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Guide to Cooperative Problem Solving, Chapter 10: Being a Peacemaker 10-2
CHARACTERISTICS OF A PEACEMAKER
1. Approachable
2. Balanced
3. Believable
4. Brings out the best
in others
5. Calm
6. A coach
7. Competent
8. Confident
9. Courageous
10. Courteous
11. Decisive
12. Determined
13. Empathetic
14. Empowers others
15. Encouraging
16. Ethical
17. Fair
18. Forward-looking
19. Friendly
20. Good listener
21. Has vision
22. Honest
23. Motivates others
24. Objective
25. Practical
26. Respects others
27. Respects self
28. Safe to talk to
29. Sees all sides
30. Shows confidence
in others
31. Sympathetic
32. Takes action
33. Thoughtful
34. Trustworthy
35. Understanding
36. Wise
You as a Peacemaker: Think of a time or an incident in which you demonstrated
some characteristics of a peacemaker. Take a minute or two to write a description
of the incident, what you did, and some adjectives that describe how you behaved
in that situation.
Once you have done this, you will have clarified the part of yourself that will help
you be successful in Cooperative Problem Solving that part of you that is a
peacemaker. Here are some quotes/thoughts to remind you of the importance of
being a peacemaker while engaging in cooperative problem solving:
Nelson Mandela, 1994 Inaugural Speech
Original Text by Marianne Williamson
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us.
We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant,
gorgeous, talented and fabulous?
Actually, who are you not to be?
You are a child of God. Your playing small doesnt serve the world.
Theres nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other
people wont feel insecure around you.
We are born to make manifest the Glory of God that is within us.
Guide to Cooperative Problem Solving, Chapter 10: Being a Peacemaker 10-3
It is not just in some of us; its in everyone.
And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give
other people permission to do the same.
As we are liberated from our own fear,
our presence automatically liberates others.
Our Better Angels - On Being Peacemakers
While Doing Conflict Resolution Work
By Tom Dunne
Our success as conflict resolution practitioners depends greatly on our professional
knowledge and skills on our expertise in the techniques of doing the work. But at
least as important as our ability to do the work is how we are while doing it on
our being peacemakers while doing conflict resolution work. Being a peacemaker
has to do with what is going on inside us, rather than on the activities that people
see us carrying out. Abraham Lincoln once referred to the personal values and
character traits that inspire us toward peace building as the better angels of our
nature. It seems to me that four of our better angels serve us particularly well
as conflict resolution practitioners.
Courage: Often we need to take action even though we have inadequate
information, feel doubtful or uncertain about the outcome, or expect opposition or
even failure. At some point, delay can turn into paralysis. Bringing forth our
courage is whats needed at such points. Woody Allen claims that 90% of success
in life is just showing up. Sometimes we can work up our courage by ourselves
(Just do it!). But sometimes we need to give ourselves a jump-start by reading
something inspirational, meditating, praying, or talking with a colleague. (This is
true for all of our better angels sometimes we need a little help from our
friends to bring them forth).
Compassion: We all have the ability to look at another human being with respect
and empathy to imagine the most unlikable person standing beside the pool of
their own tears. We have the ability to do this with ourselves as well. And to the
extent that we treat ourselves and others with compassion, to that extent we open
the possibility of understanding, of being a force for bringing out the best in
ourselves and others, and of weaving, together, the fabric of community and
cooperation.
Creativity: Often, people in conflict feel trapped unable to imagine a workable
way out. Yet solutions are available in the vast majority of situations. The ability to
let go, even for a short time, of our stereotypes and habits is essential to
discovering the beginnings of solutions.
Guide to Cooperative Problem Solving, Chapter 10: Being a Peacemaker 10-4
Conviction: There are times when it is less difficult than others to have hope in
the future. But sometimes it seems that the power of hatred and violence is
overwhelmingly greater than the power of respect, wisdom, and cooperation and
that peacemaking is a fools errand. To the extent that I allow external
circumstances determine my optimism for cooperation, I become a victim of those
circumstances. But I can choose otherwise: I can decide that no one can predict
the future, that all humans have a desire for cooperation, and that I can make a
small contribution towards our moving in that direction. My experience tells me, in
fact, that when I make this existential decision, I am much better able to act with
courage, compassion, and creativity in contributing toward that possible future.
