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things being equal, we are born with a clearly defined biological sex. We are
born male or female, but we are not born boy or girl. That distinction must be
taught. That distinction can only come from the culture around us.
Mothers treated their young sons and daughters very differently. They
usually kept their infant female children closer to them than their boys. They
also touched and talked to their daughters more than their sons.
Children learn that the line between man and woman is clearly
demarcated. For boys: independence, power, leadership and freedom. For
girls: domesticity, passiveness, a focus on beauty and image.
There is no such thing as man and woman. No such thing as boy and girl. The
distinctions we use to separate men from women, and the qualities that go
into what we call masculine and feminine, are arbitrary and culturally
defined. All things being equal, we are born with a clearly defined biological
sex. We are born male or female, but we are not born boy or girl. That
distinction must be taught. That distinction can only come from the culture
around us. The media teaches us that only men can be corporate executives.
Our families teach us that girls wear dresses and are cleaner, happier, and
more polite than boys. Our schools teach us that boys play soccer and girls
jump rope. Commerce ties the whole bundle together with dolls and trucks;
pants and dresses; designer toothbrushes in blue and black or pink with
sparkles. This paper will explore early gender socialization through the
artifacts and social institutions of the United States. This does not pretend to
be an exhaustive study, merely an inquisitive exploration.
It would help to begin by defining what we mean by "gender." Gender does
not mean biological sex. Gender refers to the socially constructed
expectations placed on a person as a result of their sex. Male, as a purely
biological classification, usually refers to that organism which has the smaller
of the two sex cells in organisms with dualistic male/female reproductive
techniques. In humans, it refers to someone who has an X and a Y
chromosome, and is capable of producing spermatozoa. Standard equipment
for males includes a penis and two external testicles responsible for the
production of sperm and testosterone. Female, as a biological classification,
usually refers to that organism with the larger of two sex cells and which is
responsible for gestating and bearing young. In humans, females have two X
chromosomes and are included with, as standard factory equipment, two
internal ovaries that produce ova, and a uterus for gestating young. Adult
male and female humans exhibit many biological distinctions, with the
possibility of inherent psychological differences only now being investigated.
It is well established, however, that males tend to be taller, heavier, and
more muscular than females. Females tend to have less body hair and more
surface body fat leading to a rounder, more gracile form. Current research
would also suggest a host of differences in the structure of male and female
brains. Despite the usually unmistakable physical separation between human
males and females, there exists a whole other class of traits: culturally
prescribed gender. Those qualities which humans are taught, literally from
the moment of birth, about what men and women, boys and girls, are
supposed to be. They dwell benieth our counciousness and alter our
preceptions, opinions, reactions and impluses without us ever realizing it. We
are taught that women are nurturers and men are leaders. We are taught that
women are emotional and loving, and that men are strong and impassive.
These things, unlike our biology, are taught to us via the socialization
process. They, not biology, make males men and females women.
We are born genderless, but the process of gender socialization is immediate.
Often from the very moment of birth, infant males are dressed in blue, and
infant females in pink; from that point on they can start becoming boys and
girls. It has become politically correct for some hospitals and parents to adopt
gender-neutral colors such as yellow or white for newborns, but the
significance of blue and pink as a permanent symbol of gender remains. A
1998 survey by students at the University of Oregon found that, out of 54
adults, a full 95 percent identified blue as a boy's color and pink as a girl's
color. While those conventions may be ebbing, it is still fairly uncommon for a
man to voluntarily wear pink clothing. The color of apparel is only the
beginning of gender socialization, and may merely communicate sex and how
people should treat infants and very young children. A study conducted in
1969 by psychologists Michael Lewis and Susan Goldberg found that mothers
treated their young sons and daughters very differently. They usually kept
their infant female children closer to them than their boys. They also touched
and talked to their daughters more than their sons. By the age of 13 months,
girls stayed closer to their mothers when they played. When the researchers
placed barriers between the mothers and their children they found the girls
were more likely to cry and motion for help; the boys to try to climb over the
wall. Lewis and Goldberg concluded that, in our society, parents
unconsciously reward independence in their sons and passive dependence in
their daughters. Sociologists have found, though often anecdotally, that
parents allow their young sons to roam farther from home, to get dirtier and
play rougher, and even to be more destructive in their play. Young girls are
kept cleaner and are expected to stay that way, and are taught the
importance of beauty and image. Girls tend to play indoors more, and are
much less rough in their games. Parents promote this activity in their
children, and from it they teach that violence and rough, athletic activity are
proper for males. Cleanliness and quite, near inactivity proper for females.
These ideas remain virtually intact into adulthood, only to be passed down to
the next generation. Children learn that the line between man and woman is
clearly demarcated. For boys: independence, power, leadership and freedom.
For girls: domesticity, passiveness, a focus on beauty and image, and a
generally more subdued existence.
Our media institutions are both windows and mirrors on society. Television
especially, they at once teach and reinforce cultural attitudes, and for
children can be among the most powerful forces of socialization. All one has
to do is turn on a television or open a magazine to see men and women cast
in often very rigid gender roles. Advertising is required to constantly reinvent
itself, but some images are frequently reused. Among them, images of men
as rugged and strong --the Marlboro man for instance-- or women as
submissive objects which can be simply cast into a scene to attract eyeballs.
Indeed, much advertising seems based on buxom and semi-naked young
women whose sexual assets are expected to sell everything from cars to long
distance plans. Most of these women are drawn as mere objects whose value
is measured only in the fleeting beauty of their bodies. Girls are taught to
judge themselves accordingly, and a truly awful message is sent to our
daughters. Researchers found in a 1992 study that in prime-time television
males outnumber females two to one. Males were also portrayed in more
glamourous, higher-status positions. Sociologist Nancy Signorielli found in
1990 that those depictions do effect viewer's opinions of women. The more
television people watch, Signorielli found, the more restrictive their views
about women tended to be. Media images help form the filter that is
socialization, and they all contribute to the internalized gender identity. It
sounds almost silly to say it, but people only do what they know how to do.
Where little boys and little girls are told that they may only act in accordance
with their sex, and then are repeatedly shown examples of strong men in
positions of power and passive women in positions of subordination, what
else can they become?
The toys of children are interesting artifacts of gender socialization. Almost
without fail, the playthings of boys and girls come from two different worlds.
Walking by the cluttered shelves in the children's section of a major
department store, androgynous or gender-neutral toys seem an exception
rather than a rule. The clearly demarcated zones of dark blue and electric
pink only bring the quantitativeness of geography to the distinction. But
beyond that, the separation between what is marketed to young boys and
young girls is glaring and, on closer inspection, somewhat disheartening. To
boys are offered a near endless assortment of toys. Vehicles: trucks, planes,
race cars, boats, space ships and police, fire and military hardware, all in
various themes and scales. Weapons: swords, endless varieties of guns,
bows, and fanciful projectile weapons. Sporting paraphernalia, action figures,
systems of construction such as Legos, and video games. Girls would appear