is the belief that structurally endemic to being human is being self-interested and self-centered. At bottom, it is said, we are first of all egocentric, opponents and rivals, in opposition to each other. To love another is to run against the grain of human nature. The best we can hope for is a curbing of self-interest and a minimizing of violence. Our only hope is failing better.
It is this encrusted belief in the fundamental oppositional/antagonistic nature of life that I call into question in this book. My wager—my faith, my hope, my trust—is that Love is the oxygen
of this universe, the generating life-force, charging and recharging the cosmos and all that exists. It is in and through this life-current, the Love of God—inscendent in the creation, not transcendent—that we, all creatures and all matter, live and move and have our being. The way of love is a relational flow in-and-with-difference, connecting-with in coherence rather than opposing-to in antagonism. Living is breathing-in and breathing-out the Ruah, the Love-Breath, of the universe. The cosmos is an orchestration, a symphonic interplay of an array of processes with a host of players.
However, there is nothing automatic, insured, or guaranteed about the creational flow of love. For the gifting (by love) into existence is at the same time the calling (by love) to receive, participate, engender, share in, and pass on this love. How creation responds to the call makes all the difference. How we—and with us the rest of creation—dance in the uncharted, wild spaces of love is our signal calling. We are responsible for giving love shape in the world, for filling-in and filling-out what it means for each of us to be unique embodiments of love.
However, the sad reality is that in the darkness of evil, the spirit of fear can replace the élan of love, interrupting, stopping, betraying, poisoning the flow of love in all kinds of ways and on all kinds of levels. Time and time again connections break, bonds become terrible binds, we wound or are wounded. Too often we act as if life is a zero-sum game in which we need to be in control and aggressive or we will miss out. Working together, conspiring, cooperating, breaks down, replaced by conflict, conspiracy, and catastrophe. Indeed, often we seem to be assailed on virtually every side by such troubles, imbroglios, disasters and injustices.
But is conflict, breakdown, failure, finally all there is, the last and final word? The leitmotif of this book is: No! Life is risky, and difficult. But it is a beautiful risk, filled with promise, because Love carries all things, hopes all things, bears all things. With-and-in the Spirit of Love, we are graced even as we are invited to join in, becoming bearers and couriers of love.
Letting love well up and flow through us as the beat, pulse, and rhythm of our lives is our challenge and blessing. Blessing because it allows us to partner with God, enacting, co-writing, co-implementing the Big Story of God’s love that is the unfolding creation. Challenge because it asks us to give up the illusion of control, abandoning ourselves to God’s love and trusting that Love will open the way, giving shape, pattern, identity, integrity, and grace to our lives individually and in community. Challenge because in our broken world, finding our way together is an uneasy, fretful, worrisome, pained negotiation, a journey through unpredictability, disappointment, surprise, and suffering. Instead of dancing in step with another, we too often limp and falter, mis-stepping, falling. Blessing because, in the face of suffering that makes us feel powerless and defenceless, we are not alone. God is with us.
All the chapters in this book, in one way or another, in greater or lesser detail, seek to give shape to a visioning which, hopefully insightful, is at the same time encouraging and healing, helping us dance in the wild spaces of love that is our cosmic home. This vision insists that authentic, genuine power—in contrast to power-over—is power-with, which is love.
The first group of chapters has a theopoetic, cosmological focus, proposing that the world was not created ex nihilo (out of nothing), as long theorized, but ex amore (out of love). Creation was birthed in love. Its spaces were made for dance and play, for connecting and reconnecting, for invention and adventure. The story of creation is an ongoing cosmological Love story in which the sun, moon, and stars, all creatures large and small, trees and animals, are interdependent partners. It is not only a story of Love’s creative power but, due to the demonic forces of evil, by way of the via dolorosa, of Love’s recreative power.
The second group of chapters has a more anthropological emphasis. As image-bearers of God who is love, love is who we are. It is in loving (or not loving) that we show (or betray) our humanity. As God is with-us (Emmanuel), so we are to be-with others, cum amore (with love). With-ing
(power-with rather than power-over) is our gift and calling, be(com)ing the unique selves we are through relationships with other persons (intersubjectivity), with creation and all its creatures (solidarity), and with God (spirituality). In and with the impetus of love’s promise, we live-with, work-with, wrestle-with, suffer-with, celebrate-with the whole family of earth’s creatures, all of creation, and God.
