Session 1: Whats Water-Walking? 15 Session 2: The Tragedy of the Unopened Gift 47 Session 3: Find Your Calling and Get Your Feet Wet! 77 Session 4: Facing Our Challenges, Conquering Our Fears 109 Session 5: Good News for Cave Dwellers 139 Session 6: Learning to Wait on Our Big God 171 Contents I want to invite you to go for a walk. The Bible records many instances when God asked people to walk with him. There was the hard walk Abraham took with his son Isaac on the road to Moriah. The liberating walk Moses and the Israelites took through the Red Sea, followed by the frustrating, forty-year walk through the desert. And dont forget Joshuas triumphant walk around Jericho. Or the disciples illuminating walk to Emmaus. The list goes on. Perhaps the most unforgettable walk of all was Peters walk when he stepped out of a boat one stormy night and walked on the water. When Peter went treading on the waves, I think he was experi- encing walking at its finest. Peters walk stands as an invitation to everyone who, like him, wants to step out in faith and experience more of the power and presence of God. Water-walking is a picture of doing with Gods help what we could never do on our own. I believe there is some aspect of your life in which God is calling you to walk with and toward him. During these six sessions, you will learn the skills essential to water-walking: discerning Gods call, transcending fear, risking faith, managing failure, and trusting God. When you are through, my hope is that you, like Peter, will accept Gods invitation to go for a walk on the water. John Ortberg 7 Preface This Leaders Guide is divided into six sessions approximately fifty- two minutes in length. Each session corresponds to a videotape presentation, and sessions are based on the book If You Want to Walk on Water, Youve Got to Get Out of the Boat by John Ortberg. Although this guide can be used for individual study, it is designed primarily for group study. It can be used for retreats, in small group studies, as a Sunday school elective, and for training indi- viduals to discover and embrace their unique gifts, to recognize Gods calling on their lives, to face their challenges and fears, and to experience the reality of Gods power in their lives. BEFORE THE FIRST SESSION Watch the videotape presentation. Obtain the necessary Participants Guides for all participants. Make sure you have the items listed below. Leaders Necessities Leaders Guide Bible (Old and New Testaments) Television set Video player (stand, extension cord, etc.) Videotape for the sessions Watch or clock with which to monitor time Extra pens or pencils if needed by participants Participants Necessities Participants Guide Bible (Old and New Testaments) Pen or pencil 9 How to Use This Guide DIRECTIONS FOR THE LEADER These directions are enclosed in shaded boxes and are not meant to be read to participants. SUPPLEMENTARY MATERIALS Various quotes and charts provide supplementary information that will enhance and deepen participants understanding of the themes of the sessions. This material is not required reading to complete the session. If your group has more time available than the typical one-hour time slot, you may include the supplementary information as part of your session and expand your discussion or study. Otherwise, these quotes and charts are available as addi- tional resources for participants who want to deepen their study on their own. Throughout the sessions, suggested responses follow group- oriented questions for participants. The suggested responses pro- vide an inkling of the responses participants may give and guide you in emphasizing key points. HOW EACH SESSION IS DIVIDED Each session is divided into six main parts: Before You Lead, Introduction, Video Presentation, Group Discovery, Personal Journey, and Closing Meditation. A brief explanation of each part follows. 1. BEFORE YOU LEAD Synopsis Summarizes the material presented in each session. Key Points of This Session Highlights the key points on which you will want to focus. Suggested Reading Links each session to the related material in the book If You Want to Walk on Water, Youve Got to Get Out of the Boat by John Ortberg. Session Outline Provides an overview of the content, activities, and time frame. 10 If You Want to Walk on Water, Youve Got to Get Out of the Boat Leaders Guide 2. INTRODUCTION Welcome Welcomes participants to the session. Whats to Come A brief, introductory summary you may choose to use. Questions to Think About Designed to help you guide participants in thinking about the theme or themes that will be covered. A corresponding page is included in the Participants Guide. 3. VIDEO PRESENTATION During this time, you and the participants will watch the video and take notes. Some key themes have been highlighted. 4. GROUP DISCOVERY In this section, you will guide participants in thinking through the key themes and information presented in each session. You may want to use the material in the order in which it is presented, but feel free to amplify various points with your own material and illustrations. The Leaders Guide includes copies of the corresponding pages in the Participants Guide. Space is also provided in which to write additional planning notes. Having the Participants Guide pages in front of you allows you to view the pages the participants are seeing as you talk without having to hold two books at the same time. It also lets you know where the participants are in their book when someone asks you a question. Video Highlights Use these questions with the entire group. This will guide partic- ipants in verbally responding to key points and themes covered in the video. Some groups will discuss questions more freely and extensively than others. Questions are provided to keep discussion moving. If you are leading an expressive group and find that you cannot complete as many questions as are provided, select key questions for your group to explore. How to Use This Guide 11 Large Group Exploration During this time, you will guide the group in exploring a theme or topic related to the session. Often a few introductory sentences are provided that set the stage for discussion. Various approaches are used to stimulate learning and discussion. Sometimes ques- tions are offered. Other times, participants will complete charts or discuss Bible passages. Small Group Exploration At this time, if your group has more than seven participants, you will break the group into smaller groups (three to five people). Participants will use their Bibles and will write down and discuss their responses to the questions. If time allows, representatives of the small groups can share with the entire group the key ideas their group discussed. Group Discussion Bring the entire group together to discuss additional questions that wrap up the session. As time allows, feel free to use the material as it isor adapt it to the needs of your group. 5. PERSONAL JOURNEY During this time, participants will have the opportunity to con- sider what theyve just discovered and how it applies to their daily lives. Since this is a private, meditative exercise, participants should not talk among themselves. Participants also have the opportunity to continue their journey on their own by completing the To Do on Your Own portion. 6. CLOSING MEDITATION You may close each session with the prayer provided, or use a different prayer. TIPS FOR LEADING AND PROMOTING GROUP DISCUSSION 1. Allow group members to participate at their own comfort levels. Not everyone needs to answer every question. It may take some participants a while to feel comfortable enough to share. 