Good Morning to one and all. Im here to speak for the Motion .
Alienation of Elderly from family structure erodes social
values. Whats the baggage that you carry? Respected judges and friends. That was a question a prospective bride asked the boy when she wished to know if his parents would stay with them after their marriage. The Shocking deplorable truth about youngsters perception of elders is that they are dispensable baggage. I wish to quote Alexander Pope here: We call our parents fool ; our children will call us so . My opponents may cite several factors to justify the inevitability of alienation of elders and the ability of people to adapt to the changes in the family structure. But they cannot deny or overlook the fact that elders are a blessing when they are an integral part of the family. Isnt their arguments the case of sour grapes? Circumstances may change, social values may change but blood is thicker than water. Grandparents love towards their grandchildren and what they can do for them will remain the same. Elders of today, of tomorrow will be different but we can speak only from our experience. It is like saying all cannot be Gandhis but that doesnt take away the fact that the absence of a second Gandhi cannot be felt. Coming to elders/grandparents now. With the wealth of old world experience behind them and having the unique ability to metamorphose from advisers and listeners to mediators and friends they can provide stability and support to families. They can reinforce in children the sense of family values , religious beliefs and principles which will shape them into responsible members of the society. Their repository of folklore , scriptures stories can Unravel the rich cultural heritage of our country. Will we feel rootless then? As a cementing force of the family grandparents build bridges b/w parents and children and explain them the need for give and take policy . Their patience wins when parental impatience looses the case with children . Children will recall their love . sacrifice concern and which would blossom into care of elders in the society. Friends in the U.S alone 7.8 million children live in a household headed by a grandparent . 2 million children live with relatives called grand families . Alienation of parents is bridged by elders. In 2 decades time India and Japan will have high % of elderly population. Can we afford alienation of elders ? I can hear you say NEVER . Elders are GRANDparents , GRANDfamilies can we take away the Grand from them?. THANK YOU!... :D