The third group of chapters has an ethical focus as we—individually, interpersonally, and globally—strive for health and healing for ourselves, all peoples, for all creatures, for the planet itself. We look for paths of healing, avenues of justice, and oases of refuge amidst the killing fields, abysmal poverty, trenchant racism, and global exploitation. We dance, ad amorem (toward love), stumbling and falling, rising and soaring, twisting and turning into the future with the hope and promise that love, outlasting death, will in the end be all-in-all. All of the chapters, it is my hope and prayer, in some small ways, give witness to my desire to follow after Jesus in the way of love. My hope and wish is that these pieces may inspire, stimulate dialogue, and hopefully contribute to our joint efforts to incarnate compassion in a suffering world.
One more observation: all of these chapters—some early, some recent, and some very new—found their origin as occasional pieces in diverse circumstances as I lived my life with one foot in the academy among philosophers and theologians and one foot in the counselling clinics of psychotherapists and psychologists. As I trust will become abundantly clear, although these studies have a clear theo-philosophic flavor, all of them bespeak a persistent psychotherapeutic concern. My thirty-plus years of psychotherapeutic practice have served as a kind of laboratory for the validity of the philosophical/theopoetic constructions, and the philosophizing has emphatically underlined the importance of developing a coherent, integrated rationale for psychotherapeutic practice. What became therapeutically increasingly apparent throughout the years is that when we are with-each-other, open-hearted, meeting in the middle, the flow of love connects. On such occasions, we experience a we
—an authentic interpersonal connection beyond all doubt and argument—caught up in the being-with of love that heals. In no small way, this reality underlies my voiced conviction in this book that creation’s spaces, in their wildness, need not be gaps of fear and antagonism, but can become betweens
of and for love—openings of hope, promise, and grace.
I end this prelude on a theopoetic note with a doxological poem of the Sufi master Hafiz and two poignant poems written by a dear friend and colleague of sixty years, Henk Hart. The poems are an evocative, heart-rending, heart-touching poetic testimony of how in Love’s embrace
a person passes through the valley of the shadow of death and evil with deepened faith and renewed hope. Where there is Love, in spite of evil, we are not alone, God is with us.
The God Who Only Knows Four Words⁴
Every
Child
Has known God,
Not the God of names,
Not the God of don’ts,
Not the God who ever does
Anything weird,
But the God who only knows four words
And keeps repeating them, saying:
Come dance with Me.
Come
Dance
Love’s Embrace
Hendrik Hart
I
At heart,
a human life
gains without measure
in depth and scope
exposed to giving
or receiving
love,
primeval energy
of all that is.
In the embrace of Love
we
vessels of love
become aware:
irresistible energy
compels us
be centered
in all we do
in Love’s embrace;
to seek for ourselves
and others
peace, justice, joy, life,
fulfillment, patience,
hope, life, and healing.
Love begins,
guides us
to set our priorities,
distribute our energies,
choose our relationships,
value our involvements.
Love fills us,
its blessed awareness
whenever and wherever we follow
step by step but irresistibly,
bids darkness recede—
light spreads.
We become driven by Spirit—
Ruah, Wind, Breath
Blows where it wills
harvesting without exception
light and life
wherever it blows.
Growing in trust
the Presence of Love
in our life
bit by bit
becomes
our presence as love
in the Presence.
II
I experienced Love
dawning forcefully
at the dark edge of the abyss
in their last journey.
The doom of death
revealed depths unknown
of Love.
III
Death!
Who are you?
fullness of evil?
part of life?
final separation
from self and other?
Why do we weep?
Death’s deepest sense persists
as ineradicable persuasion:
new life emerges for us all
after our death.
Daisies bloom another spring,
so do we.
Our death is singular,
no circling cycles,
no seasons,
we die
then live forever.
The birth of Love in our life,
foretaste of eternity:
this inexpressible joy will be ours
forever.
IV
What is hereafter
after their death?
