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This document discusses transforming one's "inner mother" from a reflection of one's actual mother to the nurturing mother one always needed. It suggests grieving the ways one's needs were not met by their mother in childhood. Through this process, one can stop seeking validation externally and instead provide self-love. Over time, this allows one to form a safe bond with their "inner child" and fill the gap of mothering they lacked, liberating themselves to live authentically.
This document discusses transforming one's "inner mother" from a reflection of one's actual mother to the nurturing mother one always needed. It suggests grieving the ways one's needs were not met by their mother in childhood. Through this process, one can stop seeking validation externally and instead provide self-love. Over time, this allows one to form a safe bond with their "inner child" and fill the gap of mothering they lacked, liberating themselves to live authentically.
This document discusses transforming one's "inner mother" from a reflection of one's actual mother to the nurturing mother one always needed. It suggests grieving the ways one's needs were not met by their mother in childhood. Through this process, one can stop seeking validation externally and instead provide self-love. Over time, this allows one to form a safe bond with their "inner child" and fill the gap of mothering they lacked, liberating themselves to live authentically.
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uevelopmenLally, our relaLlonshlp wlLh our moLher serves as a LemplaLe for our relaLlonshlp wlLh ourselves. As female chlldren we absorbed lnformaLlon abouL how she felL abouL herself, abouL us as her chlld and abouL Lhe world. naLurally we lnLernallzed Lhese bellefs and worldvlews Lo form Lhe basls of our very own bellefs and sense of self.
"# $#%&'#( )* )&#%) *+&,#$-#, ).# /%0 *+& 1*).#& )&#%)#( .#&,#$23 Cur Lask as awakened women ls Lo Lransform Lhe lnner moLher wlLhln our psyche from a dupllcaLe of our blologlcal moLher wlLh her human llmlLaLlons lnLo Lhe moLher we always needed and wanLed. ln dolng Lhls, Lhe lnner moLher accuraLely meeLs our needs and uncondlLlonally nurLures us ln ways our ouLer moLhers may have been unable Lo. "# 4%' 5#4*1# ).# 1*).#& /# %$/%0, /%')#(6)* *+&,#$-#,3 ln Lhls way, we become capable of accepLlng Lhe llmlLaLlons of our ouLer moLher because Lhe lnner moLher becomes Lhe prlmary one we can rely on ln ways LhaL perhaps we were never able Lo rely on our ouLer moLher.
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7+& 1*).#& 4*+$( *'$0 $*-# +, )* ).# #8)#') ).%) ,.# 4*+$( $*-# .#&,#$23 AL a cerLaln polnL we musL face LhaL our moLhers could noL and wlll noL meeL our needs ln all Lhe ways LhaL we needed and wanLed her Lo. 1hls musL be grleved all Lhe way Lhrough. We have Lo grleve Lhe ways we had Lo compensaLe and suffer from Lhe moLher wound. ln Lhe process of grlevlng we have Lhe chance Lo reallze LhaL Lhe facL LhaL we felL unloved or abandoned ln momenLs was noL our faulL and we can sLop sLruggllng Lo prove our worLh Lo Lhe world. ln Lhe grlevlng process, we can also have compasslon for our moLhers and Lhe burdens Lhey carrled. 9#%$:'; ).# <1*).#& /*+'(= )&%',2*&1, 0*+& $:2# 5#0*'( %'0).:'; 0*+ 4%' :1%;:'#3 1hrough faclng Lhls paln, we may flnd LhaL whaL we LhoughL was our paln may acLually be parLly our moLher's paln LhaL we have been carrylng for her ouL of love. We can now choose Lo puL Lhls burden down. lnsLead of aLLenuaLlng ourselves ouL of gullL, we can sLand confldenLly ln our bodles and hearLs wlLh a sense of Lrue wholeness and self-love. >0 5#4*1:'; ).# <;**( #'*+;.= 1*).#& )* *+&,#$-#,? /# $:5#&%)# '*) *'$0 *+&,#$-#,? 5+) #-#&0*'# #$,# :' *+& $:-#,3
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lL ls challenglng Lo admlL Lo ourselves where we felL unloved ln our relaLlonshlp wlLh our moLher. We may recall seelng how burdened and overwhelmed she was and we may have LhoughL LhaL we were Lhe source of her paln. 1hls daughLer gullL" can keep us sLuck. 8ecognlzlng Lhe lnnocence and leglLlmacy of our chlldhood needs ls a way of releaslng shame and bapLlzlng ourselves lnLo Lhe LruLh of our goodness. Cnce we flrsL grleve for ourselves, we can Lhen grleve for our moLhers and for women as a whole. @&:#2 &#A$#':,.#, %'( ,)&#';).#', +,3 As women we can heal and glve ourselves whaL our moLhers could noL glve us. We can become our own source. 1he collecLlve female paln body" ls healed one woman aL a Llme. And as Lhe female paln body heals so does Lhe collecLlve human paln body. Cur own heallng ls noL only a glfL Lo ourselves, buL Lo Lhe world. B.# 1*).#& /*+'( :, % ;&#%) *AA*&)+':)03 As we allow ourselves Lo conLacL whaL feels llke an anclenL, lnexhausLlble hunger for an lnexhausLlble moLher-we blrLh ourselves lnLo our Lrue ldenLlLy-whaL l call Lhe womb of llghL," an lnexhausLlble, overflowlng founLaln of love and abundance LhaL ls noL dependenL on clrcumsLances or condlLlons. We Lhen can llve ln servlce Lo LhaL whlch we Lruly are-love lLself.