ATTITUDE
By Charles Swindoll
The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of ATTITUDE on life. ATTITUDE, to
me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, than
education, than money, than circumstances, than failures, than successes, than
what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearances,
giftedness, or skill. It will make or break a company a church a home.
The remarkable thing is, we have a choice every day regarding the ATTITUDE we
will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past. We cannot change the fact
that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only
thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our ATTITUDE. I am
convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it. And so it
is with you. We are in charge of our ATTITUDES!
Guide to Cooperative Problem Solving, Chapter 11: Understanding BATNA 11-1
The Cooperative Problem Solving process does not always work. Paradoxically,
however, you are more likely to succeed if you know how you will solve the
problem by yourself if CPS fails. That is the purpose of a BATNA.
BATNA stands for Best Alternative To a Negotiated Agreement. A BATNA is:
A second-best solution that you hope you dont need to use
A reserve parachute so you are not in an all-or-nothing frame of mind
A safety net that allows you to focus on the task at hand (i.e., cooperative
problem solving)
Usually a flight or fight strategy
Something you can do unilaterally, if you cant achieve a mutual agreement
Examples of BATNAs:
Going over the bosss head,
Filing a formal grievance or complaint,
A manager exercising his/her decision-making authority,
Deciding to accept a situation the way it is
A Good pre-BATNA: Ask a third party who has the confidence of everyone
involved to help the parties resolve the problem cooperatively.
Conclusion: Before attempting a CPS with someone, it is wise to think through
what you will do to solve the problem unilaterally in case the CPS process doesnt
work. This will increase the likelihood that it will succeed. You will be more
relaxed and able to listen to and appreciate the other persons point of view, and
be creative about possible solutions.
Chapter : Understanding BATNA
Guide to Cooperative Problem Solving, Chapter 12: CPS A Matter of Choice 12-1
Introduction: Cooperative Problem Solving is often the best way to deal with a
problem. However, sometimes other strategies are desirable. It is possible to
assess a situation and
choose an appropriate
approach.
Ways We Deal With
Conflict: When conflicts
arise in our lives, we have
a variety of ways to deal
with them. Sometimes
we avoid dealing with a
conflict altogether.
Sometimes we yield to
the other person and let
them have their way.
Sometimes we contend
with that person to get
our own way, and
sometimes we
compromise so that we
each get some of what we
want. Finally, we
sometimes work together
with the other person to
jointly problem-solve.
The Dual Concern Model
to the right illustrates
these choices.
A Matter of Choice: Each method of
resolving conflicts has advantages and
disadvantages. What is important to
remember is that we have choices in
how we respond to conflict.
Chapter : CPS A Matter of Choice
Guide to Cooperative Problem Solving, Chapter 12: CPS A Matter of Choice 12-2
Some factors to consider when choosing the best way to manage a particular
conflict:
Do I care about the outcome? Is it important?
Is this an ongoing relationship?
How important is harmony?
Have I caused the problem?
Do I owe respect or deference to the other person?
What are the parties respective roles and power?
Do I have an obligation?
Are religious or other principles involved?
Are there time pressures?
Will this set a precedent?
Is justice or fairness involved?
Has a law been broken?
Do I want to expend the necessary time and energy?
Will the conflict possibly escalate if I address it?
Is everyone in a rational and competent frame of mind?
Is there a possibility of physical harm?
Is this a life or death situation?
What could be the costs and benefits?
Conclusion: Real-life cooperative problem solving doesnt go in neat steps.
The CPS map is just that a map, and not the journey itself. It is intended
as a guide as you go about using your own wisdom in addressing a particular
situation. You may find Appendix-A, Cooperative Problem Solving Planning
Sheets useful in applying the CPS process to your daily life.
Although it is simple, cooperative problem solving is not an easy way of dealing
with conflicts. But each time you use this approach, you contribute to making
the win-win way of dealing with conflicts better known. You contribute to
making cooperation the expected and normal approach to conflict in your
community. And you contribute to the movement from a you or me to a
you and me world where the dignity of all is respected. As a wise man once
said, I am only one, but still I am one. I cannot do everything, but still I can
do something. And because I cannot do everything, I will not refuse to do the
something I can do.