In my brain
survival beyond the end
is dead.
In my heart
a compelling reality
anticipated and celebrated
in music, in song.
Tears well up
with songs of visions of redemption,
reconciliation,
resurrection,
rebirth.
No remnants of a childish faith,
a final maturation
of our trust
of Life and Love.
In Love’s world
Our tears of weeping
trickle into rivers of joy.
Cross Pollination
Hendrik Hart
In Paradise
the Tree of Life
turned deadly
At Golgotha
a cursed cross
transformed dead wood
A Man of Sorrows
hung bleeding
the soil beneath
baptized with love
Pierced hands
now bless a new creation
clap for a love tree rising
from soil soaked red with life
Come love with Me
embrace birth’s pains
let forests of crosses
set deserts abloom
1
.
1
John
4
:
12, 16
(NRSV).
2
. The full quote reads: Not much music left inside us for life to dance to. Our youth has gone to the ends of the earth to die in the silence of the truth. And where, I ask you, can a man escape to, when he hasn't enough madness left inside him? The truth is an endless death agony. The truth is death. You have to choose: death or lies. I've never been able to kill myself
(Céline, Journey to the End of the Night,
97
).
3
. Levinas, Otherwise than Being,
62
.
4
. Hafiz, The Gift,
270
.
Ex Amore: Overflowing Love
chapter 1
Creatio Ex Amore
—poetic prologue—
And God stepped out on space,
And She looked around and said,
"I’m lonely—
I’ll make me a world."
As far as the eye of God could see
Darkness covered everything,
Blacker than a hundred midnights
Down in a cypress swamp.
Then God smiled,
And the light broke,
And the darkness rolled up one side,
And the light stood shining on the other,
And God said, That’s good!
. . .
Then God walked around,
And God looked around
On all that She had made.
She looked at Her sun.
She looked at Her moon.
And She looked at Her little stars;
She looked on Her world
With all its living things,
And God said, I’m lonely still.
Then God sat down
On the side of a hill where She could think;
By a deep, wide river She sat down;
With Her head in Her hands,
God thought and thought,
Till She thought, I’ll make me a human!
Up from the bed of the river
God scooped the clay;
And by the bank of the river
She kneeled Her down;
And there the great God Almighty,
Who lit the sun and fixed it in the sky,
Who flung the stars to the most far corner of the night,
Who rounded the earth in the middle of Her hand—
This Great God,
Like a mammy bending over her baby,
Kneeled down in the dust
Toiling over a lump of clay
Till She shaped it in Her own image;
Then into it She blew the breath of life,
And human became a living soul.
James Weldon Johnson¹
If God is love, and God is all in all, then without love, there is nothing, which means, as James Weldon Johnson’s evocative 1927 poem The Creation
poetically presages, that the world was not created ex nihilo, but ex amore. That is the central theme of this chapter: we would do well to replace the doctrine of creatio ex nihilo, with its emphasis on God’s omnipotent power, with creatio ex amore and its accent on God’s generating and regenerating love.
Although the focus of this essay is theological and philosophical, the exegetical and hermeneutical considerations of such a reconceptualization are, I suggest, so striking that I cannot resist at the outset presenting one example: Genesis 3:9. But the Lord God called to the man and said to him, ‘Where are you?’
(NRSV).
Traditionally, this text has generally been read—I first heard it in catechism classes more than sixty-five years ago—as an angry God taking humans to task. Beginning ex amore, another reading suggests itself. Looking forward, as was God’s wont, to walking with Adam and Eve in the garden in the cool of the day, God is disappointed when they are nowhere to be found, and calls out: Where are you my friends? I’m missing you.
When God locates Adam and Eve, they point fingers, assign blame, implicate the animal world, in effect accusing God, the creator of all, after which follows the curse as God’s declaration of humankind’s future in sin. Such a reading—with its focus on intimacy, communion, and loneliness—does, I suggest, more justice to the actual words of Genesis. In the text, God does not play the heavy hand, accusingly pointing the finger, What have you done now?
Rather, distressed at being stood up, God cries out, Where are you?
