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This is my final project from a Linguistics course that I took in Fall 2011.
This project was completed by a team of four people, but I ended up writing 1,930 words out of the 3,050 words in the project, as well as organizing the team members' writing, editing the entire project, and completing all in-text citations and the works cited.
Our focus was on language differences between genders. We were interested in discovering when language differences begin and how they are reinforced as children grow up.
This is my final project from a Linguistics course that I took in Fall 2011.
This project was completed by a team of four people, but I ended up writing 1,930 words out of the 3,050 words in the project, as well as organizing the team members' writing, editing the entire project, and completing all in-text citations and the works cited.
Our focus was on language differences between genders. We were interested in discovering when language differences begin and how they are reinforced as children grow up.
This is my final project from a Linguistics course that I took in Fall 2011.
This project was completed by a team of four people, but I ended up writing 1,930 words out of the 3,050 words in the project, as well as organizing the team members' writing, editing the entire project, and completing all in-text citations and the works cited.
Our focus was on language differences between genders. We were interested in discovering when language differences begin and how they are reinforced as children grow up.
Maddie McClellan, Andrew Nerison, Joel Rudy, Kevin Winn
English 209: n!ro !o "inguis!ics #r$ %ruce Mayla!h & #ec$ 20'' (enderlec!s: )ro* %ir!h !o Adul!hood When do *en +egin !o s,ea- li-e *en, and wo*en li-e wo*en. / di//erences in language arise /ro* isola!ion, when and where is !his isola!ion ha,,ening. ! +asically co*es down !o how children are +eing sociali0ed in!o gender roles$ (ender is a social cons!ruc! !ha! de/ines *en and wo*en in socie!y as *asculine or /e*inine$ A! a young age, children are sociali0ed !o ac! *asculine or /e*inine1 !hey 2uic-ly learn wha! is 3nor*al4 /or a +oy or a girl !o ac! li-e$ When ,eo,le ac! ou!side o/ !he 3nor*al4 gender cons!ruc!s !ha! socie!y has crea!ed, !hey *ay +e 5udged$ 6nce children are sociali0ed in!o !heir gender cons!ruc!s, children !ha! s,ea- or dress in con!ras! !o !heir ,hysical se7 *ay end u, +eing ridiculed +y !heir ,eers$ 8hese gender di//erences occur in language, as well$ 8hese di//erences in language are o/!en re/erred !o as 3genderlec!s$4 %oys and girls ac2uire !hese genderlec!s a! an early age, as !heir di//erences are sociali0ed and rein/orced as !hey grow older and en!er !he school sys!e*$ 8he ac2uisi!ion o/ !hese gendered di//erences in language will +e e7,lored, s!ar!ing a! +ir!h, !hrough childhood, adolescence and *iddle9school years, and !he con!inua!ion in!o adul!hood$ 6/!en +e/ore children are even +orn, !he ,rocess o/ gender sociali0a!ion has already +egun, as ,aren!s decora!e !he child:s roo* in +lue or ,in-$ Al*os! every!hing, s!ar!ing +e/ore childhood, +eco*es geared !oward a cer!ain gender, including cards and +alloons ,resen!ed a/!er a +a+y is +orn$ 8hey *ay say 3!:s a +oy;4 or, 3!:s a girl;4, which reveals no!hing a+ou! !he child as a ,erson$ 8he ,aren!s could 5us! as si*,ly say so*e!hing as nondescri,! as, 3!:s a redhead4 !o la+el !he +a+y wi!hou! !he s!ress on gender$ Even i/ ,aren!s ,ain! !he +a+y:s roo* wi!h gender9neu!ral colors, gi/!s o/!en co*e in +lue or ,in- !o de/ine !he +a+y:s se7 un!il !he in/an! +eco*es recogni0a+le as a +oy or a girl <Ar!er '=$ Even children:s ,ic!ure +oo-s ,lay a huge role in gender sociali0a!ion and discri*ina!ion, as *ale charac!ers are de,ic!ed /ar *ore !han /e*ale charac!ers$ 8his is illogical, as !he +oy !o girl ra!io is roughly !he sa*e <Ar!er '>=$ "isa Ar!er s!a!es in her ar!icle, 3Children:s ?erce,!ions o/ (ender as @!udied 8hrough ?ronouns4 !ha! 2 3gender s!ereo!y,es +egin a! +ir!h and have years o/ rein/orce*en! +e/ore children en!er !he classroo*4 <Ar!er 9=$ According !o a s!udy in Janell Carroll:s +oo-, @e7uali!y Now1 E*+racing #iversi!y, as early as !he age o/ !wo, children s!ar! !o recogni0e a di//erence in genders according !o !he di//erences !hey see in !heir *o!her and /a!her, es,ecially in !he way !ha! !hey +ehave and how !hey s,ea- <Carroll 2'A=$ ! is so*e!hing !ha! children ,ic- u, /ro* such an early age !ha! s!ic- wi!h !he* !heir whole lives$ ! is no! sur,rising !ha! genderlec!s occur, as +oys and girls usually ,lay wi!h sa*e9se7 /riends as !hey are growing u,$ 8his *a-es sense, as we -now /ro* ,revious accoun!s !ha! isola!ion crea!es di//eren! dialec!s$ 6nce children grow !o school9age, gender is even *ore rein/orced as even school su,,lies are gendered <Ar!er >=$ Ar!er 2uo!es in her ar!icle !ha! 3B+o!h +ehavior and !hin-ing are in/luenced +y -nowledge s!ruc!ures:4 <Ar!er '0=$ 8here/ore, i/ a gender neu!ral learning environ*en! were desired i! would +e ,ruden! -ids were !augh! earlier wi!h non9s!ereo!y,ic *e!hods, !hese gender ga,s in language would +e less li-ely !o occur, and !he ga, +e!ween !he gender divide would s!ar! !o shrin-$ 3Cogni!ive associa!ions +e!ween ac!ivi!ies and gender <gender s!ereo!y,es= as well as gender and sel/ <gender iden!i!y= *ay in/luence !he *ore ,ersonal associa!ion a ,erson *a-es +e!ween !hese ac!ivi!ies and !he sel/ <gender !y,ing=$4 <)ran0 2=$ We can +egin !o +ridge !he ga, +y using androgynous ,ronouns !ha! re/er !o *ale or /e*ale, such as you, !hey, e!c$ 8hese ,ronouns are ,ar! o/ wha! is re/erred !o as 3/air language4 <Ar!er 'A=$ 8his !a-es !he ,lace o/ gender9s,eci/ic language, or !he overgenerali0ed usage o/ !he ,ronoun 3he$4 Csing *ore inclusive language is a s!ar! !o s!uden!s en!ering !he school sys!e* e2ually, wi!hou! genderlec!s in ,lace$ ! is no! only in English !ha! !hese gender9s,eci/ic ,ronouns occur$ ! is /ound in languages such as )rench, (er*an, !alian, and *any o!hers where !here are only *asculine and /e*inine ,ronouns !o descri+e ,eo,le$ According !o a s!udy done +y Janell Carroll, language /or*a!ion ,lays an incredi+ly i*,or!an! role in how children develo, in !heir !hough!s on gender roles <Carroll 2'A=$ 6nce in school, s!uden!s +egin !o es!a+lish !heir genderlec!s in !he classroo*$ ! does no! !a-e long /or !his !o +e no!icea+le$ %oys have +een /ound !o +e *ore con!rolling and direc!ive, 3 while girls are o/!en *ore ,assive or in!er,ersonal <8ulvis!e D'9=$ According !o An n!roduc!ion !o "anguage, is has +een /ound !ha! +oys are as *uch as eigh! !i*es *ore li-ely !han girls !o /reely o//er answers in class <)ro*-in AA9=$ Al!hough +oys are /ound !o +e *ore asser!ive, i! has +een /ound !ha! a! !he ,re9school age, girls are o/!en *ore !al-a!ive$ 3As *en!ioned earlier, +oys and girls o/!en ,lay wi!h /riends o/ !he sa*e se7, which largely isola!es !he* /ro* each o!her1 !his se,ara!ion occurs around age !hree, las!ing !hrough childhood <8ulvis!e D20=$ 8his is when +oy and girl a,,ro,ria!e ,lay is di//eren!ia!ed1 children are li-ely !o 2uic-ly ,ic- ou! -ids who do no! con/or*$ )or e7a*,le, +oys /ro* Es!onia were /ound !o value ,ower and con/or*i!y, while girls did no! ,ay as *uch a!!en!ion !o ca!egories such as social 5us!ice <8ulvis!e D2'=$ 6ne can even clearly see in everyday ,laces !he a*oun! o/ se,ara!ion +e!ween genders$ Wal-ing !hrough a de,ar!*en! s!ore is a ,er/ec! e7a*,le o/ !his$ "oo-ing down !he !oy aisles, i! is easy !o see wha! sec!ions are ai*ed !oward girls and which !owards +oys$ 8he girls: !oys are !y,ically ,in- and o!her +righ! colors, *ainly /ull o/ dolls, or ,lush ani*als$ 8he +oys: !oys !end !o +e dar-er and geared *ore !owards violence and ac!ion$ 8he di//eren! aisles are usually no! s,eci/ically la+eled as B+oy: and Bgirl:, +u! one ge!s !he s!rong /eeling o/ se,ara!ion 5us! +y o+serving !he di//erences$ )urni!ure and roo* decora!ions have si*ilar se,ara!ion$ (irls: i!e*s !end !o, again, +e +righ!er colors and have *ore B/e*inine: /ea!ures, while +oys: i!e*s lean !owards a *ore B*asculine: or B!ough: loo-$ Even !hese si*,le divides, which *ay +e easily overloo-ed, really s!reng!hen !he /eeling o/ se,ara!ion and di//erences +e!ween genders$ 3Early adolescence is also a !i*e when !he lives o/ +oys and girls +eco*e even *ore gender di//eren!ia!ed !han in childhood4 <%lair D'E=$ n so*e cases, !eachers are concerned !ha! girls are discri*ina!ed agains! in !he educa!ional co**uni!y, +ecause !here are 3gender ine2ui!ies4 in schools <%lair D'E=$ 8his is !he !i*e !ha! girls *ay lose con/idence in !heir acade*ics, and i! is i*,or!an! !ha! girls are a+le !o see !he*selves as 5us! as co*,e!en! in school as +oys$ As s!a!ed earlier, adolescence is when 4 +oys and girls /ur!her de/ine wha! *a-es !he* *asculine or /e*inine$ @!uden!s are no! as se,ara!ed /ro* each o!her, or isola!ed, as !hey were when !hey were children, +u! !hey +eco*e *ore gendered in order !o crea!e iden!i!y$ 8hey !a-e on gender e7,ec!a!ions wi!h di//eren! ways !o dress, s!and, wal-, and !al- as !hey con!inually cons!ruc! !heir gendered selves <%lair D'E=$ 8hese e7,ec!a!ions on !heir s!andards o/ dress, ,oise, and language are o/!en !a-en +y !he children wi!h varying levels o/ en!husias*$ 3n general, !he s!reng!h o/ iden!i/ica!ion wi!h one:s gender should s!reng!hen or wea-en !he iden!i/ica!ion o/ gendered s!ereo!y,es$4 <)ran0 D=$ Fui!e si*,ly, *ales who iden!i/y s!rongly wi!h *asculine +ehaviors !end !o show *ore nega!ive +ehaviors !owards *ore /e*inine +ehaviors$ ?redic!a+ly, !he sa*e, +u! o,,osi!e, a!!i!ude occurs in wo*en in regards !o !heir views on /e*inine and *asculine 2uali!ies$ 6ne +elie/ !ha! has ,ro,aga!ed i!sel/ ,ar!icularly well is !he +elie/ !ha! wo*an have an inna!e ,redilec!ion !o language$ While !here is so*e !ru!h !o !his +elie/, !here are also *isconce,!ions !ha! go wi!h i!$ 8he @hucard s!udy /ound !ha! girls do, in /ac!, learn language earlier$ Wha! !he s!udy did no! /ind was any indica!ion !ha! adul!s had any a,,recia+le di//erences in lingual s-ills$ According !o s!udies +y Willia* "a+ov conduc!ed in ur+an environ*en!s, wo*en !end !o use less o//ensive words and *ore ,res!ige words$ 8his !ransla!es !o wo*en:s language +eing closer !o @!andard English or a! !he very leas!, less a+erran! <?hili,s E=$ An n!roduc!ion !o "anguage re,or!s si*ilar /indings1 3children as young as si7 show !his ,a!!ern4 !ha! girls s,ea- *ore 3,ro,erly4 and avoid vernacular !er*s, where +oys are less li-ely !o care <)ro*-in AE0=$ 3n res,onse !o changing social and cul!ural nor*s regarding gender roles, au!hors and ,u+lishers have *ade concer!ed e//or!s !o address !he issue o/ gender s!ereo!y,ical ac!ivi!ies and occu,a!ions G and !o e//ec!ively neu!rali0e !he* G so !ha! children do no! as readily associa!e cer!ain ac!ivi!ies and occu,a!ions wi!h a s,eci/ic gender, which ris-s !he e7clusion o/ !he 5 o,,osi!e gender$ When cer!ain ac!ivi!ies and occu,a!ions +eco*e overly associa!ed wi!h one gender, a ,erson o/ !he o,,osi!e gender who ,ar!ici,a!es in !he ac!ivi!y or is e*,loyed in !ha! occu,a!ion ris-s +eing !arge!ed /or con/ron!a!ion and a+use <o/!en in !he /or* o/ H!easing=4 <Ar!er 2=$ Al!hough !here have +een *ove*en!s !o ,ro*o!e gender e2uali!y and gender neu!rali!y so !ha! -ids are a+le !o ,ar!ici,a!e in wha!ever ac!ivi!y !hey wish wi!hou! worry !ha! i! is !oo 3girly4 or 3+oyish,4 -ids s!ill are highly gendered +eings$ ! has +een /ound !ha! children:s /avori!e !oys a! ages !hree !o /ive are s!ereo!y,ically in/luenced1 +oys li-e !echnology and ac!ion while girls li-e *ore /e*inine and +righ!er !hings <Ar!er A=$ (ender di//erences in language, or 3%oy and (irl !al-4 con!inue on in!o !he *iddle9school9 age$ Iea!her %lair !al-s o/ !hese -inds o/ di//erences in !al- in her e7,erience in an eigh!h9grade classroo*$ @he no!iced !ha! !al- was an i*,or!an! ,ar! o/ 3gendering4 <%lair D'>=$ @he s!a!es !ha! 3genderlec!s have !heir own se! o/ sociolinguis!ic rules4 !ha! 3are cen!ral !o !he cons!ruc!ion o/ gender, indica!ive o/ rela!ions o/ ,ower, and i*,lici! in all classroo* co**unica!ions4 <%lair D'>=$ ! was /ound !ha! genderlec!s are very ac!ive in *iddle school classroo*s, as di//erences +e!ween +oys and girls were /ound, such as +oys re/erring !o se7uali!y, goo/ing around, and re/erring !o ho*o,ho+ia were *uch *ore co**on !han girls, who !al-ed *ore a+ou! ,ersonal lives wi!h !heir /riends, and whis,ered *ore o/!en !han +oys <%lair D'J=$ 8his di//erence in !al- in/luences, and is in/luenced +y, how +oys and girls in!erac! wi!h each o!her1 /or ins!ance, girls had a grea!er need !o crea!e in!er,ersonal rela!ionshi,s, which is aided +y !heir ,ersonal !al- <%lair D2'=$ Ano!her e7a*,le o/ gender di//erence is language is ac!ually ca!egori0ed in !he #iagnos!ic and @!a!is!ical Manual o/ Men!al #isorders, or #@M$ 8here is a condi!ion where a child will no! ac2uire any sor! o/ genderlec!s or any se7ual roles a! all$ According !o Nancy Nangeroni, !he condi!ion can arise /ro* a /ew di//eren! cases$ 8he /irs! one is !he lac- o/ se7ual role s!i*ulus, in o!her words, i/ a child is +rough! u, wi!h li!!le !o no s!ereo!y,ical gender 6 in/luence$ )or e7a*,le, a girl who doesn:! ge! dressed in ,in- dresses, +u! ins!ead wi!h gender9 neu!ral clo!hing$ n a case li-e !his, !he child is li-ely !o ei!her develo, gender roles !ha! are no! 3nor*al,4 or develo, +o!h o/ !he gender roles e2ually$ )ollowing !he assu*,!ion !ha! isola!ion causes changes in dialec!s couldn:! +e !ruer !han in !he a/ore*en!ioned case$ )irs! o/ all, i! see*s as !hough !he girl would have !o +e isola!ed no! only /ro* 3girly4 clo!hing, +u! /ro* any e7cessive s!ereo!y,ically /e*inine !oys, decora!ions, e!c$ / one were !o grow u, wi!h a di//eren! se! o/ gender roles !han !ha! o/ nor*al socie!y, and con!inued on wi!h !hose di//eren! roles, i! is ,ossi+le !ha! !he child *ay +e su+5ec! !o harass*en! in school +y children who ,rescri+e !o !y,ical gender nor*s <Mar!ino=$ 6ne o/ our grou, *e*+ers, Andrew Nerison, has had a grea! deal o/ e7,erience wi!h !he ,ressure !o con/or* !o !he ,rescri+ed nor*s !hrough cer!ain social 3!es!s4 su,,lied +y ,eers in *iddle school$ 38here was a grea! deal o/ s*all !es!s conduc!ed +y *y ,eers, +o!h *ale and /e*ale, in *iddle school$ 8hese !es!s would, +y and large, +e used !o es!a+lish so*e sor! o/ s!ig*a !o !hose !hey were conduc!ed on$ / !he +oy +eing !es!ed reac!ed in a way !ha! was dee*ed wrong, he would li-ely +e su+5ec! !o ridicule$ Mos! o/ !he !i*e, wha! was dee*ed Bwrong: was ar+i!rary$ 8here was one inciden! !ha! re*ains 2ui!e vivid in *y *ind$ ! was while was in !he loc-er roo* a/!er gy* !ha! was a,,roached +y a class*a!e, who was a *e*+er o/ !he ,o,ular cli2ue$ 8his class*a!e as-ed !o see *y hands$ e7!ended *y righ! hand /orward, ,al* u, wi!h !he /ingers sligh!ly curled$ 8he class*a!e nodded1 a,,aren!ly had ,assed !he !es!$ According !o hi*, girls would s!ic- !heir hands ou!, ,al*s down and /ingers s!raigh!, and Bho*os: would s!ic- !heir hands ou! ,al*s u, +u! wi!h /ingers s!raigh!