Advanced Fellatio Techniques and Secrets

FAQ/Information
When I published Advanced Cunnilingus Techniques and Secrets, I included a
comment about perhaps doing a fellatio counterpart Well, I!ve gotten quite a
fe" requests, and demands, that follo" through, especiall# "ith the $o" to
S"allo" "ithout it Tasting %ad part So, &', here it is
&n the other hand, it "as the number of unsolicited questions on the sub(ect
that caused me to "rite Advanced Anal Se) Techniques, for those of #ou "ho "ant
to *no" about that sub(ect
There are t"o "a#s one could become e)pert enough at fellatio to "rite this
page+ %# being reall# good at it, or b# having been sub(ected to the attentions
of people "ho "ere even better at it Consider me the latter
As I!ve said before, the best part of se) is giving pleasure to #our partner
%ut ,- on m# personal list, behind going do"n on m# lover, is being gone do"n
upon m#self And I!ve had a couple of partners "ho "ere mind.blo"ingl# good at
this I made a point of learning "hat it is the# did, and ho", as "ell as having
simpl# learned "hat felt best on me
%asic /uidelines
First, ever#thing here is a generali0ation 12ost gu#s1 means most gu#s, not all
gu#s With that in mind
2ost gu#s are ver# different than "omen, "hen it comes to "hat the# en(o#
With "omen, starting out ver# slo"l# is more important With gu#s, there is a
much better chance that the gu# "ill be impatient, and there is most
definitel# a lo"er overall standard as to "hat most gu#s "ill en(o#
When starting out, the best bet is to start slo"l#, and indirectl# 2en tend
to be more visual than "omen, stereot#picall#, so part of ta*ing #our time
"ould include almost touching*issing around the rest of his bod# 3depending
on "hat!s accessible under the circumstances4, caressing, but not necessaril#
actuall# touching his erotic 0ones, #et
When doing this, remember the 1man# gu#s get impatient1 rule The longer #ou
can drag out each step 3"hile still ma*ing progress4, the better, but some
gu#s don!t "ant much of this at all, and if #ou pa# attention it should become
obvious
5nfortunatel#, another general difference is that gu#s are less e)pressive
This is a shame, because it *eeps them from en(o#ing it as much, as "ell as
ma*ing it harder for #ou to tell "hat "or*s "ith them I cases li*e that,
tal*ing about them perhaps being more e)pressive, especiall# b# telling them
it e)cites #ou 3hopefull# this is true4, is the best betbut onl# if #our
relationship 3or their personalit#4 is secure enough to allo" it
The other da#, on 6on 7 2i*e 3radio gods4, a "oman caller bragged that her
nic*name "as 1eight seconds1, meaning the time it too* her to bring a gu# to
orgasm from fellatio While a si0able portion of gu#s do actuall# li*e that,
it is not the "a# to give the best orgasm In fact, it!s the "orst "a#
8emember that some gu#s do prefer it, though
See, the longer a gu# is 1tortured1 3as one of the best fellatio artists I
*no" puts it4, the stronger his orgasm "ill be 1Tortured1 means 1*ept
se)uall# e)cited, and stimulated, but not actuall# allo"ed to have an orgasm1
6& 9&T be afraid to use #our hands If he!s not one of those get.it.over.quic*
3/I&Q4 t#pes, there are man# things #ou simpl# cannot do "ith #our mouth, but
can "ith #our hands Specific techniques in the advanced section
:ven among eroginous 0ones, don!t stic* onl# to the penis Some gu#s have more
sensitive nipples than most "omen, for e)ample 3I!m one of those gu#s, in
fact4
The scrotum/gonads 3I mostl# use technical terms, (ust to *eep things
consistentI can "rite great erotic literature, but that!s not "hat this
article!s about4 are also essential, if he!s not a /I&Q t#pe
The chee*s of the butt, on both men and "omen, actuall# have some automatic
se)ual response lin*ed to them, especiall# from repeated pressure This is
because our distant ancestors often had se) 1dogg# st#le1, and so a patting
sensation on the butt "as a good standard signal for hormones to start