Wild Spaces, Wild Times
Everything that happens, happens in time and space. When we begin ex amore, time and space are not neutral, empty receptacles, but God’s primings—occasions and places for giving and receiving love. There is no meaningless time, only time to be full-filled in love (or impaired by hate). There is no vacuous space, only space as the abodes of love (or the haunts of evil). Created beings are called to live side by side, dwelling in enduring relations with each other.
Indeed, as I have become fond of saying, the spaces and times of creation are the wild spaces and times of love.² Wild, because they are uncharted and unpredictable—to venture into them is to take the beautiful risk. Spaces can turn out to be healing meadows, or they may become killing fields. Time can make for fulfilling or distressing connections. Although space can be traversed and time filled, there is no guarantee of enduring connections or healing moments.
Moreover, in regard to both space and time, if we attempt to tame the space and determine the time in order to guarantee the outcome, we may have control, manipulation, aggression, co-option, domination, subjection, bullying, intimidation—but never meeting or intimacy, never fulfillment. In the spaces and times that we are given, we are called to negotiate ways together of hope and healing.
Trading on the many African and Asian rituals in which the metaphor of the world as dance has symbolized these negotiations,³ we are called to dance together in the wild spaces and times of love. Choreography is always required, with the risk of wrong moves, black-and-blue shins, not to mention hurtful tumbles, bruised egos, abused bodies, and betrayed hearts. The dance metaphor nicely links space and time in rhythmic movement. In rhythm, space is measured in terms of time, and time in terms of space.
⁴
Moreover, one of the most compelling images of the Trinity in the patristic church is that of the sacred dance-play between three persons
known as the perichoresis, which literally means "dance (choros) around (peri)."⁵ The celebrated Shaker song, The Lord of the Dance
trades on these images, with the Son as the Lord of the dance inviting all of humanity to join, as Lucian stated it, in the great dance of creation and rebirth.
⁶ Thirteenth-century Beguine, Mechtild of Magdeburg, talks of God as playmate
:
I, God, am your playmate!
I will lead the child in you in wonderful ways
for I have chosen you.
Beloved child, come swiftly to Me
For I am truly in you.⁷
A timed/spaced creation is God’s adventure in love, the original blessing⁸ in which God both loves creation into being and desires to be loved by creation. It was God’s let-there-be’s of love that brought forth time and space for the great dance of creation. Eleventh-century mystic Hildegard of Bingen exclaims:
For it was love which was the source of this creation in the beginning when God said: Let it be!
And it was. As though in the blinking of an eye, the whole creation was formed through love.⁹
There it is: ex amore. Everything in creation speaks and bespeaks love, which means that it is not only ex amore, out of love, but also cum amore, with love, and ad amorem, to love.
Spacing and timing are the between-ings of love, which can become meetings-in-the-interval, passages of visitations of love, with-ings¹⁰ of the Spirit. Time and space are holy containers, wombs primed for love, spaces for the formation of love.
Simone Weil declared that time is the waiting of God, who begs for our love.
Upon reading this description, Emmanuel Levinas substituted who commands our love
for who begs for our love.
¹¹ Time—and I include space—are the waitings of God, and at the same time, they are also the yearnings of God, gifting us for love, calling us to redeem the time.
Since the gifting God, in the beginning, ex amore, made the world, we, image-bearers of God, both receive and find our being ex amore. The question is not Shakespeare’s: To be or not to be. Rather, the make-or-break question—God’s question, one could say—is: To love or not to love. And in the degree that we love, we are, and in the degree we fail to love, we are not. Instead of I think, therefore, I am
—Descartes’ classic starting point—it is I was loved, therefore, I am.
Indeed, we are Love’s agents in the world—in the double sense of being both agents of love and for love. To be a lover is to be caught up in the intrigue of love even as we are an active agent of that love.
Waging love, rather than waging war, is no easy matter in our world that knows so much violence and brokenness. Too often the reality is one in which we turn the spaces and times of love into killing fields and instants of terror. In a world in which compassion is in exile, the practice of compassion—redeeming time and space—is a working and a waiting in faith, living in hope and by grace, a beautiful risk, a ministry of encouragement.