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MoLher/daughLer relaLlonshlps are on a conLlnuum, wlLh healLhy and supporLlve on one end and abuslve, confllcL-rldden on Lhe oLher end. We all fall somewhere on Lhls conLlnuum. uependlng upon Lhe level of poslLlve bondlng LhaL you experlenced wlLh your moLher, your moLher's volce may be Lhe supporLlve, nurLurlng, comforLlng volce LhaL encourages you when you feel confused or challenged. And llkewlse, you may recognlze Lhe volce of Lhe lnner crlLlc Lo be Lhe volce of your moLher, causlng you Lo feel doubLful, sLuck and llmlLed.
1here ls no such Lhlng as a perfecL moLher/daughLer relaLlonshlp. And many women have experlenced greaL paln and confllcL wlLh Lhelr moLhers.
Cur Lask as we heal Lhe moLher wound ls Lo Lransform Lhe lnner moLher wlLhln us from a dupllcaLe of our human moLher (wlLh her llmlLaLlons) lnLo Lhe moLher we always wanLed-%' :''#& 1*).#& ).%) 4%' %5+'(%')$0 1##) *+& '##(, %'( ,+AA*&) +, :' 2$*+&:,.:'; %'( $*-:'; *+&,#$-#, 2*& /.* /# )&+$0 %
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1he relaLlonshlp beLween your lnner moLher and your lnner chlld ls a conLalner LhaL supporLs you ln llvlng a llfe LhaL Lruly fulfllls you. 1hls relaLlonshlp ls creaLed by havlng &#;+$%& (:%$*;+#, wlLh your lnner chlld and by demonsLraLlng your ablllLy Lo nurLure, llsLen and comforL her on a conslsLenL basls.
Cver Llme a safe lnner bond ls formed LhaL fllls Lhe gap of moLherlng LhaL you dld noL geL from your own moLher. Cradually, Lhls allows you Lo cease searchlng for Lhls love on Lhe ouLslde because you are flndlng lL wlLhln. lL ls a powerful process LhaL has rlpple effecLs on every area of your llfe.
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WhaL many people don'L reallze ls LhaL whaL we really wanL ls our !"# love. 1hls ls Lhe love LhaL ls Lruly lnflnlLe and wlLhouL llmlL. 1he reason lL seems LhaL we may be searchlng and longlng for our moLher's love or approval ls because % 1*).#&G, $*-# :, /.%) ;:-#, % 4.:$( IEKDCLLC7M )* $*-# .#&,#$23
1hls ls a developmenLal need and when LhaL need ls noL meL ln chlldhood, as adulLs we end up unconsclously pro[ecLlng Lhls need onLo oLher people and slLuaLlons ln our llves, expecLlng Lhem Lo glve us LhaL sense of valldaLlon, approval and love LhaL Lhey slmply cannoL glve. 1hls can keep us sLuck and frusLraLed.
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As adulLs, we can flnally glve ourselves permlsslon Lo love ourselves. We do Lhls by flrsL mournlng Lhe facL LhaL our orlglnal chance Lo geL LhaL permlsslon from our moLhers ls gone because we can'L go back Lo chlldhood. WhaL creaLes Lhe shlfL ls really seelng Lhe LruLh LhaL :) /%, '#-#& 0*+& 2%+$) ).%) 0*+ (:('G) ;#) ).# 1*).#&:'; 0*+ '##(#(. lL was slmply Lhe resulL of Lhe envlronmenLal facLors LhaL were presenL ln your early chlldhood, lncludlng Lhe lssues of Lhe adulLs surroundlng you. ?ou were a chlld and had no conLrol over Lhe slLuaLlon.
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1he way a chlld lnLerpreLs maLernal deflclLs ls Lo make lLself wrong and someLhlng Lo lmprove upon. 1hls ls because Lhe chlld musL preserve Lhe bellef LhaL Lhe moLher ls all-good and all- knowlng ln order Lo survlve emoLlonally lnLacL. lL creaLes Lhe bellef LhaL: 1here musL be someLhlng wrong wlLh me." 1hls lnLernal message ls a survlval mechanlsm proLecLlng Lhe chlld from Lhe reallLy of Lhe slLuaLlon, whlch could oLherwlse devasLaLe Lhe chlld. 8ecause of Lhls early survlval mechanlsm, many of us may unconsclously carry Lhls bellef lnLo adulLhood Lo some degree, whlch can cause a loL of paln and sLruggle.
We dld noL have Lhe capaclLy Lo mourn Lhe slLuaLlon as chlldren buL as adulLs we do and we musL, ln order Lo clalm and llve our full poLenLlal.
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lL ls an lmporLanL sLep Lo really allow yourself Lo see LhaL your paln was never your faulL and Lo grleve Lhe facL LhaL you cannoL go back and geL LhaL nurLurlng you needed.
ln Laklng Lhls sLep, you begln Lhe process of llberaLlng yourself Lo become Lhe powerful, unlque, amazlng woman LhaL you are and Lo llve your llfe auLhenLlcally expresslng your LruLh and your glfLs Lo Lhe world.
1hls process can Lake a whlle buL lL works! 8e paLlenL wlLh yourself. lf you sLlck wlLh lL, you wlll lncreaslngly feel Lhe welghL and pressure llfL off of you and a new sense of freedom wlll begln Lo dawn ln your llfe. ?ou gradually become free Lo be you, wlLhouL gullL, shame or self-doubL, buL raLher wlLh clarlLy, confldence and [oy!
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?our lnner Chlld ls a source of creaLlvlLy, vlLallLy and lnnocenL wlsdom. Many of us were re[ecLed Lo some degree ln chlldhood and compensaLed ln some way by creaLlng a false self." 1hls false self was Lhe self we had Lo show Lo Lhe ouLslde world ln order Lo be accepLed. 1he parLs of us LhaL were re[ecLed wenL lnLo shadow and remaln lnaccesslble Lo us unLll we reLrleve our lnner chlld and creaLe a nurLurlng, safe lnner relaLlonshlp LhaL allows for our Lrue, auLhenLlc self Lo emerge.
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WhaL we call Lhe lnner chlld ls a real energy LhaL llves ln us as adulLs. lf lefL lgnored, Lhe lnner chlld may sLlll be spllL-off and frozen due Lo unresolved early LraumaLlc experlences. 1hls can cause us Lo unconsclously saboLage ourselves due Lo unresolved bellefs and fears from early chlldhood.
8y openlng Lhe dlalogue wlLh your lnner chlld, Lhe lnner frozen places LhaL keep you sLuck ln palnful paLLerns begln Lo open up, creaLlng space for more fulflllmenL, [oy and creaLlvlLy.
E8%1A$#, *2 O+#,):*', )* %,P 0*+& :''#& 4.:$(Q Pow are you feellng Loday? WhaL do you need from me ln Lhls momenL? WhaL can l do for you rlghL now? l sense LhaL you are feellng ______. Would you llke Lo Lalk abouL lL? WhaL would you llke Lo do rlghL now?
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E8%1A$#, *2 %22:&1:'; ).:';, 0*+ 4%' ,%0 )* 0*+& :''#& 4.:$(Q ?ou are Lhoroughly good and wonderful. ?ou are lovable and speclal. ?ou are safe. l respecL you. l am so proud of you! l'm so happy you are here! ?ou can do lL! l'm rlghL here for you whenever you need me. lL's Ck Lo have needs. l love fllllng your needs! l love Laklng care of you! lL's Ck Lo make mlsLakes. All of your feellngs are Ck. ?ou can resL ln me. 1here's noLhlng you could say or do LhaL would make me noL love you.
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?our lnner MoLher ls your adulL self, wlLh all your knowledge and power, supporLed by hlgher forces such as Lhe unlverse, Cod/Coddess and hlgher self.
