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In the United Methodist Church we believe that our greatest opportunity to go deep in life is
to go beyond the idea that you come to Christ and that’s it. We don’t merely accept Jesus and
remain the same or stay in the same spiritual place where we’ve always been. Even when we
accept another person into our lives – a parent, child, or spouse – it is no longer business as
usual. Giving our lives to Christ begins a fundamentally new life. In fact, the possibilities are
so profound that scripture describes it as being born anew! We are born into an entirely new
way of thinking, being and living.
The thing is, we’re babies when we are born anew. If we’re serious about our faith, we
choose to grow up. Like a child practices a new skill, we practice faith until it takes!
As apprentices of Jesus, we don’t just say “Yes” to his invitation to believe. We say yes to his
invitation to follow. Our yes commits us to the adventurous journey of GROWing in Love.
Not a fluffy, cotton-candy kind of feeling but a determined, courageous policy of acting.
Love is not just a noun. It is a verb.
As apprentices of Jesus Christ, growing in love is our primary task.
• Much Scripture instructs in what love looks like – what we are growing into. In the Old
Testament we are taught to act justly and to love mercy. In the New Testament we are taught
to speak the truth in love. Can justice and mercy – or love and truth – ever be separated when
we are growing as apprentices of Jesus? What are the challenges? What are the benefits?
Ask someone to read aloud the following scripture, inviting the class to follow along:
• John 21:1, 7-17
If there is time…
Small groups of 3-5 persons (preferably married persons not together) can discuss the ques-
tions listed above without identifying the person/people. They can wind up by telling the small
group one thing they will do to cooperate with God in opening themself to loving that person
with his/her well-being at heart.
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John Wesley, the most influential founder of Methodism, came to realize that salvation is
much deeper in meaning that getting a ticket punched to heaven. Salvation starts here on
earth. “Salvation” comes from the same root word as “salve” and includes the idea of healing
and wholeness in our relationships – first and foremost, of course, with God. But it doesn’t
stop there. Flowing out of that love, salvation implies that we are also GROWING in the way
we actively love ourselves and others.
Mark 12:28-31 tells us the main task of an apprentice is to learn to love self as actively and
healthily as we learn to love others. Why? First because everyone is a beloved, valued child
of God and is to be treated as such – and that includes us! Secondly we don’t judge or batter
ourselves and others into wholeness. We love ourselves and others into wholeness, even when
the love has to be tough. Another reason to love ourselves healthily, as opposed to selfishly, is
that we are unable to love others in healthy, strong ways unless we love ourselves that way.
Growing in the three loves really is a journey.
Did you notice the verb tense? Salvation is a holy and glorious process.
Select the section below that best fits your class.
A. Ask someone to read Acts 2:46-47.
• Look at the verb in the last sentence (“were being saved”).
John Wesley’s
• In the total group, discuss what that term means. General Rules
For those early followers who had come to Christ, it doesn’t seem 1. Do no harm.
the process “of being saved” was driven by guilt or negatives. What
2. Do all the good
is the class’s impression of what drove the process for them?
you can in all the
ways you can in all
B. In groups of 3-5, discuss and then report back on the follow-
the places you can at
ing question:
all the times you can
What are some ways we actively love ourselves
however you can.
Possible answers could be to eat healthy, exercise, learn
3. Observe all the
about healthy boundaries and practice them, learn to talk
“ordinances” (means
positively to self, Twelve Step programs, therapy, Bible
of grace) of God – like
Study, small group, play, sleep, meditate, “space,” say no,
worship, prayer, Holy
practice thinking more positively.
Communion, Bible
study, Christian
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In order to GROW in love, we GROW in knowledge. Some people use knowledge in order to
score brownie points or beat people over the head with it. We all know people like that. Ap-
prentices of Jesus grow in knowledge … so we can grow in understanding and wisdom… so
we can grow in love.
We are informed so we can be transformed!
We read… we listen to tapes … we take classes … we think … we self-evaluate … we get
therapy… we talk with other apprentices… and we PRACTICE!
Think of two metaphors. You may want to draw them on the board or tablet:
1. The process of growing in love is a circle. It begins with accepting God’s love… which
drives us to learn more… which helps us to love better… and then brings us back full circle
to feast on the nourishment of God’s love again.
2. Think of a bowtie. God’s love is the knot in the middle; it is central. When we accept it
for ourselves, it drives us outward in two directions – on the one side, to love others and on
the other side to love our self.
Ask the full class to take one of the GROW practice sheets and decide if they decide to
practice growing in love and/or learning this week. Invite them to write their intentions
on their sheets before the end of the day.