2. Ask questions with interest and warmth, then listen carefully to individual responses. Remember: it is important for participants 12 If You Want to Walk on Water, Youve Got to Get Out of the Boat Leaders Guide to think through the questions and ideas presented as part of the process. The process is more important than specific answers, which is why suggested responses are provided. 3. Be flexible. Reword questions if you wish. Choose to spend more or less time and add or delete questions to accommodate the needs and time frame of your group. 4. Suggest that participants take time to explore any supplemen- tary material that time did not permit them to explore within a sessionand to review previous sessions. This review will be particularly helpful if each session is being done weekly, for example, rather than all six sessions being done in a retreat setting. 5. Allow for (and expect) differences of opinion and experience. 6. Do not allow anyone to monopolize discussion. If such a situ- ation arises, guide the discussion toward other people and perhaps speak to the person afterward about the importance of allowing everyone to share. 7. If a heated discussion begins on a theological topic, suggest that the participants involved continue their discussion with you after the session is over. 8. If you have time, read If You Want to Walk on Water, Youve Got to Get Out of the Boat before or in conjunction with these ses- sions. Obviously not everything in the book could be included in these sessions. Reading the book will provide background that will help you in leading the discussions. 9. Monitor the time frames without being heavy-handed. Although its important to keep each session moving, remember that the needs of your group may cause you to spend more or less time on a particular part of a session. Also, keep in mind that the content of each session has been designed to enable participants to cover all of the intended material. 10. If time allows, invite participants to talk with you before or after the sessions about what they are learning and thinking. What an encouragement you can be to themby listening, sharing ideas, sharing your experiences, etc. 11. Approach these sessions with a joyful heart. Many people have benefited from the opportunity to deepen their relation- ship with God and walk on water in daily life as a result of having read If You Want to Walk on Water, Youve Got to Get Out of the Boat. How to Use This Guide 13 12. Do not be afraid of silence. Allow people time to thinkdont panic. Sometimes ten seconds of silence seems like an eternity. Remember, some of this material requires time to processso give people time to digest a question and then respond. 13. Last, but certainly not least, ask people to pray for you and your group as you go through these sessions. God wants to do great things in your lives! 14 If You Want to Walk on Water, Youve Got to Get Out of the Boat Leaders Guide Whats Water-Walking? SESSI ON ONE BEFORE YOU LEAD Synopsis This six-session series focuses on events that took place during a stormy night on the Sea of Galilee. The biblical account of these events includes the disciples struggling all night to sail through a fierce storm, Jesus walking through the stormy darkness to meet his disciples, and Peters accepting Jesus invitation to step out of the boat and walk on the water with him. Today, just as it was for Jesus disciples, it is often easier to trust in things, people, or circumstances rather than God. We try to create security in such comfortable boats as money, success, relationships, and secret addictions. Our boats can appear to be safe, secure, and comfortable compared with the seemingly risky chaos outside them. Yet apart from God, even our best-built boats cannot protect us. In this session, youll guide participants in realizing that they, like Peter and the other disciples, face an important choice: to accept Jesus invitation to step into the adventure and risk of life outside the boat or to cling to the safety of the boat and try to avoid fear and risk. As unlikely as it may seem, real security comes when we step out of the boat and learn that God can be trusted fully. Stepping out of the boat is the only way to real growth. Its the only way true faith develops. Its part of discovering and obeying our calling. And its where we find Jesus. Jesus used that eventful night to teach his disciples that he could be trustedand that they needed to get out of the boat and walk with him! Today, just as he did that stormy night on the Sea of Galilee, Jesus is still looking for people who will get out of the boat and walk with him. If we do, we will face storms. We will have to take risks. We may even fail. But we can trust Jesus to be there to reach out and help us. Key Points of This Session 1. God has given us a tremendous invitation to step out in faith and walk with him. When we step out of the boatthe comfort and security we cherishwe experience the unforget- table thrill of doing something with God that we could never accomplish on our own. 16 If You Want to Walk on Water, Youve Got to Get Out of the Boat Leaders Guide 2. Its always risky to step out of the boat. It is always scary to leave the security of the boat and face the churning waters of the storm. The risk of failure can loom bigger than life. But facing fear is the price we must pay for growth, and failure has less to do with what happens to us than it does how we judge what has happened. 3. Jesus is looking for those who love and trust him enough to step out of the boat and walk with him. Suggested Reading Chapter 1 of If You Want to Walk on Water, Youve Got to Get Out of the Boat Materials A television set, VCR player, video, pens and pencils, Bibles SESSION OUTLINE I. Introduction (5 minutes) Welcome Whats to Come Questions to Think About II. Video Presentation: Whats Water-Walking? (14 minutes) III. Group Discovery (27 minutes) Video Highlights (4 minutes) Large Group Exploration (9 minutes) Small Group Exploration (9 minutes) Group Discussion (5 minutes) IV. Personal Journey (5 minutes) V. Closing Meditation (1 minute) Session One: Whats Water-Walking? 17 52 MINUTES There is somethingSomeoneinside us who tells us there is more to life than sitting in the boat. You were made for something more. . . . There is something inside you that wants to walk on the water to leave the comfort of routine existence and abandon yourself to the high adventure of following God. John Ortberg INTRODUCTION Welcome Whats to Come One night on the Sea of Galilee, Jesus disciples struggled for hours to sail their boat through a fierce storm. Suddenly Jesus came into view, walking toward them through the stormy dark- ness. During our time together today, well explore what hap- pened when Peter boldly accepted Jesus invitation to step out of the boat and join him on the water. Well consider what it means for us to accept Jesus invitation to step out in faith and walk with him. Well look at the risk and the promise of being a water-walker. Lets begin by considering a few questions related to water- walking. These questions are on page 10. Participants Guide page 9. Welcome participants to If You Want to Walk on Water, Youve Got to Get Out of the Boat session 1, Whats Water- Walking? 18 Whats Water-Walking? SESSI ON ONE 5 MINUTES Session One: Whats Water-Walking? 