moving /u#s have it too, for the same reason the# have nipples A good butt
massage, or perhaps gentl# rh#thmic pressure, can reall# get some gu#s
going
The anus should be carefull# mentioned here I sa# carefull# because, of
course, a lot of gu#s feel uncomfortable "ith attention to it %ut it is an
erotic 0one, especiall# because it includes the prostate gland %ut more,
again, in the advanced section
&nce he can!t ta*e it an# more, or #ou can!t, the question of spitting versus
s"allo"ing comes up Some people, in an attempt to not offend or upset, claim
that it!s not reall# a big deal %ut it is, overall &f course plent# of gu#s
reall# don!t care, or don!t even li*e their lover s"allo"ing, "hile even more
haven!t had the chance to find out the difference %ut for most gu#s
s"allo"ing ma*es a 3positive4 difference This isn!t (ust because it feels
better, or more intimate It!s also, perhaps even mainl#, because spitting, or
evading the e(aculation altogether, brings on 3even if the# consciousl# *no"
it!s not the case4 a sense of re(ection 3conscious or subconscious4 For a
"oman, imagine a gu# starting to go do"n on #ou and then ma*ing sputtering
noises and "iping #our (uices franticall# from his tongue and lips ;ou might
find it a bit disappointing, if not (ust plain hurtful, "ouldn!t #ou If
#ou!re a gu# reading this, then #ou don!t need an e)ample, #ou!ve probabl# had
it done to #ou %ut most gu#s are used to lovers not s"allo"ing, so I onl#
bring this up so "e!ve made clear "hich "a#!s more li*el# to "or* 1best1
6on!t forget that, though gu#s have a different *ind of insecurit# than "omen,
the# do have frail egosthe# (ust hide it more So e)cited smiles/faces and
noises can, "ith some gu#s, ma*e a big difference in ho" much the# en(o# it
Condoms This is #our call The odds of the blo".ee catching $I</AI6S from the
blo".er are probabl# about the same as if #ou "ere sha*ing hands The odds of
the person suc*ing/s"allo"ing catching it are "a# less than the odds of
transmitting $I</AI6S b# coitus, and astronimicall# less than catching it from
anal se), "hich ma*es up probabl# more instances of transmission than all
other forms of transmission combined In fact, there is little evidence at all
of $I</AI6S being transmitted to someone "ho "as performing fellatio, aside
from a fe" people "ho had a form of gum disease that resulted in a lot of open
cuts in their mouth &h, it!s "orth note that #ou get tin# cuts in #our mouth
"hen #ou brush #our teeth, though the# heal in minutes, so #ou might "ant to
avoid brushing right before fellatio Tr# che"ing gum instead, I guess $eh
Advanced Techniques
S"allo"ing 3"ithout it tasting reall# bad4
This is possible In fact, onl# a mental barrier stands bet"een those "ho
1can!t1 and those "ho can %ut #ou have to *no" the technique &h, I should
point out that a large minorit# of people en(o# the taste, either for the flavor
or because bringing that *ind of pleasure to their lover is so "onderful
%ut a larger number thin* it can taste prett# bad This depends a lot on the gu#
himself 3each gu# tastes different, some ver# much so4, and also on "hat the#
eat 3rumor has it that fruit ma*es it taste better, and fatt# foods ma*e it
taste "orse, as do some spices4
The tric* is to not taste it at all This sounds too simple to be true, but+
When a gu# starts to cum, the t#pical response is to tr# to pace it a bit to
hold it in one!s mouth for a moment before s"allo"ing This is the onl# reason
one tastes it
Instead, (ust start s"allo"ing, immediatel# and hard If #ou can get te tip into
the bac* of #our mouth "ithout having a gag reflect problem 3more on that
later4, the e(aculation "ill go completel# do"n #our throat "ithout #ou tasting
it at all All that!s left is a vague aftertaste, and even that is much "ea*er
than if #ou had allo"ed it to sta# in #our mouth This technique fast.s"allo"ing
actuall# feels better, to a lot of gu#s, than if #ou had paced it normall#
6eep Throating 3overcoming the gag refle)4