Guide to Cooperative Problem Solving, Chapter 12: CPS A Matter of Choice 12-3
Guide to Cooperative Problem Solving, Appendices
CPS GUIDE
APPENDICES
APPENDIX
A. COOPERATIVE PROBLEM SOLVING PLANNING SHEETS A-1
B. RESOURCES B-1
C. READING LIST C-1
D. CPS POCKET GUIDE D-1
E. SUCCESS STORIES E-1
F. GLOSSARY F-1
G. TEN TIPS FOR COOPERATIVE PROBLEM SOLVING G-1
H. PROBLEM ANALYSIS FORM H-1
Guide to Cooperative Problem Solving, Appendices: Cooperative Problem Solving Planning Sheets A-1
COOPERATIVE PROBLEM SOLVING PLANNING SHEETS
1. The Issue: Here is the problem as we see it:
2. Interests: Here are our interests and the other partys possible interests
(i.e., underlying needs, concerns, hopes, fears, motivations):
OUR INTERESTS THEIR POSSIBLE INTERESTS
After listing all the interests, mark each with an S (shared, similar), D
(different), or C (conflicting, opposing).
3. Options: Here are some options that might satisfy our interests. (Options
are possible, often creative agreements or pieces of an agreement. Options
are not commitments.):
Guide to Cooperative Problem Solving, Appendices: Cooperative Problem Solving Planning Sheets A-2
4. Standards (if applicable): Here are some customary, objective, widely-
accepted criteria for handling situations like this:
5. Possible BATNAs:
a. If we fail to come to an agreement, here are some possible Best
Alternatives to Negotiated Agreement (BATNAs) that could satisfy our
interests:
b. Here are some of their possible BATNAs:
6. Raising the Issue: Here is what we plan to say to raise the issue with the
other party:
Guidelines:
1. Prepare
2. Put it on the table
(respectfully)
3. Invite cooperation
4. Listen and learn
Guide to Cooperative Problem Solving, Appendices: Cooperative Problem Solving Planning Sheets A-3
7. Questions We Could Ask to find out what the other partys interests are:
8. Agreement:
Guidelines: What questions are better than Why questions.
Examples:
a. What do you want to have happen?
b. What do you hope to accomplish?
c. What concerns do you have?
d. What problem are we trying to solve?
e. What will it take for us to work together?
f. What would need to happen for you to feel satisfied?
g. What is the best-case scenario for you?
Guide to Cooperative Problem Solving, Appendices: Resources B-1
RESOURCES
The Association for Conflict Resolution
1015 18
th
Street NW, Suite 1150
Washington, DC 20036
USA
202-464-9700
www.acresolution.org
The National Association for Community Mediation
1527 New Hampshire Avenue, NW
Washington, DC 20036-1206
USA
202-667-9700
www.nafcm.org
The American Bar Association
Section of Dispute Resolution
740 15
th
St., NW
Washington, DC 20005-1009
USA
202-662-1683
www.abanet.org/dispute/
The Association of Family and Conciliation Courts
6515 Grand Teton Plaza, Suite 210
Madison, WI 53719-1048
USA
608-664-3750
www.afccnet.org/
Campus conflict Resolution Resources
www.campus-adr.org/main.html
Center for Restorative Justice and Peacemaking
School of Social Work
University of Minnesota
1404 Gortner Avenue, 105 Peters Hall
St. Paul, MN 55108-6160
USA
612-624-4923
http://ssw.che.umn.edu/rjp
Guide to Cooperative Problem Solving, Appendices: Resources B-2
U.S. Department of Justice
Community Dispute Resolution
http://www.ojp.usdoj.gov/eows/cdr/
Conflict Resolution Center International
204 Thirty-Seventh Street,
Pittsburgh, PA 15201-1859
USA
http://www.conflictres.org/
CRInfo
Conflict Research Consortium, University of Colorado
Campus Box 580
Boulder, CO 80309
USA
303-492-1635
http://www.crinfo.org/
Conflict Resolution Network Canada
http://www.crnetwork.ca/
CADRE (Consortium for Appropriate Dispute Resolution in Special Education)
Encourages the use of mediation and other collaborative strategies to resolve
disagreements about special education and early intervention programs.