19 Whats Water-Walking? There is som ething Som eone inside us w ho tells us there is m ore to life than sitting in the boat. You w ere m ade for som ething m ore.... There is som ething inside you that w ants to w alk on the w ater to leave the com fort of routine existence and aban- don yourself to the high adventure of follow ing G od. John O rtberg 9 SESSION ONE QUESTIONS TO THINK ABOUT 1. What ki nds of thi ngs do you trust i n, especi al l y when l i fe gets stor my, that hel p you feel comfor tabl e and secur e r ather than fear ful ? Be honest! 2. Expl ai n why you do or do not bel i eve that God cal l s ever yone who fol l ows hi m to step out i n fai th and do somethi ng extr aor di nar y. What does steppi ng out i n fai th l ook l i ke? 3. How woul d you defi ne fai l ur e? 4. Thus far i n l i fe, what has been your exper i ence wi th fai l ur e ? What has fai l ur e kept you fr om doi ng? What has fai l ur e done for you? 10 If You W ant to W alk on W ater Participants G uide PLANNING NOTES Questions to Think About 1. What kinds of things do you trust in, especially when life gets stormy, that help you feel comfortable and secure rather than fearful? Be honest! Suggested Response: Responses will vary but may include such things as money, career path, investments, supportive relation- ships. This question begins to introduce participants to the high price we payand the risks we takewhen we trust in things or people rather than in God. 2. Explain why you do or do not believe that God calls everyone who follows him to step out in faith and do something extra- ordinary. What does stepping out in faith look like? Suggested Response: Responses will vary, of course. But in preparation for the next questions, it is important that partici- pants begin to define stepping out in faith, knowing why it is important, describing what it looks like, and identifying what may be at risk. 3. How would you define failure? Suggested Response: Responses will vary. Part of this session deals with our perceptions regarding failure, so it will be help- ful for participants to begin thinking about their personal definitions and perceptions of failure. 4. Thus far in life, what has been your experience with failure? What has failure kept you from doing? What has failure done for you? Suggested Response: Experiences of failure may vary greatly. Some participants may have very negative perceptions of fail- ure and may even be paralyzed by past failure. Other partici- pants may view failure as an opportunity, a stepping-stone to Participants Guide page 10. As time permits, ask two or more of the following questions and solicit responses from group members. 20 If You Want to Walk on Water, Youve Got to Get Out of the Boat Leaders Guide Session One: Whats Water-Walking? 21 PLANNING NOTES QUESTIONS TO THINK ABOUT 1. What ki nds of thi ngs do you trust i n, especi al l y when l i fe gets stor my, that hel p you feel comfor tabl e and secur e r ather than fear ful ? Be honest! 2. Expl ai n why you do or do not bel i eve that God cal l s ever yone who fol l ows hi m to step out i n fai th and do somethi ng extr aor di nar y. What does steppi ng out i n fai th l ook l i ke? 3. How woul d you defi ne fai l ur e? 4. Thus far i n l i fe, what has been your exper i ence wi th fai l ur e ? What has fai l ur e kept you fr om doi ng? What has fai l ur e done for you? 10 If You W ant to W alk on W ater Participants G uide something greater. Whats important is that participants express and listen to different perceptions and begin to connect with the risks of water-walking. Lets keep these ideas in mind as we view the video. There is space to take notes on page 11. VIDEO PRESENTATION: WHATS WATER-WALKING? Video Observations Images of a balloon ride Following Jesus: choosing between comfort and growth Did Peter failor succeed? Discovering the power of Jesus Participants Guide page 11. 22 If You Want to Walk on Water, Youve Got to Get Out of the Boat Leaders Guide 14 MINUTES Session One: Whats Water-Walking? 23 VIDEO OBSERVATIONS Images of a bal l oon r i de Fol l owi ng Jesus: choosi ng between comfor t and gr owth Di d Peter fai l or succeed? Di scover i ng the power of Jesus Session O ne: W hats W ater-W alking? 11 PLANNING NOTES QUESTIONS TO THINK ABOUT 1. What ki nds of thi ngs do you trust i n, especi al l y when l i fe gets stor my, that hel p you feel comfor tabl e and secur e r ather than fear ful ? Be honest! 2. Expl ai n why you do or do not bel i eve that God cal l s ever yone who fol l ows hi m to step out i n fai th and do somethi ng extr aor di nar y. What does steppi ng out i n fai th l ook l i ke? 3. How woul d you defi ne fai l ur e? 4. Thus far i n l i fe, what has been your exper i ence wi th fai l ur e ? What has fai l ur e kept you fr om doi ng? What has fai l ur e done for you? 10 If You W ant to W alk on W ater Participants G uide GROUP DISCOVERY Please turn to page 12. Video Highlights 4 minutes 1. When John Ortberg and his wife took their hot-air balloon ride, the competence of their pilot became very important to them. Why is it so important for us to know the competence and trustworthiness of whoever pilots our lives? Suggested Response: Whenever we allow someone else to take control, we take a risk. If the pilot is experienced and trust- worthy, we can relax and trust him to care for us. But if the pilot is inexperienced or is not trustworthy, our welfare is at risk. When we step out of the boat, were counting on Jesus to come through for us. We are counting on his character and strength to lead us and rescue us if we fall. 2. Jesus invited Peter to step out of the boat and walk with him to do something Peter could not do on his ownand Peter couldnt resist the opportunity. Jesus is still looking for people Participants Guide page 12. As time permits, ask one or more of the following questions, which directly relate to the video the participants have just seen. If your group has seven or more members, use the Video Highlights with the entire group (4 minutes), then com- plete the Large Group Exploration (9 minutes) and break into small groups of three to five people for the Small Group Exploration (9 minutes). At the end, bring everyone together for the closing Group Discussion (5 minutes). If your group has fewer than seven members, begin with the Video Highlights (4 minutes), then complete both the Large Group Exploration (9 minutes) and the Small Group Exploration (9 minutes). Wrap up your discovery time with the Group Discussion (5 minutes). 24 If You Want to Walk on Water, Youve Got to Get Out of the Boat Leaders Guide 27 MINUTES Session One: Whats Water-Walking? 25 VIDEO HIGHLIGHTS 1. When John Or tber g and hi s wi fe took thei r hot-ai r bal l oon r i de, the competence of thei r pi l ot became ver y i mportant to them. Why i s i t so i mportant for us to know the competence and tr ustwor thi ness of whoever pi l ots our l i ves? 2. Jesus i nvi ted Peter to step out of the boat and wal k wi th hi mto do somethi ng Peter coul d not do on hi s own and Peter coul dnt r esi st the oppor tuni ty. Jesus i s sti l l l ooki ng for peopl e who l ove and tr ust hi m enough to step out of the boat. What do you fi nd i ntr i gui ng about steppi ng out of the boat? 3. What ar e your thoughts on John Or tber gs comments about fai l ur e, par ti cul ar l y that fai l ur e has mor e to do wi th the way we vi ew the outcome of an event than what actual l y happened? 