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she had written for his own poems. (He also adapted lines
from Dante, Shakespeare, and dozens of other writers.) He
was proud of her literary abilities, and although he complained
interminably about their health and their finances, he does not
seem to have criticized her to their friends or to his family.
But why did he marry her? Why, after their incompatibility
had become obvious, did he stay with her for eighteen years?
And why, after her death, did he wait ten years before
marrying again? Seymour-Jones has a theory. She believes
that Eliot was gay, and that he led a secret life. He married
Vivienne (according to this theory) in a desperate attempt to
normalize himself, and he stayed married partly out of fear
that, knowing the truth about his sexuality, she would expose
him and cause a scandal. He separated from her in order to
pursue relationships with men; he used Emily Hale and Mary
Trevelyan as beards; and in old age, suffering from
emphysema, he married, in effect, a nurse. And this brings us
to the first most exasperating thing about Seymour-Jones's
book, which is not her theory but her complete inability to
prove it.
It is certainly possible that Eliot had homosexual feelings. He
might have had exclusively homosexual feelings (which is
what Seymour-Jones apparently believes); he might have had
bisexual feelings; he might have had homosexual feelings that
he repressed, or that he felt ashamed of or guilty about. He
might have had homoerotic encounters, and he might even
have had homosexual experiences (which Seymour-Jones has
convinced herself he did). The trouble is that the evidence
available to establish any of these things is hopelessly
inconclusive.
believed that Verdenal drowned (he did not), and this has
given support to the identification of the drowned sailor
Phlebas the Phoenician, in The Waste Land (Consider
Phlebas, who was once handsome and tall as you), with
Verdenal.
It is fair to assume that Eliot felt a close attachment to
Verdenal, and that he mourned his death. Eliot's letters to
Verdenal are lost, but we have Verdenal's to Eliot (or some of
them; it is possible, of course, that Eliot destroyed others), and
there is nothing in them to suggest an unusual intimacy. They
show Verdenal to be, like Eliot at that age, a high-minded,
philosophical young man with an enthusiasm for French
poetry and for Wagner. It is possible that, in Eliot's mind, he
represented a love that dared not declare itself; but it is certain
that he represented the flower of the European civilization
that the First World War destroyed. And that is why it is
legitimate to imagine him as the real-life figure behind
Phlebas in The Waste Land. Whatever personal demons
drove Eliot to compose it, The Waste Land is a poem about
the war, just as Women in Love and To the Lighthouse
and In Our Time are books about the war and the way of
life the war put an end to.
Seymour-Jones places Eliot in the company of a number of
homosexual men at various points in his life, but Eliot
associated as a matter of course with writers and artists who
were homosexual or bisexual: Lytton Strachey, Maynard
Keynes, Serge Diaghilev, Osbert Sitwell, Virginia Woolf,
Djuna Barnes, Gertrude Stein, Geoffrey Faber, W. H. Auden.
Homosexuality was just part of the world he worked in, which
makes it even harder to understand why, if he did have affairs
with men, he went to such pains to remain closeted. In 1933,
I turned a face to him of such joy that no-one in that great crowd
could have had one moment's doubt. I just said, Oh Tom, & he
seized my hand, & said how do you do, in quite a loud voice. He
walked straight on to the platform then & gave a most
remarkably clever, well thought out lecture. . . . I stood the whole
time, holding Polly up high in my arms. Polly was very excited &
wild. I kept my eyes on Tom's face the whole time, & I kept
nodding my head at him, & making encouraging signs. He looked
a little older, more mature & smart, much thinner & not well or
robust or rumbustious at all. No sign of a woman's care about
him. No cosy evenings with dogs and gramophones I should say.
After the lecture, she went onstage and stood next to him while
he signed copies of his books. I said quietly, Will you come back
with me? I cannot talk to you now, Eliot replied. He signed
the books she had brought with her, and then he left. She never
saw him again.
Louis Menand has contributed to The New Yorker since 1991, and has been a
staff writer since 2001.