http://www.directionservice.org/cadre/
The Institute for Conflict Analysis and Resolution (ICAR)
George Mason University
MS 4D3
Fairfax, VA 22030-4444
USA
703-993-2666
www.gmu.edu/departments/ICAR/
Institute for the Study of Conflict Transformation
http://www.transformativemediation.org/
International Association for Public Participation
11166 Huron Street, Suite 27
Denver, CO 80234
USA
1-800-644-4273
http://www.iap2.org/index.html
Guide to Cooperative Problem Solving, Appendices: Resources B-3
National Center for State Courts
300 Newport Avenue
Williamsburg, VA 23185-4147
USA
888-450-0391 x 1864
http://www.ncsonline.org/
Nebraska Supreme Court
Office of Dispute Resolution
402-471-3148
http://court.nol.org/odr/
Network of Communities for Peacemaking and Conflict Resolution
http://www.apeacemaker.net/
Oregon Dispute Resolution Commission
Supports the beneficial and effective use of mediation, negotiation,
conciliation, and other collaborative problem solving processes.
1201 Court Street NE, Suite 305
Salem, OR 97310
USA
503-378-2877 x 22
http://www.odrc.state.or.us/
The Organization Development Network
76 South Orange Avenue, Suite 101
South Orange, NJ 07079-1923
USA
Fax: 973-763-7488
www.odnetwork.org
The NTL Institute
1240 North Pitt Street, Suite 100
Alexandria, VA 22314-1403
USA
703-548-1500, 1-800-777-5227
www.ntl.org
Partners for Democratic Change
An international organization committed to building sustainable local capacity
to advance civil society and a culture of change and conflict management
worldwide.
www.partnersglobal.org
Guide to Cooperative Problem Solving, Appendices: Resources B-4
Policy Consensus Institute
PCI is a national nonprofit organization that works with states to promote
collaboration to achieve more effective governance.
www.policyconsensus.org
Public Conversations Project
PCP promotes constructive conversations and relationships among people who
have differing values, world views, and perspectives about divisive public
issuer.
www.publicconversations.org
Restorative Justice Consortium
www.restorativejustice.org.uk
Study Circles Resource Center
www.studycircles.org
Victim Offender Mediation Association
An international membership association which supports and assists people and
communities working at restorative models of justice.
2344 Nicollet Avenue South, Suite 330
Minneapolis, MN 55404
USA
612-874-0570
www.voma.org
World Mediation Forum
A global association of people, organizations, and institutions committed to the
use of mediation and other appropriate collaborative conflict management
processes wherever conflicts threaten the well being of individuals,
organizations, communities, and governments.
www.mediate.com/world
Guide to Cooperative Problem Solving, Appendices: Reading List C-1
READING LIST
Difficult Conversations How to Discuss What Matters Most, by Douglas
Stone, Bruce Patton, and Shela Heen, Penguin Books, 1999. Teaches how to handle
even the toughest conversations more effectively and with less anxiety. Based on the work of
the Harvard Negotiation Project, it addresses the question: When people confront the
conversations they dread the most, what works?
Getting to Yes: Negotiating Agreement Without Giving In, by Roger Fisher,
William Ury and Bruce Patton, Penguin Books, 1991. Presents a concise, step-by-
step, proven strategy for coming to mutually acceptable agreements in every sort of conflict
whether it involves parents and children, neighbors, bosses and employees, customers or
corporations, tenants or diplomats. Based on the work of the Harvard Negotiation Project, a
group that works with all levels of negotiation and conflict resolution from domestic to
business to international.
Getting Past No Negotiating Your Way From Confrontation to Cooperation,
by William Ury, Bantam Books, 1993. A practical five-step method for negotiating with
anyone even the difficult person who wont say, Yes.
Getting Together Building Relationships As We Negotiate, Roger Fisher and
Scott Brown, Penguin Books, 1989. A straightforward approach to creating
relationships that can help address difficulties as they arise.
Large Group Interventions Engaging the Whole System for Rapid Change,
by Barbara Benedict Bunker and Billie T. Alban; Jossey-Bass Publishers, 1997.
Describes methods for involving members of an organization in (re)designing systems and
procedures to foster cooperation and teamwork.
The Birth Order Factor, by Lucille Forer and Henry Still, Pocket Books, 1977.