12 If You W ant to W alk on W ater Participants G uide PLANNING NOTES who love and trust him enough to step out of the boat. What do you find intriguing about stepping out of the boat? Suggested Response: The specifics will vary, but people who love Jesus enough and trust him enough to leave what is safe and comfortable are drawn by a powerful calling. Ask participants to share how they feel about following Gods calling. 3. What are your thoughts on John Ortbergs comments about failure, particularly that failure has more to do with the way we view the outcome of an event than what actually happened? Suggested Response: Participants may agree or disagree. The point is that we can view our attempts as failures or as stepping- stones that lead toward success and increased faith. So much depends on our perspective. Please turn to page 13 and we will take a closer look at what happened to Jesus disciples during that dark, stormy night. Large Group Exploration 9 minutes An Adventure in the Dark Lets take a closer look at what happened when Jesus revealed himself to his disciples as they sailed across the stormy Sea of Galilee, because that event matters a great deal to us today. We too have the opportunity to walk with Jesus in places we wouldnt dream of going on our own. Like each of the disciples, we must choose how we will respond to God. Will we sit in the boat, like the eleven disciples? Or will we, like Peter, leave the security of the boat and give God the opportunity to use us in extraordinary ways? 1. When Jesus told the disciples to sail to the other side of the Sea of Galilee without him, they obeyed. But what happened as they sailed? (See Matthew 14:2226; Mark 6:4550.) Suggested Response: A terrible storm with gale-force winds came up. While they strained at the oars against the wind, they saw Jesus walking toward them on the water. Thinking he was a ghost, they were so terrified that they cried out. Participants Guide page 13. 26 If You Want to Walk on Water, Youve Got to Get Out of the Boat Leaders Guide Session One: Whats Water-Walking? 27 LARGE GROUP EXPLORATION A n A d v e n tu re i n th e D a rk Lets take a cl oser l ook at what happened when Jesus r eveal ed hi msel f to hi s di sci pl es as they sai l ed acr oss the stormy Sea of Gal i l ee, because that event matters a great deal to us today. We too have the opportuni ty to wal k wi th Jesus i n pl aces we woul dnt dream of goi ng on our own. Li ke each of the di sci pl es, we must choose how we wi l l respond to God. Wi l l we si t i n the boat, l i ke the el even di sci pl es?Or wi l l we, l i ke Peter , l eave the secur i ty of the boat and gi ve God the opportuni ty to use us i n extraordi nary ways? 1. When Jesus tol d the di sci pl es to sai l to the other si de of the Sea of Gal i l ee wi thout hi m, they obeyed. But what happened as they sai l ed? (See Matthew 14:2226; Mar k 6:4550.) 2. What di d Jesus say to them, and why i s thi s si gni fi cant today? (See Matthew 14:27.) Session O ne: W hats W ater-W alking? 13 PLANNING NOTES VIDEO HIGHLIGHTS 1. When John Or tber g and hi s wi fe took thei r hot-ai r bal l oon r i de, the competence of thei r pi l ot became ver y i mportant to them. Why i s i t so i mportant for us to know the competence and tr ustwor thi ness of whoever pi l ots our l i ves? 2. Jesus i nvi ted Peter to step out of the boat and wal k wi th hi mto do somethi ng Peter coul d not do on hi s own and Peter coul dnt r esi st the oppor tuni ty. Jesus i s sti l l l ooki ng for peopl e who l ove and tr ust hi m enough to step out of the boat. What do you fi nd i ntr i gui ng about steppi ng out of the boat? 3. What ar e your thoughts on John Or tber gs comments about fai l ur e, par ti cul ar l y that fai l ur e has mor e to do wi th the way we vi ew the outcome of an event than what actual l y happened? 1 2 If You W ant to W alk on W ater Participants G uide 2. What did Jesus say to them, and why is this significant today? (See Matthew 14:27.) Suggested Response: Jesus told them to have courage, told them who he was, and then told them not to be afraid. The take courage, do not fear, I am with you theme recurs throughout Scripture, especially when those who obey God face difficulties. It is no less true or important today than during biblical times. 3. From Peters perspective, recap what happened after Jesus told the disciples who he was. What is significant about Peters response to Jesus? (See Matthew 14:2832.) Suggested Response: Peter didnt risk everything and jump into the water right away. First, he acted wisely by wanting to know whether Jesus thought getting out of the boat was a good idea. When Jesus told Peter to come to him, Peter got out and started walking toward Jesus. Then he saw the wind, became scared, and began to sink. So he called out to Jesus, who caught Peter by the hand and then asked him why he doubted. When Jesus and Peter climbed into the boat, the wind immediately died down. As impulsive as we know Peter was, its interesting to note that he kept directing his attention toward Jesus to learn what to do. 4. What impact did this event have on the disciples? (See Matthew 14:33; Mark 6:51.) Suggested Response: They saw Jesus in a way they had never seen him before. They were amazed. They recognized him for who he truly wasthe Son of Godand responded in worship. 5. What impact do you think this event had on Peter? Suggested Response: Peter abandoned himself completely to Jesus, something the other disciples did not do. He risked every- thing and experienced firsthand the glory of walking on the water. Because of his faithful steps, he succeeded in doing, in Gods power, what he could never have done on his own. No doubt he remembered that miracle and the lessons learned for the rest of his life. 28 If You Want to Walk on Water, Youve Got to Get Out of the Boat Leaders Guide Session One: Whats Water-Walking? 29 3. Fr om Peter s per specti ve, r ecap what happened after Jesus tol d the di sci pl es who he was. What i s si gni fi cant about Peters response to Jesus?(See Matthew 14:2832.) 4. What i mpact di d thi s event have on the di sci pl es? (See Matthew 14:33; Mar k 6:51.) 5. What i mpact do you thi nk thi s event had on Peter ? Who DeservestheCredit? Itsnot thecriticwhocounts; not themanwhopointsout howthe strongmanstumbles, or wherethedoer of deedscouldhavedone better. Thecredit belongstothemanwhoisactuallyinthearena who, at best, knowsintheendthetriumphof great achievement, and who, at theworst, if hefails, at least failswhiledaringgreatly. Sothat hisplacewill never bewiththosecoldtimidsoulswhoknowneither victorynor defeat. TheodoreRoosevelt 14 If You W ant to W alk on W ater Participants G uide PLANNING NOTES LARGE GROUP EXPLORATION A n A d v e n tu re i n th e D a rk Lets take a cl oser l ook at what happened when Jesus r eveal ed hi msel f to hi s di sci pl es as they sai l ed acr oss the stormy Sea of Gal i l ee, because that event matters a great deal to us today. We too have the opportuni ty to wal k wi th Jesus i n pl aces we woul dnt dream of goi ng on our own. Li ke each of the di sci pl es, we must choose how we wi l l respond to God. Wi l l we si t i n the boat, l i ke the el even di sci pl es?Or wi l l we, l i ke Peter , l eave the secur i ty of the boat and gi ve God the opportuni ty to use us i n extraordi nary ways? 1. When Jesus tol d the di sci pl es to sai l to the other si de of the Sea of Gal i l ee wi thout hi m, they obeyed. But what happened as they sai l ed? (See Matthew 14:2226; Mar k 6:4550.) 