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Have you ever slept with a man a little too soon, only to realize
that it was a monumental mistake?
Well, in the present day and age, I dont feel there are many
women who havent made this mistake, at one point or another, in
their life.
But, women often ask me this question !Why does the male
attitude "hange after theyve slept with you.# Well, what if I said
that their attitude doesnt "hange, rather, the attitude of the
woman does?
$ "lient of mine re"ently "ame to me with a similar pro%lem.
&he realized that she slept with a guy a little too soon, and feared
that this was the end of the road for her, and things werent going
to progress to the ne't stage anymore.
&he was feeling a little guilty, and was e'tremely worried that
may%e shes shot herself in the foot, and now there is a%solutely
no way, that this guy will like her, as anything more than (ust a
random fling.
)he pro%lem wasnt that she gave him easy se'* the issue was that
she didnt feel "omforta%le with this a"t, and was now massively
regretting it.
In short, this had a massive effe"t on her overall attitude around
the guy.
&he didn+t noti"e this %ut, %efore she was "ool, "alm and "onfident
around this guy. But now, she was a little inse"ure, and was even
a"ting a little %it desperate.
)he more she told me her story, the more I started to understand
the "ore issue. $fter a through review, I asked her a simple
question !,o you think this guy is sitting around, worrying a%out
the same things youre worried a%out?#
In other words !Is he sitting around wondering, if you will like
him
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from this point forward or not? Is he %iting his nails with worry,
and wondering if you are going to "all him or not?#
-%viously he isnt, she replied.
&o, why are you sitting here and wondering whats going to happen
ne't? I asked.
.ou see, the pro%lem isnt that you slept with him too soon* the
pro%lem is that, you have gone from %eing "ompletely "onfident to
%eing someone who now is a little desperate.
Its not what happens immediately after sleeping with a guy that
matters, its what you do for the ne't few days, or weeks that
makes the %ig differen"e.
/ost women shift from the high gear to a low gear, and a"t very
needy. &ome do it "ons"iously, while some do it un"ons"iously.
But, Im also not saying that its wrong to feel that way. I mean,
its not easy to wake up one day, and realize that youve %een
taken advantage of and feel used at the same time.
.ou see, there is a method you "an use, not (ust with this situation
%ut any situation you might en"ounter with a man, that will put you
in the position of power almost instantly. I "all it the !0ole reversal
method#.
Before I tell you what it is, I must tell you what you will gain when
you put it into a"tion1
Here is the %iggest %enefit 2 )his method will give you the perfe"t
idea, on e'a"tly what to do, in various situations around a man, to
turn things in your favor.
I know its a pretty %old "laim, %ut this is 3445 true.
,o you know those situations, where you feel utterly powerless
around a man, and sit there s"rat"hing your head wondering, what
you "ould do to get the result you want?
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6lus, do you often feel a%solutely misera%le, %e"ause you
"ant figure out what to do?
7rom this point on, you arent ever going to have that issue around
a man, ever again.
Be"ause, the method Ill show you will eliminate this issue from
your life forever.
&o if you are ready, let me e'plain e'a"tly what this method is, and
how it works.
$s you already know 2 this method is "alled the !0ole reversal
method# , and it %asi"ally means that whenever you en"ounter a
diffi"ult situation with a man, you reverse the roles and take on his
role.
In other words, you adapt his attitude, a"tions and mindset.
)o e'plain it %etter, lets follow up with the same e'ample of
sleeping with a man too soon.
/ost women usually get a little desperate after they have slept
with a guy, simply %e"ause, on some level they feel that theyve
given up the goods, and now the guy might not like them as mu"h.
)his "ould %e true in some "ases, however, if you play it smart and
follow this !0ole 0eversal# formula, his attra"tion for you wont
wear off, rather, it would get more and more intense no matter
how many times he has slept with you.
$s this formula simply states 2 with any situation, you must adapt
the attitude, a"tions and mindset of the guy youre dealing with.
In the "ase of sleeping with him too early, try to fo"us on what
attitude, mindset and a"tions a man adopts after hes slept with
you?
/ost guys tend to a"t a little aloof, a little dry, and sometimes try
to make e'"uses when you "all them.
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)herefore, %efore even waiting for him to a"t, or rea"t this way,
you should adopt those attitudes %y default.
Whi"h means, you should a"t a little aloof, dry and almost
uninterested right after you+ve slept with him.
When you do that, not only will you sho"k the guy a little, %ut you
will also stand out and impress him.
8et me e'plain this further /ost men sort of e'pe"t a woman to
get needy or desperate, after theyve slept with her. )hey e'pe"t a
series of desperate phone "alls, or te't messages from her. In fa"t,
they put their shield up, even %efore, you get in tou"h with them
again.
&o in short /ost men are following a "ertain pattern and e'pe"t
"ertain %ehaviors from you. But, when dont a"t as he was
e'pe"ting you to a"t, you suddenly %reak through his patterns, and
for"e him to think.
&imilarly, when you dont a"t like how other women a"t, you
suddenly appear like this out of the ordinary, and different woman
to him.
He would instantly la%el you as someone different, %e"ause you
dont "ome with the standard flaws, other women "ome with.
)herefore, when you %reak through his standard patterns, and
dont rea"t like most women usually rea"t, you get his un"ons"ious
attention.
9ow, would think a%out you a lot more, and will give you a
different kind of treatment altogether.
)his same pro"ess "an %e used in any situation you en"ounter with
a man. $ good friend of mine had trou%le, with keeping men
interested after the first few dates.