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As Lhe lnner moLher, you help your lnner chlld wlLhln you Lo see LhaL Lhe pasL ls Lruly ln Lhe pasL. ?ou do Lhls by belng consclous of your lnner chlld's emoLlonal sLaLe and maklng new cholces LhaL demonsLraLe LhaL Lhe dangers of early chlldhood are no longer presenL.
Some examples: o SooLhlng her when she ls scared o ComforLlng her when you are movlng lnLo a new dlrecLlon LhaL seems rlsky Lo her o SupporLlng her by afflrmlng her worLh, value and deservlngness o roLecLlng her boundarles o SupporLlng her ln her deslres Lo play, learn, explore and grow o Afflrmlng her goodness LhaL ls lndesLrucLlble no maLLer whaL happens ln llfe
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?ou move back and forLh beLween belng Lhe lnner moLher and Lhe lnner chlld. ln Lhls way, you recelve Lhe nurLurlng you need and you provlde Lhe safe conLalner LhaL you needed as a chlld. Cne could say LhaL Lhrough Lhls relaLlonshlp, you creaLe a cenLer of wholeness and safeLy wlLhln LhaL allows you Lo Lruly Lhrlve and flourlsh ln Lhe world. 1hls relaLlonshlp conLlnues Lo deepen over Llme and brlngs a greaL rlchness Lo llfe.
1he prlmary aLLachmenL bond from shlfLs from Lhe llmlLed ouLer moLher Lo Lhe uncondlLlonally lovlng lnner moLher.
?ou become lncreaslngly able Lo feel Lhe reallLy of your own loveable-ness and re[olce ln your own goodness and value, no maLLer Lhe ouLer clrcumsLances.
?ou are beLLer able Lo recelve love from oLhers because a parL of you ls no longer lnvesLed ln seelng yourself as less Lhan" as a form of belng loyal Lo your moLher. (WalLlng lndeflnlLely for your moLher Lo show up ln Lhe ways LhaL you needed her Lo.)
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?ou are able Lo accuraLely see yourself. ?ou can see your own faulLs, flaws or mlsLakes whlle remalnlng flrmly rooLed ln your baslc sense of goodness and value. LxLernal approval may come buL you no longer need lL Lo feel Ck.
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8y culLlvaLlng Lhe good enough moLher you are developlng a new relaLlonshlp wlLhln yourself. ?ou don'L have Lo be perfecL, you wlll make mlsLakes. 1he lmporLanL Lhlng ls LhaL you are wllllng Lo keep golng! And every llLLle blL goes a very long way!
WhaL were some of Lhe Lhlngs you wanLed when you were llLLle LhaL you never goL?
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Lovlngly brushed your halr Lald ouL your cloLhes Lhe nlghL before school 8ead you a bedLlme sLory every nlghL 1ruly llsLened Lo whaL you had Lo say Console you and help you Lo bralnsLorm soluLlons when you were upseL ald for you Lo Lake muslc or arL lessons Cave you loLs of hugs and was physlcally affecLlonaLe Lowards you
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T4):*' ,)#AQ Make a llsL of Lhlngs your lnner chlld longed for from your moLher and acLually do Lhem! 1hls sends a very sLrong message Lo your lnner chlld LhaL she ls worLhy, deservlng, lmporLanL and speclal. She sLarLs Lo see LhaL 0*+ are Lhe source of love LhaL she needs, noL Lhe ouLer moLher who she's been walLlng and longlng for.
T4):*' L)#AQ ConslsLenLly check-ln" and dlalogue wlLh your lnner chlld:
o osL a plcLure of yourself as a chlld ln a promlnenL place where you can see lL every day.
o ?ou can sLarL ouL small wlLh [usL a few mlnuLes of dlalogue per day. (sllenLly or aloud)
o Speak Lo her as you would a chlld ln a nurLurlng, sofL volce.
o LmpaLhy ls key. Lxpress empaLhy for how she has been sufferlng and walLlng for moLher Lo change. Lxplaln LhaL she no longer needs Lo walL, LhaL you are now here Lo Lake care of her from now on.
o 1ell her how speclal, unlque, and wonderful she ls! Clve her examples of her wonderful quallLles.
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o 1ell her you are so happy she ls here! 1haL she ls allve and ln your llfe! (someLhlng she may noL have heard aL all as a chlld)
o CulLlvaLe maLernal compasslon and love for yourself as a chlld. ?ou can do Lhls by fllpplng Lhrough phoLo albums and admlrlng whaL an adorable, wonderful chlld you were. 8eally look and sense yourself as a chlld, how preclous and speclal you were.
o vlsuallze a beauLlful lnner place where you and your lnner chlld can connecL and lnLeracL. erhaps a gorgeous meadow, on Lhe beach or ln a safe home LhaL ls beauLlful and cozy. 8eLurn Lo Lhls place conslsLenLly Lo connecL, nurLure and comforL your lnner chlld.
o Lven when you are acLlve ln Lhe world a parL of you can always be connecLed Lo her. She can always be Lucked ln safely your hearL."
o CLher people who are generous, safe and LrusLworLhy. All Lhe love, klndness, respecL, LhaL we recelve from oLhers can feed us and nurLure Lhe chlld wlLhln.
o Cbserve lovlng moLhers lnLeracL wlLh Lhelr chlldren. 8rlng LhaL lovlng energy lnLo yourself and lnLo your relaLlonshlp wlLh your own lnner chlld.
o We consclously make new cholces LhaL we couldn'L make ln Lhe pasL Anu ln dolng so we recelve emoLlonal nuLrlenLs LhaL replace earller deflclLs. (Lxamples: seLLlng boundarles, volclng our LruLh, comforLlng ourselves raLher Lhan condemnlng ourselves, eLc.)
o lor example, lf you were shamed for speaklng your mlnd as a chlld, as an adulL raLher Lhan conLlnulng Lhe paLLern of remalnlng sllenL due Lo fear of re[ecLlon, one can shlfL Lhe paLLern by Laklng Lhe rlsk Lo speak your mlnd as an adulL, even lf lL feels uncomforLable ln order Lo experlence a dlfferenL ouLcome.
o When we do Lhls (acLlng counLer Lo Lhe paLLern) Lhere's a chance we wlll have a dlfferenL experlence Lhan we dld as a chlld, whlch can be very heallng.
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o When you have Lhls dlfferenL experlence, perhaps by belng supporLed ln speaklng your mlnd (raLher Lhan shamed) your lnner chlld geLs Lhe message LhaL Lhlngs %&' dlfferenL now. lL demonsLraLes LhaL you are noL frozen ln Lhe pasL, sLuck ln LhaL paLLern, buL LhaL you, as an adulL, are capable of new experlences of yourself and llfe. ?our lnner chlld beglns Lo LrusL you more and more.
o Worklng wlLh symbols and archeLypes. (Lxample: CreaLe an lmage of Lhe good moLher and work wlLh lL. vlsuallzaLlons, arL work, collage, drawlngs, eLc.)
o Pelp from Lhe ulvlne MoLher: MoLher Mary, 1he Coddesses, oLher lmages and flgures of dlvlne femlnlne power and love, eLc.
o CeL SupporL: We cannoL heal ln lsolaLlon. lL's lmporLanL Lo reach ouL and geL Lhe supporL you need. uependlng where you are ln your heallng [ourney, dlfferenL forms of supporL may be needed or deslred aL dlfferenL Llmes. no maLLer whaL modallLy you use, Lhe mosL lmporLanL Lhlng ls Lo .%-# % ,%2# A$%4# Lo process some of Lhe deeper feellngs you may be experlenclng and lnLegraLe Lhem ln a healLhy way LhaL supporLs you ln lovlng yourself.
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o Some examples of supporL are:
! lndlvldual Lherapy ! Croup Lherapy ! SupporL groups ! Workshops ! Lnergy work ! MovemenL Lherapy/yoga
N*'4$+,:*' 1ransformlng Lhe lnner moLher ls a powerful process LhaL guldes women Lo heal from lnLer-generaLlonal wounds and Lo clalm Lhelr auLhenLlc power and poLenLlal. lL ls a slmple process LhaL over Llme can creaLe ma[or poslLlve change ln your llfe. l hope you've en[oyed Lhls free reporL and feel lnsplred Lo love and supporL yourself ln Lhls way!
J#%&' 1*&# %5*+) A&*;&%1, %'( *22#&:';, 2&*1 >#).%'0 "#5,)#& 1he gulde ls a brlef excerpL from a larger module on Lransformlng Lhe lnner moLher, whlch ls a slngle componenL of a seven-sLep process l Leach on how Lo Lransform Lhe paln of maLernal woundlng lnLo dlvlne femlnlne power. SLay Luned Lo my webslLe for upcomlng announcemenLs abouL onllne courses, llve workshops and opporLunlLles Lo lnvesL ln personal coachlng wlLh me. l welcome Lhe opporLunlLy Lo serve you on your unlque paLh of heallng and LransformaLlon! hLLp://wombofllghL.com
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