2. What di d Jesus say to them, and why i s thi s si gni fi cant today? (See Matthew 14:27.) Session O ne: W hats W ater-W alking? 1 3 30 If You Want to Walk on Water, Youve Got to Get Out of the Boat Leaders Guide Person Abraham Moses Joshua Joshua Twelve spies Rich young ruler Water-Walking Invitation Sacrifice his son Isaac. (See Genesis 22.) Lead the Israelites out of Egypt, which meant crossing the Red Sea with the Egyptian army in hot pursuit. (See Exodus 3:710 and chapter 14.) Lead the Israelites across the flooded Jordan River with the ark of the covenant carried by the priests at the front of the people. (See Joshua 3.) Instead of going into battle, the Israelites were to march around the walled city of Jericho with the ark of the covenant for six days, then march around the city seven times on the seventh day and blow horns and shout when the trumpet sounded. (See Joshua 6.) Believe that despite the frighten- ing obstacles in Canaan, God would be faithful to give the Israelites the Promised Land and all of its goodness. (See Numbers 1314.) Give up his material possessions and follow Jesus. (See Matthew 19:1622.) The Result God honored Abrahams faith and provided a ram for the sacrifice. God parted the Red Sea, allowing the Israelites to cross on dry land, then drowned the Egyptian army. As soon as the priests feet touched the water of the Jordan River, it stopped flowing and the people crossed on dry land. God made the wall of Jericho fall down so that the Israelites could overtake the citythe first key barrier to entering the Promised Land. Ten of them refused to believe God and his promises and perished in the wilderness. He refused and went away saddened. We do not know what took place in his life. Highlights from the History of Water-Walking For a very long time God has been in the business of inviting people to be water-walkers. Here are a few examples to consider WHO DESERVES THE CREDIT? Its not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena . . . who, at best, knows in the end the triumph of great achievement, and who, at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly. So that his place will never be with those cold timid souls who know neither victory nor defeat. Theodore Roosevelt Session One: Whats Water-Walking? 31 Session O ne: W hats W ater-W alking? 15 Highlights fromtheHistory of Water-Walking For avery longtimeGod hasbeen in thebusinessof invitingpeople to be water-walkers. Here are a few examplesto consider: Person Abraham Moses Joshua Water-Walking Invitation Sacrifice his son Isaac. (SeeGenesis22.) LeadtheIsraelitesout of Egypt, which meant crossing the Red Sea with theEgyptian army in hot pursuit. (See Exodus3:710andchap- ter 14.) LeadtheIsraelitesacross thefloodedJordan River with the ark of the covenant carried bythe priestsat thefront of the people. (SeeJoshua3.) The Result GodhonoredAbrahams faith andprovidedaram for thesacrifice. GodpartedtheRedSea, allowingtheIsraelitesto cross on dry land, then drowned the Egyptian army. As soon as the priests feet touched the water of the Jordan River, it stopped flowingand the people crossed on dry land. Joshua Instead of going into battle, theIsraeliteswere to march around the walled city of Jericho with the ark of the covenant for six days, then march around the cityseven timeson the seventh day and blow horns and shout when the trumpet sounded. (SeeJoshua6.) God made the wall of Jericho fall down so that theIsraelitescouldover- takethecitythefirst key barrier to entering thePromised Land. 16 If You W ant to W alk on W ater Participants G uide Twelvespies Rich youngruler Believethat despitethe frighteningobstaclesin Canaan, God would be faithful to give the Israelites the Promised Land and all of itsgood- ness. (See Numbers 1314.) Give up his material possessions and follow Jesus. (See Matthew 19:1622.) Ten of themrefused to believe God and his promises and perished in thewilderness. He refused and went away saddened. We do not know what took placein hislife. PLANNING NOTES 3. Fr om Peter s per specti ve, r ecap what happened after Jesus tol d the di sci pl es who he was. What i s si gni fi cant about Peters response to Jesus?(See Matthew 14:2832.) 4. What i mpact di d thi s event have on the di sci pl es? (See Matthew 14:33; Mar k 6:51.) 5. What i mpact do you thi nk thi s event had on Peter ? Who DeservestheCredit? Itsnot thecriticwhocounts; not themanwhopointsout howthe strongmanstumbles, or wherethedoer of deedscouldhavedone better. Thecredit belongstothemanwhoisactuallyinthearena who, at best, knowsintheendthetriumphof great achievement, and who, at theworst, if hefails, at least failswhiledaringgreatly. Sothat hisplacewill never bewiththosecoldtimidsoulswhoknowneither victorynor defeat. TheodoreRoosevelt 1 4 If You W ant to W alk on W ater Participants G uide Lets break into small groups of three to five people for our Small Group Exploration, which begins on page 17. I will give you a one- minute warning before we rejoin for our Group Discussion. Small Group Exploration 9 minutes Topic A Where Do We Place Our Trust When We Are Afraid? God knows how fearful we are, and he sometimes uses uncom- fortable, real-world challenges to cause us to choose where we will place our trust. John Ortberg explains it this way: The deci- sion to grow [spiritually] always involves a choice between risk and comfort. This means that to be a follower of Jesus you must renounce comfort as the ultimate value of your life. Lets explore what God says about fear and choosing where we place our trust. 1. What happens when we place our trust in boats of our own making instead of placing our trust in God? (See Psalm 49:113.) Suggested Response: We all will die one day. We cant take the money weve made with us, nor can it buy eternal life. Trusting in ourselves and our perishable riches or relationships isnt the answer. God alone gives eternal life. 2. What did David realize about finding security in God rather than in things? (See Psalm 20:67; 118:69.) Suggested Response: David realized that God was all the pro- tection he needed and that it was far better to trust in Gods saving power than in people, chariots, and horses (symbols of security and power in those days). Participants Guide page 17. Please note there are two topics to explore in this session. Assign one topic to half of the small groups, the other topic to the other half. You may want to have a representative from each group share their discoveries at the beginning of the Group Discussion that follows. 32 If You Want to Walk on Water, Youve Got to Get Out of the Boat Leaders Guide Session One: Whats Water-Walking? 33 SMALL GROUP EXPLORATION Top i c A W h e re D o We P l a c e O u r T ru st W h e n We A re A fra i d ? God knows how fear ful we ar e, and he someti mes uses uncomfortabl e, real -worl d chal l enges to cause us to choose wher e we wi l l pl ace our tr ust. John Or tber g expl ai ns i t thi s way: The deci si on to gr ow [spi r i tual l y] al ways i nvol ves a choi ce between r i sk and comfor t. Thi s means that to be a fol l ower of Jesus you must r enounce comfor t as the ul ti - mate val ue of your l i fe. Lets expl or e what God says about fear and choosi ng wher e we pl ace our tr ust. 1. What happens when we pl ace our trust i n boats of our own maki ng i nstead of pl aci ng our tr ust i n God? (See Psal m 49:113.) 2. What di d Davi d r eal i ze about fi ndi ng secur i ty i n God rather than i n thi ngs? (See Psal m 20:67; 118:69.) 