What are the signs and symptoms by which we know a (a person who has a) weak or a strong mind.
Here are some of the indices.
A weak mind is hard; it lacks in resilience and fluidity, and compassion. A strong mind is resilient, fluid, and compassionate.
A weak mind is egotistical; a strong mind is humble.
A weak mind makes statements that contradict each other; a strong mind is consistent, harmonious.
A weak mind looks at oppositions; a weak mind seeks to see complements and helps with resolution ( samadhana).
A weak mind starts its sentences ( in speech and writing) with I and frequently repeats the various forms of this pronoun. A strong mind avoids the first personal pronoun and its variants.
A weak mind is addicted to the words like No, Not, Refuse, Deny, Challenge, my stand, my view, and such other expressions. When a strong mind refuses. it does not hurt like a refusal.
A weak mind feels that others are resisting him/her, refusing him/her. A strong mind has faith in others positive and good reaction.
A weak mind remembers what hurt and harm others have cause to him/her; a strong mind forgets these.
A weak mind forgets the good and kind acts others have done to him/her; a strong mind remembers these.
A Weak mind forgets what hurt and harm s/he has caused to others; a strong mind remembers these.
A weak mind forgets the good and kind acts others s/he has done for others; a strong mind forgets these.
People do not say No to a weak mind , out of fear; people do not say No to a strong mind out of love.
*A weak mind justifies his/her acts; a strong mind apologises
*A weak mind does not forgive; a strong mind forgives and also forgets the incident.
*A weak mind criticises others, speaks ill of them; a strong mind does not criticise in his/her own mind but rather seeks the reasons for anotehr persons weaknesses and grants strength.
*A week mind gets tense and stressed; the same stimuli that cause tension in a weak mind immediately trigger a relaxed state in a strong mind
*A weak mind is hurt by others angers; a strong mind sympathetically seeks to find the history of the pain and suffering that is causing anger and seeks to remedy the same.
*A weak mind sees others fault; a strong mind sees its own faults.
* A person with a weak mind is easily fatigued; one with a strong mind regenerates quickly.
* One with a weak mind makes bodys illness into a mind condition; a strong mind introduces minds healing into the body.
*A weak mind seeks others to be responsible for him, and then resents them; a strong mind takes responsibility for others without feeling burdened..
*A weak mind follows set patterns; a strong mind invents.
*A weak mind is lethargic and lazy a strong mind takes initiative and action.
*A weak mind is suspicious; a strong mind trusts.
* A weak mind struggles to accomplish any objective; a strong mind does without doing and accomplishes by his/her mere presence.
*A weak mind finds small irritants to be too large to suffer; a strong mind has an oceanic capacity to absorb and not feel that there had been any irritation.
* A weak mind cannot taste the fullness of any experience and therefore his/her craving is never satiated; a strong mind, being well centred, tastes and experiences everything in fullness, enjoys more of less and is contented.
A weak mind is self-centred, seeking its own pleasure; a strong mind constantly seeks the fulfilment of others.
A weak mind reacts to small things, small events that have the duration of an instant only and are of temporary worth; the strong mind ignores such matters and holds a larger picture in a more expansive time frame ( dirgha-darshin and dura-darshin), therefore is not disturbed by small events, little words, temporary situations.
A weak mind has a small horizon; a strong mind has a large horizon in all subjects and matters.
A weak mind sees only parts; a strong mind carries the vision of a complete whole in which all atoms and galaxies, all ideas and sciences are a single interconnected Whole.
A weak mind finds it difficult to learn new things; all sciences are easily opened to a strong mind.
A weak mind lives in fear ( of loss, repeat of natural disasters, ghosts and possessions, attacks, illness, poverty, death); a strong mind grants reassurance to all beings by his/her very presence.
A weak mind, suffering from inferiority, keeps reasserting his (individual, religious, national, tribal, political) superiority; a strong mind holds back on such assertions because of an interior self-assurance which embraces all opponents and opposite views.
A weak mind is full of inner conflicts and a thousand question about the smallest step, seeking answers to each question and each answer raising a crop of a million more questions; a strong mind flows in harmony and his/her questions have not been answered but have been resolved.
A weak mind demands; a strong mind gives.
A weak mind feels insulted; a strong mind gives honour.
A weak mind rejects everything; a strong mind assimilates what may seem most unacceptable in appearance.
A weak mind seeks its own pleasure and gratification; a strong mind discovers a subtler, more refined, more intense and more lasting pleasure, that of knowing that someone has been pleased by his/her acts.
A weak mind speaks loudly; a strong mind speaks only from within a depth of interior silence.
A weak mind struggles to choose one of many options; a strong mind incorporates the most contradictory options into a single scheme.
A weak mind overindulges, overeats, over-possesses, overstates, overdresses - because it tries to fill its emptiness with exterior objects; a strong mind has an inner fullness, is therefore mild, restrained, without feeling restricted or deprived. A strong mind under-indulges, under-possesses, understates.
A weak mind lives in fear of others, constantly overprotecting oneself and thereby inviting attack; a strong mind lives in love and that love alone is his/her protection.
*A weak minds efforts and relationships are unstable; in the presence of a strong mind all is stabilised.
*A weak mind cannot concentrate on any effort, and wanders around; a strong mind is a concentrated one and thereby well centred in life and in meditation.
* A strong mind, finally, is a saintly mind that grants to others freedom and liberates them from their own self-enslavement.