Love is blind...

(thanh)
A study of whether there are different forms of love has been
launched by Dr Andreas Bartels and Prof Semir Zeki from the
Wellcome Department of Neuroimaging at University College
London.
"Theory of mind" is about the notion that for us to communicate
effectively we have to develop a good insight into what is going on
in other people's minds so we don't offend, and can work out how
to please, others. This finding suggests that an important part of
the reward we experience when we are romantically in love comes
from understanding that another is in love with us.
It is intriguing that this brain area doesn't seem to be so
important in parental love as it means that knowing our children
don't reciprocate our feelings for them doesn't stop us loving
them. Now neuroscience is telling us that our brains dumb down
and rule our hearts so we rush into sex, then produce children
whom we also continue to care for no matter how little they
reciprocate.
Love doen't exist...(tung)
Thats right, I have come to the conclusion that love does not
exist. I say this because if you look at the fail rate of marriage
and every other relationship it is huge. >50% of all marriages fail.
What people term Love actually is only old-fashioned lust, desire,
extreme frendliness. Eventually all people who claim to 'love' will
end up just being great friends, no more 'loving' to each other
than two best mates.
Studies have shown that couples who marry on the basis of "Love"

do NOT last as those whom marry on the basis of mutual

compatibility. The same studies went on to conclude, albeit
controversially, that couples who use "Love" as a reason to be
together would rather be better of apart, because such
relationships never last. An ideal relationship is when both
partners consider themselves to be best of friends firstly, and
good bed mates secondly.
It will interest you to know that the western world who gave us
the concept of love have the highest divorce rates today, yet love
is practised there. So it therefore means that there is no
correlation whatsoever between love and a sustained relationship.
In India, arranged marriages is the norm, yet India has the
lowest divorce rates worldwide, Go figure!

Love is so good, and I will show some evidence to support my

point (nhat nam)
First of all, having relationships can motivate people to be better
in many respects. Obviously, when in love, people always wish to be
perfect in their partners eyes; and people are not exceptional.
Therefore, they never stop changing themselves in a more
positive way so that they deserve their partners. For instance, if
a students girlfriend is a studious excellent student, he will try
to improve his performance in class, for he has a strong
motivation of becoming a good student.
Secondly, love is usually beautiful and romantic, which becomes
colorful memories in life. On the contrary, entering the working
world, people tend to be concerned much about their partners
social status, career or financial situation, etc which may make
love more practical.

Lastly, love helps people grow up. Having affection for another
person itself is a sign of maturity. Moreover, when two people are
in love, they have to be tolerant of the others mistakes and take
responsibility to maintain their love.
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LOVE MAKE U HEALTHIER : (hung tai and thi thi)

Better Heart Health: Love doesn't just make your heart go
pitter-patter, it protects it, too. In one study, researchers
discovered that a happy marriage plays a role in the likelihood of
chest pains. They discovered that married men who felt loved by
their wives experienced 50 percent less angina, despite having
high risk factors like high cholesterol, high blood pressure and
diabetes.
Lengthens Your Life: The secret to a longer life? Love just may
be it. UCLA researchers found that the death rate for unmarried
people was "significantly higher" than for married couples living
together. While this could be in part because couple's have
influence over each other's lifestyle decisions, as we mentioned
before, but Harvard University researchers also found that
married women are 20 percent less likely than single women die of
stress-related causes like heart disease, suicide and cirrhosis of
the liver. As for married men, they're 100-200 percent times less
likely to die of these causes than single men are. Love is keeping
us alive!

Plot cho kch nh, ch cn Trng Long vi Nhung ng

thi....

Adam and Eve lived so happily and joyfully together. One day,they
decided to go to meet God to ask him something , Adam asked:
- My Lord, Eva is absolutely beautiful . Why do you make her
great like this?
- I want you look at her all time.
- Her skin is still as smooth as a baby's bottom.
- I want you touch her all time
- She has a good smelling body
- I want you and she are close to you all time...
- It was great, I am extremely grateful for your help.. But there is one thing
I kept wondering why you make her so stupid?
- She is so stupid in order to love you...

Nhung ni ci ny kt thc lun nh :

Love is more valuable than money. Without love, life is empty and meaningless. Love is
the reason why we are all here. We are too young and we are only live once, don't be
scare of love. Love can be hurt and dangerous but if you don't love, you will regret for all
the rest of your life. Life is too short but how it is depend on the way you live