We are, says the Apostle Peter, in these between times, to adopt a double strategy, waiting for, and at the same time, hastening the coming of the kindom
of God (2 Pet 3:12). Kindom, with its connotations of partnership, family, friendship, and kindred spirits, seems more becoming to me than the more political, militaristic image of the kingdom. Waiting and hastening at the same time is not easy. With one eye fixed on Christ’s coming and one eye fixed on our task in this world, we are, so to speak, cross-eyed—even if starry-eyed—witnesses. Our focus is never 20/20. We, lovers in a dangerous time,
sorely need to hold onto each other in the fellowship of faith and communion of the spirit as, in the words of Bruce Cockburn, we kick at the darkness till it bleeds daylight.
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Love as Strange Attractor
In my book The Beautiful Risk I have further elucidated what it means anthropologically that love is who we are, rather than something we do. In this chapter I want to deepen this understanding by exploring some cosmological implications of beginning ex amore. If God creates ex amore, then creation not only lives out of love, but love is the cosmic energy of creation, one could say, the oxygen, the glue, the fire of the universe. Love is the being and becoming of created reality. Love is the oxygen of the universe without which we cannot live even though we cannot see it. At the same time, when it is not there we know it, we gasp for breath, slowly dying.
Love is the glue of the universe, the staying power that acts to hold it together in all its contingency and randomness. One of the most striking features of contemporary chaos theory is the attention it pays to the reality that in and through the open-ended, chaotic systems of nature is an emergent force that lures and evokes new patterns of novelty and surprise. This force has been designated the strange attractor. Love, I want to suggest, is not just a random effect; rather, love is the strange attractor luring creation into new life, and God is the divine attractor.¹³ Indeed, Richard Middleton makes a similar claim that not only does Genesis 1 depict a fractal universe, but it depicts a creator less like a Newtonian lawgiver and more like a strange attractor.
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Love is the fire, the driving force of the universe. Creation, fired by the love of God, will always tend toward the fullness of love, as the lover searches for the beloved. The spirit of love, the Divine Eros, lures creation and its creatures to participate in the creative process itself toward ever new and widening spirals of love. The cosmos in this way, speaking the language of Whitehead, has a divine aim. Creation is not only ex amore, but cum amore, and ad amorem.
Love measures us, not we, love. Without love’s grace, imagination and vision are finally very limited, for the graceless mind proves in the end to be boring, caught in its own repetitious reverberations—shades of Levinas—in which the regime of the same conquers. Without love, we measure the other on the basis of our own insights and interests, and in so doing, there is a failure of hospitality, a hardening of arteries, a closing off, a becoming unavailable, a violation of the other. With love, there is a suffering-with—a standing-with the other, giving and forgiving.
Love is the echo before the anonymous, menacing, rumbling of "the impersonal there is"¹⁵ (il y a), the recurrence that interrupts and breaks open any congealed or clotted identity. The law of friendship is, as Derrida demonstrates, that one must always go before the other,
that one must always die before the other.¹⁶ When love (as well as justice) is undeconstructible, the law of friendship receives another face: Yes, one must go before the other, but meanwhile, one may go with the other. Friendship, life as a whole, is a risk, and there will be wounds and death, but life is a beautiful risk to run because it holds within it the graced possibilities of connection, not being alone, being touched by love. At the same time, it is true, I suspect, that a mark of true friendship in distinction from acquaintance relations is the frightening realization between friends that one will die before the other.
All these considerations point in one direction: the logic of creation, in its height and depth, in its human and non-human dimensions is the logic of love. If this is the case, there is an impressive case to be made for replacing our doctrine of creatio ex nihilo with creatio ex amore. Creatio ex nihilo emphasizes the difference, the externality, between God and creation: God the infinite transcendent creator, who brings forth the finite creaturely universe as something separate from God.
In other words, too often the difference between God and the world is radically misunderstood as the difference between two discrete entities that extrinsically relate. In this view God is a kind of master craftsperson, divine architect, mastermind who designs and creates, connecting the parts, and who thereafter, because of sin and evil, reconnects and repairs. Often this is coupled with an interventionist view of divine action in which God—who is immutable, unmoved, and unaffected by anything—from time to time miraculously intervenes.¹⁷
Viewing the God-creation relationship as external in this way does not do adequate justice to the biblical testimony that God is love, tending to bracket, if not abrogate, the uniquely personal and mutually participatory relationship between God and creation. As love, God cannot be related to the world in extrinsic fashion such as in deism or dualisms of any sort.