$4 While !his ,ersonal e7a*,le is no! o/ adolescen! language, !his s!ory does give a re*ar-a+le i*age o/ !he social 7 ,ressure ,laced u,on young adolescen!s +y !heir /ellow ,eers !o con/or* !o a s,eci/ic gender s!ereo!y,e$ Maddie McClellan ,rovided an e7a*,le /ro* a /e*ale ,ers,ec!ive in which she had si*ilar hu*ilia!ing e7,eriences in *iddle school, as she was 5udged +y her ,eers +ased o// o/ gender s!ereo!y,es$ Maddie grew u, no! ,rescri+ing /ully !o gender nor*s as a child1 she was wha! one would call a 3!o*+oy$4 @he was no! acce,!ed +y her !ea**a!es in gy*nas!ics a! a younger age +ecause she had shor! hair and was shy, and she o/!en go! along +e!!er wi!h +oys$ %ecause she was a! an aw-ward *iddle9school age in which s!uden!s were s!ill /inding ou! where !hey /i! in, she was es,ecially vulnera+le !o !easing a+ou! her shor! hair, +aggy clo!hes, and avid reading$ When she go! a 3+oy/riend,4 so*e o/ !he *ore ,o,ular girls *ade /un o/ her +oy/riend in /ron! o/ her /or +eing a 3Maddie9lover$4 @oon enough, !his s!age was over, +u! i! re*ains vivid in her *e*ory, 5us! as Andrew:s *e*ory goes un/orgo!!en$ (enderlec!s don:! si*,ly las! !hrough adolescen! s!ages1 ra!her !han /ade ou!, !hey con!inue on /ro* adolescence in!o !he adul! world$ Al!hough, ho,e/ully, /ull9grown *en and wo*en don:! ridicule each o!her as *iddle9schoolers o/!en do, !he di//erence in adul! genderlec!s is s!ill seen, /or e7a*,le, !hrough !he di//erences +e!ween *en:s sense o/ hu*or and wo*en:s sense o/ hu*or$ ! is o/!en assu*ed !ha! wo*en do no! share !he sa*e sense o/ hu*or as *en do$ Men are *ore o/!en loo-ing /or a laugh, which was !ouched on earlier1 !his +egins early in adolescence <i/ no! earlier=$ Wo*en do no! see- a!!en!ion in !his way as *uch as *en do, which also +egan a! an early age, !hus i! is o/!en assu*ed !ha! wo*en are 5us! no! /unny$ 6/ course, !his /inding is +ased only on 3/ol-lore s!udies4 and i! 5us! +ac-s u, !he +elie/ !ha! wo*en lac- hu*or <Craw/ord '=$ %u! even !hough !hese so9called /indings are no! really legi!i*a!e, !he *ere /ac! !ha! !here is an assu*,!ion !ha! wo*en do no! have a sense o/ hu*or, and !ha! *en are su,,osed !o +e !he 3/unny guys,4 5us! /ur!her illus!ra!es !he gender roles ,rescri+ed !o *en and wo*en +y socie!y, and how !hese role s,eci/ica!ions co*e !hrough in language$ 8 Ano!her e7a*,le o/ gender di//erence in language !ha! con!inues on !hrough adul!hood is !he idea o/ i*,lica!ures$ An e7a*,le o/ !his is /ound in Mary E$ Craw/ord:s +oo-, 8al-ing #i//erence: 6n (ender and "anguage: a+ou! a *arried cou,le in which 3!he wo*an as-ed her hus+and i/ he would li-e !o s!o, /or a drin-$ Ie re,lied BNo,4 and !hey did no! s!o,$ Iowever, !he wo*an was annoyed +ecause her hus+and did no! reali0e /ro* her 2ues!ion !ha! she wan!ed !o s!o, /or a drin-$ Ie, in !urn, was /rus!ra!ed +ecause she had no! s!a!ed her ,re/erence direc!ly4 <Craw/ord ''=$ 8he analysis o/ !he si!ua!ion e7,lains !ha! nei!her !he *an nor !he wo*an were wrong in !heir ac!ions, +u! !hey *us! !ry !o +e conscious o/ wha! !he o!her *eans in order !o avoid /u!ure con/usion and con/lic!