3. What do the fol l owi ng ver ses r eveal about God? a. Psal m 18:13 Session O ne: W hats W ater-W alking? 17 PLANNING NOTES 3. What do the following verses reveal about God? a. Psalm 18:13 Suggested Response: God is our strength, our protector, and our deliverer. We can find refuge in him. b. Psalm 56:34 Suggested Response: We can trust in God when we are afraid. c. Jeremiah 17:78 Suggested Response: When we trust in the Lord, he will bless us. When we place our confidence in him, we will grow strong, receive spiritual nourishment, and be fruitful. We will be able to endure difficult times. 4. What has God said to his people over and over again, and why do you think he repeated it? (See Genesis 15:1; 21:17; Joshua 8:1; Daniel 10:12.) Suggested Response: Over and overto Abraham, Hagar, Joshua, Daniel (and many others in the Bible)God told them not to be afraid. God is well aware of how frightening it is to step out in faith and obey him. He is trustworthy and continually reminds us that we dont need to be afraid when we walk with him. Topic B What Happened When These People Got Out of Their Boats? The Bible records the stories of many people who had to choose whether to trust God and step out in faith. Lets explore what happened to two men who, like Peter, decided to trust God and leave behind the security, comfort, and safety they had tried to provide for themselves. Moses 1. What happened when Mosesthe adopted son of the Pharaohs daughtertook matters into his own hands when he saw an Israelite being mistreated by an Egyptian? (See Exodus 2:10 15; 3:1.) Suggested Response: Moses murdered the Egyptian and in turn was a target for murder. To save his life, he fled Egypt and spent 34 If You Want to Walk on Water, Youve Got to Get Out of the Boat Leaders Guide Session One: Whats Water-Walking? 35 b. Psal m 56:34 c. Jer emi ah 17:78 4. What has God sai d to hi s peopl e over and over agai n, and why do you thi nk he r epeated i t? (See Genesi s 15:1; 21:17; Joshua 8:1; Dani el 10:12.) Top i c B W h a t H a p p e n e d W h e n T h e se P e o p l e G o t O u t o f T h e i r B o a ts? The Bi bl e r ecor ds the stor i es of many peopl e who had to choose whether to tr ust God and step out i n fai th. Lets expl ore what happened to two men who, l i ke Peter, deci ded to tr ust God and l eave behi nd the secur i ty, comfor t, and safety they had tr i ed to pr ovi de for themsel ves. Moses 1. What happened when Mosesthe adopted son of the Phar aohs daughter took matter s i nto hi s own hands 18 If You W ant to W alk on W ater Participants G uide PLANNING NOTES SMALL GROUP EXPLORATION Top i c A W h e re D o We P l a c e O u r T ru st W h e n We A re A fra i d ? God knows how fear ful we ar e, and he someti mes uses uncomfortabl e, real -worl d chal l enges to cause us to choose wher e we wi l l pl ace our tr ust. John Or tber g expl ai ns i t thi s way: The deci si on to gr ow [spi r i tual l y] al ways i nvol ves a choi ce between r i sk and comfor t. Thi s means that to be a fol l ower of Jesus you must r enounce comfor t as the ul ti - mate val ue of your l i fe. Lets expl or e what God says about fear and choosi ng wher e we pl ace our tr ust. 1. What happens when we pl ace our trust i n boats of our own maki ng i nstead of pl aci ng our tr ust i n God? (See Psal m 49:113.) 2. What di d Davi d r eal i ze about fi ndi ng secur i ty i n God rather than i n thi ngs? (See Psal m 20:67; 118:69.) 3. What do the fol l owi ng ver ses r eveal about God? a. Psal m 18:13 Session O ne: W hats W ater-W alking? 1 7 years tending sheep in the desertquite a change from being the Pharaohs son! 2. How did God appear to Moses, and what did he want Moses to do? (See Exodus 3:14, 910.) Suggested Response: God appeared to Moses through a burning bush, a supernatural phenomenon that got Moses attention. When Moses responded, God informed him that he was to go back to Egypt and lead the Israelites out of slavery. Now thats a step of faith! 3. How did Moses respond when God presented the invitation to step out of the boat? (See Exodus 3:1113; 4:13.) Suggested Response: Moses was afraid, offered excuses, and repeatedly asked God to send someone else. 4. Finally Moses took the plunge and returned to Egypt to urge Pharaoh to let the Israelites go. What happened as a result of Gods power and the shepherds water-walking obedience? (See Exodus 12:3137.) Suggested Response: Pharaoh let the Israelites leave Egypt, and the Israelites took much of Egypts wealth with them. Gideon 5. Where was Gideon trying to find comfort and safety when God approached him? (See Judges 6:11.) Suggested Response: Gideon was hiding in a winepress, thresh- ing wheat and hoping the Midianites wouldnt find him. 6. Gideon was afraid to take the challenge the angel of the Lord presented to him. How did God respond to his fears? (See Judges 6:1218; 7:915.) Suggested Response: God promised to be with Gideon and patiently bore with Gideons fears and fledgling faith. God gave Gideon the signs he requested so that Gideon would know for sure that it was God talking to him. Even after Gideon started taking steps of faith, he still experienced times of fear. Before the 36 If You Want to Walk on Water, Youve Got to Get Out of the Boat Leaders Guide Session One: Whats Water-Walking? 37 when he saw an I sr ael i te bei ng mi str eated by an Egypti an? (See Exodus 2:1015; 3:1.) 2. How di d God appear to Moses, and what di d he want Moses to do? (See Exodus 3:14, 910.) 3. How di d Moses r espond when God pr esented the i nvi - tati on to step out of the boat?(See Exodus 3:1113; 4:13.) 4. Fi nal l y Moses took the pl unge and r etur ned to Egypt to ur ge Phar aoh to l et the Isr ael i tes go. What happened as a r esul t of Gods power and the shepher ds water - wal ki ng obedi ence? (See Exodus 12:3137.) Session O ne: W hats W ater-W alking? 19 Gideon 5. Wher e was Gi deon tr yi ng to fi nd comfor t and safety when God appr oached hi m? (See Judges 6:11.) 6. Gi deon was afr ai d to take the chal l enge the angel of the Lor d pr esented to hi m. How di d God r espond to hi s fear s? (See Judges 6:1218; 7:915.) 7. How di d God use thi s i nsi gni fi cant far mer who fi nal l y deci ded to obey and tr ust hi m? (See Judges 7:1624.) ThePlusesof Water-Walking It istheonlywaytoreal growth. It isthewaytruefaithdevelops. It isthealternativetoboredomandstagnation. It ispart of discoveringandobeyingour calling. Thewater iswhereJesusis! 20 If You W ant to W alk on W ater Participants G uide PLANNING NOTES b. Psal m 56:34 c. Jer emi ah 17:78 4. What has God sai d to hi s peopl e over and over agai n, and why do you thi nk he r epeated i t? (See Genesi s 15:1; 21:17; Joshua 8:1; Dani el 10:12.) Top i c B W h a t H a p p e n e d W h e n T h e se P e o p l e G o t O u t o f T h e i r B o a ts? The Bi bl e r ecor ds the stor i es of many peopl e who had to choose whether to tr ust God and step out i n fai th. Lets expl ore what happened to two men who, l i ke Peter, deci ded to tr ust God and l eave behi nd the secur i ty, comfor t, and safety they had tr i ed to pr ovi de for themsel ves. Moses 1. What happened when Mosesthe adopted son of the Phar aohs daughter took matter s i nto hi s own hands 18 If You W ant to W alk on W ater Participants G uide planned attack on the Midianites, God told Gideon what to do if he was afraid. Gideon did it and was greatly encouraged. 