A penis in the bac* of one!s mouth sometimes ma*es them 1gag1 So does a finger,
or a banana, actuall#
I put quotes around 1gag1 because it!s sorta an illusion The 1tric*1 to not
1gagging1 is to not interrupt the refle) What, technicall#, is happening is
that #our bod# is tr#ing to s"allo", and a finger, penis, or banana doesn!t
cooperate Some people can learn to (ust resist/ignore the refle), but even
better is to turn it into a real s"allo" I believe 3don!t tr# it at home4
that!s ho" s"ord s"allo"ers do it Certainl# it!s ho" 1deep throat1 technique
people do it It!s reall# (ust that simple When #ou "ould have felt li*e
gagging, #ou s"allo" I, personall#, have confirmed this "ith a banana, and a
finger
This isn!t (ust for s"allo"ing 3"hich it helps4 It can feel ver#, ver# good for
fellatio overall
Te)ture 3don!t (ust *eep repeating a single motion4
%ut don!t forget te)ture &', the largest minorit# of gu#s doesn!t care at all
about variet# 3in a single session4, he (ust "ants rh#thmic pumping %ut in that
case most of these techniques are "asted on him, an#"a# %ut the rest of gu#s, a
ma(orit#, are in various categories of li*ing at least some change at some point
during a specific fellatio session I should bring up the te)ture thing at the
end of ever# section, but to save time and space I!ll (ust hope #ou remember
this paragraph S"itch from one technique to another ever# so often during a
session, if he seems to respond "ell to that Tr# to ma*e the change smooth and
natural, don!t (ust stop one thing and start another And "e!re not tal*ing
about s"itching ever# fe" secondsmore li*e ever# fe" minutes, ma#be even
longer
<arious &ther &ral Techniques
Suc*ing reall# hard
Some gu#s hate this, but some are ama0ed at ho" good it feels This is
especiall# good as a 1te)ture1 3variet#4 change during a blo"(ob This doesn!t
(ust mean suc*ing at one constant pressureto reall# ama0e him, tr# suc*ing
hard (ust on the out.stro*e, or (ust on the in.stro*e 3a more subtle effect4,
or actuall# pausing an# motion "hile doing it
=ic*ing
;ou ma# thin* this is obvious, but it!s not, reall# :speciall# since man#
gu#s seem to (ust e)pect a rh#thmic head.bobbing sorta suc*.fest %ut lic*ing
is another technique that can be surprisingl# effective :speciall# at t"o
points . :arl# on, before #ou!ve actuall# touched his penis and are 3in
theor#4 e)citing him b# "or*ing up to it =ic*ing is a great "a# to ma*e first
contact The other time is "hen #ou!ve prolonged things until he!s so hard and
e)cited that breathing on him seems to get him close Trace the lines and
te)tures of his head 3glans4, do"n the ridge of his shaft 3the side a"a# from
his bell#/abdomen, more on that later4, his balls 3more on that later4, and
even the e)act point "here the inside of his thigh meets the s*in of his
scrotum, on each side That last spot almost deserves its o"n section, because
it can be ver# effective :speciall#, again, earl# on before #ou!ve focused on
his penis, or after he!s reall#, reall# close That area can also be suc*ed
on, at other timesin some men this is ver# stimulating
/iving him the shaft
The line do"n the shaft of his penis, on the side opposite "here his penis
"ould touch his abdomen if pressed against it, is one of the best.*ept
secrets This is because its effect isn!t obvious at first %ut firm, rh#thmic
stimulation at some point along the line do"n his penis on that side 3"here
e)actl# it is depends on the person4 can have a startling, strong effect
6epending on the situation, this can be done "ith fingers, the tongue, or firm
suc*ing 3(ust on that area4
$aving a ball
This varies so much from gu# to gu# that it!s *inda hard to nail do"n Some
gu#s are almost indifferent to their balls/scrotum being given attention, or
are even uncomfortable "ith itbut more find it at least a nice change, some
find it fantastic <arious techniques include suc*ing a "hole 1ball1 into
one!s mouth, and gentl# fondling it "ith the tongue, "hile it!s there This
