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By Chaptzem
In the following days after this story broke there had been many,
many questions posed about what had transpired. What on earth was this
yingerman doing? Was he out of his mind? What did his wife and family have
to say about this? Where did he even come up with such an outlandish idea?
The truth is, the questions are strong and many and are not easy to
answer. However, there are some much deeper and more relevant points
here. For instance; what was going through this yingerman’s mind when he
made this conscious decision to actively seek out a Hollywood film role?
What was his thought process at the time? What was he feeling that he so
badly needed to tell the world as he simultaneously acted out this scene
both realistically and metaphorically?
Before we go around with our de facto holier than thou attitude and
blindly pass judgment on this yingerman, we need to try to understand him,
his life and his matziv a bit. If we want to know what caused this whole story
to take place and what led up to it, we will have to put our preconceived
notions aside for a little while. Even more importantly, if we really want to
address this issue so that it doesn’t become the norm we have to open our
minds and try to understand a bit.
Take a deep breath and think for a moment. Take a moment and
just mull it over. Put away the objectivity and try to be open-minded and
impartial for just one minute and really think about it.
The problem is we are putting too much emphasis on doing and not
enough on understanding or exploring why we are doing it in the first place.
We teach our children in yeshivahs for many years all about the rules and
regulations of being Jewish and Frum. Yet we barely spend a couple of
moments to reflect on or contemplate our feelings and emotions about our
religion, our upbringing and what it all really means to us.
When was the last time anyone spoke to bocherim in a yeshivah
about what it meant to them to grow up as a Frum person? When was the
last time that anyone thought about checking-in with a bocher how he was
doing emotionally or spiritually, how he was dealing with his obstacles in
life?
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