Perceptions are one of the critical factors in conflict and conflict management. This book
describes one of the significant influences on how we form our perceptions: our place in the
family.
The Promise of Mediation, by Robert A. Baruch Bush and Joseph P. Folger,
Jossey-Bass Publishers, 1994. Describes how the mediation process can be useful not
only for developing good agreements, but also for developing good relationships and good
citizens.
Warriors of the Heart, by Danaan Parry, Sunstone Publications, 1994, (607)
547-8207. Describes how our attitudes and beliefs affect our ability to resolve conflict.
Provides guidance and exercises for our development as individuals and as peacemakers.
King, Warrior, Magician, Lover, by Robert Moore and Douglas Gillette, Harper
Collins, 1990. This is a very useful book for understanding Jungs archetypes and for using
those archetypes to manage our inner lives and external behavior.
Guide to Cooperative Problem Solving, Appendices: Pocket Guide D-1
CPS POCKET GUIDE
Directions:
1. Print this page and
the next page back
to back.
2. Cut out entire strip.
3. Fold
Guide to Cooperative Problem Solving, Appendices: Pocket Guide D-2
Guide to Cooperative Problem Solving, Appendices: Success Stories E-1
SUCCESS STORIES
For more success stories, check
http://www.nafcm.org/medleyofmediation.pdf.
A large number of people in a government agency were trained in cooperative
problem solving. Here are some of the success stories that resulted:
How Did You Do That?
A sensitive situation arose involving four female employees and their
male manager. I was asked to help them address the problem. Several
meetings ensued in which candid discussions were held. Although my expertise
in facilitating meetings of this sort is great, I lacked knowledge in developing
an agreement based on the interests of the parties.
Fortunately I was able to attend the workshop one week before our last
meeting, and it was just what I needed. The meeting was then held and we
were able to apply the tools and techniques of cooperative problem solving.
The manager and employees accepted responsibility and accountability for the
environment in which they work, and a formal complaint was avoided. On the
way out of the meeting, the manager looked at me and said: How did you do
that?
A Transition Problem
In our labor-management negotiations we reached agreement through an
interest-based approach. We began with representatives and the union
expressing concerns and views as to how to make the transition to the new
organization most effective and least disruptive to employees. These goals
guided the parties to an understanding and resolution of conflicts
From Eight Days To Three Hours
Two years ago our labor-management negotiations required eight days,
and the agreement was not really acceptable to both parties. Last year, using
the cooperative problem solving techniques, a mutually satisfactory agreement
was reached in three and a half days. This year, the total process needed just
three hours!
There Will Be Conflicts To Be Resolved
Our problem-solving process resulted in a win-win agreement. Both
sides attributed our success to our interest-based approach. Recognizing there
will be conflicts to be resolved, we anticipate that many will be resolved in this
fashion and our communications will be greatly enhanced. Another added
benefit is that the process works effectively not only in our work life, but in or
personal lives as well.
Guide to Cooperative Problem Solving, Appendices: Success Stories E-2
It Was Amazing To Me
Two groups were not able to reach agreement on sharing work space.
Two facilitators were brought in and they began to use an interest-based
approach to resolve the problem. Having identified the issues involved, they
began to explore the interests of the parties in the room and the various
stakeholder groups they represented. The groups then began to brainstorm
options that could be used to resolve the problem, keeping in mind that all of
the interests were shared by all of them. This concept kept them focused on
the need to develop options that they all could live with.
After the group generated several options, they began to focus on one of
the options as a possible solution, and you could feel the energy in the room
pick up around that possibility. The group began to work around that option
and add things to it to make it work. Everyone was pleased with the approach
they followed to arrive at a solution. The meeting was completed in less than
two hours.
One of the participants commented: As we went through the process
and came upon options that people could see possibilities in, I saw the parties
come together, and that really was literally coming together. I felt the
atmosphere of the room change. There was less tension. You saw their heads
coming together across the table and them moving towards each other. It was
amazing to me.
Side-by-Side
Two participants in our workshop had been carrying on a feud for quite
some time. It had escalated to the point where one of them accused the other
of trying to run them down with a car outside of the office. During the
workshop, both tried unsuccessfully to convince other participants that the way
they had been treating each other was right and acceptable. However, the
other participants started pointing out what they were learning in the
workshop they should attack problems, but to respect each other.
