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Mistake 3: Manipulation
Avoid it altogether.
Out of all the mistakes that someone can make when they
are getting back their ex this is probably the worst because
it reflects poorly on you as a person. I hope that if you've
been trying manipulation to get back your ex that you will
instead take a look at what my book can offer you.
So, as I was reading this review and the author was picking
on so-called "flaws" I'm thinking to myself "Hmm, I never
had a problem with that," "There is a solution to that
problem, silly," and "You don't know what you are talking
about!" Basically, I was arguing with the reviewer in my
head.
Your ex is thinking...
"Yes, that's why I broke up with you. Things weren't that
great anyway. We were always fighting. I think I am better
off with someone else."
The more you push the deeper they have to dig their heels
into the ground to keep their footing. You are solidifying
rather than dissolving their justifications for the break up.
Telling your ex that you have changed and that "things will
be different this time" is asking them to believe something
that is intuitively untrue and contradicts their life
experiences.
That is not the case! You should not do any of these things.
These things would not contribute to attraction - which is
the necessary ingredient in the recipe of getting back
together.