7. How did God use this insignificant farmer who finally decided to trust and obey him? (See Judges 7:1624.) Suggested Response: God used Gideon and the three hundred men with him to rout the Midianite army. The frightened, farmer-turned-soldier ended up helping to free his people from Midianite bondage. The Pluses of Water-Walking It is the only way to real growth. It is the way true faith develops. It is the alternative to boredom and stagnation. It is part of discovering and obeying our calling. The water is where Jesus is! Group Discussion 5 minutes Now its time for us to wrap up our discovery time. Please turn to page 21. 1. Fear of failure is one reason many of us dont step out of the boat. Some people view Peters walk on the water as a failure, but John Ortberg points out that there were eleven bigger failures sitting in the boat. In what ways does our perception of failure affect our willingness to start water-walking? Participants Guide page 21. As time permits, discuss the following questions to help participants explore their understanding of the concepts covered in this session. Let participants know when one minute remains. When time is up, ask the groups to rejoin as one group. 38 If You Want to Walk on Water, Youve Got to Get Out of the Boat Leaders Guide Session One: Whats Water-Walking? 39 GROUP DISCUSSION 1. Fear of fai l ur e i s one r eason many of us dont step out of the boat. Some peopl e vi ew Peter s wal k on the water as a fai l ur e, but John Or tber g poi nts out that ther e wer e el even bi gger fai l ur es si tti ng i n the boat. In what ways does our per cepti on of fai l ur e affect our wi l l i ngness to star t water -wal ki ng? Think about It Failureisnot anevent, but rather ajudgment about anevent. Failure isnot somethingthat happenstousor alabel weattachtothings. It isawaywethink about outcomes. JohnOrtberg Session O ne: W hats W ater-W alking? 21 PLANNING NOTES Gideon 5. Wher e was Gi deon tr yi ng to fi nd comfor t and safety when God appr oached hi m? (See Judges 6:11.) 6. Gi deon was afr ai d to take the chal l enge the angel of the Lor d pr esented to hi m. How di d God r espond to hi s fear s? (See Judges 6:1218; 7:915.) 7. How di d God use thi s i nsi gni fi cant far mer who fi nal l y deci ded to obey and tr ust hi m? (See Judges 7:1624.) ThePlusesof Water-Walking It istheonlywaytoreal growth. It isthewaytruefaithdevelops. It isthealternativetoboredomandstagnation. It ispart of discoveringandobeyingour calling. Thewater iswhereJesusis! 20 If You W ant to W alk on W ater Participants G uide Think about It Failure is not an event, but rather a judgment about an event. Failure is not something that happens to us or a label we attach to things. It is a way we think about outcomes. John Ortberg 2. How much does our view of Gods character and competence influence the degree to which we are willing to trust him and, in faith, to accept his calling and take risks? 3. Would you agree that sometimes the boats we createwhatever gives us an illusion of control, whatever or whomever (besides God) we are tempted to put our trust in when life is stormy might actually be more dangerous than water-walking with Jesus? Why or why not? 4. If we keep choosing not to step out of our boats, what happens to us? To people around us? To our relationship with God? PERSONAL JOURNEY: TO DO NOW Now turn to page 23 and spend a few minutes alone with God to consider some of the points weve discussed in this session. 1. In If You Want to Walk on Water, Youve Got to Get Out of the Boat, John Ortberg writes, I believe that there is some aspect of your life in which God is calling you to walk with and to him, and that when we say yes to his calling, it sets in motion a divine dynamic far beyond merely human power. In what way might God be calling you to get out of your boat and step out in faith? Participants Guide page 23. 40 If You Want to Walk on Water, Youve Got to Get Out of the Boat Leaders Guide 5 MINUTES Session One: Whats Water-Walking? 41 2. How much does our vi ew of Gods char acter and com- petence i nfl uence the degr ee to whi ch we ar e wi l l i ng to tr ust hi m and, i n fai th, to accept hi s cal l i ng and take r i sks? 3. Woul d you agree that someti mes the boats we create whatever gi ves us an i l l usi on of contr ol , whatever or whomever (besi des God) we are tempted to put our trust i n when l i fe i s stormymi ght actual l y be more danger- ous than water-wal ki ng wi th Jesus? Why or why not? 4. I f we keep choosi ng not to step out of our boats, what happens to us?To peopl e around us?To our rel ati onshi p wi th God? 22 If You W ant to W alk on W ater Participants G uide PERSONAL J OURNEY: TO DO NOW 1. In If You Want to Walk on Water, YouveGot to Get Out of the Boat, John Or tber g wr i tes, I bel i eve that ther e i s some aspect of your l i fe i n whi ch God i s cal l i ng you to wal k wi th and to hi m, and that when we say yes to hi s cal l i ng, i t sets i n moti on a di vi ne dynami c far beyond mer el y human power. In what ways mi ght God be cal l - i ng you to get out of your boat and step out i n fai th? 2. Usual l y anyone who begi ns water -wal ki ng has to face per sonal fear. What deep fear s keep you fr om r eal l y wal ki ng wi th and obeyi ng God, fr om steppi ng out i n fai th and wi th hi s hel p doi ng what you coul d never do on your own? Li st fear s that ar e speci fi c to the cal l i ng you wr ote down for questi on 1. Session O ne: W hats W ater-W alking? 23 PLANNING NOTES GROUP DISCUSSION 1. Fear of fai l ur e i s one r eason many of us dont step out of the boat. Some peopl e vi ew Peter s wal k on the water as a fai l ur e, but John Or tber g poi nts out that ther e wer e el even bi gger fai l ur es si tti ng i n the boat. In what ways does our per cepti on of fai l ur e affect our wi l l i ngness to star t water -wal ki ng? Think about It Failureisnot anevent, but rather ajudgment about anevent. Failure isnot somethingthat happenstousor alabel weattachtothings. It isawaywethink about outcomes. JohnOrtberg Session O ne: W hats W ater-W alking? 2 1 2. Usually anyone who begins water-walking has to face personal fear. What deep fears keep you from really walking with and obeying God, from stepping out in faith and with his help doing what you could never do on your own? List fears that are specific to the calling you wrote down for question 1. 3. Looking back on your life so far, when have you said no to Gods call? When have you said yes? Why? What happened as a result of those choices? 4. Which small or large steps can you begin taking this week to get out of your boat a little each day? PERSONAL JOURNEY: TO DO ON YOUR OWN Youve learned a few basics about water-walking and have been encouraged to think about your choices, your boats, and the opportunity to water-walk. Its easy to seek comfort and create boats, isnt it? Thats why so many people choose that path. But God is calling you, as he calls every believer, to put your faith in him and start getting out of your boat a little more each day. Set aside some quiet time to think about the following questions. There are no right or wrong answers, and nobody needs to know your responses, unless you choose to discuss them with someone. Whats important is that you take time to reflect on some issues that you explored today, issues that may cause you to become uncom- fortable or even a bit angryat yourself, God, or someone else. By their nature, some of the boats people create are pretty ugly and secretive. Remember, though, that God loves you just the way you are. Whenever you are willing to get out of the boat, he is ready to help you do things you could never accomplish on your own. One of the first steps in the process of water-walking is assessing honestly where you are right nowand where you want to be. Let participants know when one minute remains. When time is up, remind participants that they may want to continue their journey by completing the exercise on page 25 of their Participants Guide on their own time. Then close the session with the Closing Meditation. 42 If You Want to Walk on Water, Youve Got to Get Out of the Boat Leaders Guide Session One: Whats Water-Walking? 43 3. Looki ng back on your l i fe so far , when have you sai d no to Gods cal l ? When have you sai d yes? Why? What happened as a r esul t of those choi ces? 4. Whi ch smal l or l ar ge steps can you begi n taki ng thi s week to get out of your boat a l i ttl e each day? 24 If You W ant to W alk on W ater Participants G uide PERSONAL J OURNEY: TO DO ON YOUR OWN Youve l ear ned a few basi cs about water -wal ki ng and have been encour aged to thi nk about your choi ces, your boats, and the oppor tuni ty to water -wal k. Its easy to seek comfor t and create boats, i snt i t?Thats why so many peopl e choose that path. But God i s cal l i ng you, as he cal l s ever y bel i ever , to put your fai th i n hi m and star t getti ng out of your boat a l i ttl e mor e each day. Set asi de some qui et ti me to thi nk about the fol l owi ng ques- ti ons. There are no ri ght or wrong answers, and nobody needs to know your responses, unl ess you choose to di scuss them wi th someone. Whats i mportant i s that you take ti me to refl ect on some i ssues that you expl ored today, i ssues that may cause you to become uncomfortabl e or even a bi t angry at yoursel f, God, or someone el se. By thei r nature, some of the boats peopl e create are pretty ugl y and secreti ve. Remember, though, that God l oves you j ust the way you are. Whenever you are wi l l i ng to get out of the boat, he i s ready to hel p you do thi ngs you coul d never accompl i sh on your own. One of the fi rst steps i n the process of water-wal ki ng i s assessi ng honestl y where you are ri ght nowand where you want to be. 1. Look back on your l i fe. When have you stepped up to the pl ate, to use a basebal l anal ogy, and tr i ed to hi t the bal l ? When have you r efused to get out of the dugout when your name was cal l ed? Why? How have those deci si ons i nfl uenced your l i fefor better or wor se? Session O ne: W hats W ater-W alking? 25 PLANNING NOTES PERSONAL JOURNEY: TO DO NOW 1. In If You Want to Walk on Water, YouveGot to Get Out of the Boat, John Or tber g wr i tes, I bel i eve that ther e i s some aspect of your l i fe i n whi ch God i s cal l i ng you to wal k wi th and to hi m, and that when we say yes to hi s cal l i ng, i t sets i n moti on a di vi ne dynami c far beyond mer el y human power. In what ways mi ght God be cal l - i ng you to get out of your boat and step out i n fai th? 2. Usual l y anyone who begi ns water -wal ki ng has to face per sonal fear. What deep fear s keep you fr om r eal l y wal ki ng wi th and obeyi ng God, fr om steppi ng out i n fai th and wi th hi s hel p doi ng what you coul d never do on your own? Li st fear s that ar e speci fi c to the cal l i ng you wr ote down for questi on 1. Session O ne: W hats W ater-W alking? 23 1. Look back on your life. When have you stepped up to the plate, to use a baseball analogy, and tried to hit the ball? When have you refused to get out of the dugout when your name was called? Why? How have those decisions influenced your life for better or worse? 2. Are you excited about your relationship with God right now? Is it dynamic and growing, or pretty stale? Why? How might what youve learned about water-walking start making a difference in your relationship with God? 3. Do you think you are a risk taker or a comfort seeker? Why? Write out some ways in which you have taken risks in your walk with God and ways you have deliberately chosen to seek comfort rather than take the risk of what God was calling you to do. 4. Ask God to make your heart and mind open to what he wants to reveal to you through this study and to give you the courage to face whatever issues come up in the remaining sessions. CLOSING MEDITATION Dear God, its easier to discuss what happened to Peter during that raging storm on the lake than it is to think honestly about the boats we create to try to shelter ourselves and gain the illusion of control. Please help us to become more aware of the boats we create. Show us how our boats are affecting our ability to hear your call and how we can take steps of faith that will lead to a stronger walk with you. Give us the courage to accept your invitation to step out in faith and walk with you on the water. Feed our desire to experience more of your presence and power as we walk in places we could never walk on our own. Thank you for your promise to be with us, to be there with a helping hand whenever we need you. In Jesus name we pray, amen. 44 If You Want to Walk on Water, Youve Got to Get Out of the Boat Leaders Guide 1 MINUTE Session One: Whats Water-Walking? 45 2. Ar e you exci ted about your r el ati onshi p wi th God r i ght now? Is i t dynami c and gr owi ng, or pr etty stal e? Why? How mi ght what youve l ear ned about water -wal ki ng start maki ng a di fference i n your rel ati onshi p wi th God? 3. Do you thi nk you ar e a r i sk taker or a comfor t seeker ? Why? Wr i te out some ways i n whi ch you have taken r i sks i n your wal k wi th God and ways you have del i b- er atel y chosen to seek comfor t r ather than take the r i sk of what God was cal l i ng you to do. 4. Ask God to make your hear t and mi nd open to what he wants to reveal to you through thi s study and to gi ve you the cour age to face whatever i ssues come up i n the r emai ni ng sessi ons. 26 If You W ant to W alk on W ater Participants G uide PLANNING NOTES PERSONAL JOURNEY: TO DO ON YOUR OWN Youve l ear ned a few basi cs about water -wal ki ng and have been encour aged to thi nk about your choi ces, your boats, and the oppor tuni ty to water -wal k. Its easy to seek comfor t and create boats, i snt i t?Thats why so many peopl e choose that path. But God i s cal l i ng you, as he cal l s ever y bel i ever , to put your fai th i n hi m and star t getti ng out of your boat a l i ttl e mor e each day. Set asi de some qui et ti me to thi nk about the fol l owi ng ques- ti ons. There are no ri ght or wrong answers, and nobody needs to know your responses, unl ess you choose to di scuss them wi th someone. Whats i mportant i s that you take ti me to refl ect on some i ssues that you expl ored today, i ssues that may cause you to become uncomfortabl e or even a bi t angry at yoursel f, God, or someone el se. By thei r nature, some of the boats peopl e create are pretty ugl y and secreti ve. Remember, though, that God l oves you j ust the way you are. Whenever you are wi l l i ng to get out of the boat, he i s ready to hel p you do thi ngs you coul d never accompl i sh on your own. One of the fi rst steps i n the process of water-wal ki ng i s assessi ng honestl y where you are ri ght nowand where you want to be. 1. Look back on your l i fe. When have you stepped up to the pl ate, to use a basebal l anal ogy, and tr i ed to hi t the bal l ? When have you r efused to get out of the dugout when your name was cal l ed? Why? How have those deci si ons i nfl uenced your l i fefor better or wor se? Session O ne: W hats W ater-W alking? 25