Sometime during the workshop, the two participants started applying the
principles of cooperative problem solving. Other participants noticed they
were treating each other with more respect. After the workshop was over, one
asked the other if she could walk back to the office with her. When they left,
they were at least talking with each other and walking side-by-side.
Guide to Cooperative Problem Solving, Appendices: Glossary F-1
GLOSSARY
Term Definition
BATNA
Best Alternative to a Negotiated Agreement (A way to satisfy
your interests if the negotiation fails.)
INTERESTS Underlying needs, concerns, hopes, fears
ISSUES Problems to be solved
OPTIONS
Possible, often creative agreements or pieces of an agreement;
Options are not commitments.
POSITIONS
Demands or statements of what someone says they will do or
not do; one partys solution
STANDARDS
Customary, objective and widely accepted criteria for
handling similar situations
Guide to Cooperative Problem Solving, Appendices: Ten Tips for Problem Solving G-1
TEN TIPS FOR COOPERATIVE PROBLEM SOLVING
When conflicts arise, we often fall automatically into adversarial, you or me
ways of thinking and acting that lead to win-lose decisions and damaged
relationships. Here are some tips to remember when you want to turn a
conflict into a mutual agreement as well as a good relationship:
1. Accept that conflicts are normal: In fact, they are inevitable. There
are seven billion people on this planet. We will never all agree. But
with the right tools, we can learn how to manage many conflicts as
partners so that everyone is satisfied.
2. Treat conflicts as natural resources: Conflict is neither positive nor
negative in itself. It is the way you deal with the issue and with the
other person that is the key. If you know how to handle conflicts well,
this can lead to good agreements and improved relationships.
3. Treat the other person as a partner: When in conflict, you can either
try to be the sole winner or ask: How can we work this out together?
4. Listen: If you dont listen, the other person probably wont listen to
you. So before trying to solve the problem, listen ask questions and
really listen until you understand your partners point of view. We all
want to be heard and understood.
5. Discover interests: We tend to have disagreements over our positions
the way we want to do things. But we seldom talk about our interests
the reasons why our positions are important to us. Express your
interests honestly, and ask about your partners interests. Often you
will find some overlap between their interests and yours. It is in that
common ground that you are likely to find solutions.
6. Understand the differences; act on the commonalities: There is an
old saying that there are at least seven solutions to every problem. So
once you have discovered interests, work together to find as many
answers as you can to the question: What are some possible ways for
us to meet our interests? You dont have to come up with a solution by
yourself work it out together.
7. Respect people; attack problems: If emotions flare, dont give in to
anger or personal attacks. Emotions just mean that this is an important
matter. Whatever happens, respect your partners dignity as well as
your own. Stay away from questioning the other persons motivation or
character. Focus on the problem.
Guide to Cooperative Problem Solving, Appendices: Ten Tips for Problem Solving G-2
8. Choose your approach: You have choices when it comes to managing
conflicts. Some conflicts are just not worth dealing with. At other
times, it may be appropriate to resolve a conflict by just saying no.
Other possibilities include going to court, going to the police, or having
someone else decide. But for those times when your goal is solving the
problem and improving the relationship, a cooperative approach will
serve you best. What is important is to realize that you have choices.
9. Know how to do it: Like any other process, there are some fundamental
steps in cooperative problem solving. Use them as guides:
Describe your point of view briefly and without judging the other
person.
Discover interests through two-way conversation.
Generate options possible ways to meet everyones interests.
Develop mutual agreements.
10. Be a constant learner: Cooperative problem solving is a learning
experience for all involved. It requires that we temper our instincts for
flight or fight. And it requires that we change our assumptions that
conflict is a bad thing rather than an opportunity for problem solving.
But like any other skill, you can get better at it with practice. It is
rarely the easy route, but ultimately it is the most rewarding. And when
you treat someone with whom you disagree as a partner rather than an
enemy, you have at least increased the practice of civility in society.
Guide to Cooperative Problem Solving, Appendices: Problem Analysis Form H-1
PROBLEM ANALYSIS FORM
The issue or problem to be solved:
Party As position What they want: Party Bs position What they want:
Party As possible interests Their
reasons for their position:
Party Bs possible interests Their
reasons for their position: