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# 3 Ability to Inspire and

Reaction to Success or Failure
L. Setyobudi

2013

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We all know people who are

inspiring. But just how does one
inspire others?

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Destiny (short, Middle, Long)
Be Productive not Busy
Do what you love and you will achieve
success!
Your Thoughts Rule Your Life
Avoid Envy, Focus on Your Journey
Stop Benchmarking
Be Passionate About Your Long-Term Goals
Overcome Self-Pity
Speak the Truth

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Destiny
Negativism is everywhere. We have to
accept that as a fact. But there is something
that can help you.
From the rain, the water seeks paths down
the mountain, it joins streams, then it
becomes part of a river, it continues to flow
until it reaches the sea, its destination, I
narrated. If you actively seek your path, with
patience, you will fulfill your destiny.

Be productive, not busy.

Otherwise, life will pass you by
A person may be busy or a person may work
hard but it is best if the person is
productive. If a person works smart, or a
person has the knowledge and skill to
accomplish a task faster then that is much
better than a person who always need
overtime because he lacks the knowledge and
skills

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Life, it happens while youre busy

These important things may include:
(1) building stronger ties with your family members,
(2) continuous improvement or self-development,
(3) recreation to stimulate creativity,
(4) rest to step back from everything for analysis,
(5) fun for emotional health,
(6) setting new goals and planning to reach them,
(7) assessing the opportunities around and,
(8) prayer and meditation.

A person may be busy or a person may work

hard but it is best if the person is
productive. If a person works smart, or a
person has the knowledge and skill to
accomplish a task faster then that is much
better than a person who always need
overtime because he lacks the knowledge and
skills.
So be productive, not busy. Otherwise, life
will pass you by.

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Have you heard this? Do what you love

and you will achieve success!
It is a familiar phrase. Something weve heard from school,
from work, from seminars, and from TV or even perhaps
from our family.
The problem is, it is not accurate. And it can be misleading.
Forgive me for being straightforward about this. But it is
not enough to do what you love in order to be a
success. By success, I mean that what you do or what you
offer adds significant value to many people. Enough for
them to be fans or advocates of your good news. Enough
for them to buy-in to you.
Doing what you love is only phase one. It is not enough!
Do what you love. But be an expert. Then design your
money machine.

Your Thoughts Rule Your Life

Great men are they who see that
spiritual is stronger than material
that thoughts rule the world.
Emerson
You may be an achiever and you will continue to
achieve if you continue to believe that you can do
more. Your character may have improved and it
will continue to improve if you continue to think
positively of many. You may be rich because you
wanted to be; your thoughts are occupied on
how to increase your wealth.

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Avoid Envy, Focus on Your Journey

Envy, if surrounded on all sides by the
brightness of anothers prosperity, like the
scorpion confined within a circle of fire, will
sting itself to death Colton
Set your course by the stars, not by the lights
of every passing ship
- Omar Bradley

Avoid Envy, Focus on Your Journey

there is no need to compare and no need to
envy others.
Know your course and know what you value.
Do not focus on others journey. Focus on your
own. Remember that you can never maximize
your full potential if you do not overcome
envy.
Have you silenced envy? Are you focused?

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Stop Benchmarking
Benchmarking answers three questions:
(1) Whos the best out there?,
(2) How good are they? and,
(3) How can we be as good as them?

Focus innovation on what the customers

want, or might want, and address it. Ask the
questions:
(1) Who are my target customers?,
(2) What do they want that is under served? and,
(3) How can I deliver that?

Be Passionate About Your

Long-Term Goals
How do you see yourself 10, 20 or 30 years
from now?
Are your long-term goals clear? Long-term
goals provide a context that can help us
decide on short-term activities.
Most if not all short-term activities should be
aligned to the long-term goals. Without a
clear view of the destination, the first stop is
not even certain. Be passionate about your
life-long goals.

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Overcome Self-Pity
Self-pity is our worst enemy and if we yield to
it, we can never do anything good in the
world. Helen Keller
Always think that you are a victor even in
difficult situations. Remember to never ever
feel sorry for yourself. Do not entertain any
thought of it. Expel it from your mind. Expel it
from your emotions.

Speak the Truth

If you tell the
truth you dont
have to
remember
anything.
Mark Twain

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What would be your end result?

You may not know everything
but you can determine your
attitude to failure. You can
either allow it to break you or
allow it to make you. Your call!

Career, become one with your passion

Passion is that intense feeling about something.
The mind cannot shake off the object of the
passion.
It captivates your thoughts and a longing for the
idea or goal develops stronger and stronger.
The more intensely we feel about an idea or a
goal, the more assuredly the idea, buried deep in
our subconscious, will direct us along the path to
its fulfillment. Earl Nightingale

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Dr. Christiaan Neethling Barnard

(November 8, 1922 September 2, 2001)
was a South African cardiac
surgeon, famous for performing
the worlds first successful
human-to-human heart
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uy.com/2009/08/barnard-hearttransplantsra/#sthash.QYyPxoA2.dpuf
He performed the worlds first
human heart transplant operation
on 3 December 1967, in an
operation assisted by his brother,
Marius Barnard; the operation
lasted nine hours and used a
team of thirty people.

We all know people who are

inspiring. But just how does one
inspire others? Here are simple
ways you can inspire people to be
their best

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I dont know the

key to success,
but the key to
failure is trying
to please
everybody.
- Bill Cosby

Saya tidak tahu kunci sukses,

tetapi kunci kegagalan adalah
mencoba menyenangkan
setiap orang

Remember, that
failures are only
permanent if
we stop trying

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Career,
it is also
about
choices

You are who you are because of the

choices you have made.
You will be who you will be because of
the choices you make now.
Some choices will empower you. Some
choices will weaken you.
Some choices will keep you
focused. Some choices will distract you.
Some choices will build your
career. Some choices will destroy it.
Habits are also little choices you make.
What you habitually do in a day, week
or month with consistency will form the
foundation for the future.
It is also true that what you fail to do
will affect your future.

Reaction to Success or Failure

He (Abraham Lincoln) experienced defeat
more than twice, but that did not mean
he was a failure.
Remember, that failures are only
permanent if we stop trying.
I believe the only real failure is the failure
not to move on.

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Reaction to Failure
the only way
to deal with failure
is to learn from it
and move on
A breakthrough may just be a few steps away.
What a pity for those of us who would stop
moving on. As far as I am concerned, the only
way to deal with failure is to learn from it and
move on

When Success Makes You a Failure

Perhaps you may validate some of them due to your
personal experience. Or, be warned lest you fall in the
traps.
1. When you do not have a holistic view of success
2. When you make life all about you
3. When gain makes you lose the more important in
exchange for the less important
4. When you begin to talk trash about others
5. When you no longer appreciate the simple things in
life
6. When you stop improving yourself because you feel
you have arrived
7. When your success does not benefit others

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Early
Warning

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Exercise # 3 for next week:

Audit your habits.
Replace destructive habits with
constructive ones.
Choose to hone your craft everyday.
Sharpen your skills everyday.
Align your choices with your goal.
When choices are major, consult the
wise.

Please paint/draw a picture

without any word or number
on your drawing
How do you see yourself
10, 20 or 30 years from
now?

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Five rules self motivation

1. Motivation is not a product of external influence; it is a
natural product of your desire to achieve
something and your belief that you are capable to do it
2. Positive pleasure-oriented goals are much more
powerful motivators than negative fear-based ones.
The right combination of both is the most powerful
motivating mix.
3. Start with visualizing clearly your future success and
model the feelings you'll experience when you achieve
it
4. Walk mentally the path towards this success and model
your feelings at different milestones on the way
5. Assign a high priority to the task

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Inspirational Quotes for Physicians

Attributed to Thomas Edison

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