Moreover, as Catherine Keller summarizes in her provocative The Face of the Deep, "although the creatio ex nihilo has reigned largely uncontested in the language of the church since the third century ACE,"¹⁸ more and more biblical scholars are recognizing that the Bible does not support it. Thus, Jon Levenson claims that the "overture to the Bible, Genesis 1:1–2:3, cannot be invoked in support of the developed Jewish, Christian, and Muslim doctrine creatio ex nihilo.¹⁹ In fact, it needs to be noted that the Bible does not talk about a creation from nothing, but
knows only a formation of something new from something-else, something yet unhinged, unformed, some sort of marine chaos."²⁰
However, the alternative to creatio ex nihilo need not leave us with a Plotinian emanation in which the creation is an efflux of the divine selfsame—one of the alternatives that creatio ex nihilo was constructed to avoid. Instead of a pure dualism (God and nothing), we need a third possibility
as Karl Barth also recognized.²¹
My third space of beginning
²² is creatio ex amore, which shifts the focus from an understanding of God who creates by omnipotent power over and periodic divine intervention in creation, to a God whose unconditional love gives birth to creation and intimately and enduringly suffers-with creation, redeeming and renewing it.
Along these lines, creation is not the demonstration of God’s almighty power, but the communication of God’s unfailing, unconditional love. Creation,
exclaims Jürgen Moltmann, "is not a demonstration of his boundless power, it is the communication of his love, which knows neither premises nor preconditions: creatio ex amore Dei. In Dante’s words, ‘From the Creator’s love came forth in glory the world . . . ’"²³
In contrast to the creation ex nihilo doctrine that emerged in the third century, as Gerhard May has documented, to express and safeguard the omnipotence and freedom of God acting in history,
²⁴ creatio ex amore would emphasize the risk-taking, power-sharing character of God,
²⁵ passionately involved with the creation. In creating, God took the supreme risk of love, letting the other be.
The Let-There-Be’s of Genesis One
The concept of an omnipotent God in splendid supremacy masterfully ordering creation does not fit the picture of creation in Genesis 1. The let-there-be’s of Genesis are, Richard Middleton reminds us, not imperatives at all, but Hebrew jussives (which have no exact counterpart in English)
; but, even as they may range from the very strong (almost a command) to the very soft (almost a wish),
they always possess a voluntary element.
²⁶ "God said, ‘Let the earth put forth vegetation, plants yielding seed etc. . . .’ And it was so. The earth brought forth vegetation; plants yielding seed of every kind. Indeed,
the earth is agent of Elohim’s creation. . . . The same again with the sea. . . . Creation takes place as invitation and cooperation."²⁷
William P. Brown concludes that the creative process described in Genesis "does not thereby imply a God who simply imposes order on unruly matter or creates everything ex nihilo, but the let-there-be’s can be
read as invitations to enter into the grand creative sweep of God’s designs. Indeed,
God chooses and implements noncoercive ways of creating, thereby allowing the elements to share positively in cosmogony."²⁸ This fits very well with Catherine Keller’s suggestion that in Genesis 1 we have the impetus for a theology of creation, in which the chaos is neither nothing nor evil; in which to create is not to master the formless, but to solicit its virtual forms. Such solicitation, when expressed as divine speech, may sound less like command than a seduction.
²⁹ Keller talks of a creatio cooperationis.³⁰ She asks: "Does not the vibratory proximity of ruach upon the waters suggest that intimate co-generativity"?³¹
Richard Middleton goes even farther, surmising that the text of Genesis depicts God’s founding exercise of creative power in such a way that we might appropriately describe it as an act of generosity, even of love.
³² In the advent(ure) of creating, God put Godself at risk. God gave Godself over to the adventure and risk of time and space, inviting, hoping, wooing all the family of God’s creatures to