1 - get anyone to like you...

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Ch1 - Get anyone to like you

2 - get to be irresistibly attractive 3 - best first impression

GET ANYONE TO DO ANYHING

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pairing yourself 'ith pleasurable stimuli( another person 'ill begin to associate you 'ith this feeling talk to that person 'hen he)she is in a goo* moo*. these feeling 'ill be associate* 'ith you the more you interact 'ith someone( the more he or she 'ill like you 'e ten* to like more those 'ho like us. if he)she starte* not liking you( an* eventually come aroun* liking you( he 'ill like you more than if he starte* liking you form the beginning Gra*ual liking is more effective than 01120 turn( making this person your &1 frien*

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'e like those 'ho are similar to us an* have similar interests ho' someone feels about you is *etermine* by ho' you make him feel about himself make people feel goo*( they 'ill like being aroun* you

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rapport creates trust

'e like 'ho shares our interests an* appears like us

Matching posture an* movements Matching speech6 spee*( tone( if you can get someone to *o you a favour( this 'ill generate kin* an* 'arm feelings to'ar* you

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'e like someone more after *oing something nice for him or her

'e are *ra'n to confi*ent people

confi*ence is laughing at yourself an* not taking life too seriously

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'e are *ra'n to people 'ith positive attitu*e( passionate an* happy about life

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'hen the bo*y pro*uces a*renaline people feel attraction an* se9ual *esire

people react favorably to those 'hose 'alking style seems youthful

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looking inot another person;s eye for minutes in enought to pro*uce passionate feelings 'e <u*ge a person in contrast 'ith other people

GET ANYONE TO FIND YOU IRRESISTIBLY ATTRACTIVE

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'hen our o'n self esteem is suffering( 'e ten* to vie' others as more attractive

'e like those 'ho like us

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'e are more attracte* to those people once 'e kno' they are attracte* to us

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HOW TO MAKE A FANTASTIC 1ST IMPRESSION

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beginning a meeting 'ith positive( uplifitng language before your intro*uction

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'hat someone thinks about you is largely *etermine* by the things you *o people 'ant 'hat they can;t have

GET THE INSTANT ADVANTAGE IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP

if 'e *erive pleasure from only one source 'e ten* to overemphasi=e its value an* importance

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it is important to feel fulfille* in other areas to be able to maintain a sensible perspective an* not rely on someone else;s affections as sole source of satisfaction an* happiness people 'ant more but never are grateful for 'hat they have. not grateful e>uals to taking it for grante* that e>uals to not appreciate

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you *on;t take for grante* 'hat you believe can be taken a'ay from you at any time

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