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Below is what I wrote about the Abbotts a few years ago for
my life history. It is from the writings of John Austin Abbott
and his brother, William. I will also forward what I wrote
about Ellen Gallagher, Dad’s grandmother when I find it.
“Tell me a fact and I’ll learn. Tell me a truth and I’ll believe.
But tell me a story and it will live in my heart forever.”
--Indian Proverb
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I come from a long line of Americans. Mom’s maiden name
is Abbott. The Abbott family line dates back to the pilgrims.
George Abbott is from Yorkshire, England and came to this
country in about 1640. He was one of the first settlers of
Andover, Massachusetts. He established a life here in
America that we benefit from today. I’m grateful to be part of
his family tree.
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until after his marriage, when he and his wife attached
themselves the Universalists.
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was later called on a mission to Wisconsin. When he left
Pike County he placed a quantity of wheat in the mill. He
depended on this wheat to feed his family in his absence.
Through false pretense, a distant relative, obtained four
barrels of flour and another acquaintance also obtained a
considerable quantity. This loss was a great disappointment
to Stephen, so to make provision for his family; he began to
get cordwood on the Mississippi from an island. This
arduous work entailed exposure to elements and he became
sick. He died soon after at age 38 years.
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within one year of the Joseph Smith. It is ironic that they
were born within miles of each other at about the same time
and then later their lives come together near Nauvoo, IL, the
headquarters and gathering of the Church. It was there that
her husband had a fateful death and Joseph Smith, too, is
murdered soon after. Amidst these extreme trials, Abigail
rises to the occasion by painstakingly overcoming the
extreme sacrifice of raising her young family of 8 children
and moving them west.
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Abigail received no pity from her neighbors of Illinois. In May
1846, she was offered $10.00 for her house and lot and
twenty acres of land, all fenced. To her remonstrance at the
price, the buyer explained, "The Mormons have got to go.
That amount will ferry you across the river and it is better
than nothing." She accepted it. He also demanded that the
furniture be left in the house for he truly explained, "You
cannot carry it with you."
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The Mormon Battalion was organized by the U.S.
government to mobilize troops for the war at that time
against Mexico. During the winter Abigail received $22.50
from Captain James Brown who was serving the U.S.
military in the Mormon Battalion, sent to her from Santa Fe,
New Mexico, and Edward Bunker sent his wife some money.
Both were serving in the Mormon Battalion.
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I admire Abigail for her determination. Even though Captain
Brown took care of her family, when he overstepped his
bounds and married her daughter, Abigail had nothing to do
with the man. She could have easily bit her tongue and
ignored the sad state of affairs since she depended on him
economically. However, she showed her courage and
disengaged with her husband.
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later said, “I hope never to see so sad a scene again, I am
sure Mother was greatly disappointed with the court decision
as she had some friends who had been telling her a lot of
nonsensical things. She had been cruelly deceived.”
This experience long ago has a lesson for all of us. By it, we
learn that it may take a little more time to work marital issues
out. Time has a way of healing family wounds and they were
so poor, they did not have the time to overcome. As a
Bishop in the Little Neck Ward, I use their story to help
couples that are facing extraordinary challenges and losing
patience with themselves and their spouse, to take more
family time and do not make rash decisions. Furthermore,
this story reminds me to counsel others not to listen to
"nonsensical things" or suggestions by others and focus on
what Spirit wants us to do.
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is stark contrast to our family heritage which although
glorious and noteworthy, they were mired in poverty which
stopped many of them from progressing, such as Myron and
Josephine in their marriage. Thus, this concept of rising out
of poverty and establishing a secure future is a strong aspect
in my life and I never want to return to our roots and see the
face of poverty.
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Maori people and established lifetime friends. Upon my
parents visit to New Zealand in the late 1990s, the Maoris
still speak of Elder Abbott who was there 100 years earlier.
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