can!t be done for ver# long "ithout becoming uncomfortable, though &r lic*ing
about firml# at them "hen not in the mouth, or to suc* at the s*in itself
I don!t thin* I!ll go much into analingus/anal se) That "ould probabl#
require a "hole separate article 3&', I got enough questions about it that I
decided to "rite an article on it+ Advanced Anal Se) Techniques4 Suffice it to
sa# that a minorit# of people find this ver# stimulating, and technicall# it
should be, considering the pro)imit# to vaginal se)ual nerves 3"omen4 and the
prostate3men4but most people are little 3or more4 uncomfortable "ith it,
performing or receiving
%ut, nearb#, one has the base of the scrotum, going in a line to"ard the anus
There is a spot along there "hich can be lic*ed, or better #et gentl# pushed
"ith a finger in a rh#thmic fashion, that stimulates the prostate This allo"s
one to avoid the "hole butt thing, if the#!re uncomfortable "ith it, and still
get a little of the almost magical effect that stimulating the prostate can
have This ma# need to be something done rh#thmicall# for more than a little
"hile, "ith the penis being stimulated at the same time, to reall# "or* "ell
/entle, but firm
$ands
A lot of the best techniques involve hands If #ou or he insists on stic*ing to
purel# oral, then a lot of ama0ing stuff is missed
First, there!s obviousl# caressing This can be done all over the bod#, and not
(ust during the initial build.up phase This is also a great thing to do during
pauses, "hen prolonging things "hen he!s too close to orgasm too soon
The Coc* >ull
&ne reall# effective tric* for direct attention to the penis is to use both
hands, but onl# in one direction Saliva ma# be enough for this, depending on
the situationbut some additional lubricant, preferabl# oil.based, ma# be
necessar# Starting at the base, slide a hand up to"ard the tip, placing the
other hand b# the base ?ust before it comes off of the tip, start the other
hand moving up from the base to"ard the tip While doing that, put the other
hand do"n on the base 'eep this up, slo"l# getting faster This "or*s great
"ith a reall# hard penis 3and it!s so different/stimulating that he!ll
probabl# have to loo* 3or as*, if it!s dar*4 to see "hat!s going on4but
it!s also a great tric* for someone "ho!s not erect #et 3or even having
trouble "ith it4 This, obviousl#, is the one sure "a# to have a pumping.t#pe
stimulation "hether hard or not It!s m# understanding that this "or*s
miracles on some people "ho, sa#, are using blood pressure medication or have
some other erectile problem The opposite "or*s, too, though onl# "ith an
erect penis I mean starting on the top and sliding do"n to the base, starting
the other hand on the tip before the first finishes, et cetera, bac* and
forth
The 6rum
If #ou "ant to reall# ama0e him, and have him tr#ing to find out "hat #ou!re
doing, tr# this . gentl# "rap a thumb and inde) finger around his nuts, to
pull them 3again, gentl#4 a"a# from his bod# slightl#, until #ou have a slight
sort of surface tension on the 1end1 3spot farthest from his bod#4, a bit li*e
a bulging drum Then gentl# 3&', "ith a ver# fe" people it can be more
forceful, but "or* #our "a# up to it4 run #our tongue in a circle around that
1end1 area If one right 3and it!s hard to get (ust right4, it creates a
reall# ama0ing sensation This "on!t get most people to orgasm, but it does
feel reall# good With a fe" people #ou can even use #our fingertip &r
fingernail, though to me that feels a bit too much li*e a *nife
$ands are also a good bac*up plan for "hen #our mouth tires The best tactic is
ma*e s"itching bac* and forth a normal part of #our technique, so it!s not
obvious if/"hen #ou do need to ta*e a rest brea* for #our mouth
&', there!s a ton more I could "ritebut he#, there!s also a lot I didn!t
include in Advanced Cunnilingus Techniques I!ll probabl# get bac* and spruce
both of them up, eventuall#
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