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y attachments.
Thought 7
If you have the intention of engaging in a committed relationship with your part
ner, and if you do live in a religious culture, why not go through the outer rit
ual of marriage? It serves the practical function of letting other people in you
r community know that both of you are off the market. In my Sermon on the Mount, I
made it clear that it was not enough to abstain from sleeping with another pers
on's spouse; you also need to overcome the desire to do so. The reason is that b
y desiring another person's spouse, you will indeed send psychic energy at that
person, and this can negatively affect the relationship.
Therefore, by making a commitment in front of your community, you are reducing t
he amount of energy directed at your relationship from other people. Finally, if
you are fortunate enough to be married by a priest who has some degree of the H
oly Spirit, his or her blessing may indeed place a sphere of protective energy a
round your relationship. Obviously, such protection will not last forever unless
it is maintained by you and your spouse.
Thought 8
What about people who are already living together and have engaged in sex but ha
ve not yet made a commitment? Well, if you are committed to spiritual growth, pe
rform the following exercise of prayer and fasting. Abstain from sex for 33 days
while daily giving a spiritual ritual together, such as Archangel Michael s Rosar
y and /or one of Mother Mary s rosaries. Then perform a marriage ceremony.
What about people wondering if their relationship is pure and not driven by sexu
al desires? The test is simple. Attachment to sex shows an impure desire body. T
o put this to the test, decide to do the exercise I just described.
Thought 9
If you are a truly spiritual person, you will have planned your life before comi
ng into embodiment. This most likely included planning which spouse to marry, an
d the spouse was selected to give you maximum spiritual growth.
When you come into embodiment, you forget this plan, and in the West many people
even forget about the spiritual path. The dark forces will often seek to derail
your spiritual plan, and one way is to prevent you from finding the planned spo
use. This can be done by tempting you, as I was tempted after my time in the wil
derness and on many other occasions. Dark forces can do this by sending you a pe
rson to whom you feel a strong sexual attraction. If you engage in a relationshi
p, it can easily prevent you from meeting your spiritual partner perhaps for a lif
etime.
Therefore, if you know you are a spiritual seeker, you should consider never hav
ing any relationship that is based exclusively or primarily on sexual attraction
. To achieve this, make it a personal rule that you never engage in sex before m
arriage, be it a formal or private marriage. Also consider that when you meet a
person who seems sexually attractive, it it good to take time to wait for the sp
iritual partner who is hidden around the corner. You will be amazed at how resis
ting sexual temptation can open the door that brings your spiritual partner into
your life. Prove me now herewith, saith the Lord of hosts, if I will not open y
ou the windows of heaven, and pour you out a blessing, that there shall not be r
oom enough to receive it.