$ Men and wo*en 5us! co**unica!e di//eren!ly, as we have /ound ou!$ Mos! li-ely, everyone can !hin- o/ ano!her e7a*,le si*ilar !o !his in !heir own lives1 a !i*e when so*e s*all *isunders!anding snow+alled in!o a /igh! !ha! s!ar!ed a! !he roo! o/ !hese ,ro+le*s: co**unica!ion$ 8he +igges! issue /acing *en and wo*en regarding co**unica!ion is a direc! resul! o/ how we grow u, learning how !o s,ea-$ Men !end !o ac2uire *ore direc! and !echnical ways o/ s,ea-ing, while wo*en !end !o !a-e a *ore ,assiona!e and e*o!ional a,,roach !o s,eech$ 8his *ay cause issues when co**unica!ing, +ecause wo*en !end !o use *ore i*,lica!ions in !heir s,eech, !ha! is, ra!her !han s!a!e direc!ly wha! !hey wan!, !hey 5us! i*,ly !hings$ 8his direc!ly con!ras!s how *en !end !o s,ea-$ Men !y,ically are very direc! in !heir s,eech, which can lead !o issues when a wo*an i*,lies so*e!hing and !he *an doesn:! unders!and$ 8his is one o/ !he leading causes /or *arriage counseling <Navran=$ Co**unica!ion is so*e!hing !ha!, al!hough necessary !o have /unc!ional rela!ionshi,s, can o+viously +e very con/using !o ,eo,le$ *,lica!ures and genderlec!s only *a-e !his ,rocess *ore di//icul!$ (enderlec!s occur +ecause o/ isola!ion and gender sociali0a!ion !ha! s!ar!s early in a hu*an:s li/e, crea!ing di//erences in gender roles !ha! even!ually co*e !hrough in language$ %ecause +oys and girls are sociali0ed !o use genderlec!s as early as age !wo, and are rein/orced 9 !hroughou! childhood +y !heir surroundings and /avori!e !oys, and !hrough adolescence +y ,ressure /ro* !heir ,eers !o con/or* !o nor*al gender roles, !hese genderlec!s re/use !o /ade and con!inue in!o adul!hood$ (enderlec!s in language 5us! *ean !ha! *en and wo*an /unc!ion a li!!le di//eren!ly, and have !o *a-e sure !o !hin- a+ou! !he i*,lica!ions o/ wha! !hey are saying, and wha! !he o!her is !hin-ing$ Even !hough genderlec!s *ay add con/usion and gender se,era!ion, !hey assis! in evolving *ales and /e*ales in!o !heir gendered selves$ (enderlec!s s!ar! early, and +ecause o/ rein/orce*en! !hroughou! li/e, are here !o s!ay$ Wor-s Ci!ed Arne!!, Jensen$ Adolescence and E*erging Adul!hood1 a cul!ural a,,roach$ A$ C,,er @addle River: ?earson Educa!ion nc$, 20'0$ ?rin!$ Ar!er, "isa Ma7well$ 3Children:s ?erce,!ions o/ (ender as @!udied 8hrough ?ronoun Cse$4 Ari0ona @!a!e Cniversi!y <20''=: '9>>$ ?ro2ues!$ We+$ 'A Nov$ 20'' 10 %lair, Iea!her A$ 3(enderlec!s: (irl 8al- and %oy 8al- in a Middle9Kears Classroo*$4 "anguage Ar!s JJ$A <2000=: D'E9D2D$ Na!ional Council o/ 8eachers o/ English$ We+$ D'E9D2'$ 'A Nov$ 20''$ Carroll, Janell$ @e7uali!y Now1 E*+racing #iversi!y$ D$ %el*on!: Wadswor!h Cengage "earning, 20'0$ 2'A$ ?rin!$ Craw/ord, Mary E$ 8al-ing #i//erence: 6n (ender and "anguage$ @age ?u+lica!ions: '99E$ '9''$ ?rin!$ )ran0, @!e,hanie$ 3(ender den!i!y and (ender @!ereo!y,es as n!erac!ing n/luences on Children:s Ad5us!*en!$4 )lorida A!lan!ic Cniversi!y, <2009=$ ?ro2ues!$ We+$ 20 Nov$ 20''$ )ro*-in, Lic!oria, Ro+er! 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