&he used to go out a lot* however after a while, most guys would
lose attra"tion for her.
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While hearing her story, I realized that she was doing everything
right, other than one thing.
&he was a little too eager to get started and was too fo"used on
the end goal. :ven %efore the date would start, she would worry
and stress over whether, the guy would like her or not %y the end
of the date.
&in"e she was too out"ome dependent, she was un"ons"iously
sending out a very needy vi%e, and every guy she would go out
with, "ould smell this neediness from a mile away.
)herefore, most guys used to pull away, while she used to push
harder and harder, to keep the date going.
$fter a few hours of talking with her, I e'plained this same formula
to her in a lot of detail, and asked her to des"ri%e how most men
%ehaved around her on a date. &he said the following1
1;ery laid %a"k and a little disinterested.
1;ery rela'ed.
1)hey were slow to respond to my questions and gave short
answers.
1)hey played a little hard to get.
I said there you go.
Based on what youve des"ri%ed so far, the ne't time you go out on
a date, I want you to %e very rela'ed, a little disinterested, and
dont %e too eager a%out where things are headed.
<ust en(oy the date, and the pro"ess. In other words, you must
appear that you arent thinking a%out the out"ome, and rather (ust
en(oy whatever time youre sharing with the person ne't to you.
&he had a date planned that very weekend. &he gave this pro"ess
a shot, and was surprised to see that the guy she went out with
showed a lot more interest in her than she was used to.
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In fa"t, for the first time ever, a guy was eager to see her again,
and told her that he loved the time they spent together.
)he %est part is, that you "an apply this pro"ess to any situation
you might en"ounter with a guy. :ven a situation, where a man
plays "onstant games with you, and a"ts hot and "old.
)here was a lady I helped on"e, who was having trou%le with her
%oyfriend of = years. )he issue was that they knew ea"h other too
well, and the attra"tion was on its last legs.
)hey %arely even kissed ea"h other, and things were a%solutely
"old in their relationship.
When things get to this stage, its usually %e"ause the relationship
la"ks emotional temperature. In other words, when we get too
familiar with a person, there is no real element of surprise left and
as a result things start to get emotionally dry.
9ow, Im not saying that "ouples who stay together for several
years dont feel any attra"tion for ea"h other.
)he ones who make it work are "ompati%le on a "ompletely
different level, and have a""epted ea"h other the way they are.
)his is a su%(e"t for another day, as I "an talk on this, for hours
and hours.
However, lets get %a"k to the topi" at hand.
&o, when there are "ouples who know ea"h other too well, and
have almost lost attra"tion for ea"h other, they tend to "hoose one
of two routes.
)hey either go their separate ways and %reakup, or they try to
raise the emotional temperature in the relationship.
/ost people dont get this, %ut some "ouples un"ons"iously fight
with ea"h other, to raise the emotional temperature. I know this
sounds pretty weird, however, there are many people out there
who, un"ons"iously end up arguing with their partner, %e"ause they
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seek some sort of emotional fuel.
)hey (ust want to raise the emotional temperature up a few
not"hes, even if it means, using negative means to get there.
However, this is really unhealthy for o%vious reasons, and doesnt
%ring long term results. However, in the "ase of the "ouple Im
talking a%out, the woman had %e"ome (ust too predi"ta%le and it
was working against her.
)he weird thing was, that her attra"tion hadnt died for her
%oyfriend. 0ather, it was as high as ever.
Why was this, the "ase?
Well, simply %e"ause, her %oyfriend wasnt predi"ta%le. His a"tions
were hard to read, and she "ould never tell whether, he was going
to %low hot or "old on various days.
&o after studying her situation, I asked her to prepare a list of
things her %oyfriend was doing around her, and told her to (ot them
all down on a pie"e of paper.
I asked her to put in, all the little to %ig details in there.
9e't, I asked her to adopt these a"tions in her own routines for the
ne't few weeks. In other words, I asked her to a"t e'a"tly like how
her %oyfriend was a"ting around her and told her to report %a"k to
me.
$fter a%out the first week or so, she told me that her %oyfriend sat
her down, and asked her if something was up, as she wasnt a"ting
her normal self.
)hen, after a few more days, he was getting more involved
in taking noti"e of her, and it appeared like he was giving her a lot
more attention, than usual.
:ventually things "ompletely "hanged and her %oyfriend started
a"ting like a lovestru"k teenager, who (ust "ouldn+t have enough of
her.
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&o you see, this pro"ess "an work in any situation, as long as you
do it the right way.
However, make sure that you dont "onfuse yourself with this
pro"ess, and dont over2"ompli"ate things.
)here have %een women who tried it, and "onfused themselves so
mu"h, that they "ouldnt figure out what they were doing.
&o to review the whole pro"ess on"e again, there are only > steps
you need to do.
Step 1 7o"us on a guys a"tions or thoughts.
Step 2 /irror or adopt those a"tions or thoughts.
)hats a%out it.
)here is nothing more to do or learn, with this pro"ess. $s long as
you follow these > %asi" steps, you will noti"e that the ta%les keep
turning and that guy you used to avoid you, suddenly feels a heavy
surge of attra"tion or you.
.ou will noti"e that "ompletely uninterested man, suddenly
showing interest in you, and you will also noti"e that, getting men
to do what you want them to do, starts appearing more and more
easy.
?o try this pro"ess right now, and Id love to hear some su""ess
stories from your end soon.
?ood lu"k.
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