A crowd was gathered on a bright and sunny Monday afternoon in EleEle, Hawaii and in the distance the glittering waves could be heard crashing down on the yellow sand where the palm trees gave shade to the fantastical scenery. They were there for a ceremony in honor of the thousands that lost their lives at the site of a gorgeous view not unlike the Hawaiian waterfront. Iwaki City, Japan was a beautiful and tropical place and the water was calm and sparkling in the sun on a mellow weathered day when the whole ocean began to recede, only to come crashing back with a force that tore away lives, land, and definitely the beauty. The Tohoku Tsunami left several coastal Japanese cities in a similar state; muddy, ugly, desolate, and littered with the debris of lost belongings, broken down houses, and dead and suffering people in desperate need of aid that might not come for days. According to the National Police Agency, the earthquake and tsunami rounded up a horrific 15,885 confirmed deaths, 6,148 injured, and 2,623 people missing, which is no surprise considering the scale of the disaster. The earthquake had an earth shattering magnitude of 9.0 and there were over 80 aftershocks with magnitudes over 7.0 as well. The wave that followed reached towering heights over 110 ft. But numbers, no matter how astounding, hold little weight against the power of human experience. Nothing can grasp the size and devastation better than someone who suffered through it. Its almost hard to believe anyone could survive such great forces of nature, but just like thousands were killed, thousands survived, but even though they live, many are still suffering three years later. Hatsuko Ishikawa blames herself for her 36-year-old sons death. I blame myself over and over again, asking myself why I didnt stop him, she said when describing how she saw him speed by in his fire truck towards the sea in an attempt to evacuate people before the massive wave struck. She is just one of many survivors that mourn their lost loved ones, sadly blaming themselves for not doing the right thing in the midst of the total chaos of the whole ocean surging towards them in its brown and churning brilliance, tossing limp bodies through the debris like a blender, and turning the stomachs of those who saw it coming and knew they couldnt outrun it, or saw it coming for their family members and knew they couldnt be the hero. The earthquake and tsunami tore through everything and in the days, months and years that followed, even more died without water or food and the hospitals that were still intact were crowded, and the dead were buried by the government in hastily dug graves. Then there was silence. Silence as small towns were reduced to nearly nothing, and the missing pieces couldnt be replaced. The children that lived in the house on the corner didnt play in the street anymore, and the space they had taken up was left oddly empty, their soundless sounds still reverberating and their parents still lived in a temporary house. The neighbors that had lived next door to them werent the same either. Where there had been a happy couple, now only a woman sits alone, holding on to the memories of her husband, crying silent tears in the dark, too afraid of the world outside, of the water. 10345 And changes like those stretch for miles. After the disaster the lives of thousands of people would never be the same. The phantom feeling of their lost limbs or the memory of their lungs being filled with muddy water as they claw blindly through the turmoil, searching for oxygen will still awake those that lived through it. Families might still say table for 5 when they go to dinner and then look to their feet in the awkward silence of the sad realization that will follow. Mothers might still buy their childs favorite food at the store, the thing no one else in the family likes, to be left to perish, uneaten. And although the world will still turn, every life taken, changed the course of another. This is the unfortunate picture that the crowd in Kauai was pained to remember as a moment of silence and a melancholy haze fell over them. Every survivor of the disaster has a different story, a different memory, and a different loss. But they all remember what they felt that day. They all have lost something. They all are still suffering emotionally and physically. They all will continue to support each other as they struggle through their derailed lives. And they will all remember the one lone pine tree that survived, and look to it as a symbol of hope. Over a hundred people, including a delegation of 19 that traveled from Japan to Kauai for the dedication, attended the ceremony on Monday. The new monument, a piece of debris that was found floating near Kauai nearly 2 years after the tsunami, is a tall and proud shining yellow buoy that has had quite the journey from its original home in Iwaki. Chris Benjamin, the owner of Port Allen, where the monument will be, says it Stands as an educational tool and a symbol of our strong ties to Japan. The vice mayor of Iwaki also commented about how the monument will be a symbol of how the ties of their cities are stronger even than the terrific forces of nature and the 7,000 mile ocean between them, saying Three years have passed since the disaster, and we are committed to working hard to make Iwaki even stronger than it was. We appreciate this symbol of goodwill between our cities. Its not the first monument of the event, and may not be the last, but like the miracle pine, it will hold a deep value and stand as a strong symbol for hope and the abstract though unbreakable bonds of love, unity, and human compassion that survive and thrive through even the most destructive forces.